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Tops at a bathhouse - do you prefer a loaded hole?
NWUSHorny replied to Panties202's topic in General Discussion
I love a loaded hole. I'm also one of those tops, that if I'm feeling your hole, I want to fuck you but won't necessarily cum since I want to at least sample all of the available holes. As to the guys that just feel you up and leave, I'm of the of the opinion that there are guys at bathhouses that are just there to get material to use for their jackoff fantasies. They never fuck or get fucked, and if they make up more than about 30% of the guys in the club no one else gets fucked either. -
Best Visit to a Gay Sex Venue Stats Polls
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Only 12 people have responded, but it is starting to look like I'm a big slut even by BZ standards. I'm actually a little bit surprised. -
I'm bi, so I would let a woman use a strap-on or a double headed toy with me at least occasionally if she had a desire to do so. With another man, hell no, I do not want to play dildos, strap-ons, double headed, or fake extensions with you. Since we are men and have the penetration equipment there is no excuse for using toys instead of a cock. I've never had this problem anywhere else I've lived or traveled, but I have made a few local guys mad for refusing to play dildos with them. We have cocks and should use them in sex, I have no interest in replacing the cock with a toy when having gay sex.
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What is the SEXIEST, most EROTIC thing a man has said to you?
NWUSHorny replied to Treehugger's topic in General Discussion
I mostly prefer grunts and groans, but I have had a few guys compliment me on both my technique and cock size when topping. What I find even more erotic is having a guy come up to me and want them to fuck them again , even though I don't remember them, but they remember my name and how long ago I fucked them. After I get over being embarrassed for not remembering them at all, I take it as an erotic compliment and give them my best fuck. -
Since I'm US based In was thinking mostly bathhouses, since that is almost the only kind of sex club that exists in most cities. I have been to sex clubs that weren't bathhouses, but never to one that's primary draw was dancing rather than sex. Sadly most of the US doesn't even have bars with back/darkrooms, and are often pretty draconian about enforcing the no sex in the bar rules.
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I don't think I've ever been the only guy in a sex club. There however have been many times, in the area I live now, that I have spent several hours in clubs where no one would even touch each other, I would have appreciated my money and time back on those occasions.
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Best Visit to a Gay Sex Venue Stats Polls
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I've easily fucked or been fucked by more than 30 guys on many occasions at a sex venue. I have also given 7 loads on multiple occasions when I was younger and taken 7 confirmed loads in my ass on a few occasions. I don't think any of these really great visits for me lasted more the 5 hours and would estimate that most of them were around 4 hours. Fortunately for me, I have achieved this level of hedonism more than 10 times so I'm going to leave my answer for number of repeats at 10. -
What were your best ever stats for fucks given and/or taken, loads deposited/taken. I wanted to try to correlate it with how long the visit was, and how many times you have achieved similar results, but the maximum number of questions is apparently 3 so please add the length of visit and how many times you were have been able to accomplish it in the comments with your numbers. I see I also messed up and missed adding the 0 option for loads taken, so I guess tops will not be able to respond, unless a moderator can correct my mistake.
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Having to pace yourself is a much lesser problem than being bored and frustrated for the entire rental. I can deal with that kind of problem.
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My hats off to the dedication the dedication to being a slut that staying 12 or more hours takes. I don't think I've ever gone beyond 8 hours and always feel guilty about neglecting other parts of my life when I did. Even when I take a sexcation, while I do expect to get laid multiple times a day, every day, I still typically spend the majority of my time doing normal tourist things. For me there are simply too many things to experience in life to dedicate that much of time to finding sex. I'm much happier when I'm in an area where I can find quick hookups every day.
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Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?
