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tips for increasing horniness, fulfilling fantasies?
Nclchub replied to profwhtforhung's topic in General Discussion
That's fair. Rather than say "sex is off the table" I should have went with "sex is not the main goal on my first visit". If it happens enjoy it but don't make that the priority. My point I was trying to get at was you should make your first visit somewhere as low stakes as possible, especially if you're shy/introverted. If you build a fantasy up in your head for too long then you're setting yourself up for disappointment. -
tips for increasing horniness, fulfilling fantasies?
Nclchub replied to profwhtforhung's topic in General Discussion
Completely agree. Unless I'm looking for something incredibly specific (e.g. fisting) I genuinely have more success off the apps than on them. Lots of people use them to chat or jerk off. Fine but not what I'm after. What I find apps are useful for is occasionally keeping in touch with guys you meet via cruising. Not sure if this is common but I've had plenty of guys fuck me not want to give a phone number but be all to happy to offer their app handle(s). If you've never tried cruising a bar or sauna, best advice is to just go there. For your first visit, don't even go with the idea sex is on the table. Just focus on having a fun night, observing and maybe chatting with someone. Really takes the edge off and makes future visits a lot less daunting. -
Only once when I was 19. A guy assumed we were exclusive whereas I thought we were just friends who occasionally fucked. That ended messy when he ran into me getting fucked in a toilet stall. Nowadays I would never enter into an exclusive relationship to begin with.
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I learned that I really enjoy when other people see me getting fucked or sucking cock. Was in a corridor with a guy and he had me get on my knees right there. That unlocked something for me. I also learned that I'm attracted to pretty much every body type.
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Being fucked bare by a top who completely ignores my cock and is solely focused on his own orgasm. Really turns me on and gives me my most intense orgasms.
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My preference is randoms. Yes, regulars are fun but more than once I've had a regular fuck want to turn our casual hookups into a more romantic relationship and that's just not me. I'm upfront about being aromantic but it can't be helped. More importantly, my favourite sex is where I'm essentially being used by a selfish top who doesn't care if I get off. Very easy to find a random guy into that.
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My first time was with a condom. Honestly wasn't bad, but what got me into raw fucking was my first sauna visit. Got with an older guy and we never discussed protection, he just went in raw and came inside me within minutes. Got hooked on the sensation of feeling cum shoot inside me and went raw ever since.
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It's not necessarily shame as such. Some guys are only interested in a purely physical relationship, hence why he's so passionate in the moment but disinterested as soon as sex is over/not on the table. I know back in uni I had a relationship like this with a guy where we had completely different friend groups and only hung out to have sex. Both of us were openly gay, we just didn't have anything in common outside of loving bareback and being swamped with coursework/exams. As for not liking/being annoyed by cuddles, that could be any number of things. While it could be shame, the fact he's openly gay makes this less likely. Some guys just don't like cuddling. Maybe he's aromantic (i.e. Enjoys sex but has no interest/desire for romance). Ultimately I'm not the one dating the guy so without talking to him I can't say what his deal is. Way I see it you have two options: -Accept that this relationship is purely physical and enjoy it for what it is -Have a conversation about why he's not into cuddling/romance and whether you could incorporate that in future. If he tells you he's not interested and just wants to keep using you purely for sex, ask yourself whether you're okay with that. Good luck.
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I'm late to this but will preface by saying I personally would go bareback every time. However, if someone asked for my recommendation I sincerely think that if someone has any doubt they should go for Condoms for their first time. I know I know, but hear me out. The most obvious reason is that if your nervous about disease they lower that risk. Bareback is great but if you're constantly worried about catching something your first time you're not gonna be enjoying yourself. Above all sex should be fun. However, the main reason I wouldn't go bareback is if you plan to use Condoms in the future. In my experience, bareback feels so much better that once you've experienced it it's very hard to go back to Condoms. I know I tried using Condoms again after my first bareback fuck but none of the sex I had with Condoms measured up to even the most mediocre raw fucks I've since had. I just love the feeling of a raw dick inside me too much.
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Newcastle bottom looking for poz loads. Happy to travel via train if a poz load (or several) are on the other end.
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So speaking seriously, it can't be overstated just how lucky you are to have a partner that accepts your sexuality and need to explore it. That said you're at serious risk of ruining your relationship. It looks like you're letting your dick do the thinking and are about to jump into things way too fast. Others have talked about how you're putting her at risk if you go bare so i won't dwell on that. More concerning to me is that you're immediately considering getting fucked by multiple guys. Have you had a serious talk with your wife about how this is gonna work? Do you even have any rules? Things to consider: -Condoms and Prep. You need to figure out together if you're gonna use them before you consider going bare. If she wants you to use protection and you go bare anyway that's a huge betrayal. -Does she want to know any details or does she want things to be strictly don't ask don't tell? -are you going to let her explore fucking other people? Does she even want that? -Just because you're free to fuck other guys doesn't mean you can neglect your wife. Make sure her needs are satisfied too I'm really not trying to be a downer. However it sounds like you and your wife care about each other. Remember, even if she decides you need to use Condoms for now she might ease off on that once she sees you can be trusted. Good luck.
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My tastes haven't changed. Still have a preference for larger/older guys. The only real change is I'm more forward about what I want. Used to be a completely submissive bottom but now I'm comfortable being assertive even if I'm still the one being fucked. Hell some of the most intense sex I've had only happened because I explicitly asked for it (eg. Given directions to a guy on how to "force" me to deep throat him).
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Newcastle here if you're still looking for people.
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Anyone like getting a pierced cock up the ass?
Nclchub replied to Hotrawbutt4u's topic in General Discussion
Had the pleasure of being fucked by a guy with a PA last week. Maybe he was just good but it felt like the piercing hit my prostate with every thrust. Would love to experience it again. -
Not the same thing but I've definitely had experiences where I've rapidly withdrawn consent. Most notable for me was when a guy I hooked up with about 6 years ago. At one point he mentioned that he wanted to fist me but I said no and at first he seemed agreeable. Later that night we start messing around again and all of a sudden he goes from fingering me with 2 fingers to trying to shove all of them up me. I'm guessing he thought since I'd loosened up I would just go with the flow? Instead I was pissed off and yelled at him. Dont think he expected me to get so angry as he meekly withdrew his hand and I left, vowing to never fuck him again. The irony is I do enjoy being fisted, but I need to be in a specific headspace and/or trust the guy I'm with. By trying to rush me he ruined everything for him.
