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  1. LetsPOZBreed
    I have mine as "Needs Discussion". I used to have it as "Never" under the guise that I equated it to condom usage - or lack thereof. But, honestly, I'd rather talk through it with a guy; even if it is just to state that I would like to go raw. I also have the U=U thing in my profile either and invite anyone who doesn't know what that means to ask.
  2. LetsPOZBreed
    I agree with more than just this last sentence, but you're spot on here. Personally, my preferences have ebbed and flowed over the years, but I think over time we all settle into our preferred positions after a certain age. I do get pleasure from topping, but as someone said earlier in the thread, I need an actual connection these days...not really interested in cumdump bottoms who couldn't care less about anything other than my load (not even my cock). So, anytime another bottom hits me up on the apps - a fact that still occurs with rather alarming regularity - I'll entertain it briefly, but it never fails that they say something that puts me off. As a vers bottom in my 40's, I know I can't compete with the young twinks; I don't really try to, to be honest. But I do try and offer potential tops something that they can't find with the plethora of other bottoms out there - the fact that I'm drug-free and won't be high off my tits, the fact that I want to have eye contact throughout the entire session so you can see how much I'm enjoying you, etc. etc. Doesn't always mean I'll have a great experience with every top that omes over, but I figure I'll put something a little different on the menu for guys to try out.
  3. LetsPOZBreed
    Some of us have gotten better with age...I think I did, anyway. I've always enjoyed older men, but my definition of "older" has increased over the years. I'd say my upper limit is pretty much non-existant nowdays - if a guy carries himself well and knows how to fuck, then by all means, let's get to it!
  4. LetsPOZBreed
    I get it. We were all that nervous guy once. I can usually (mostly) tell if a guy is just being nervous or is actively just playing games - can see it in their face.
  5. LetsPOZBreed
    @NWUSHorny you're right. I don't really notice the tipping point if I'm in action, though. My focus is on the guy giving me a good go. I do notice it more when there's a lull, or if very little action is happening. I'd say if the tipping point is reached (whatever percentage it is), it becomes pretty obvious to those of us sluts.
  6. LetsPOZBreed
    Any participant not comfortable with you being the "door guy" doesn't need to be there at all - simply put. This is your boyfriend after all, and you are totally within your rights to look out for his safety and comfort; especially in this situation. You also want to keep an eye on the vibe in the room, and be able to put a stop to anything that gets out of hand (i.e. bad behaviour, bounce any "creepy" participants, make sure no one gets into their klepto mood). Most importantly, you know your boyfriend in more than just a biblical sense. I'm sure you'll be able to tell when he's feeling uncomfortable - either a guy is fucking him too rough, too awkward, or just not feeling it. You'll need to be there to intervene on his behalf.
  7. LetsPOZBreed
    In a public setting, tops (or anyone topping) know what they are in for. There's always the potential that the butt your fucking may have been previously wrecked; and that's toally fine. That being said, I've encountered guys that are there to masturbate at the bottoms who get bred ("lurkers" from another post). But these tend to be less in number, proportionally speaking, in the public spaces. On the apps, though...it's a different story. Seems any guy that asks me about my load count won't be the next one - either the count is too low, in which they want me to "find more", or it's high enough where all I get is "hot" in response.
  8. LetsPOZBreed
    Add these to the guys who won't fuck: The "Lurker": I've had this at the saunas and cruise spots. The guys who are hard as a rock watching me get railed, tantalising me with their meat. Some even offer verbal encouragement (sometimes to the point of distraction), but then when I'm free and available for them to fuck me, they can't really perform - so wait for some other guy to rail me. The "TIM Fetishist": Guys who are into the idea of fucking a bottom with numerous loads in them already, (because they constantly wank to TIM gangbang scenes). So they ask me "how many loads do you have", and regardless of whatever number I throw out will respond with simply: "hot" and nothing more.
  9. LetsPOZBreed
    Personally, I'd gauge the purpose of the gathering to gather whether or not the colour presents any opportunities/challenges (depending on what you're after). If you're just headed to the bathhouses or sauna for any ol' fuck-night, the colour isn't an issue. Most guys there wouldn't understand the colour-to-hanky code translation - so no real misunderstandings. Even guys who do "get it" will know that this is likely not the place to be advertising fetishes in this sort of way; you might get a question about whether or not you'd be into what your colour represents - but there are no real expectations to actually do those things. However...if you are at a fetish event, the colour is your time to shine. Anything yellow on piss night is a dead giveaway; similar to red and fisting. Even guys who don't really understand the hanky code will know those two. Most of mine are blue, so it really shows off my interest in fucking (or more specifically, getting fucked). Any of the other colours tend to be reserved for more intimate and private encounters.
