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  1. LetsPOZBreed
    I'll agree with this statement. I've seen guys at the sauna who just genuinely look unapproachable; and they are typically just wandering around or sitting watching the porn on TV - rarely interacting with the others.
  2. LetsPOZBreed
    Well, not having seen you at the sauna, I can't comment on your body language. But, yeah, I've had this happen to me as well. There are top guys (or those that are willing to top) that are looking for the next best hole. You see them, introduce yourself to try to get things going; then, I see their eyes darting around looking everywhere else. It's why I prefer not to suggest meeting a guy from the apps at the saunas. If we run into each other and play, great; I'm not going to get my hopes up, though. If I focus too much on who I plan to see and play with going in, it would take away from the other actual encounters that I might have...some of which may well turn out to be far hotter.
  3. LetsPOZBreed
    Depending on the app, I'm pretty sure that some are just messaging you based on the photo(s) alone. The text is almost irrelevant at that point. I respond best to guys who message me referencing something I've written in the profile - lets me know that it's gone through at least a cursory perusal. Similarly, as someone who does read profiles, I try and do the same when sending a first message. The flip side to this is that I've done that, only to be met with a sense of bewilderment; the guy doesn't even remember his own profile text, and the moment just dies right then and there.
  4. LetsPOZBreed
    I've certainly had some first-timers try it with me before. Some clearly enjoyed it far less than others. I usually only do piss play these days when I go to S.O.P (where it's blatanly obvious what we're all there for). If I do it in the privacy of my own home - or his home - then it'll have to be a guy I know well enough beforehand.
  5. LetsPOZBreed
    I've never been into ABDL (still not), but I've always had a fascination of pissing in underwear. Can't really explain why. Also, because this isn't the watersports forum, I'll just leave it at that. The poz talk fetish only became a thing after I was actually poz. It's never been about actually infecting anyone, or getting personally infected. Just one of those liberating things that I found out about after the fact.
  6. LetsPOZBreed
    Oh my God, yes!!!! Not really sure what it is about oral either, but this has to be the biggest chunk of bragging. Personally, it's not that I don't like receiving head; it's just that many guys can't do it the way I like it. I'm not into the "hoover mouths" that take the phrase sucking dick far to literal. I've had other guys who say they like to "go slow" in fact go so incredibly slow that it just doesn't feel like anything. Worst experience getting sucked though had to be my first ever receiving of head - after about five half-arsed bobs on my cock, he looks up at me and asks "you close?" I politely said no...then after a few more similarly disappointing bobs, the same thing again. Clearly far too focused on wanting me to cum, but not having the technique to get me there - and he was one of those who bragged about his skills, which is why I agreed to it in the first place.
  7. LetsPOZBreed
    It's a balance. There's boasting, and then there's confidence. By the same token, there's understated, and then there's zero confidence. Personally, I find boastful guys to not be good at the thing they've boasted about - that's probably my own experience, but there ya go. Honestly, I might enjoy certain acts and think I'm good at them, broadly speaking. But a large part behind those great experiences was the other guy in the room doing those things with me. I've been told my ass feels silky and welcoming before - by a guy who fucked me appropriately; another guy who wanted to just jackhammer into me without lube would very likely disagree with that statement. This is why I've tried to avoid overtalking about my sexual techniques when chatting on apps. I might give a general idea of what I'm into (i.e. oral, anal, snogging, etc.), but will always put into conversation that every connection is different and we should try it in person.
  8. LetsPOZBreed
    That's probably just co-incidence. Again, the colour code only makes sense if you're attending a venue where it's meaning is almost universally understood. Besides, a shirt wouldn't really signify top/bottom in the way a hanky or armband woutl (left = top, right = bottom).
  9. LetsPOZBreed
    To be fair, since this incident years ago, I've become a bit more discerning about the environment. If I get the sense that red=FF would be a reasonable expectation, I go without them...I've since worn my red trunks (my favourite pair) to underwear nights without issue.
  10. LetsPOZBreed
    When I've seen the code used, it's not anywhere near as complicated as the original post (but have seen that list before). Most fetish gear shops nowadays have very limited colours to select from - white, black, blue, red, yellow, and green. I've worn wristbands with my colours before; depending on the venue and crowd, some just don't "get it" - I've had other bottoms try to whip my cock out when my blue band is clearly on the right side. I've also nearly worn a red jockstrap to an underwear night - before my friend told me it was code for fisting (a hard limit of mine). I'd say that if you're going to a proper fetish club or event, then the code is fine, so long as you stick to the basic colours.
