LetsPOZBreed
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Speaking as a bottom who's done this, it's not because I'm being rude - it's just flat out painful, and I want it to stop. This is why I don't want my cock being touched when I'm being fucked.
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A few things for me - a well chosen pair of underwear on a guy. I'm not saying he has to go all out flashy and whatnot; just something that fits well, has good shape and colour, and accentuates what he has on both sides - however big or small he is. It's an invitation for me to admire, and appreciate. - fresh (not stale) musk on a guy for a play session. Especially armpits and between the balls and thigh. Good release of pheremones to get me going. - a lost art in the age of anonymous and cumpdumping scenes, but being able to hold good eye contact during a play session. - a good memory of small things that turned me on in past sessions, if the guy is a regular. Could be any of the things above, or maybe a small bit about the actual sex itself (a particular stroke, a particular verbal phrase, etc.). I feel a guy that pays attention to these small things is a much better sex partner than any guy I'd find elsewhere.
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Any bottom that goes into these scenes feels this way. If any cumdump bottom says otherwise, they are flat out lying. I always feel a level of anxiety when I arrive; not knowing if I'm good enough for the crowd there that evening. If it's a slow night, that anxiety doesn't go away.
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Pump right away after sticking it in or allow time?
LetsPOZBreed replied to miticax's topic in General Discussion
There's a bit of nuance involved. Personal preference is that I prefer to start off slow in taking my top - it's a necessity if it's been a while and I'm really tight. The idea is to read the room, so it's up to my partner and I to give signals and clues about when to speed up or slow down. Also, never take what you watch in porn at face-value. What you see in the final product is nowhere near the amount of preparation that goes into a session. There's also plenty that goes onto the cutting room floow as well (talking mostly about the professional vids, of course). -
I've been away moving flats, but finally getting back around to this. I'm going to comment and add my 2p on the ones above - thank you @AirmaxUK for the post and additional points. Cash master = a glorified fetish word for a profession that begins with E and end with a T where the "scor" in the middle (sorry to the moderators here, but needed to spell this one out). Believe it or not, I've some around on the dog masks. I had an albeit mild playsession with a guy who really showed me the basics of pup play. It was one of the most loving and empowering experiences I've had. So, don't knock it til you tried it here... Yeah, I used to get much more action at group parties when being a barebacker was a differentiator. Now I feel like I'm in competition - and it's not easy doing that in my 40's now. It's a shame; part of me wishes I had PrEP back in my 20's, but c'est la vie... I have to wonder about that cumdump hotel, though...Just today I saw two ads for "cumdump" bottoms where the number of accepted attendees was well north of 50 each. I suspect there is quite a bit of overlap in lists there, but I also wonder how many of them actually turn up and what experiences those respective bottoms had. I'm willing to bank that at least one of them was seriously disappointed.
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Agreed on all the points from the OP... I don't think the first bit about doing what we see in porn is anything new. We've all tried that over the decades, although the relative ease with which one can access porn nowadays is something I was never able to take advantage of as a young gay teenager. If more guys are into piss play, that's fine by me....expands the available pool when the mood to do that strikes me 🙂 @drscorpio pretty much summed it up on the bareback part. Even younger guys with the awareness of HIV/AIDS now see those of us affected as having a long-term affliction that doesn't really "show". Some even fantasize about the poz play of it all, knowing that their PrEP and my UD VL isn't going to result in any actual transmission. For the part about the rough blowjobs...for the love of God, this one annoys the fuck out of me. When I was still a semi-regular at the saunas, this was happening more and more. Personally, I find this off-putting as I like to let my guy sit back and let me do the work. My one-off sauna experience recently had an instance of this as well - I don't care how hot the guy was and how nice and big his dick was, the moment he started doing that, I was done with him. I'd add a few to this list also: a. Guys who stay on thier phone apps while a hookup is in-progress. Or stopping mid-fuck the answer the push notification(s). b. Asking me if I can bring along top mates to fuck them. c. Popper-baitors. Those guys (usually self-proclaimed top/top-vers/vers) who you find at the cruise spots or saunas that take big hits of poppers, then can't get/stay hard enough to acutally fuck me. d. Almost the opposite of the abive - the marathon fuckers. those who are either thinking too much about cumming - so they can't. Or those guys who edge themselves too much to the point where they ruin the chances of actually cumming.
