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  1. backdoorjimmy
    Ugh, that sounds so frustrating. I hooked up with a guy that told me he wasn't a virgin, but the fact that he humped the air and came in under 30 seconds once he was inside me said otherwise. But he was so passionate with his kissing and I loved how I could feel his breath against my neck when he came inside me, so I didn't count it as one of my worst.
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    Wow. Did it get in your hair? **shudders**
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    I just watched a porn clip that made me remember the worst lay I've ever had. It was a guy who didn't really know what he was doing but wanted to fuck me from behind. I could tell right away that he hadn't done it before because his thrusts were agonizingly short and slow. I could feel his dick inside me but it was barely moving at all. It was like watching someone run as fast as they could, but being able to pass them by walking at a leisurely pace. When I looked over my shoulder at him he looked stressed out over his performance. I offered to change positions so he could lay down and let me ride him, but this only frustrated him. Finally, he gave in and laid flat so I could lick his balls and asshole to get him hard again, then I rode his dick and he came in under a minute. I always try to be a good bottom. I want to make sure the man I'm sleeping with is taken care of, but I also like being taken care of too. I've had guys last less than 30 seconds before they cum and I still count them as better in bed than the guy who didn't know what he was doing. I'm just wondering if any other guys here have a story about "that time" when a partner was so bad that you still remember it.
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    I probably should have mentioned that we're really close in age. She's 4 years older than me, so we're more like friends than auntie and nephew but that's still what we call each other. She's super chill and promised to take me clubbing when I come to visit her in San Francisco. I was planning to go in 2020 but a certain global even changed those plans. Sorry to hear about your aunt. It sounds like she earned her name from her kids and everyone else. I have a crazy Christian aunt (mom's sister) who tells everyone they're going to hell for literally no reason at all, but pretty much everyone in our family cut her off a long time ago. My mom said she'd beat her ass if she ever talked crap about me after I came out so she doesn't come around to bother us.
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    I had this conversation with my aunt on my dad's side family recently. I don't really see her as often because she lives on the west coast and I live on the east coast, but the topic came up because one of my 2nd cousin's came out as a lesbian and everyone was shocked. My aunt made a passing comment about me that I don't come across as gay but there's a vibe I give off that she can't explain. I asked if it was gaydar and she said, "No, and I don't want this to be creepy, but the vibe is anal. I know you're a bottom." Since I'm not hung up on it, I said she was right and asked her to explain. She said she didn't have the words to explain, just that it's obvious. I'm pretty plain with how I dress and act. I'm the handyman in the family so I get called when someone needs their oil changed or their toilet flange replaced, but somehow I still have strong bottom energy. I actually felt a little proud when we ended the call.
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    I don't consider it hardcore anymore, but there was a time when I did. Now I'm pretty much a full service toilet when I'm able to be. My bf and most of the guys we hang with aren't into it and my last bf wasn't into it either. But most guys will give me a golden shower or straight up let me drink their pee if I ask for it. When I'm having a dry spell, I usually resort to soaking my briefs with it and wringing them out into my mouth, then wearing my pissy briefs while they dry out so I can enjoy the stink.
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    I know this is unpopular, especially since I consider myself a no loads refused bottom, but there are certain criteria that have to be met for me to take a load from a top. If they don't have an erect penis, or that will somehow slide up my ass soft, then it's a deal breaker. Well, unless they let me nurse on their cock, hard or soft. Or they eat my ass. Or let me eat their ass. But aside from that, it's a total deal breaker. No if ands or butts - well, except for my butt.
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    Your circumstance doesn't just apply to a certain race, but really to any big dick. The top should have taken his time and rested inside you to give you time to get used to his size, unless you didn't want that. But the key is to listen to your body. Preferably, climb on so you can control the tempo until you're ready to completely submit. There's going to be some pain at first, but that's normal and you have to let it wash over you. But it shouldn't be a lingering pain, just a temporary pain. When you feel ready, start riding it up and down and make sure you're enjoying it. Then when you're ready, give over control and let him stroke your pussy out until he nuts inside you.