NWUSHorny replied to blktone67's topic in General Discussion
I see this as a matter of respect, while I for the most part did not let guys fuck me raw before I was willing to take loads I think the top should respect the bottoms wishes on whether they want bred or not. I would also respect the wishes of a bottom that said don't fuck me if you aren't going to breed me, even though I don't think that really works in the sexclub group sex situations I prefer to fuck in. -
@DCSluthole I am the guy that is looking for quality over quantity, and don't like a lot of foreplay and certainly am not going to be satisfied with just foreplay. I love cum junkies, and being a cum junkie as well as sampling multiple holes and poles before I cum. I love group sex, which rarely happens in sexclubs here. Last night wasn't an isolated episode, it wasn't even anywhere near as bad as it can get for this area. Believe it or not I do live in a major city, that is 2 and a half hours from another even larger city that is even harder to get uninhibited sexclub fucking than where I live. I agree with you that I'm looking in the wrong places, my problem is I have to travel a thousand miles to find sexclubs with the kind of action I enjoy, and the problem isn't limited to just sexclubs it is pervasive anywhere guys go to hookup. @hntnhole Maybe I need to put Chicagoland higher on my list of places to relocate (my main objections to Chicago are; it is too close to family, and there is nothing nearby that even resembles a hill let alone a mountain). I did actually start fucking a guy who is normally a pig in the sling last night, but even he wasn't reacting to getting plowed. Maybe he sucumbs to the low sexual energy vibe, I know I do part of the time. I agree that the strategy would work well in Chicago. I think I will leave Ft. Lauderdale as a place to visit.
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If you lived anywhere else I would advise you to do the latter. My observation is in cities that have a lot of activity is that the active engaged bottoms get the action. Of course I'm biased since I prefer an active bottom, and am always active when I bottom. In the extreme passive aggressiveness of the PNW, the former may actually be a better choice, and if so I'm completely incompatible.
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Luckily they do a good job of enforcing the no phones in public play spaces here. I'm not even going to approach someone trying to room cruise and use their phone at the same time. I have noticed there are a lot of guys that spend most of their visit checking the apps in the locker room or private room. Does that ever work? I've made a couple of half hearted attempts, but have never succeeded in hooking up with an apps user in the club, I don't have the patience. Apparently "want to fuck in the _____ room" isn't an acceptable opening for an apps user at a sexclub.
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Part of my problem is I had never experienced that prior to moving to the PNW. I went every Friday and Saturday night, and was never lonely or felt the need to spend more than 3 or 4 hours to get completely satiated. On the rare occasions I did stay longer, it was because the action was so off the wall that I couldn't pry myself away. For the 1st 10+ years I lived in Portland, I was usually traveling 75% or more of the time, so as long as I wasn't working on projects in the PNW I was able to take care of most of my needs during the week. There were years when I didn't set foot inside a Portland sexclub, if I was working on projects in cities where I knew I could get laid Monday through Thursday night, it simply wasn't worth the frustration. Then I got hit with a major health crisis, and just as I recovered from that to the point I was starting to travel and hookup again, COVID hit. So far traveling for work hasn't recovered from COVID, my work is almost exclusively remote. I made the decision this summer to stop spend so much time in the sexclub just waiting, 1) because the results were disappointing at best, 2) it was actually impacting other parts of my life. I changed employers this year and luckily I have the opportunity to relocate, and am planning on doing so this spring. The only hard requirements I have are internet access and proximity to a major airport, so I can factor in how easy it is to get laid when I choose where I want to live.
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I went to a Cumunion Party at one of the sexclubs here in Portland with a fairly large crowd, I left after spending a little over 4 hours even more sexually frustrated than when I arrived. To be fair, there were guys coupling up, no groups, and sucking and fucking passionlessly for maybe 30 seconds to a minute before moving on, so not as bad as it can get. I did stick my dick in several guys, all of them just laid there with no reaction at all to being fucked. None of them were cummy or even loosed up, no surprise there. Luckily it didn't completely kill my my hard on (which frequently happens on nights like this), but I was unable to cum under the circumstance. I even managed to get fucked breifly, but unfortunately the guy who topped me couldn't stay hard. Mostly I spent my evening "hooking up" with time wasters who don't participate in fucking, or in many cases even sucking (which I consider to be foreplay not sex). There have been quite a few times in the last year when I've run out the clock on my admission in the fruitless hope that someone who actually enjoys sex would show up. I also fully acknowlege that things could have been worse, I've spent more than 4 completly sexless hours in bathhouses in the PNW many times. More than a few of those sexless occasions were supposed to be Cumunion Parties. What do you do in these situations? Unfortunately they are the norm, not just off nights here.