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A beginner's guide to setting up an anon pump n dump
LetsPOZBreed replied to rock-cock-jock's topic in General Discussion
This reminds me of a funny story that happened after I first moved to London. I met up with a guy to fuck him as one of his many tops for the day. I squirted the lube in the mostly dark room, then went to stroke my cock and couldn't feel the lube that I'd squirt. So I'd put more and got the job done from there _ I was mostly anchored in place and didn't notice anything else out of the ordinary. As I'm leaving to start the walk back home, I felt that my feet were starting to slip in my flip-flops and realised where some of that lube had gone. Was probably the slowest I'd walked in my entire life. -
POLL: How many guys have YOU FUCKED or have FUCKED YOU in ONE DAY?
LetsPOZBreed replied to a topic in General Discussion
Would have been my last Berlin trop in 2017 for Folsom. Hit the jackpot on naked night at Lab, and I was fucked by between 15-20 men. Not as many loads, unfortunately, but was still the most active night of my life. -
Were you born a bottom? Or made one?
LetsPOZBreed replied to blackfeeder's topic in General Discussion
I actually didn't really enjoy bottoming when I started having sex with other men. My first time was okay - it hurt, not outright painful. Back then, I thought topping suited me more - could get hard just by feeling a gentle breeze on my crotch and was good for multiple rounds. Plus, if I was fucking a bottom around my age (late teens to early 20's) I loved when they were a bit of a squealer - and still do - so the natural noises of a guy taking my dick just made me love it that much more. I didn't really discover enjoying being a bottom until I got fucked bareback the first time. Mainly due to risk-reduction in the days before PrEP, I just didn't go for bottoming unless it was a guy I knew well enough to feel comfortable barebacking with. After a few years, I made the decision to go strictly bareback in either position, and that made me lean toward bottoming more over time. -
I'm upfront with any potential fuckbuds (I don't have one at the moment) that there's always a possibility of me having others. If his preference is that I'm not pre-loaded for him, then I'm willing to make that agreement. I fully understand that not all guys who top are into sloppy holes - personally, I prefer any guy who bottoms for me not be pre-loaded either, so I fully understand where these tops are coming from. At a cruise bar or sauna, I just expect that any bottom I fuck is likely pre-loaded; equally, any guy who fucks me needs to accept the same (they are welcome to ask me, and I'll be honest with them - they can take that answer however they wish). If a guy wants to be proper territorial with me, though, that's not okay unless we're in a committed long-term romantic relationship. Anything short of that, and it's just not the kind of arrangement that I'm willing to consent to.
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I've been to Berlin a few times, and this is the one place where I'd strongly recommend taking the trip solo. You'll want to slut it up and don't want the worry of trying to negotiate with friends about what you end up doing and where you end up going. I'd say to try and pick a hotel around Schoeneberg (might be spelling that wrong) which is the gay area. Lots of opportunities for cruising and whatnot around there, and easy access to the gay bars. I've found Berlin to be a safe city overall - even when I was leaving the play parties during Folson at 3, 4, 5 a.m., no one was really bothering me while walking back to where I was going. I'm sure it's like most other major cities anywhere, really - don't do anything stupid to call attention to yourself, and you should be fine. Most of all enjoy, and feel free to tell us about your experience. I really do think it's the best city for some good action.
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"Need to Breed" at Bunker Bar - Saturday 4/2/23
LetsPOZBreed replied to Screwtop's topic in London Metro Area
I'll have to give this one a miss due to other commitments. But I'd consider the next one. Also intrigued by the mask ball (think that's 2nd Sunday of every month?)...if anyone's been to that one, I'd love to hear about the experience. -
I've done it when I was on top once. We'd been out and had a quite a bit of wine. The sex was good, but the cum just wasn't coming...so I had to improvise.
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Not gonna lie, a quick way to get my hole to open up is to call me a "good boy". Sure, I'm in my 40's now, but that just puts me so at ease with a top and it just helps me melt into him that much more.
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Yeah, definitely cum with emphasis, but don't fake it too much. That's just as annoying. I also prefer the more primal aspect of it. During ejaculation, I'm not really much for verbal....that has a place before ejaculation, but not in the moment. If my face is looking away (either being positioned doggie style or blindfolded) then defintely put some emphasis on it - if the top isn't particularly loud, then at least a few hard pumps in would be a good cue. Or slow down to the point of letting me feel the pulsating cock emptying inside me. Personally, when I top, I can't help but be a grunty cummer. Not by choice, it just happens...same way my bottoming makes me reflexively moan and squeal when getting railed. How grunty depends on the intensity of my cum, but there's almost always something to it. In a way, though, this is another reason I prefer looking into my top's eyes and face while he's fucking me. I had a quiet cummer fuck me a few years ago where I could see the change in his facial expressions right before things "finished" and that was really my only cue. I tend to pay attention to many different cues during a session for this very reason - if it's my first experience with a guy, I don't yet know his orgasm technique, so I pay attention to everything. If it's someone I've played with before, though, the fact that I know the cues turns me on more, as I know when the time has come.
