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NWUSHorny

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  1. Any fetish gear screams stand and model here in Portland, which is why I don't even wear a jock locally.
  2. I've thought of the hair color thing, since I have very blonde hair that might be identifiable and I've also been wearing a full beard for several years. I really hadn't thought about concealing crows feet, and I don't have enough white mixed with my blonde to make that an issue yet. I also don't wear glasses when hooking up so don't have to worry about steamed up lenses. I'm pretty sure I would want to stick with a breathable light weight cloth for either option, and don't want to give off a dungeon fetish vibe which the leather would accentuate. Also animal/pup masks are becoming somewhat common at the bathhouses here in Portland, even on nights that aren't special events for those particular fetishes.
  3. I want to drill a guy on his back laying across 2 stools at a busy bar, while another drills me from behind, and 2 or 3 more guys climb up on the bar and offer their cock for sucking.
  4. This thread has me thinking that it might be a good idea to start concealing in case someone is filming where they shouldn't be. To be fair, I have worn cheap plastic masks and attended events that I knew were going to be filmed in the past. So there were quite a few men (and in a couple instances women) masked at these events. Would the mask help or hurt my ability to hookup and fuck on a regular visit to a sex venue/event? What kind of mask is better? I'm thinking either a cloth Lone Ranger type mask (like the plastic ones I've used in the past) or a full hood with eye and a mouth opening large enough that my nostrils aren't covered (I still wonder if I would find a full hood too hot).
  5. Get on PREP and get the necessary hep vaccines, to protect your health. Then go for it, you will love it.
  6. This one, especially when it is my turn to be the guy on his back.
  7. Does that ever actually work? At least where I live now in the PNW the baths have specific areas that they can use their phones, that the guys on their phones in those areas are even pickier than the ones that actually make an effort to cruise the club to find someone to have sex with. The same for cruising spots, they drive to the spot and just sit in their car waiting for Mr. Perfect. Then again group sex is all but non-existent here, the surest way to get privacy is to start fucking in a public playspace. They also don't seem to know how room cruising works, few even try but you rarely see anyone in a room displaying their dick or ass, more often than not they very carefully arrange it so the only thing you see without pushing the door open is their feet. I can see where it would work in some cities I travel to, but then again in real time cruising is effective enough in those cities that I've rarely tried it. The few times I have tried it, I wound up leaving the venue to fuck with someone I connected with online, all but once it was someone who wanted to use my cummy hole on the way back to my hotel.
  8. I'm pretty sure I've celebrated without knowing it was an official holiday. This year I will make a point to celebrate.
  9. I've had to clean other guys dna out of the driver seats of rental cars before returning them.
  10. We mostly have to take a bottoms word for it. I had watched in frustration my most recent one ride a sizeable dildo like a pogo stick, a week before I took his virginity, so I was definitely unable to tell based on the feel of his fuckhole. In fact he is typically tighter when I fuck him now, almost 4 years after he lost his virginity. He also hasn't let me bareback him yet, although he has barebacked and bred me at least once. It is possible he is just a good actor, but for whatever reason I believe him.
  11. I would have to agree with you, if they start allowing this in places I go I will have to invest in a light weight comfortable ski mask of some sort.
  12. I see that your profile says that you are in Seattle, and wonder if your feeling like you are the only one is based on PNW cultural conditioning. While I'm slightly different than you, in that I prefer to find my hookups in sex clubs or cruising, like to see who I'm hooking up with and don't object to a brief conversation before and after we fuck, I still prefer a relatively anonymous hookup and moving to the PNW was a major adjustment for me. Before I moved to Portland, and since when I travel outside the PNW, I have had no problems finding willing partners for my particular brand of anonymous sex, however in the PNW I find that most men rewire a greater connection before they are willing to fuck. In my case this means cruising you endlessly at the park, or at the sex clubs, bookstores and theaters talking your ear off for hours before entertaining any kind of sexual contact, as well as guys that go to these locations and completely ignore anyone who is not a member of for lack of a better term their clique. I find it extremely frustrating, I have lived several places and have traveled a lot for work, so in most of North America I know where to go or seem to easily sniff out the locations I can blow off some steam with like minded guys in a couple of hours, where as this weekend I spend a total of almost 14 hour in the Portland bathhouses and only fucked with 8 guys (which is actually good by Portland standards), but in most places could have easily achieved that in less than 3 hours. At least for me this region is extremely sexually frustrating.
  13. In some cities you can easily experience this in an adult theater. If they are willing to go further, they are bi whether they are willing to admit it or not.
  14. I don't have too many "virginities" left either. I've never taken a fist or had someone piss in me, but I have no desire to do those things either. My point with the oral is, that most guys who have only sucked a cock or had their cock sucked by another guy don't consider themselves to be gay virgins, and if they are over 25 and have been actively engaging in oral for several years and are satisfied with that they are never going to be persuaded to try anal. Sadly for me they are the typical sex club goer where I live.
  15. @ErosWired I'm sure it is mostly cultural conditioning, but I feel like an age difference of more than 5 years with a 19 year old is somehow wrong. Weirdly if he had been a 30 year old it wouldn't have bothered me. With a 19 year old I just feel like he would have been better off experimenting with one of his peers rather than someone who had been fucking more than a decade before he was born. We probably need a psychologist to figure out why I think it is ok with someone well into adulthood but still young enough to be my son.
