NWUSHorny
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It is a nice way to get my hole loosened up and wet for cock, and it is a nice cleanup method after the fuck, but it's not the main event. If you aren't going to tuck me I would rather you not eat my hole.
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Why is there so little versatility in gay sex?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
@tallslenderguy I don't think "skinny" is ever going to happen for me. Even when I was a twink with a 32" waist I wieghed 225 so did not get the benefit of being seen as skinny. -
While there is some really bad Onlyfans type porn out there, there is also some really good, and a lot of mediocre filmed content that is really enjoyable to watch because the participants are clearly enjoying it. There is way to much porn filmed by both ametuers and studios where the participants clearly aren't that into each other, or one or more of the participants clearly has inhibitions that are impacting what is being filmed.
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Why is there so little versatility in gay sex?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I think this is probably true. I've also found that there are a lot of versatile, probably more versatile bottom than versatile, men who won't top a man once they have bottomed for them. As well as versatile men who only top men who are physically smaller than they are, and at 6'2", with a large build and larger than average dick that can be a problem as well. I've never been particularly fond of gloryhole sex, even though I have no problem with random anonymous hookups, I simply crave more than can be had through a dick sized hole in the wall. (The gloryhole would partially negate my size difference complaint.) I admit that I don't frequent the ABS type venues very much, and if I do tend to gravitate to the "theater"/group viewing rooms if they have them. -
The biggest limitation may be getting the vaccines manufactured. Everything I have read say that it will take months if not years to ramp up production of the Jynneos vaccine. I think that the stockpiled vaccines available, at least in the US are primarily the older and somewhat more dangerous ACAM2000 vaccine. There seems to be a reluctance at this point to distribute the plentiful vaccine because it does have some drawbacks. If this continues, I plan to ask about the older ACAM2000 vaccine and what risks might be associated with taking it. In my case I know that I did tolerate an older version of that type of vaccine 52 years ago, and despite being HIV positive my blood work indicates my immune response should be pretty close to normal. I don't know if I can get it, but would at least want to evaluate whether I personally think it is worth the risk.
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Why is there so little versatility in gay sex?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I may be the rarest of all, I prefer to flip and don't really have a preference which I do 1st as long as I get both. The unfortunate reality is I waste 2 or 3 times the time and effort trying to find guys willing to top me as I do finding guys willing to bottom for me and still top at least 2 to 3 times as many guys as I bottom for. I learned over 30 years ago that if you don't make the effort to get fucked, you don't get fucked. Most gay and bi men will do everything they possibly can to pigeon hole you as a top if you are willing to top. -
Why is there so little versatility in gay sex?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
This paragraph very accurately describes me. I just wish it was true in my local sex clubs. These last 2.5 years of limited travel have nearly driven me insane. -
I "knew" a guy in grad school who seemed to believe a plain band worn on the left pinky identified him as a bottom. It has been almost 30 years, but I kind of think it was yellow gold. I am quite confident he was a total bottom since we fucked for a year and a half and he never topped me. I do sometimes wear my college signet ring on my right ring finger, but not in a sex club situation. The only thing I know of that it has ever led to is being asked if I had been a college/professional football player by an airline seatmate. That has actually happened multiple times, oddly enough, and football is a sport I don't even enjoy watching.
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I know I'm going to be extra careful for at least a few weeks. On the bright side I have new reason not to cuddle.
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Gay bottoms are men too. As such they get the same mental and physical benefits from having their genitalia stimulated and ejaculating as any other male. So yes bottoms should masterbate too! I'm bi, versatile and not at all into the dominant/submissive role play fetish so if I'm having sex with another man, there are 2 dicks involved and both should be stimulated regardless of whether I'm topping, bottoming or flipping. If I want to have sex in a way that only involves one penis, I will have sex with a woman. Another aside, I think the emphasis on these incredibly specific fetishes, like bottoms totally abandoning playing with their cocks during sex play, is a major contributor to why it is getting harder to find gay hookups in most places.
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How old were you started as a bareback TOP?
NWUSHorny replied to BreedingTop71's topic in General Discussion
It was 1993, I was 24. We were both grad students, I had fucked him safely several times at that point, he talked me into to going bare, he had to work at keeping me inside him instead of pulling out. A few days later we hooked up bareback again, I think I bred him 4 times in the 1st hour. -
Gloves aren't going to do much in a crowded room of naked people using the same furniture. Regular gyms, based on what we know are going to be a problem too.
