NYBBGUY58
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There is nothing better than people enjoying one other's bodies, giving freely of sensuality and friendship and everything that, er, uh, "comes" with it...
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Pretty much whatever the top wants, but I guess each has their own appeal: 1. On my stomach makes me feel dominated! 2. Doggie style lets me reach back and play with the top's balls and t'aint; depending on size and my state of limberness, his ass crack...😍 3. Missionary (a.k.a., "on back legs in the air") allows me to reach the balls, the t'aint and the ass crack. Drove one guy crazy while he fucked me (saying he had girlfriends that were pretty and he liked fucking them, but that none of them knew to touch his ass like I did...🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵)
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Why can't I stop barebacking?
NYBBGUY58 replied to Usedbottom's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I think it's a very personal decision on every level. I would agree with others who say get on PreP, even if you have to go to the nearest large city to get a prescription and then have it delivered via mail order. Still, that doesn't prevent any of the other common STDs. Ironically during my youth (from the time I took my first cock until pre 1984-ish for me) I didn't "play safe," it wasn't even a THING, and I never got an STD. In the past few years as a 60-something year old I've had gonorrhea 3 or 4 times. It always feels so embarrassing, but I'm willing to pay that price. I really don't think there's anything wrong with your enjoying BB sex, I would just urge you to find a way to protect yourself that doesn't involve condoms. -
Okay, here to chime in with the bottom's viewpoint, I have come to love my lube injector. Yes that's a thing! I'm tight, and it just makes the experience much more pleasurable for all concerned. And then if you add a couple of loads...💦💦💦...I'm overflowing.
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Not precisely, but an undercover transit cop in the NY subway caught me taking pictures and filming his undercover cop partner's ass. He was NOT amused, and seemed to want to arrest me. I wouldn't have been in "real" trouble since I was in a public space - a subway platform is the DEFINITION of public - and I didn't include the guy's face, so there wasn't any explicit harm to the subject of my photos. The cop accused me of "following women up the stairs" (🤣) to which I replied "Nope. Just men." He looked revolted by that admission. I was on my way to work, so it was going to be a hassle and I was, honestly, terrified that he'd make my life hell just because he felt like being mean. So I confessed to "having a kink" and promised to never, ever do it again. Yeah...right. He didn't believe me, though I abstained for a few months. My honest opinion is that the guy was being a homophobic asshole. No one was injured, there was no way to identify whose ass it was and there were no charges that would have stuck. But it would have been embarrassing. See image:
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I'm fine with whatever the top likes. If it turns him on to say "I'm going to fuck that hot pussy," fine. I have a fuck buddy who gets incredibly excited with impregnation fantasies, so when I said to him "I want a little boy just like you," he shot up inside of me. He can get into the whole ass is a pussy thing. Others prefer hot hole or hot ass, or I'm going to breed your butt. It's all good...
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What annoys you most about gay porn.
NYBBGUY58 replied to Barebackpiggy's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Many things: eons of footage with the top thrusting away while grunting inarticulately; camera angles that make for a good shot but really aren't all that sexy; cumshots unduly delayed; external cumshots where the top doesn't even put his dick back in to fuck in some of the load; but above all, whiny bottoms (yes, I'm pretty exclusively a bottom) who incessantly moan "Oh yeah, baby, give it to me, uh-huh..." ad nauseum, mostly because the tops are disengaged, not interacting and can only perform with the aid of Trimix. True connection in porn is so rare... -
I've been with guys who don't, or at least it tends to make them lose their erection. I love both rimming and being rimmed, though love rimming just a little bit more - having a top man order me to eat his ass drives me NUTS! In a good way, of course.
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I have had herpes before - usually right on the tailbone, though. And every test reveals it's the "oral" strain, for whatever that's worth. Actually, the physician's assistant at my colo-rectal surgeon posited that it went the other way around, I got the strep (throat, too) and that created the conditions for herpes. No real way to know, though. I've had a combination before, but that was MRSA and herpes many years ago. What I meant by "what are the odds" was on how closely it mimicked Monkeypox right at the moment where there's an ongoing spate of cases. (Is it an epidemic yet?) The physician's assistant wasn't 100% sure, but we were going with the assumption that it was likely. However, after contacting the guys who I'd had sex with none of them had any problems at all. It was certainly puzzling - an "immaculate infection?"
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I ended up not having it, but even my ersatz case (a combination of herpes and strep - what are the odds?) it was miserably uncomfortable.
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There are as many answers as there are guys who take dick up the butt! I say to each their own - whatever works. In my case, I've had treatment for prostate cancer which has rendered me impotent and cumming sometimes takes a while. Plus the older I get, the harder it is to cum after being fucked, forget while being fucked. In my more verse days, some guys wanted to cum with my dick still in them, others not at all - at least not as far as I was privy to.
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I actually was fucked many years ago by the late, great Jon Vincent and have taken Tommy Deluca's huge dick, as well as Kevin Slater's. But to the present: I'd love to fuck Valentin Amour, Topher Drew and Drew Park among others. I'd love to be fucked by Austin Wolf, Nick Capra, Esteban (even though he'd split me into little pieces), Chase Coxxx, Elio Knight and Seth Knight. I'm sure there are others I'm forgetting...😘
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False alarm...herpes + strep. Sigh...I got results in two days, though, so that's not bad.
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It's extreemely likely that I have Monkeypox - I'm waiting for definitive test results. It isn't life-threatening as far as I know, but it is MISERABLE, at least in my case. So while I understand that there are those who feel in the wake of COVID that this "no biggie," (and/or that COVID is "no biggie") it's not something I would want anyone to have to experience. If you can get a vaccine, I strongly suggest you do. Take care, y'all!
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Do You Discuss HIV Status Before Barebacking?