  11. LetsPOZBreed
    Few nights ago. This guy and I were chatting off and on for the last few weeks after I moved into a new neighbourhood. Finally ended up getting together. Nothing overly complicated; just back to basics - a good old fashioned intimate encounter. Just really took it slow and let things happen. Ended up fucking me for a few minutes, then we stopped for a bit. Started again for a while, then stopped again. Went on a few more times until finally getting his (very intense) load. Was great to just have sex, really...not rushing one another or anything like that. Very little verbal was involved, but there was the odd moment of him telling me how sexy I was - it was the biggest turn-on for me and one of the best things about the whole experience.
  12. LetsPOZBreed
    There is such a thing as "gay for pay", so I do believe that some of them are only doing the man-on-man action for the cash. Not all of them, though.
  13. LetsPOZBreed
    My view on fetishes - to the point where this is now on my Recon profile - is, "my life doesn't revolve around sex; my sex doesn't revolve around fetishes" I enjoy my fetishes and kinks, but a big part of that is the fact that I don't do them in every session. I don't really WANT to do them in every session. As far as the poz/gifting fetish goes, despite my profile name on here, I'm not going to do any poz verbal with a guy who's not into it - it's the kind of role play that has to be discussed ahead of time, and I'll only do it nowdays with other poz guys. When I've had my bbrt name as this in the past, I've had guys message me saying how hot it is (which I appreciate the compliment), but it's funny how quickly they lose interest after I get really upfront that it's just role playing - or I ask them about their own sexual health and STI's only to get the response of "I don't really know/care". Well...I care. Having HIV, even being undetectable, isn't fun. Neither are the inconveniences of contracting other STI's. Yes, there's always a risk in bareback play; yes, I accept those risks when I let a raw dick inside me. But I'm not really interested in playing with another guy who clearly acts so callous around this sort of stuff.
  14. LetsPOZBreed
    I've seen this ad, and I wondered the same - the number is markedly higher now (up to 70). If I read through the attendee listing of who's been accepted, there are a number of guys on there who are unabashed bottom cumdumps themselves. I feel Mr. Host-man has fallen into the trap of inviting anyone that asks and even with a good turnout rate might find that other bottoms are getting fucked in his space. I really want to talk to this guy afterwards to see what happens. If the guy is on here reading this - message me...I'm curious 😄
  15. LetsPOZBreed
    Speaking as a bottom who's done this, it's not because I'm being rude - it's just flat out painful, and I want it to stop. This is why I don't want my cock being touched when I'm being fucked.
  16. LetsPOZBreed
    A few things for me - a well chosen pair of underwear on a guy. I'm not saying he has to go all out flashy and whatnot; just something that fits well, has good shape and colour, and accentuates what he has on both sides - however big or small he is. It's an invitation for me to admire, and appreciate. - fresh (not stale) musk on a guy for a play session. Especially armpits and between the balls and thigh. Good release of pheremones to get me going. - a lost art in the age of anonymous and cumpdumping scenes, but being able to hold good eye contact during a play session. - a good memory of small things that turned me on in past sessions, if the guy is a regular. Could be any of the things above, or maybe a small bit about the actual sex itself (a particular stroke, a particular verbal phrase, etc.). I feel a guy that pays attention to these small things is a much better sex partner than any guy I'd find elsewhere.
  17. LetsPOZBreed
    Any bottom that goes into these scenes feels this way. If any cumdump bottom says otherwise, they are flat out lying. I always feel a level of anxiety when I arrive; not knowing if I'm good enough for the crowd there that evening. If it's a slow night, that anxiety doesn't go away.
  18. LetsPOZBreed
    There's a bit of nuance involved. Personal preference is that I prefer to start off slow in taking my top - it's a necessity if it's been a while and I'm really tight. The idea is to read the room, so it's up to my partner and I to give signals and clues about when to speed up or slow down. Also, never take what you watch in porn at face-value. What you see in the final product is nowhere near the amount of preparation that goes into a session. There's also plenty that goes onto the cutting room floow as well (talking mostly about the professional vids, of course).
  19. LetsPOZBreed
    I've been away moving flats, but finally getting back around to this. I'm going to comment and add my 2p on the ones above - thank you @AirmaxUK for the post and additional points. Cash master = a glorified fetish word for a profession that begins with E and end with a T where the "scor" in the middle (sorry to the moderators here, but needed to spell this one out). Believe it or not, I've some around on the dog masks. I had an albeit mild playsession with a guy who really showed me the basics of pup play. It was one of the most loving and empowering experiences I've had. So, don't knock it til you tried it here... Yeah, I used to get much more action at group parties when being a barebacker was a differentiator. Now I feel like I'm in competition - and it's not easy doing that in my 40's now. It's a shame; part of me wishes I had PrEP back in my 20's, but c'est la vie... I have to wonder about that cumdump hotel, though...Just today I saw two ads for "cumdump" bottoms where the number of accepted attendees was well north of 50 each. I suspect there is quite a bit of overlap in lists there, but I also wonder how many of them actually turn up and what experiences those respective bottoms had. I'm willing to bank that at least one of them was seriously disappointed.
