Bwccummer
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Strangest Requests When Hooking Up
Bwccummer replied to BritishCumdump's topic in General Discussion
I find kinky as whatever float boat. I think of one that seemed too fixed on a fetish or kink. However wish one upfront about underwear fetish. Find frustrating in seems person nearby. Seemed everything was align to a hookup. That was until he wanted me to wear underwear. I guess could have worn but not see as if fuck that take off. I get if one have a kink in wear a piece of clothing. However, I would think possibly miss a good fuck if too hung up on underwear, outfit or what desire may be. I think if ran into someone again make requests likely decline for in my view could be too fixated on something, or need to be upfront on so not think can't meet because not wear a jock, underwear, socks, or whatever fixation is. As think about4 depending on individual person desires that if one or other side host that in safety to have a regular normal fuck. Thinking if not visited place previously or interacted with individual that be thinking for safety reasons postponing until repeat know how go. I guess maybe work into, as think maybe first time meet fuck, if meet again mentions what like to see one wear. I may be more often to say wear underwear if previously fucked as a repeat have a better idea what to expect. -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Craigslist at one point was good to meet from personals. I got repeat hookups with one. I got to meet a couple of others. Then later dropped personals as recall a possible law passed to compile. Or maybe another reason. I noticed some try to use on Craigslist missed person category as personals but find not really work. -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Doublelist seems to try to have pay wall. However after sometimes asking to pay where I not pay will let you see the personals. I guess is just to see if can try to get payment. Truth is while free mostly that if was to pay and not get any would seem a waste of money. However I noticed some listings are just a ad to sign up for another website or app. I find using different methods such as website Doublelist, next apps grindr, A4A may provide a meeting. However can seem sometimes use multiple means and not get any meeting. I recently have a rare time could host. I thought maybe one interested but seemed not want to travel, while telling me no action at bookstore. I would guess as not want to travel maybe not get any action. I did find one on grindr but way acted seemed something not right as not listen in leave light off. I ended early as seemed individual making uncomfortable and not listening. I quickly left and blocked individual. Share as sometimes can be mixed. Other time worked better was at event and in bathroom could check phone. I used sniffies and grindr in talking to individual. I didn't know if was to meet or not as seemed was nearby. Later shared pictures and time shared can host. They at time I think was around 5 pm Saturday gave address to hosting in apartment or maybe condo. It was nice and cool inside as was hot outside. I visited both days of event and one day deposited 2 loads in him as he bottom and a load in him as a bottom while recall he was on top. I was top both days. Share as seems can be mixed in sometimes works and other times not. -
Hiding HIV diagnosis from wife/partner
Bwccummer replied to Tiboer's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
As think about think be better some not have relationships with one that keep secret of health from partner. While different reasons to separate or divorce can see maybe work best for some to split from partner so can live life honestly. I think possibly giving partner something got to partner that would ruin relationship and may open to other consequences. Also not tell about so can protect themselves. I would see if one cheat to at the least get on prep or take meds to be undetectable. I guess some may hide in have meds with a buddy or in a secure place. However as read other posts can see take a toll trying to keep a secret. -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I gave a try again. I don't know why some seem to ask endless questions. I finally wrote instead of asking could make arrangements to meet. Not meet and as think about kept contacting even though said I couldn't host. They could host and travel but saw about 30 miles away so not seem that they were serious. One I guess maybe not update app profile in ask age their age shared was about 10 years older. In ask shared was 46 or so, but profile had 36. I gotten to where if some want pictures that ask age. If get grief on not share age not share a photo. If age 18 or older share a picture at my own decision. If too much beg for a picture to not share. However, is with my thinking if just a picture collector that all get. I still not sure why some just want pictures, when can get cock or ass for real. The only thing I guess is maybe some ideas of safe sex in see pictures. Or maybe too much work for some to quit playing video games, turn TV off, to go to where one host or that they host and individual travel to where host. Safety is a important factor in meeting and still reserve if meet or not. One time was to go to a meet up. However, as saw location has a history and decided not to meet. I had hoped was a different location for years later heard had to evaluate residents from building as found structure issues. At the least a possibility building could collapse while visit a reason to change mind on meeting. -
Can't decide whether or not to get pozzed
Bwccummer replied to IrishBoi's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
I am wondering when Prep injection may possibly be available in the UK. If is to say be in a month to maybe wait a month and get prep injection. If lower or unknown then could be more difficult. A alternative maybe is if can travel to learn if injection available in another country like France, Germany. Or I guess if able to travel to United States for injection but I realize cost may not work as a option. -
As think about does the pen pal sites let one know what individuals behind bars for? I ask for think of how woman Jodi Arias serving life behind bars for what did to ex boyfriend. I thought of write to her, but when think of crime convicted of can be chillig. I also would use caution in who write to. Some as stories go innocent behind bars, some be there for convicted, and the saddest news story was of a Iraqi war veteran robbed a bank for realized had a problem and saw needed to be behind bars. Thus seems a mental health issue and not do for the money. I guess if comfortable writing to a inmate to write, just if do go with understanding inmate may try to manipulate or ask maybe for money.