NYBBGUY58 replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I don't know if I've commented on this before, my answer is yes. I don't really do anonymous sex, and if there's any chance that sex is in the offing I always disclose that I'm positive undetectable right away. That way if it's a deal breaker as little time is wasted as possible, and fewer feelings are bruised. -
Agreed!
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Due to aging and other physical issues, I'm pretty much limited to bottoming. Within that, my tastes are pretty broad, but I realized there's one thing that's incredibly sexy: show up when we've planned a date and I'VE SPENT AN EFFING 45 MINUTES PREPPING! Getting stood up is a real turn-off. Oh, how things change once you're over 50.
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“Broke Straight Boys” - Do You Believe It Even Slightly?
NYBBGUY58 replied to ErosWired's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
When it comes to sexuality in the present day, shades of gray (notwithstanding the success of the book) aren't really tolerated. We're slotted into pigeonholes that are inviolable, and anything that doesn't fit is cause for "refiling." So, I've read that the attitude in the Navy (at least at one point) was, if it ain't in the pier than it ain't queer, because you'd have guys at sea for months on end and stuff happens. But then even that is categorized as "situational homosexuality", same is true of prisons. Sexuality is a lot more fluid than many are comfortable with, hence the uproar in some circles over transsexuals. One of my favorite fuck buddies describes himself as pansexual, spent a time identifying as gay, then bisexual, but consistently tops. He's a FABULOUS top, very attuned to his partners. Lately he's been exploring a more sexually fluid presentation, wearing some women's clothing and painting his nails, letting his hair grow after years of cultivating a hyper-masculine look. I personally find it quite attractive, and if anything it's allowed him to be even less inhibited. As you point out, one plant-based meal does not a vegan make. I'm all in favor of people exploring what they find enticing, and being allowed to change their minds about that. Less rigidity (yeah, yeah, I like hard cock, ha-ha) and more acceptance would be beneficial to the world. -
“Broke Straight Boys” - Do You Believe It Even Slightly?
NYBBGUY58 replied to ErosWired's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I went to grade school with the 80s/90s porn star Daniel Holt (R.I.P.), who died in 1993 of drug abuse and HIV... -
“Broke Straight Boys” - Do You Believe It Even Slightly?
NYBBGUY58 replied to ErosWired's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I think we all respond to different things. It depends on my mood - sometimes porn puts me to sleep, other times revs me up. Usually writing sex scenes will get me excited though... -
“Broke Straight Boys” - Do You Believe It Even Slightly?
NYBBGUY58 replied to ErosWired's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I've seen that with gay porn stars, too...but there are "straight" boy videos where no one gets hard. They're not what you'd call stimulating... -
“Broke Straight Boys” - Do You Believe It Even Slightly?
NYBBGUY58 replied to ErosWired's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I've never believed that the guys were completely (or even partly) straight on that site or most of the other similar ones, e.g., Bait Bus or New York Straight Men (a couple of guys I met who were/are emphatically gay told me they had made videos for the latter site). Personally, past a certain point (e.g., fantasizing about a particular uncle, some cousins or my childhood psychiatrist 🤣), straight men don't interest me. Probably because I sense no interest from them, which is really not conducive to feeling sexy or sexual or sensual. My gaydar isn't infallible, no one's is, but if there's no spark and I'm going to have to chase a man...forget about it. In NYC my friends and I have been known to say "Never, ever run after a cab, a bus, a train or a man. There's always another one coming along." -
I don't know if I can separate the elements clearly. The craving manifests as a combination of traditional male arousal in the dick (though due to prostate cancer I don't get hard anymore) and an ache (for lack of a better word) in the ass. I love serving a man, and having him use me, love pleasing him and concentrating on his pleasure is fulfilling. I also want the load and it becomes a kind of competition, where he's often trying to hold out to fuck longer and I do everything I can to get the top to loose control: from intense foreplay (body worship, dick sucking, ball licking and especially ass eating) to squeezing the dick with my ass (still tight at age 63), depending on the guy and the position maybe stroking his balls and if I can reach it his ass. I love the orgasm, feeling his pulse race, his breathing speed up and depending on the guy some kind of shout or groan. In general, I love verbal men who tell me how they're feeling and tell me what to do to get them hard, hot, and then shoot their load(s) inside me. That description is the best I can do. Whether that explains anything is another question. Yes, I certainly enjoy all the things I mentioned, but many others would not. It's like trying to explain why I like the taste of black coffee or tea unsweetened, dark chocolate with as little sugar as possible, sharp cheddar, dill pickles, the colors blue and green, the scent of citrus oils and roses, the feel of silk or really fine wool, etc. I like them because I like them, who knows what ordering of neurons and nerves makes me find those particular things pleasurable? I distinctly do NOT like caramel or white chocolate or coffee loaded with milk and sugar (exception granted for the rare Mocha Frappuccino from Starbucks), weak tea with sugar and overly sweet scents. But many others love them, and that's fine. I doubt anyone can explain subjective tastes.
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Did you fuck the 1st time you visited a bathhouse/sex club?
NYBBGUY58 replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
You mean the Pacific Northwest is MORE repressed than the Midwest? Wow. 🤯 I grew up in St. Louis, MO which was theoretically an urban center, but I personally found the gay scene pretty repressed. -
Did you fuck the 1st time you visited a bathhouse/sex club?
NYBBGUY58 replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Bathhouses like anyplace else have a vibe. In NYC before HIV hit, Club Baths was a lot less stuffy than St. Marks Baths. The latter was like being in a "stand and pose" bar. BORING. I've never had luck at sex parties, myself in NYC. I'm not a group-sex in the open kind of boy, basically I'm a bashful boy from the Midwest underneath it all.
