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NWUSHorny

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  1. From the perspective of someone who is not a total bottom, I would question why you want to use chemical means to prevent your bodies natural reaction to sexual stimuli? I mean your mind and equipment is responding the way it was genetically programed to work, is it really medically advisable to try to overcome that reaction. You don't have to top if you don't want to, if fact there are a lot of men who consider themselves gay that get a hard on in a sexual situation that don't top or bottom, as well as a lot of men who do top who view a bottom with a rock hard boner as sign they are doing a good job and are doing something wrong if you don't have one. Why fight your bodies natural reaction, when in a way that in the long run it may do more harm than good to both your physical and mental health?
  2. Not being exclusively either a top or bottom, I read it as purely a roommate with benefits and certain sexual obligations. I'm assuming that the cumdump is still responsible for his own living expenses other than housing? If so what happens if his, or yours as the top, work obligations interfere with the sexual obligations? I still don't understand how this helps with the diseases like COVID, monkeypox or meningitis since the cumdump will be exposed while out collecting load from other men that are for the most part at high risk, or in the case of COVID just through normal daily activities. It also seems like a pretty minimal benefit on the true STIs, you are proposing regular testing, but if you are fucking him at least almost daily if one gets infected you both will.
  3. This is my point. I'm not a prude and enjoy putting on show, but it needs to be for an appreciative audience. Families with children and patroling park rangers are not an appreciative audience and doing so not only effects the participants in the high risk act, it effects everyone who wants to use the area for a sexual hookup.
  4. Hard dicks in a crowded darkroom can have a hole impaled on them before you can react and say no, too. That was the what I learned on my 1st darkroom foray.
  5. I don't disagree with that. I also have to say announcing you don't fuck on entering the darkroom or staying in a darkroom while rejecting all advances, is contrary to the implied contract of entering such a space. My understanding was and is that touch is how play is initiated. If I'm in one I expect other men to try to get me to have sex with them.
  6. Reminiscing can be a beautiful thing.
  7. I don't remember there ever being a cage at Hawks, other than the upper orgy area was kind of like a big cage with a TV showing porn. The only place I remember the cross was in the original non-porn TV room, I think maybe it was in the hallway between the rooms they carved out of the original TV room and the new small TV room at the end but I'm not sure. That hall was pretty dark, but not what I'm talking about. The darkroom such as it was, was in a small curtained off room and either had 2 small benches along the walls or more of the time on large bench in the center for guys to bend over and get fucked.
  8. It was on the right before going up the steps to the shower and sauna area from the front of the club. How dark it was varied by what they were using as a curtain at any given time.
  9. I'm willing to let that infraction slide on the rare occasions they are actually fucking, but not the more common scenario where the guys blocking the access are just making out for far longer than most guys take to breed.
  10. Right now in Portland we lack the physical place, and always seem to lack the pigish behavior that makes them actually work. I'm assuming Hawks will have one if they ever reopen. Most of the time at the old location it was only semidark, which can work quite nicely if you could get several uninhibited pigs in there at the same time which is difficult. There were a few Cumunion parties at the old location when it happened, but it did not happen every month even for Cumunion.
  11. I'm kind of guessing that the PNW participants get off more on the risk fetish than the actual fuck itself. I've had to say no to fucking in full view of the Amtrak corridor in Seattle too. I may be uninhibited and promiscuous, but I do retain a few common sense limits. Their is also a weird bathhouse version of this, and I know the top from yesterday is a prime culprit in the bathhouse version. Guys will fuck in the middle of hallways, but won't move the 2 or 3 feet that would allow the bottom to brace himself againt the wall, or fuck in a narrow passage where guys can't pass until you are finished. I've learned to embrace it even if I don't particularly like it in the bathhouse. Partners willing to have penetrative sex are too rare to turn down here.
  12. Yes, sand can be unpleasant in both the ass hole and under the foreskin. The worst sand under my foreskin was at beach in Hawaii with a guy who was unsually curious about my uncut cock, I fucked him twice and let him play with it for most of the afternoon. We did not fuck right out in the open, but did get watched by several guys that wanted to see it.
