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  1. I think most humans are hard wired for deep emotional attachment. Without getting too Freudian, I think most of us still long for that intense closeness and security which ( as infants ) we felt with our mothers. Falling in love has evolutionary advantages for our species. Our female ancestors were relatively slight and vulnerable to predators. Having a sturdier protective male around was a definite advantage if the female was pregnant, had dependent children, or lived in an environment with scattered resources. Putting it simply, the children of females with protective male partners were more likely to survive and have offspring themselves. Those offspring inherited the "protective, nurturing" tendency of their fathers and passed it to their offspring. Over generations those genes/characteristics became more widespread. There is also evidence that human males have a "plant a seed in every available pot" breeding strategy, but that doesn't negate long term emotional involvement with one ( or more ) partners. A small percentage of humans are sociopaths and seem incapable of love - but that's another topic.
  2. Breeding Zone probably deals with some of the most controversial issues on the net. My view is that added privacy is a good thing.
  3. Thanks for the link cumlatrine and for those who are interested, my phallic altar is up and running! Pics in my profile album.
  4. Several of the previous posters have referred to the role which religion plays in cultivating sexual guilt and shame "when I rejected christianity I started looking at how it managed to control me in the past. I saw that shame and fear were major tools in their arsenal". Sexual guilt and shame are the legacy of the montheistic religions, Christianity, Judaism and Islam. While most other cultures had sexual taboos, pre monotheistic Eurasia had a long history of sexual tolerance and diversity. Sexuality was celebrated by many gods and cults. There was an acceptance of homosexuality and intersex/trans people. Temple prostitution was a frequent occurrence. There is abundant evidence of phallic worship. Sexuality was seen as something to be celebrated and a route to enlightenment/religious experience. Religion was invented by primitive people to explain away the terrors which nature threw at them and to assuage their fear of death. Sensible people leave fairy tales in the nursery where they belong and get on with living. The world is full of people who have been wounded in their sexuality and psychologically traumatised by their religious upbringing.
  5. I agree that cocks with big PAs are HOT!! The bigger the better!!
  6. "women give tops more holes to fuck" I have occasionally been known to refer to women as "three socket jobs". No misogyny intended - men are "two socket jobs".
  7. An English friend of mine received a blow job from Elton John in his pre David Furnish days.
  8. Not wishing to start a row here, but I know a BDSM master in Ireland who is fully into the romantic side of a relationship ( walks along the beach, candle lit dinners ) as well as abusive BDSM sex. He combines both elements of the package and doesn't seem unstable to me.
  9. "Alright Whthole-- about time you stopped taking all that cock and got back on the keyboard-- there are hundreds of us waiting for your next submission ( and not the ones you are ding in the bedroom and stairwells )" I agree too!
  10. Yes there are Tops/Masters who are looking for a commited caring relationship, but brutal BDSM sex within it. You just have to try a few until you find one who suits you. The search may take a while, but at 18 you have plenty of time.
  11. Perhaps the hardest thing about writing porn is building the suspense and excitement gradually. Most writers are tempted to cut to the fuck too quickly. The journey is often as exciting as the destination and curiousnegbottom is writing this like a master class!!
  12. I'm enjoying it immensely! I'm a sub with a bit of a medical fetish. I love the power and authority of doctors. MORE POSTS PLEASE!!
  13. It's hot the way the bottom uses his own cum as lube for the huge cock that breeds him, in needsbarecock's second xtube link above!
  14. I have never understood why mountaineers, those who are first to the north pole, south pole, or get killed trying, are heroes. The same goes for people who risk their lives trying to break speed records. The desire to be FIRST at something is usually about ego. I have no objection to people getting their kicks that way - but why are they heroes? Christianity essentially teaches that sexual pleasure is SINFUL, dirty and wrong. The puritan ethic which permeated British and most of U.S. culture taught quite simply that PLEASURE is sinful. That is why we still have a raft of sexual hang ups. I really do wish that Jesus had died at birth.
  15. "PS: As soon as it returns, I will be doing some live shows and training subs on cam for your pleasure." I'll look forward to it HLD!
  16. I think a chat room with cams would draw people to the site. The earlier chat room was popular at a time when the site membership was smaller. I would guess that the site membership has increased to a point where the forum will continue to remain active even if some members are spending more time in chat.
  17. Hey guys! I'm considering a long weekend in London later this month. I'm familiar with most of the BB venues in the King's Cross area of north London. I gather there is quite a bit of action in SOUTH London too. Which are the busiest? To Londoners: do you think the King's Cross, or south London venues are busier? Recommendations for inexpensive hotels or gay friendly B&Bs welcome too!
  18. Some times a jock strap - which provides easy access to my hole and easy to push the pouch aside if Tops want to play with my cock and balls.
  19. I saw some of his breeding zone cam sessions HungLatinDom. You trained him WELL! His TIM scene should be hot!
  20. I think evilqueerpig says it well. I'm "embracing my hunger for cock and cum, living life on my own terms". I'm pursuing happiness, not sacrificing it. If bareback sex and being a non discriminating cumdump gives me a better high than drugs, in my view it's a worth risk taking. I am risking my health, but then HIV treatments are improving all the time. I tested neg a few months ago. I get regular sexual health checks and I take antibiotics several times a year for sinus problems. I'm confident that the large doses of antibiotics also knock out most STIs. I am taking a risk, but then how many guys reading this, smoke, drink to excess, or take party drugs adulterated with God knows what? I'm not the "door open, blindfolded in my bedroom" type of cumdump ( unless I have a friend to provide security ). The "door open, blindfolded" cumdump risks robbery and worse. I'm lucky that Belfast has two busy gay saunas and Dublin has two busy gay saunas too. I don't need to have random guys visit my home.
  21. Roger is an old fashioned English word for "fuck". I rogered the footman senseless... etc.
  22. "Tup" is the northern English word for "ram" - a male sheep. A symbol of virility and potency so: Richard Tup, Richard Tupp... Topping is a British surname. Torrence ( rhymes with *******s ) is a British surname too. Richard Torrence, Dick Torrence suggests *******s of cum! Todger and tadger are British slang terms for penis. Alternatively you could just look for surnames that begin with TOP in the phone directory. A large atlas should have a lot of place names that begin with TOP arranged alphabetically in the index. Keep me in mind for the prizes! ;-)
  23. For Europeans like me, who have only read about Fire Island, it would be interesting to hear details about the "meat rack" and how it works.
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