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Also for "why" some bottoms feel the need to do this? (Sorry, wasn't able to edit my original post to add this)... A large part of it may be jealousy. As @ErosWired said in the original post regarding his experience....that one bottom said it was "MY load", and think they're entitled to it - regardless of where that load was put. When you're in a place where bottoming for loads is highly competitive, then you get these bottoms who seem way too interested by who their target top is fucking (if/when they aren't fucking THEM). I actually don't think it's as simple as liking the act of ass-to-mouth loads. Sure, some guys have a fetish for that sort of thing, but doesn't sound like that applies in this specific scenario.
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When I've done the group sex and cruisy things in the past, I've had this happen. You can tell...the ones that seem to follow you around the place watching you get railed just waiting to watch some top let out his glorious seed inside me. In those instances, when my top is finished, I get up and walk around a bit; don't leave myself just there and open myself up to that sort of travesty. It's not a foolproof thing to do, but find I've not had this actually happen to me very often.
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What awakened your sexuality in your early years.
LetsPOZBreed replied to a topic in General Discussion
Seeing the (adult) male models on the underwear packages in the shops. I've always had a fascination with men dressed in only undewear, and that was prob the earlist I can remember being in admiration of the male physique. -
What kind of man is this? A man who truly owns up to his sexual power, and we certainly need more of those out there. It's not a scene I do any longer, but am not ashamed of having done this in the past. And I certainly don't take anything away from anyone who does it now - even if I'm not participating. As long as you're approaching this from a healthy place mentally, by all means, be our guest. Any haters out there are probably jealous of the fact that they secretly love the idea but are too repressed to own up to it.
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I'm certainly wouldn't do it for an anon scene (although I'm not really doing those anymore anyway). I've had far too many instances of guys doing it where all I feel is fingernails or something else uncomfortable. So, I reserve this for guys I know more intimately...good enough to know their own personal hygiene at least. I know when it's done to me right, it does feel good for me; however, I know that's a bit of personal preference on my part.
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You and I are on a similar wavelength on this. My recent sauna visit aside, it's not the kind of place where I expect to find the kind of good connection that I want (or, quite frankly, NEED) these days. Doesn't mean it couldn't happen, just not statistically likely. When it comes to those deeper connection moments, I have a very open mind on how I determine what I'm interested in doing. Top/bottom/vers no longer matters in those situations. Ideally, I'd prefer some level of versatility so that we can both experience each other in the fullest possible way. In those connections, the actual mechanics of the sex are largely unimportant...just let the vibe dictate what happens and see where it goes.
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So, admission....I went to one of the London saunas last night for the first time in about 4 years. I was nervous, and wasn't sure if I'd find anything; just didn't want to stay home either. It actually turned out to be a good night. I went to the one in London where it tends to skew older, but I kinda like that sort of thing - tends to be less pretentious there. Was a good crowd when I got there and actually got fucked really well by one guy. I didn't cruise naked either - had a jockstrap on (obivous sign I was looking to bottom). Didn't really have an issue with some guy wanting to pull my cock out, which has happened in the past, nor was there much in the way of any "competitive bottoms". Might have just picked a good night - or maybe it's because I looked like fresh meat after not having been for a long time.
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Cocksucking- what's your count, did you get an STI?
LetsPOZBreed replied to SometimesKatie's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
Definitely in the hundreds as I was a big cock hound back in uni. And I would always want to swallow my guys cum as well. Never got any STI's from any of that - didn't really catch anything to that effect until I became a full-on barebacker. -
I left that part out, but yeah....the obvious guys that are clearly off their tits are a big reason I don't top more either. Also, my topping 20's years were before iPhones and Grindr, et al, so there wasn't even the plausibility of phone-scrolling whilst fucking.
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Why are flip orgies so hard to find
LetsPOZBreed replied to muscmtl's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Yes and no here. You're right to a degree, but even these saunas have their good and bad nights (I can vouch for a few cities in the US and Europe here). Some nights I'd do and I'd practically be getting fucked like crazy. Other nights I'd see a nice round ass and be all up in it for most of the night. It was on the very odd occasion where I'd do both in one night - but in those cases, I'd be conscious of cumming too early in the evening - I'd be too tight to take more, and would need recouperation time (in my younger days) to work up for round 2.