  13. We need more guys like you where I live. Before my sexcation last week it had been more than 2.5 years since I got to experience the pleasure of fucking and getting fucked at the same time. I did get to be in the middle several times, but only had one chain reaction breeding where I got bred and immediately bred the guy my cock was buried in.
  14. Have you ever bred a guy and then immediately flipped over and had him breed you? I'm curious since you are versatile too. This is one of my very favorite things to do, and unless I've already cum 2 or 3 times that night I'm usually hard and ready to go again after he breeds me. If I'm at an orgy, and find another verse guy to mutually breed with before I go home it usually causes me to stay for at least one more round.
  15. After 15 years of living here I can't really say. They are into all kinds of kinks and fetishes, but only if they can do them without touching someone else's cock or letting you touch theirs. They know a 1001 really great ways to have sex without actually having sex, it is a major problem even at the sex clubs. Pushing them to go further usually results in a lecture about how great the non-penile sex can be.
  16. I'm Gen X as well so I generally think of it as a place to spend all my quarters playing video games. I also acknowledge the adult video store booths. I have some amateurish interest in architecture so it is also an arched passageway held up by columns or possibly wall on 1 or 2 sides.
  17. I was very guilty of exactly the same thing for many, many years. The only reason I don't do it here is it rarely happens. I draw the line at ass fucking on a trail that has families with children on it, even if it is in an officially clothing optional section of a park. I know at least 1 such family caught them in the act yesterday. As I mentioned on the original post, I have seen guys caught and arrested by park rangers in that same park for being too brazen about it. Ironically the guys cruising in the out of the way, less risky sections of the park generally only watch each other jack off at the most.
  18. It is an Oregon State Park, part of it is officially designated as clothing optional and does not have age restrictions on the clothing optional section. There are both local and state parks like this in Oregon, the other one that I personally go to is a county park. I don't do it here, but frequently visited known nudist areas of National Forests when I lived in Colorado. The high risk behavior is a PNW thing.
  19. This beach doesn't have age restrictions, so even when the water isn't high there can be minors present, and the main trail where they were fucking is patrolled by rangers. I don't object to playing in the showers if you can be careful, I'm guilty of that one myself, the showers at this particular beach are completely unenclosed on the edge of the parking lot, luckily they didn't choose to fuck there. I don't have an issue with doing it in a gay bar, there won't be minors present, and unless you are a repeat offender at a gay bar that does not condone the behavior they aren't going to call law enforcement and have you arrested. I'm a bit of a dangerphile myself, I wrote a true last hookup story that happened just a week ago that I consider borderline stupid. I am aggressive cruising that I have had the opportunity to participate a few times, and have even gone a little further than I should have on one occasion on a slightly less major trail when I 1st moved here before saying no. I won't however participate in it when there are families hiking the trail or know that it is regularly patrolled by park rangers. The 2 guys fucking have been regulars at that beach for the entire 15 years that I have lived here, or seen either of them cruising in more appropriate, less risky, parts of the park. The irony is that probably 80% or more of the actual fucking that occurs falls into the high risk/stupidity category, the cruising that occurs in the risk appropriate areas, like all other local cruising spots rarely results in anything beyond maybe watching each other jackoff. The guy I hooked up with yesterday was actually fairly risque by local standards, in that he fondled my balls and let me fondle his, but he still wouldn't grab my cock or let me grab his. It was the PNW classic scenario of, "we can have sex if I promise not to touch your icky dick and you promise not to touch mine."
