drscorpio

I think some bathhouses have public slings because it is expected of them, but they don't make them as accessible as they might be to encourage you to rent the sling rooms. Midtowne in Dallas (RIP) was terrible on this point; the sling was in the dark maze and the only bench to sit on in the whole maze was beside the foot of the sling. That meant there were always tons of people trying to fuck right where you would stand to top the guy in the sling.

My late husband and I did tons of threesomes because he loved to watch me take a load from a stranger. He would let me sleep in on Saturday mornings and line up tops to fuck me all afternoon on Craigslist or A4A. It worked out better when the third was a top. My husband was hung and liked a bottom who could loosen up and let him in quickly. He was not particularly gentle when he fucked, so he tended to be more than most vers-tops and versatiles wanted to handle.

This story came from the old Extreme Bareback group on Yahoo in the early 2000s. It was posted as a true story. This isn't the original version; someone has "punched up" the writing a bit. I'm pretty sure the original author posts on here from time to time. (not @PozzedRebel who hasn't been on the forum in over a decade)

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Yeah, it is MUCH easier to take a big dick than a big toy. Even the hardest cock is more flexible that what they make dildos out of. It is more about relaxing your hole than anything else, and that is largely in your head. It is something you have to learn to do. He can help by being gentle and going slow; hopefully, he will do so because you have been talking and are friends. An alternative to desensitizing lube is lube with CBD. I have been using this brand [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.foriawellness.com/ My bf's dick is not quite as big as the one you describe, but it really helps me take it easily.

I have several points: A teenager who claims to have no ID to show you is younger than he claims to be. Even if you do not drive, you need to have some form of government ID to get by in the world. There is no way for an adult over the age of 20 to meet a 16-year-old they are not related to in public without attracting undue attention. Grindr (and the other apps) require users to be 18, but they make no effort to enforce this requirement. Age of consent laws are a blunt instrument at best. We have heard stories in this thread of people safely negotiating sex while underage. I teach at university, and I assure you there are plenty of 20-somethings who are emotionally immature and incapable of sound decision making. So despite the problems with them, they are what we have to live by. Once a person is 18 in the USA, they are an adult. They can make the decision to consent to sex. No one (including their parent) should feel they have the right to gainsay their decisions about who they date or screw. Personally, I think the age of consent should be younger. For the vast majority of human history, 14-15-year-olds were setting up households and raising children. But I get that we don't want 13-year-olds consenting to sex with adults. The range of 16-18 for age of consent seems like a reasonable compromise that we have settled on. The reason so many young people today seem so immature and incapable of making good decisions is that we have extended childhood into their teens and adolescence into their twenties. I have taught college for 30+ years, and the maturity of a freshman in college has plummeted over that time. My parents starting letting me have some independence in my early teens. As I proved I could handle it to them, they granted me more. Students show up at university now with no conception of how to take care of themselves because they aren't being allowed any chance to experience risk and consequences. Lots of them totally crash and burn. I am currently dating a man in his early 20s; I am in my late 50s. There has been a lot of skepticism from both families and sets of friends. If he had not been clearly an adult (over 21) when we met, I do not think we would have made it past that friction.

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I am glad you found a process that works most comfortably for you, but I don't think anyone minded your long stories. You do a really good job of keeping a consistent feel even when your writing was over a long period of time. Honestly, most guys who write that way start to meander too much over time; yours are always nice and tight and focused. Again, I am not trying to change your mind; I just wanted you to know I never minded the other approach.

I was on gel a few years ago, but I found it too gross to fool with. A few months ago, I noticed a big drop off in my performance, and the doctor put me on injections (after verifying that my testosterone levels were still low). It's been good for my sex drive although I do notice a drop off the last few days before I get another shot. My chest is slowly getting more hairy. My bf approves of both changes. @Queenzlander59, no effect on the size of my cock.

Mine is natural - not trimmed or shaved. I prefer the same although light trimming doesn't bother me.

Yeah, I think he is cute as shit. He has an adorable little booty.

I follow this guy on Twitter. He has an OF.

@Tommy Tank, it's always a treat to see you have added to a story. Very hot!

