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Of the places I've lived: Denver would have to be my favorite. That is where I spent most of my 30's and started going to bathhouses. In addition to the great orgies at he baths, there were also tearooms, parks and bars were I knew I could duck out to pretty much anytime I had a few minutes and at least get sucked and sucked usually more. I spent my late 20's in Dallas, and have some great memories of hooking up in the parks, tearooms, and ABS there. I got a lot of sex, but can only imagine what it would have been like if I had been more adventurous. I spent my early 20's in various places in Illinois and never seemed to have much trouble hooking up in any of the larger towns or no trouble at all if I made the trek to Chicago., (or St Louis and Indianapolis for that matter) Minneapolis, I've never actually lived there but have worked there for extended periods of time for the last 20 years. Sadly they don't have any bathhouses, but there is plenty of sex to be had in parks and tearooms and hooking up but not fucking at the gay bars. I've also recently discovered there is a "house" party, that is essentially a sex club, 3 nights a week where you can show up pay $20 and fuck your brains out for 3 hours. I've been lucky enough to travel to a lot of places for work and vacations and have had some great sex: LA, at least for CumUnion parties can't be beat. The group pig action I find at the LAX Sanctuary hosted events is exactly what I need to satisfy my inner slut after being stuck blue balling for months on end where I live now. Bathhouse sex (although the CumUnions at 1350 were poor cousins to the ones held at Sanctuary) and warehouse parties are also sure fire bets for me. Palm Springs, even beats Denver for ease of hooking up. I've never struck out at CCBC and have recently discovered that I need to add the Barrack's underwear nights to my Palm Springs itineraries. San Diego, I used to have a lot of fun at the Vulcan bathhouse and still find plenty of fun at a particular beach. Just about any bigger town in the midwest and mountain west US or central Canada (from the Rockies to western Ontario, I can find plenty of like minded men to satisfy my sexual needs.

If you are willing to top, try seeking out someone who is stereotyped as a top. I know I'm always glad to bottom regardless of dick size, and since I'm verse I'm always happy to return the favor.

I'm not keeping track but if I am at an orgy I want to get my cock in every hole and every cock in my hole. After my sexcation in July I'm sure the total is in 3 digits and that I've topped at least twice as many guys as I've bottomed for.

I'm always happy to participate, I love group sex!

I've never been interested enough to try it. Even cam sex is a very poor substitute, so I hope we never experience anything like COVID again in my lifetime.

Might not be too bad, at least for me online hookups that actual result in meeting and fucking are pretty easy to come by in Utah.

The login link and the links in the upper right hand corner are difficult to see on my tablet, but everything seemed to work after I found them.

The porn star top is Digger, and he and his boyfriend Ryan Carter (if I remember right Ryan was planning on being a mare at the filmed market, they are both very versatile) were at the Horsemarket event that was filmed.

I've fucked at that beach a few times.

Since it will be a Tuesday night, the crowd will be fairly sparse. You can expect to be ogled and if you go into a group playspace most likely groped by your fellow bathhouse patrons hoping to hookup with you. I don't have direct in Indy experience, but Midwestern guys in general are usually pretty direct and will move rapidly from groping to sucking to fucking. My only suggestions are to leave your inhibitions at home and have fun. Here is a thread on 1st bathhouse experiences, keep in mind there are some fairly significant regional differences, and you are in my opinion lucky to have your 1st experience in the Midwest.

Any or all of the above.

Another aspect that hasn't been mentioned yet, is that asking for pics is frequently part of the online foreplay. Unfortunately in many cases the guys that exchange numerous messages including pictures, are the same guy that in a real life physical hookup venue want to talk your ear off while engaging in some teasing and light petting, but usually never gets around to actually fucking or in most cases even sucking.

My experience at CCBC CumUnion parties is you will get fucked if you want to. At least I always manage to find willing partners. CCBC CumUnions tend to draw an older crowd than most, and don't be surprised if most of the attitude will come from older guys than younger guys. Another feature of CumUnion at CCBC is a constant presence of couples and groups of buddies that like to walk around the orgy spaces to just observe and slut shame rather than participate, it isn't as big of a problem as in some cities since there always seem to be enough guys there that are actually there to fuck. I suspect they are mostly guests of the resort that aren't really there for CumUnion, so they aren't as disruptive as they are at other venues.

I'm sure condom sex will become enough of a fetish that at least a few creators will cater to it. If the gay porn ecosystem can find a market for scenes where dildos fuck fleshlights it can support condom porn.

I don't know about Las Vegas, but post pandemic in my travels throughout North America mostly for work, the standard seems to be to only service rooms every 3-5 days. I did notice on my recent sexcation a sign at the Palm Springs Travelodge that a housekeeping visit was required every 3 days, I stayed 5 days without a visit from housekeeping or any sign that the room was serviced in my absence.

To be fair their are also some great black bubble-butt power bottoms. I'm pretty sure I have fucked more than my share. It is always a bonus if they are versatile and also have a BBC, more than a few of them have fucked me while my cum was oozing from their holes.

My experience is hookup apps don't work very as well for anonymous hookups as gloryholes and darkrooms. As much as I hate dealing with pic collectors, if you live or visit an area where gloryholes and darkrooms don't work for RT cruising, a profile without pics is DOA.

I love getting my balls licked and stroked, but not a big fan of having someone actually putting them in their mouth. I also love the taste and aroma of horny sweaty balls, I absolutely love licking them clean after a fuck.

I let a guy I'm pretty sure was homeless fuck me in Palm Springs this July.

I'm fully versatile and never use poppers in either position.

No, and it is none of their damned business.

Does asking or being asked "wanna fuck" count as foreplay?

Yes I do, I never ask for names. I'm fully verse and it rarely happens as a bottom, but I find when I top there are a lot of bottoms that have asked my name and can remember it when we hookup again sometimes years later, I feel bad that I rarely remember them at all let alone their names.

or a gay sex resort like CCBC which a few guys have mentioned.

At least central Illinois is closer to Chicago, St Louis and Indianapolis all of which have bathhouse than it is to Louisville. Housing is relatively cheap, taxes are extremely high, cost of living right around the national average. Decent cultural opportunities in Urbana-Champaign and Bloomington-Normal due to the major universities. I can't speak to the current sex situation but 30 years ago casual gay sex was readily available in parks, tearooms and ABS in all of the medium sized central Illinois cities. Politically the northern half of the state outside of Chicagoland used to be consistently ruby red, but the more urban counties have transitioned to purple or even blue in the in the last 30 years, while the southern half of the state has gone from deep blue to ruby red other than a small area in metro-east St Louis that has remained blue in the same time. It is too far from a major airport, and way to close to family for me.