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NWUSHorny

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  1. It's looking like those of that don't live in a hotbox of confirmed cases are going to get the vaccination any time soon. I am noticing at least a few parties getting canceled around the country. Which as much as I hate it, I consider a good thing for the moment.
  2. I think in a lot of cases the cock blockers are the guys that want and need the attention that comes from the chase. Even here on BZ there are threads and replies that say they love the chase, but really don't care as much about the actual sex act itself. The cock blockers in most cases are guys that either never connect and complete the act or only do so as a last resort to keep the other cruisers attention. I know it quite often feels like they get off on preventing the rest of us from actually connecting and completing the act, but I can at least hope that isn't their actual intent. The other problem is that on the rare occasions they do actually connect and try to complete the act, is that they are so inhibited that don't learn how great the act feels, which only reinforces their emphasis on the chase.
  3. As someone who engaged almost exclusively in casual sex, I almost never hear sub and dom used. Bottom and top seem to be the terms used. At least here. In a casual sex content, a sub is not going to get fucked. You have to be a lot more aggressive to get someone to fuck you than you do to find a bottom to fuck, which makes the sub-bottom concept pretty untenable at least for casual sex. I would go so far as to say unless you are an aggressive power bottom you will get completely ignored at the local sex clubs.
  4. I think there is a very good chance they aren't sexually involved with each other. I have a close friend, who is now married with a young family, we have been extremely close since high school almost 40 years ago. We have been roommates several times in the past and did almost everything together when we were but have lived more than a 1000 miles apart for almost 25 years, we always remain in close contact with each other, attended all of each other's major life events, and both of us have hopped on a flight to support each other in times of need. There has never even been a suggestion of a sexual relationship between us, the best description I can come up with is he is a non-biological brother. I'm even certain that if one of us missed one of the others life events our biological families would be calling to find out why we weren't there. I suspect the 2 doctors have a similar relationship, it has absolutely nothing to do with their sexuality. Since I'm bi, I would not discount the possibility that one or both of them is as well.
  5. Even when they happen at an inconvenient time and place, cum farts always remind me I'm a big slut and make me instantly horny.
  6. Given where you live in the PNW, I'm more inclined to say just petty. They likely don't actually want to have sex with anyone, so they aren't desperate in the sexual sense. Although, if they are cruising for the sake of cruising and someone has sex with you and leaves they can't cruise them anymore.
  7. Not exactly a cock blocker, but can be a time waster. Guys who do have sex but only occasionally, but like to go out cruising every day. Several years ago I had a fairly extreme example, there was a versatile guy, my type and a great fuck that I hooked up with at an adult theater. He was there every time I was there for months on end, but most of the time he only jacked off. I eventually found out he only allowed himself to have sex once a week, even though he went to the adult theater almost every day. After I learned that little tidbit, I could ask him if he had fucked with anyone yet this week and just ignore him if his answer was yes.
  8. I don't think I have any strong preferences racial preferences when it comes to men I have sex with. If anything I may have a slight bias towards black men, but not just black tops. I think that bias goes back to the 2nd guy to ever fuck me and the 4th I ever fucked. He is the man who introduced me to flip fucking, still my favorite way to have sex. Unfortunately we 1st hooked a few weeks into our final semester of college, while we did develop a very intense fuckbuddy relationship for those few weeks (almost daily), but neither one of us made an effort to continue it after graduation. Since then I have fucked and been fucked by men of every race, and don't buy into the top/bottom stereotypes that get associated to some races.
  9. I'm sort of wondering the same thing. I have a "pimple" on my right temple that looked like C and progressed to D in the diagram above. I too am old enough to have been vaccinated for smallpox as an infant. I was at orgies in LA and Palm Springs 3 and a half weeks ago so I definitely had opportunity, the "pimple" appeared about 10 days after I got home and I haven't had any other symptoms. Luckily if it was monkeypox I stopped hooking up several days before it showed up, so I feel confident I didn't infect anyone if it was. I actually know someone who used to live here in Palm Springs who has been posting pictures of a fairly serious face outbreak on Twitter, but did not hookup with or even see him while I was there. This is the current state of the "pimple"
  10. It makes me wonder if mildly symptomatic people might getting lesions that are mild enough to be mistaken for acne when they don't occur on sensitive body parts.
  11. I just read about the ring vaccination strategy. Which matches what my county health department appears to be doing. [think before following links] https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/ring-vaccination-might-help-curtail-monkeypox-202206062757#
  12. My county just reported it's 1st case. I have been told vaccines are being limited to just those with known exposure, so I can't get it. There are 22 cases across the river in the larger county, but it sounds vaccines are still being severely limited there as well. I did notice on Friday that 3 of the local Twitter accounts that are primarily into cuddling were claiming they had contracted it, I'm suspecting they probably picked it up at one of their nonsex events that they post about.