  10. LetsPOZBreed
    Well said, Di. It's fine for someone to have a fetish for it...even if they've had the horrible actual experience (speaking personally here as well). But yeah...I wouldn't suggest anyone go into this with a first time meet. Not even a second or third time. This type of kink relationship needs to be developed over many sessions spread over a long period of time.
  11. LetsPOZBreed
    This fetish is fairly common, actually. Certainly among many guys who are into larger age gaps (though not inclusive of everyone in this group). Personally, I love it. It's a very versatile (pun intended) fetish in that you can experiment with more than just the sexual aspect. Can also go along with things such as discipline and CP...then leading into the sexual play afterwards.
  12. LetsPOZBreed
    Doesn't matter which position I'm doing - top or bottom - it's always balls deep for me. I like having the whole length of a guy inside me so I can feel his throbbing.
  13. LetsPOZBreed
    If I get a guy to the point of cumming while I suck him, swallowing is the only solution. I don't even like this whole nonsense of a guy taking his dick out and shooting into my mouth like it's a basketball hoop. I've said it in another post, but I feel that cum loses a bit of its taste and consistency if it gets exopsed to the open air...even briefly. Generally speaking, if a guy is going to cum from my blowjob, they just let me finish them off and cum inside my mouth. It's very rare that I've had my feeder take the initiative and do something different (such as the above), or even pull out and paint my face with it. I've always felt a bit strange about receiving a facial...it's fun while the warm cum is hitting your face and you're imagining what it might look like. But once the squirting subsides, the temperature of the fluid starts to equalise to the ambient room temperature...In most homes and enclosures, that's about a 10 C drop (about 20 F for the Americans) between a guy's internal body temperature and the temperature most of us keep our homes. At that point, the jizz is no longer warm, and starts to get a bit watery and run down your face.
  14. LetsPOZBreed
    I'll be perfectly honest, I'll suck every last one of those in the photo. I don't see a single one that I don't like.
  15. LetsPOZBreed
    As someone who is into W/S, I'm in a few minds about this I was born and raised in an uber-conservative small town in the American south. You don't really know how another guy might feel about you staring at his cock, so you just don't even bother with it. Also, many times when I'm in the gents, I'm there to actually do my own pissing. If I've been holding it in, I'm not really thinking about looking anywhere and just relieve myself and get on with it. For me (and this may just be a personal preference), doing piss play is a mood thing...either I want to do it, or it's just off the table. When I am in the mood for it, I'll just head down to the fetish club on piss night and go all out. When I'm not really in that mindset, a pissing cock is the last thing I want to be ogling at.
  16. LetsPOZBreed
    That't the thing about BDSM...you don't have to tick every box, and that's perfectly okay. We all have our limits and desires; other "true" BDSM mates understand this, and are much more interested in helping you acheive your kink goals without pressuring you into something you don't want to do. Personally, what I'm into depends on the guy I'm with. Yes, I do like various aspects of the B, the D, the S, and the M; but there has to be a special connection with my partner...a much tighter connection than a guy that I've randomly met on a website, app, or sex club. I don't trust some rando to give me the kind of deep and intense session that these scenes lead to. I also don't engage with guys who ask me to do these things to them without a full understanding of what he is getting himself into.
  17. LetsPOZBreed
    To the O.P.: How long have you been at this? It's taken some of us quite some time to build up the tolerance to take the number of dicks that many dream of. As correctly and well stated by @MuscledHorse, you need to train for it. It's not going to happen overnight, or even a few weeks or months. And let's be fair, 5 or 6 cocks in a night is not a bad night at all...certainly nothing you should be disappointed by!
  18. LetsPOZBreed
    Seriously, this can't be said enough: CONSENT, CONSENT, CONSENT! I think there's a clear difference from those who have said things such as: that you should just go with it; the guy is probably a good fuck and is just having a little fun with you; his attractiveness isn't really an issue, etc - and actually attempting to take away your ability to consent to letting him inside you. You are the guardian of your own hole. You decide who you let inside of it. You decide who will never go near it. No man is "entitled" to be inside you any more than you are not entitled to every man's cock. Even in true Dominant/submissive and Master/slave scenarios, both partners (ideally) have had long discussions about what rules apply to their situation. Every couple is different; your rules with Guy #1 can be totally different to your rules with Guy #2 - it's just in how you connect with one another. But rules are MUTUALLY agreed to...a true Dominant man would not want to break any of your stated limits, and will ask you to specifically state what those limits are ahead of any play session.