  16. I generally agree with you about oral not really counting, however I don't think we are the norm. I know too many "gay" men who claim to have no interest in anal. I do consider my topping virginity separate from bottoming. For me it was a much bigger deal to take a cock up my ass than it was to give one, and it took more than a year after I started topping to bottom. Once I did I really loved both. I still really enjoy both, and in fact did both multiple times this weekend.
  17. Did anyone go to CumUnion Friday night? Was it still a hot orgy and is the new location conducive to fucking? I'm hoping to get to it in the next couple of months, and haven't been to an LA CumUnion since last July.
  18. I lost my virginity with a girl just before my 14th birthday in a relationship that lasted less than 2 months. I lost my gay oral (both) virginity at 19 with a guy in the university library washroom. The 1st guy I fucked was the same guy I lost my gay virginity to, but nearly a year later. When I lost my own anal virginity at 21, it started by getting fingered by a really hung black guy under the stall wall in the university library, I was afraid to take him, so I watched him fuck the guy under the next stall wall. The next day, I hooked up with a guy who wasn't hung like a donkey, so took him home and pretty much begged him to take my alal virginity. Two days later I hooked up with a different hung but nut not as big, black guy who managed to make me cum at the exact same moment he filled the condom in my ass (it was 1991), the next day he and I hooked up again and I had my first flip fuck. About 2 weeks later I took the really hung guy under the stall wall. I developed fuckbud relationships with all of those first 3 guys that lasted until the end of the semester (all 3 of us were Seniors). I had my 1st group experience with the 1st and 2nd guys to fuck me plus a versatile guy from Australia (uncut, so one of my first experiences with an uncut dick that wasn't my own), 3 out of 4 us were versatile and had a really long and enjoyable session.
  19. I've been sought out and invited to take the anal virginity of several guys. The 1st time was with a 22 year old when I was 20, when I had only fucked 2 other guys and before I lost my own anal virginity, so I was really out of my league. The most recent was with a 19 year old when I was 50, which felt somewhat uncomfortable with that due to the age difference. Since I'm somewhat larger than average (I know I sought out someone smaller to loose mine to) I always take my time eating him out and preparing him by very gently finger massaging his hole (I hate being fingered, so I am very careful not to over do the penetrative part of fingering) then encourage him to either back up on my dick doggy style or letting him sit on it (I've found doggy style works better) at his own pace. While I don't generally do relationships, quite a few of the guys whose virginity I took became at least occasional fuckbuds, so I like to think I did something right. Several of them quickly evolved into major sluts, that I have fucked repeatedly while cruising or at sex clubs.
  20. There are CumUnion parties locations that are regularly decent orgies. I suspect that the odds are better when they are held in venues that do not offer private rooms, and force everyone to play in the group play spaces, the ones held at Sanctuary LAX have been consistently very good for me. The ones held at bathhouses that regularly see orgies that last several hours break out in their group play spaces also tend to turn into decent orgies, but don't require a CumUnion party to get an orgy going, the now closed Denver Swim Club was great for this. In the PNW, as far as I have been able to figure out, a decent group orgy is all but impossible to achieve, in a private party, at a bathhouse, or an event like CumUnion. Both Portland and Seattle have held Horsemarket parties, but I haven't been able to attend one yet, but find it hard to believe they would work very well with out getting a significant percentage of the attendees from outside the region. They don't do group sex, they don't fuck with strangers on the 1st hookup, and a larger than average percentage of the gay population do not engage in any form of casual penetrative sex.
  21. I've always found being an enthusiastic sexual partner in random hookups, often several times with the same guy(s) was the best way to score orgy invitations. Moving around and traveling has taught me that the effectiveness of this technique varies regionally.
  22. I have found that if I am really attracted to a guy my hole will open up and take it with minimal pain and effort. The 2nd guy to ever fuck me was huge, and taught me the joys of flip fucking on our 2nd hookup.
  23. I think it applies more to versatile men than bottoms, but unfortunately there is a definite tendency among some versatile men who do not flip fuck to use cock size as the determining factor as to who tops and who bottoms. If men who have sex with men in general are using this as a metric for sexual position, instead of what they derive pleasure from, I can see where this could at least be somewhat true. I would point out, that if they are determining their position based on this metric they are doing both themselves and the community in general a great disservice.
  24. I'm versatile, but reject guys who are only into oral only or even worse just foreplay all the time. Mostly at the bathhouses and cruising spots, because I no longer even bother with the hookup apps in a city where it feels like almost everyone lists cuddling as the number one activity they are looking for. I will admit I will sometimes accept cock sucking before I give up and go home. One of the local baths has twice monthly parties where they issue 5 different colors of glow bracelets to indicate sexual position. Purple for neither oral or anal has been making up a significant plurality lately most of the rest choose orange for oral only and we are lucky if the blue/top, red/bottom and green/versatile make up a combined 20% of the guys. A year or so ago it was more than half oral only, but they have regressed even more since then.
  25. Spit and precum topping or bottoming. I don't like artificial lube, and if you must use it at please find one that is unscented.
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