  13. I wish that were always true, but there are a lot of guys at saunas that are there to either to be seen to stoke their egos, or never have sex and just go to watch. When those 2 groups make up a combined 25-30% of the crowd, a sex club becomes a nothing but a blue balls no mating dance.
  14. There are gay sex clubs that host bi nights, as well as cities that have fairly active swinger communities. The percentage of the straight community that is involved is lower but it is still a potential disease vector. I'm still of the opinion that monkeypox will find it's way into the schools before the end of the year.
  15. If you force yourself on him it is rape no matter how loose his hole. Even if he is at a fuck club bent over or in a sling and he says no thanks and you enter him anyway it is rape. The only situation I can think of where it is impossible to qualify as rape is if he has his ass pressed up against a glory hole.
  16. I don't see it as an STI. It is something that can be spread by sexual contact, as well as non-sexual contact. Unfortunately I have no idea how to deal with the antivaxers on monkeypox any more than I do on COVID. I think it is going to hit the antivax community hard and the cultural warriors are already primed to blame us.
  17. I believe the former Inn Exile is part or all of the current All Worlds Resort. I was there in early 2020 when it was still called All Worlds Annex even though the original All Worlds was already closed. I was there midweek, but did hookup in their indoor maze, they also had an outdoor maze that wasn't seeing much use in the winter. They are also hosting a monthly Cumunion Party.
  18. Since I log into the apps so infrequently these days, they are usually a week or 2 old by the time I notice them, as well as usually being from a guy whose profile reads like we have nothing in common, so I usually just don't respond. If it is a long distance one that includes information that they are traveling to my area and his profile looks somewhat compatible, I may respond but haven't hooked up that way in several years. I did have good luck at the begining of the month replying to and hooking up with one guy each in LA and Palm Springs, that started with BBRT links, but both of their profiles indicated very compatible interests. So it may be somewhat location specific, and whether you are a good fit for what guys are looking for.
  19. That doesn't irk me near as much as a cocksucker that comes up to suck or get sucked by someone I've just invested long time convincing him to either fuck or get fucked. Invariably they pop up and offer just as the penetration is about to take place, here in Portland odds are heavily in the cocksuckers favor.
  20. We have all of those types in great numbers here in the PNW. My least favorite is "message guy" that knows at least "1001 ways to have sex where no one even has to touch anyone else's icky dick." After 15 years of hearing them from numerous men I'm out of there before they can finish describing the 1st way. Like "the handcuffer" what he really wants is someone to hang out with. I've really pissed a few "handcuffers" off when they had sex with me before I realized that was their intent. Hanging out is not in the implied contract for hookup sex.
  21. Better read that research again, most of the sources say "men who ejaculated the most (at least 21 times a month) had a 20% lower risk of prostate cancer versus those who ejaculated 4 to 7 times a month." You are welcome to draw your own conclusion, but I will be speaking out against "No Nut November" again this year. I'm also personally placing a moratorium on my casual hookup activity until vaccinations for monkeypox can be distributed.
  22. I agree, we need to take some responsibility and initiative to get in front of this until we can get most of the population vaccinated. I also agree that "No Nut November" was one of the worst concepts ever. There are too many proven health benefits to ejaculating on a regular basis, and as far as I'm aware no known health reasons not to masterbate by jacking off in the conventional manner. I'm about to turn 53 and still need that release twice a day. After COVID, I'm definitely not thrilled with going back to self stimulation for a few months, but am acknowledging the reality that it is the correct course of action at this point.
  23. In this case, they may be just as suceptible as those of us that like to have sex once every couple of hours. At least here there are a lot of them that engage in foreplay for hours on end. I know they won't touch a dick or let anyone touch theirs, but they are engaging in even more and more prolonged skin to skin contact than those of us that do have sex. I've been joking that I now have a health reason to avoid cuddling. Looking at Twitter last night, 3 of local self described "power cuddlers" have managed to catch it.
  24. That effect is even worse if you are fucking a bottom who insists on packing their hole full of lube. Especially lubes like vasoline or elbow grease, it is a lot like sticking your dick into a jar full of crisco. I can't get enough sensation to cum that way. I've never understood what packing it in or injecting it deep does for them, and I'm fully versatile.
  25. I don't ask specifically, but if I'm fucking a guy for the 1st time, I always make sure he knows when I am about to cum to give him the option of asking me to pull out. The only exception I ever make is if it is a sex club bottom that is already full of cum. If we have fucked several times and I know he has let me cum in him before then it is no longer necessary. I am absolutely against breeding a bottom that does not want to be bred.
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