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I agree on the stereotypical lifestyle must haves, I'm a miss on almost all of them. I do like to cook, but that is the only one I can identify with.
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Given the nature of gay sex parties, it seems like they are the perfect vector for this even if you don't have sex. Gyms could also become a problem. I'm trying to figure out if I need to stay home for a few weeks, it is the off season for gay sex anyway, things wouldn't normally pick up much until October by which time we will know if it is a growing problem.
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bareback What do you do when the top wants to use condoms?
NWUSHorny replied to a topic in General Discussion
As I've stated before on this thread, I like to fuck too much to turn a guy down if he wants to fuck me with a condom, or have me fuck them with a condom. I'm bi and occasionally hookup with women, and always wear a condom to prevent children in that situation. I agree with @BootmanLA on the dildo versus a condom covered cock, a real cock is always better than a fake one. I've never owned a dildo and don't want one. I do have to routinely refuse guys who want to play dildos instead of fucking where I currently live. I've never had that problem anywhere else, at least not in a sex club. -
Since I prefer to play in public adult settings, I don't think there are any sex acts that I have done that I haven't done in front of an audience. Yes I have been blown in front of an audience and will gladly do so again in the future.
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I don't think I can pull off the androgynous look, even if I shaved my beard. I also thought about oversexed addict, but that might be offensive to some people too. I've been called confused and been accused of being too stupid to make a choice by both straight and gay people. So maybe "choiceless" would work.
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I'm fully versatile, and in the over 50 and not in perfect shape cohort. I'm not sure it is a good corollary, but on my recent sexcation I pushed my dick into 120-130 bottoms of all ages and body types, evenly distributed over 5 days and was rejected only once. There were 2 days that I only succeeded in finding 1 guy to fuck me and for the entire trip got less than half as many guys to fuck me compared to the number I topped, the vast majority of guys who fucked me were in my age bracket and/or weren't the ideal body type themselves. More than 80% of the effort I put into having sex was finding guys willing to fuck me. I know it doesn't help, never did at any age or level of being in shape, that I'm 6'2" and have an above averaged sized dick who always tops, and tries to bottom in a group situation, so I can't say how much age versus other physical attributes have to do with it.
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One of the local bathhouses does that a couple of times a month here. They started out with just the top, bottom and versatile colors, but due to complaints have been forced to add a color for oral only, and one for I'm at a sex club but don't have sex. There are still complaints that the 2 that were added are insuffient to express what they are into. Generally speaking at least half choose the oral only option and a quarter or more choose the none of the above option. It does help to identify guys who actually fuck in some capacity, but it is still extremely difficult to get an orgy started when at most a quarter of the men flag as willing to participate in fucking.
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Maybe the solution for darkrooms would be small glow in the dark temporary tattoos(I don't think they have permanent ones, at least for versatile men we don't always want to be flagging both positions) For someone like me who isn't very subtle, maybe just spell out RAW POLE on the front and RAW HOLE on the back. What color should I get them made up in for my next sexcation?
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I don't really care about labels or titles in general, but had a curious thought based @TheSRQDudepost. Is there a different term for bisexual, other than bisexual? Homosexual has multiple: gay, queer and if you are a woman lesbian, heterosexual has straight, but I don't remember ever hearing an alternative label for bisexual other than shortening it to just bi. Who knows since it would be obscure, maybe if I knew the term I would like it and use it.
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Are these monkeypox specific vaccines or are they administering the smallpox vaccine that is also supposed to be effective? I'd get it either way if I was in an area where they are available, but curious about what they are actually giving.
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Do You Discuss HIV Status Before Barebacking?
NWUSHorny replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I don't object to being asked, and always answer truthfully when I am asked. I haven't brought it up in recent years. -
That is never fun, however I would encourage you to try it at a different city or even a different club, there are places in this world where you can get a truly amazing experience.
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Sorry, but I disagree with you on this point. While I will concede that there is little or no medical research on the mental health effects of intentionally using a chemical to suppress your bodies natural sexual reaction. There is medical research on the positive effects of ejaculating on prostate health, as well as studies that indicate mental health benefits from the hormones released by natural arousal. While I will admit I don't see eye to eye with bottoms that do not want their penises included in sexual play, I also never, ever recommend using any drugs or chemicals that are not medically advised, and I don't see how drugs could possibly be medically advised in this situation. Until now I had steered clear of the chastity device aspect, and you know how I feel about that, and that is all I am going to say on it.