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Wrote on Saturday and Sunday of 3 loads gave. Last weekend I was at a art festival at a park. I use sniffies in a private place for after some try to chat with some not work out. I had come across a profile that wasn't sure if work or not. I chatted and learned possibly later meet. It was a hot weekend. Very hot Saturday. I did some work at art festival. Later contact and learned was interested and can host. Learned host near near the park. I went to place and go up the apartment steps to 3rd floor. I meet at door individual on Saturday late afternoon that was from profile pictures. Then go to their apartment. A friendly dog was in the apartment. They told the dog to stay as we went up the steps. The funny part is dog went up the steps. They part dog in a room. Then we start taking clothes off. The room was cool. Then we get on the bed. He touches and works way to sucking me. I am 8 inches long and try to not blow load. After some time I am ready to top. He is on his back on the bed. Uses lube to my cock and his ass. I slowly start to enter bareback. I find position interesting. After some time he turns so in doggy position. I find this position works for me in can see my cock enter all the way into ass. After a while pick up pace. I ask where want my cum. He says to cum in him. I blow my load deep in his ass. Afterwards we cuddle a bit. Wish my phone wasn't ringing. However after a while get dressed to leave. On Sunday of two loads gave, I went back to apartment again. We got on the bed after undress. He stroked and sucked my cock. Then use lube again and enter bareback. Fucked in different positions. I blew load again in his ass. As again from Saturday cuddle a bit. Then after a little bit I asked if wanted to again. Fucked again bareback and my 8 inch cock blew a second load deep in his ass. Then get dressed and I went back to the art festival. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Last weekend I was at a art festival at a park. I use sniffies in a private place for after some try to chat with some not work out. I had come across a profile that wasn't sure if work or not. I chatted and learned possibly later meet. It was a hot weekend. Very hot Saturday. I did some work at art festival. Later contact and learned was interested and can host. Learned host near near the park. I went to place and go up the apartment steps to 3rd floor. I meet at door individual on Saturday late afternoon that was from profile pictures. Then go to their apartment. A friendly dog was in the apartment. They told the dog to stay as we went up the steps. The funny part is dog went up the steps. They part dog in a room. Then we start taking clothes off. The room was cool. Then we get on the bed. He touches and works way to sucking me. I am 8 inches long and try to not blow load. After some time I am ready to top. He is on his back on the bed. Uses lube to my cock and his ass. I slowly start to enter bareback. I find position interesting. After some time he turns so in doggy position. I find this position works for me in can see my cock enter all the way into ass. After a while pick up pace. I ask where want my cum. He says to cum in him. I blow my load deep in his ass. Afterwards we cuddle a bit. Wish my phone wasn't ringing. However after a while get dressed to leave. If interested in on Sunday of two loads gave, I will write on. -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I find come across some that on a app that could be grindr, A4A, etc that has message feature to communicate with others. The part not sure is why some ask If I have whatsapp, telegram or some other message platform. Best I can figure a spammer or scammer. Because one can generally direct reply on app, website, etc. I guess if one asks to chat elsewhere may not be real or some type of scam. Of course I would want to try to see if real or not. However, seems if asking for whatsapp or telegram that see as likely spam or scam. -
[think before following links] https://www.netflix.com/us/title/81566571?s=a&trkid=13747225&trg=cp&vlang=en&clip=81763642 title on Netflix "Crime Scene Berlin: Nightlife Killer" . Share to exercise caution. I recall watching but not seem clear reasons for crimes. I find trust instincts if something seems wrong to leave or keep eye on drink, etc.
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As far as rejection goes I find seems some play game more to where wonder if enjoy rejection more than fucking or being fucked. I guess seems in person or apps/websites of those ask for pictures. I guess find a gloryhole or darkroom. I am thinking of possibilities of good looking but has a small cock or average guy with a big cock how that play out. Also noticed some shallow in maybe looking for a guy with 12 inch cock and ignore 10 inches or less. The exception is later individual want to top or bottom be open to guy maybe earlier ignored. If I went to such a place treated that way not likely return. Or be on guard where not care and explore place. In short see attitude of some wanting super hung superficial.
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When in past topped bareback. I fuck hard in generally in doggy position or he is on top riding my 8 inch cock. I am in as deep as possible and blow my load in him. I am remembering time blew my load in a 19 year old bottom in a darkroom. I had him beg for my load. Then I unloaded balls deep in his tight ass.
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Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
Bwccummer replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I had one that chatted with online app that talked to previous. I let them know I could host. However, not seems interested as conversion went on. In short, not help nearby in a small area. Also there attitude seemed of play a game to block me in just see pictures. However, I just wish could have blocked on app. I did see on a different platform that blocked. If not willing to travel less than a mile that not waste others time. The part gets interesting is one from over 30 miles traveled to where host. Thus seems if serious will travel and not play games like individual maybe a mile or less away. At least in individual nearby in not show up that not have to think about other times show up when not host. As think about their behavior and others on apps, websites, platforms is similar to others on a message room and private conversation in say whatever in not care about other person. Or maybe take out online to strangers that had nothing to do with in if had a bad day, etc. Also I feel if not say in person or give a fair critique that shouldn't do online in treat others online poorly. Seems as some think can say whatever because is maybe 5,000 miles away. I take view that individual may travel, and could be in area so best not to insult or treat poorly. I get some may look for say a man in age 20s or older, of a certain figure, etc. But I feel if not interested to say so kindly, and move on to who fit looking for? Seems a lack of decency in say not interested. I find better to stay off apps, websites, etc. Unless a rare time host or travel looking. -
Not knowing what reason individual said what did. There are several reasons possible. One is parts of society still not accept LGBT. Next is some women may not accept and if has a girlfriend or wife that wants to keep what do private. Also maybe individual not open in what do. Or just wants to unload. Also maybe term not have any meaning as some terms change meaning, individual using term put own meaning to a term.