Report the posts.

I fucked/got fucked for the first time in 1983 - just before the rumors of a gay disease made their way to my college town, so it was raw. I continued to fuck raw with my handful of college buddies, but I used condoms with new partners when I went to grad school in 1985. I took a raw cock again in 1992, and I started drifting back into bareback. By around 1995, I stopped using rubbers altogether.

@Summatyme has been a member for 9 years or so. When he initially joined, those restrictions were not in place.

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In the situation you were describing where you had not intended or planned to bottom and it happened spontaneously, the top should be understanding if it is a little messy. That said, if you know you are full and feel the need to shit, you should tell him; that situation will lead to more than a little mess. I douche regularly just to make sure I am clean. I have done it long enough that I just feel comfortable that way. If I do a full clean out early in the morning, I find that will generally last for several hours of my partner fucking me (he's young and can go 5-6 times a day). Overnight is riskier. I will ask him, "do you want it now or want it clean?" He usually opts for letting me clean out. Eating a diet rich in fiber or using fiber supplements help. I really like Pure for Men. I take it everyday.

@chi4loads, I don't know how you manage it, but your stories just keep getting better.

I am a size queen. I really get off on huge cocks - I will take it from anyone in real life, but I want big dick in my porn. I get so frustrated when they pair a hung top with a bottom that cannot take it, and he complains about how big it is throughout the scene. It especially annoys me in the OF/JFF scenario. You knew he had an enormous piece when you agreed to the collaboration. If you cannot handle big cock, stick to bottoming for average-sized guys.

His one-and-done isn't consistent either. He mentioned one guy as being a favorite who he fucks whenever he can, and he said another was a repeat visit.

I went and checked out his Twitter feed. I think this guy is creating a persona to promote his OF and JFF pages to people into Poz fetish. He has to have signed releases from everyone who appears in videos on those sites. They would be able to find him afterwards if they turned Poz through this professional relationship. Like most things online, this is all fantasy. That said, I agree that if he were really doing this that it would be a heinous thing.

There are tons of chasers looking for chubby bottoms on Bigger City. I met my hot, hung boyfriend there. I have never gotten more attention on a hookup site, and I am in my late 50s.

I was in my late 20s and had been a total condom nazi for years. I met a guy through a personal ad who supposedly only wanted head. He was a short, thin Hispanic man in his 40s. He was unremarkable looking, but he had a big, uncut piece - at least 8.5" long and almost 7" around. We started with him on the couch and me between his knees sucking. Soon he had maneuvered me into 69 on the couch. Eventually, we ended up with our positions reversed - I was on the couch with my legs in the air, and he had his tongue all the way inside me. No one has ever given me a better rim job than him. After eating me out for 15 minute or more, he pulled me towards him and slid his cock inside me with no lube other than his spit. Despite that, I never felt anything except intense fullness and pleasure; he had opened me up so well I could take that huge dick without any discomfort. I hate telling this part, but after a few moments, I freaked when I realized he was in me bare. He was nice enough about it and put on a condom. He gave me a good hard fuck, and we agreed we wanted to meet again. A couple of weeks later he fucked me at my house again with a rubber. About a week later (it was actually Easter Sunday in 1992), he called and wanted to hookup. My roommate had people over, so I couldn't host. He invited me to his house. I was happy to make the drive. We started out pretty much like the first time with a long 69 session - me on his cock and him up in my ass with his tongue. This time, he had poppers for me; I know some of you remember, but they were hard to come by in the early 90s. I hadn't had any in a year or more. They hit me hard, and I was totally lost in the pleasure of the rim job. He got up to go fetch a condom from the bedroom. While he was gone, I took a big hit of poppers. As I rode the rush, I thought about how good he felt in me bare the first time. When he got back, I asked him if we could just fuck without the condom. He threw it across the room like it was hot. He slid into me just with both our spit for lube, and soon I was taking my first known load in 5 years. We were fuckbuddies for years after that. Even after I finished grad school and moved away, I would always come see him when I was back in town to get an excellent rim job and one of his loads. We always fucked bare with only our spit for lube, and he always had poppers for me to make sure I was willing.