  20. LetsPOZBreed
    Agreed on all the points from the OP... I don't think the first bit about doing what we see in porn is anything new. We've all tried that over the decades, although the relative ease with which one can access porn nowadays is something I was never able to take advantage of as a young gay teenager. If more guys are into piss play, that's fine by me....expands the available pool when the mood to do that strikes me 🙂 @drscorpio pretty much summed it up on the bareback part. Even younger guys with the awareness of HIV/AIDS now see those of us affected as having a long-term affliction that doesn't really "show". Some even fantasize about the poz play of it all, knowing that their PrEP and my UD VL isn't going to result in any actual transmission. For the part about the rough blowjobs...for the love of God, this one annoys the fuck out of me. When I was still a semi-regular at the saunas, this was happening more and more. Personally, I find this off-putting as I like to let my guy sit back and let me do the work. My one-off sauna experience recently had an instance of this as well - I don't care how hot the guy was and how nice and big his dick was, the moment he started doing that, I was done with him. I'd add a few to this list also: a. Guys who stay on thier phone apps while a hookup is in-progress. Or stopping mid-fuck the answer the push notification(s). b. Asking me if I can bring along top mates to fuck them. c. Popper-baitors. Those guys (usually self-proclaimed top/top-vers/vers) who you find at the cruise spots or saunas that take big hits of poppers, then can't get/stay hard enough to acutally fuck me. d. Almost the opposite of the abive - the marathon fuckers. those who are either thinking too much about cumming - so they can't. Or those guys who edge themselves too much to the point where they ruin the chances of actually cumming.
  21. LetsPOZBreed
    This reminds me of a funny story that happened after I first moved to London. I met up with a guy to fuck him as one of his many tops for the day. I squirted the lube in the mostly dark room, then went to stroke my cock and couldn't feel the lube that I'd squirt. So I'd put more and got the job done from there _ I was mostly anchored in place and didn't notice anything else out of the ordinary. As I'm leaving to start the walk back home, I felt that my feet were starting to slip in my flip-flops and realised where some of that lube had gone. Was probably the slowest I'd walked in my entire life.
  22. LetsPOZBreed
    Would have been my last Berlin trop in 2017 for Folsom. Hit the jackpot on naked night at Lab, and I was fucked by between 15-20 men. Not as many loads, unfortunately, but was still the most active night of my life.
  23. LetsPOZBreed
    I actually didn't really enjoy bottoming when I started having sex with other men. My first time was okay - it hurt, not outright painful. Back then, I thought topping suited me more - could get hard just by feeling a gentle breeze on my crotch and was good for multiple rounds. Plus, if I was fucking a bottom around my age (late teens to early 20's) I loved when they were a bit of a squealer - and still do - so the natural noises of a guy taking my dick just made me love it that much more. I didn't really discover enjoying being a bottom until I got fucked bareback the first time. Mainly due to risk-reduction in the days before PrEP, I just didn't go for bottoming unless it was a guy I knew well enough to feel comfortable barebacking with. After a few years, I made the decision to go strictly bareback in either position, and that made me lean toward bottoming more over time.
  24. LetsPOZBreed
    I'm upfront with any potential fuckbuds (I don't have one at the moment) that there's always a possibility of me having others. If his preference is that I'm not pre-loaded for him, then I'm willing to make that agreement. I fully understand that not all guys who top are into sloppy holes - personally, I prefer any guy who bottoms for me not be pre-loaded either, so I fully understand where these tops are coming from. At a cruise bar or sauna, I just expect that any bottom I fuck is likely pre-loaded; equally, any guy who fucks me needs to accept the same (they are welcome to ask me, and I'll be honest with them - they can take that answer however they wish). If a guy wants to be proper territorial with me, though, that's not okay unless we're in a committed long-term romantic relationship. Anything short of that, and it's just not the kind of arrangement that I'm willing to consent to.
  25. LetsPOZBreed
    I've been to Berlin a few times, and this is the one place where I'd strongly recommend taking the trip solo. You'll want to slut it up and don't want the worry of trying to negotiate with friends about what you end up doing and where you end up going. I'd say to try and pick a hotel around Schoeneberg (might be spelling that wrong) which is the gay area. Lots of opportunities for cruising and whatnot around there, and easy access to the gay bars. I've found Berlin to be a safe city overall - even when I was leaving the play parties during Folson at 3, 4, 5 a.m., no one was really bothering me while walking back to where I was going. I'm sure it's like most other major cities anywhere, really - don't do anything stupid to call attention to yourself, and you should be fine. Most of all enjoy, and feel free to tell us about your experience. I really do think it's the best city for some good action.

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