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Have you ever had your prostate checked?
NWUSHorny replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
I've had mine checked a couple of times. I can't imagine there is anything enjoyable about it in cold clinical setting even if you like fingers in your ass, which I don't. -
I'm glad you are there for him, and aren't trying to force him. This has to be his decision. Unless the drug and alcohol abuse, that you mentioned, becomes a major problem he will be better off finding his own path. That doesn't mean you shouldn't offer to help, just that you should be prepared to take no for an answer under most circumstances.
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As a versatile guy who isn't getting as much sex as he would like, I prefer guys that take the risk that they in at not be fully clean and accept that shit sometimes happens rather than not have sex. I'm also a big proponent of guys having sex everyday, and fully acknowledge that the fasting and all day douching process that some bottoms have to go through would not be healthy to do everyday. As to the bathhouse/sex club scenario, I assume most bottoms are cleaned out well enough to play for the next hour or 2 when they arrive. I've also learned you are more likely to encounter a bottom that isn't clean in a city that doesn't have an active scene than one that does. The longer the bottom stays and has to endure the no mating dance waiting for someone to fuck them, the more likely there is to be a surprise. If a guy can go to the club several times in the 1st hour or 2, most of them won't stay past the point where they need to freshen up. Several years ago, I had a really well hung guy want to fuck me at an adult theater despite the fact we both knew I wasn't prepared. I can assure you it wasn't pretty, but fucked me for a long time anyway. I'm pretty sure we went through an entire roll of paper towels, and that we both enjoyed it immensely.
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Closing gaysauna’s or cruisebars trend ?
NWUSHorny replied to Chuckynultien's topic in General Discussion
There have been several gay bars close here (which do not have backroom action), as well as adult theaters. So far the saunas and adult books stores have all remained open. I've long wondered how they managed to stay open here, since they don't see the kind of action that occurs in most cities. -
I go with the flow. I don't carry condoms anymore, but if they have one I will put it on or let them fuck me with it. I love to fuck and if you want a cock in your ass or want to put yours in mine, I'm going to do everything I can to make it happen.
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The problems with using the apps, is they work well in the same cities in person cruising works well. As someone who has traveled throughout North America, I still have to figure out what types of cruising work well for the area and then figure out the currently active locations, the apps are slightly easier since there are fewer of them but you still have to figure out which ones are locally active. I mostly use the apps to shortcut the process of learning the local in person cruising scene.
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So we seem to be in the throws of Locktober, which will be followed by No-Nut-vember, which are Internet generated crazes where guys intentionally deprive themselves of some kind of sexual contact and even masturbating to release the tension. Anyone that is a reader of my posts, can probably guess that I will not be participating in either of these month long celebrations of deprivation. How do we promote a month or 2 of full sexually depravity? Maybe Depravity December where we fuck each other brains out in inhibition free fashion, to celebrate the holidays, or Jizzuary where we spread as much jizz through the community as our balls can produce and our fuckholes can hold. Just in case you couldn't tell, I'm sick of the internet "sex" crazes that actually promote not having sex. Rant over, at least for now.
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I would probably let your nephew know that you are there for him, and that he can always come for an extended visit. Getting him a phone and plan that is separate from the family is a good idea, but not sure that the iPad meets that need. Unless your nephew actually wants to uproot himself and move 900 miles, you can't force him. I also fully understand that he may not want to give up the truck he has purchased, potentially damaging his credit just when he needs it most. As long as his grandparents are letting him stay with them, my personal opinion is he has to do the rest on his own terms. Just be there for him if he needs you.
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BBRT does not seem to be as active as it once was, and has always varied by area. So I don't think it is you, try it the next time you travel somewhere and see if it works there. I've always done really well using it in Palm Springs, most recently in July.
