drscorpio

There is also the issue that most of us get piggier as we age. I am completely comfortable doing things today that I wouldn't have thought of doing at 25 when I was "scared safe." A lot of younger guys haven't worked through their hang ups about kinky and/or raunchy behavior yet.

You can go to an ER and get PEP treatment. I don't think it is necessary, but it might give you some peace of mind.

He told the story on here. Link below

At some point I acquired a mid-70s porn novel. I'm not sure where I got it. I just found it in my porn stash after one of my many moves in my 20s. I'm sure some former roommate is missing it still. It was written at least 15 years before anyone was talking about HIV. The guys in it are just as load obsessed as guys today. They talk about how wonderful it feels to have a man shoot inside them. They participate in orgies taking multiple loads. I think today's attitudes represent a return to the way things were before not some new obsession that never existed before.

If he's really undetectable, the risk of taking his load is very small. If taking any risk at all of being pozzed is too much then rethink your decision to take raw cock and cum. Every bare fuck has some risk. Don't do something you will regret.

I started barebacking in Austin when I was in grad school in early 90s. There were just starting to be some guys who were open about fucking raw. I was an active barebacker for about a year. When I got my first job in a small town in Louisiana, I found that there were two groups of guys here. The country, closeted gays had never started using condoms. The more educated guys associated with the university were still frightened condom nazis. So for 3-4 years, I mostly played safe with the guys I met here although I found that most guys would bareback after a few dates. I still would bareback with my old fuckbuddies and any tricks when I visited my friends back in Texas. But as soon as hooking up online became an easy thing to do, I was back to full-time bareback. Being able to sort through the safers before you met helped a lot with that. So if you are in a situation where barebackers are hard to find, you can give it up. But I am not sure places like that exist anymore.

I just got to experience taking a load in a dark room for the first time last weekend. In the back of the maze at Midtowne Spa in Dallas, I took a load from a well-built guy with a huge cock. It was so dark all I know about him was from my sense of touch. It was suck a hot experience.

You can't choose who you fall in love with, but you CAN choose who you stay in love with. It sounds to me like you are in love with the idea of the relationship you want to have with this man. That idea includes his being reasonable enough to allow some accommodations during this time before you can physically be in the same place. He doesn't seem willing to allow that. Unless living in this desert city appeals to you in and of itself, I think it would be a mistake for you to move. If you can't enjoy the place for itself, then every time things get a little strained between you two you will resent him for your being there. Also he has said it's over. Don't force yourself on him unless he is willing to entertain the idea of your reconciling.

This is a really enlightening book about human sexuality in ancient times, Sex At Dawn. It's worth a look if you are interested in what anthropology and our own biology can tell us about sexual behavior. It is mostly about heterosexual matters, but you can extrapolate a lot about gay sexuality from what is there.

I love to watch my husband topping other dudes. He likes to watch me take cock even more. We were at the baths this weekend. He had my ass in a sling and was lining up guys to fuck and breed me.

I might be a little thrown off if it was our first hookup. But if I were already comfortable with you, you could invite a whole pack of tops to join, and I would be happy to take them all on.

My fondness for black men at least partially comes from their fondness for me. I always seem to get a lot of attention from black guys. I was in Dallas over the weekend and spent several hours at the baths. Although I did play with all sorts of guys, the ones who wanted in my ass and wanted in there now were all black.

Today at Texas Bear Round Up, there was a group trip to the other bathhouse in Dallas, Midtowne Spa. I like it better than Club Dallas except for one thing - their maze/public play area doesn't have enough places where a small group can play. There are plenty of alcoves big enough for two, but the only open area is right in front of the sling. This means it gets too crowded for te sling to get much use. Anyway as soon as I got showered and prelued my hole, I hit the maze. Before my eyes were adjusted to the dark, I had a hard cock in my mouth. I sucked him until he was nice and wet and then offered my ass. He fucked me for a few minutes and dumped his load in me. I cleaned him off with my mouth and went on my way. I ended up in the back of the maze where it was too dark to see much of anything. I found a hard muscled guy in the dark who pressed down on my shoulders. I knelt and took him into my mouth. I am sorry I couldn't see it because this was one of the biggest cocks I have ever touched. It was at least 10x8. He deflected everyone else who tried to join in. Eventually he moved me back into the deepest corner of the maze and bent me over. He was forceful but gentle and gave me a good fuck and a hot load. Very tasty too as I found out when I cleaned him off. I wandered back towards the sling area and found it deserted, so I climbed in and waited. A few guys came by and felt me up. A couple of them actually dipped their cock in me briefly. A hot top came by and pulled his hard cock out of a Nasty Pig jock. He asked, "How manny loads so far?" As he fingered my sloppy hole and then slipped inside. I told him two; he said I had to do better than that if I wanted his. Hot! I took a break after the sling area filled up since no one could get to my ass. I ran into my man in the TV area. We swapped stories and headed back into the maze. The sling was vacant again, doing climbed in. He fucked my cummy hole a bit until a crowd gathered. He then picked out a couple of guys to fuck me. I got a couple of more loads that way which really turned my husband on.