  20. I went to a nude beach on a river today, and even though very few cruising fucks happen there, today I came across 2 guys fucking right on the trail. They were in what is normally the gay section, but due to high water there were all kinds of people in including families with children hiking through it to get to the parts of the beach that wasn't flooded. I'm definitely no prude about about public sex, but can't understand guys not using common sense. It has been a problem since I moved here, a guy will say he is willing to fuck but only if you will do I right there on the trail where anyone who happens by, including the park rangers will see it and absolutely refuses to do it unless we do it right there. I've also seen rangers arrest guys for fucking or sucking right on the trail on multiple occasions. I have to decline. Why would you do something like this, all it will do is bring more ranger patrols who will bust guys who aren't being so brazen? I did sort of hookup in the park, but he jacked himself off while playing with my tits and refused to touch my cock or let me touch his, which is about all that normally occurs in this park. It took place in the woods where the only people walking around are looking for some action, and well away from the beach trail where a family or patrolling ranger was likely to stumble across us. It's one extreme or another, unfortunately. Are there any other places where guys are this stupid about having public sex?
  21. I don't see how it helps with the disease problem if he is out collecting loads to bring home for you to fuck in? Otherwise, by all means go for it.
  22. Actually my point of starting this thread was to encourage more sex in the sex clubs. There are fetishes and kinks that are turning other guys off and based on the survey answers, nearly a quarter of guys are avoiding the men that are taking this particular fetish with them to the sex clubs. The percentage isn't as big as I thought it would be, but it isn't miniscule either. There are already a lot of sex clubs, parties and bathhouses that prohibit cross dressing in the public areas, and no doubt other kinks and fetishes in certain locations that are at least discouraged if not prohibited, because they do create barriers to the intended purpose of the club/party/bathhouse. Maybe, this isn't one that seriously curtails fucking at events and venues, but the survey answers do indicate at the very least that wearing such devices at a general purpose sex club is at least limiting the pool of guys that might fuck you. Maybe you didn't want to know that, but it will be true whether you want to acknowledge it or not. I live in a city that is very much into kinks and fetishes, like this caged cocks apparently. I can't say for sure that multitude of kinks and fetishes being practiced are the cause, but there is a lot less actual fucking per capita than anywhere else I have ever lived or worked for long periods. This has been true for the entire 15 years that I have lived here, and up until 2.5 years ago I was traveling extensively for work and did not have trouble finding sex in most other places. I'm versatile, if there is mutual attraction I will make sex happen, unless you place too many restrictions on how I have to go about it. Rant over.
  23. I must be unusual, cumming does not stop me from wanting to bottom even momentarily. One of my favorite activities is to breed a man and have him impale my hole just as soon as we can change positions and fuck me until he returns the favor.
  24. I liked the idea behind the sign in the smaller venue I visited, I'm paraphrasing since I don't remember exactly what it said but it was a long the lines of "groping room, no lights, no phones, no talking, no attitude, grope and have fun", and even better it seemed to be working. They had the room completely dark for the Thursday night party and semidark for Sunday noon. Honestly I don't know if a sign like that would make a difference in a club that had a lot of stand and pose guys. Darkroom inhabitants that swat away every hand that tries to touch them weren't a new concept for me, that was typical behavior the entire time Hawks was open in Portland. I guess I really can't even comprehend what they get out of being in a darkroom if they neither touch or allow themselves to be touched. At least neither LA venue had guys loudly announcing "I don't fuck" everytime they entered the darkroom or thought the other inhabitants were getting too handsy, that was also a common thing at Hawks. Perpetual foreplay guys aren't limited to guys who can't get hard, at least on the American West Coast, a lot of them are rock hard and cum from their foreplay activities, then move on. They simply don't fuck or in a lot of cases get sucked.
  25. It is extremely difficult to keep track of how many different guys I have hooked and either fucked or got fucked by even in a short period of time, I know there were many repeats. I just got back from a sex vacation, where I penetrated or was penetrated by 150-200 men over a period of 5 days. Because I have vacationed in that area in the past, and remember hooking up with at least a few of them in the past, my estimate is I probably had 75 new holes and poles at the absolute most and it could very well be under 50. At home in my local area, where I have been fucking with anyone in who is into casual sex for 15 years, the number of new holes or poles I'm adding in a month is single digits at best.
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