  19. LetsPOZBreed
    These two points nail it on the head for me. I'm not even a top, but the times I've been asked by fantasising bottoms about whoring them out is rather obscene. I refuse to entertain them for precisely the first point above. If they haven't even deal with me alone, what chance do they have with taking others? To the O.P.: If you live in a city with a cruise club, bathhouse, or ABS...go there for the kind of multiple-partner action you seek. At least there, you can tap out when you want without pissing off anyone else present; ideally, there will be other holes to keep them entertained. And you can continue to show up over time and build your tolerance...only then will you be able to know when you're ready for 10 or more cocks in a night, with all the various fucking styles that come along with that. Keep in mind...every top fucks differntly. Not all of them will do it in a way that looks out for YOUR pleasure; very few will do this, in fact. You'd need to be prepared for literally anything and anyone. If you have any mental hangups about what your tops might look like, sound like, or fuck like...this is not the situation for you.
  20. LetsPOZBreed
    Honestly, once your on the other side of the wall, you have a surprisingly higher level of control over what you will and won't do - compared to having a guy directly in front of you without barriers. You can always just do nothing if the cock doesn't interest you. Any man sticking his penis through a hole expects some level of instant gratification - if that's not happening, he'll (presumably) move on. I find this to be a better outcome than a guy in front of you grabbing the back of your head and forcing you down on him (my BIGGEST pet-peeve about sucking a guy off is when he feel the need to "direct" my movements in that way).
  21. LetsPOZBreed
    I've been a member for a few years now, and definitely have noticed a change in the regularly posting members during that time. Not so long ago, RawTop put his proverbial foot down on the discussions around actually chasing "bugs" (STI's specifically, not HIV). I commented on his post about this that I thought it was a great idea; a fact I continue to stay behind. There's a huge difference between accepting the risk of catching a bug versus dealing with the certainty of contracting said bug(s). I've had syphillis before. It wasn't fun then, and I'm not about to put myself into a situation where I knowingly contract it again. Same goes for any other STI's. There always will be the fantasizers on here egging others on to chase - I'm not one of those. Honestly, I'm happy to provide the advice to novice barebackers about what to expect in this life. Personally, if I help even one user to reconsider making a dangerous decision they might regret, then that one response will be worth it. If a scared guy is having bad afterthoughts of a session that wasn't quite what he expected, I'm here to offer a sympathetic ear and respond without judgements. Not to say I haven't called out any posts that I feel cross a line. But I'm perfectly capable of passing over the thinly worded responses of those who encourage high-risk behaviour.
  22. LetsPOZBreed
    Gee, I wonder who this might have been? 😄 😄 😄
  23. LetsPOZBreed
    It's kind of surprising in a way. It's not as uncommon a fetish as you might expect, but I will say that I didn't get to actually do it for the first time until around age 30. I'd say that when I would go to S.O.P. in London pre-lockdowns, the Tuesday sessions would skew older; the Sunday sessions had a wider variety of ages.
  24. LetsPOZBreed
    I haven't used Adam4Adam in years. Not as popular in Europe, so I just let my account expire. Recon is a bit of a mess since COVID (and I'm sure even before). Many apps saw their membership massively increase during lockdowns, as people had nothing better to do and nowhere to go. But it also meant you had guys that were really wanting to talk about exploring their fetish and sexual sides, but not having a genuine interest in doing anything about it. It was more jerk bait than anything else. I joined Recon pre-lockdown, but just barely. I've met some guys in real life, but the experiences have been varied. I'd say I only had one GOOD one with a young guy (about 21 years old) who called me Daddy throughout the session. It actually wound up being a huge turn on in the moment, so I found out something about myself there. I want to start looking into more fetish events outside of Recon. Things that are geared toward specific fetishes (i.e. something related to spanking, etc.). Prob have better luck finding fetish mates that way than through Recon.
  25. LetsPOZBreed
    I'm with you on this one, actually. I do love a good slow and sensual session, but that's the kind of one-on-one session I prefer to plan in advance. A group session or gangbang is not the time or the place for it. Even then, though, I'd only really agree to it if I know the top is good for actually cumming.

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