Yeah, my hole is what I meant. One finger typing on an iPad can be a bitch.

We are in Dallas for the Texas Bear Round Up. We went on a group excursion to the bathhouse (Club Dallas). I showered off, lubed my hole in my room, and headed to the maze. I had a few gropes with guys and eventually started watching a hot, black top with a big, thick cock (at least 8x6) getting head. The bottom would shy away any time the top went for his ass, so he eventually lost interest. I reached out and grabbed to top's cock. I let him know my ass was available and invited him back to my room. Once there I sat on the bed and sucked that beautiful prick into my mouth. I took him all te way to the root, but as his cock got fully hard it was more than I could swallow. He was pinching my tits and fingering my ass. Soon he lifted me up, turned me around, and bent me over. With steady pressure he slid his huge meat slowly up my ass which hurt quite a bit. He pulled out and applied more lube while I took a big hit of poppers. Then he began to pound my ass long, deep and hard. He stopped a couple of times to adjust my position because he was slamming into me so hard that I kept sliding forward. Then I realized I could brace myself against the wall and stay where he wanted me. All the while he was pounding me relentlessly. After several minutes he hilted himself and let go inside me filling me with a huge load. Afterwards we were chatting for a minute and realized we had already spoken to each other on A4A. We had been planning a hook up this weekend. We had a laugh about that and made plans for him to tag team my ass with my husband later this weekend.

I love hairy. I like smooth, too. I just don't care for stubbly.

I cleaned off the top's cock today at the baths. He had fucked me HARD with that big, thick cock, and it was a tiny bit dirty. That was my fault though, so I took care of it. I spent a long time cleaning out, too. Some days your hoe just doesn't want to get completely clean.

I love BBC. The only time I have turned one down was the second time I tried to take the biggest cock I have ever seen (at least 12" and thick). The first time he fucked me I was so turned on that I was able to take it. The second time I just couldn't relax enough. I could have one it if either of us had had poppers.

The site is tbru.org There are plenty of bear chasers there.

I just can't imagine asking a man to pull out once he was in me bare. When I first started barebacking, I had a couple of tense conversations over whether or not to use a rubber (I always gave in and took it raw). Once he had it in me skin-to-skin, I always knew I was eating the load.

My sister was pretty tame when she was single because she never wanted to get knocked up. My family think of my little brother as a big whore, but I know I have more partners in a bad year than he's had in his whole life. So I guess I am the only one.

Lost my virginity in college - never use a rubber there. When I moved to Austin for grad school in 85, I bought into the condom message hardcore. Around 92, a trick talked me into bareback. Then I had a few months of really hot, raw sex before I moved back to Louisiana for my first job. The condom hysteria was just getting big in the small town where I live when I got here. I spent about 6 years using condoms most of the time but was slowly drifting back into bareback. I have been condom free since around 98 or 99. I really regret the second condom period in my sex life. Most of the guys I fucked with then would have been happy to go bare; neither one of us wanted to be the one to suggest it though. As soon as I started offering/asking for it, everyone was happy to do it.

My recommendation would be to enjoy taking loads without actively chasing. I have been taking loads for 10 of the last 15 years (5 year hiatus when my partner and I first met and were monogamous - I was taking loads but only from him), and I am still negative. It could happen that way for you, too.

If you turn out neg and then find yourself taking loads again in a few weeks or months, don't beat yourself up. It's very hard to put the genii of anonymous bareback back in the bottle. When I met my current partner, we decided to be monogamous at first and got tested several times. (Which is not to say we weren't barebacking all along; we just wanted to know our statuses). After a few years we decided to open our marriage, and neither of us could see going back to condom sex. After 5 years of being confirmed negative, I was happily taking stranger's loads again.