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    While I don't totally agree with the original poster in general, I think this is a healthy discussion for us to have and I'm glad that @rawTOP and @drscorpio haven't locked the thread. People have their own experiences and their own traumas, and if talking about it helps them process it, then why not? We're capable of discussing uncomfortable topics without fetishizing them. If something is over the top, it's okay to report the post or comment inside the post. Hell, I've even reported one of my own comments because it discussed a fetish that the admins have made it clear shouldn't be talked about (not rape or underage).
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    I want it all day every day. Is that realistic? No. But I need it every day. At least once a day but preferably three or more times per day. Luckily I'm in a relationship with someone who understands what I need. That's not to say he doesn't have days when he's not in the mood. Those are usually the days we cuddle in bed and he fucks me with the dildo while I cling to his chest, or he lets me climb on and ride his dick while he lays down. Those also tend to be the days when he'll pass me around to a few of his boys or have his room mates use my ass while he watches.
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    That's so cute! I'm really happy for both of you 🏳️‍🌈
  12. backdoorjimmy
    It sounds like he's enjoying the sex you two are having. Unless he says no, or gives you some kind of a cue that he's feeling pressured or feels uncomfortable having sex, there's nothing wrong with it. If anything, he might feel empowered by it and as powerless as he seemed, he might have felt like his agency as a human being was respected and honored.
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    I don't know if it's my place to say what my best feature is, since it should be something a top decides for me. But if I had to choose one thing it would be my libido. I'm always horny for anal sex. No matter the time or day, if I can get fucked in the ass I'm going to say yes. I crave it non stop so I'm always lubed up, plugged and ready to fuck.
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    Like a lot of other commenters I prefer both, but if I have to choose one I'd go with length. I used to be more in the girth camp, but I've been spoiled for the last two years by my current bf and his room mates so now I'm more of a length leaning size queen. But to be frank, the dick in the length picture is thick enough to satisfy me.
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    No nut November- the darkest timeline of a cumdump’s year. 😡

  16. backdoorjimmy
    I spent the night at my boyfriend's place and he woke me up this morning by eating my ass, then he let me go down on him. I sucked his dick for about 45 seconds before he said he was about to shoot, and I wanted it on my face. So I pulled off and laid my head on his stomach while I jerked it and he busted a load all over my face. Some of it went up my nose and a lot of it was in my hair and I was in heaven. I thought that would be all because we both had to go to work but after our shower, he said he was in the mood to shoot another one. I fingered some vaseline in my ass and he took me in the bathroom while I watched him in the mirror. Now I'm on my first break at work and my ass is still gaping and throbbing. It feels like there's a hot fart trapped in my pants. 💖
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    For my birthday this year, my boyfriend took me on a roadtrip to Florida where I was used on the way down and the way back. We made a grindr profile just for this trip and I pretty much stayed on grindr the whole time. It was my first time doing something like that so I was a little nervous, but since my bf was with me I felt safe and enjoyed every hookup.
  18. backdoorjimmy
    I voted 100-499 because I didn’t want to exaggerate. Part of me is sure it’s well over 500 but there came a point where I went on a long ho stroll and didn’t keep count. My plan for 2020 and 2021 was to ride as many anonymous cocks as possible but COVID stopped me in my tracks.
  19. backdoorjimmy
    It depends on my mood. I like being a dirty boy so when the mood hits me, I'll stay in the same pair of undies for up to a week. But when I start to get raw between my thighs it's time to change. Since I only wear tighty whities, it doesn't take long for them to turn dingy and start smelling.
  20. backdoorjimmy
    Same here - my boyfriend and his roommates are into a lot that I'm not into. But that's their thing, and who the hell am I to tell them not to do it? If it's something I don't like, I know where the door is.
  21. backdoorjimmy
    Thanks - I think the main issue I used to come up against was the feeling of being left out or isolated. As someone who doesn't have a huge friend group of his own, I felt a lot of pressure to "fit in" when I could. But I could never bring myself to try poppers because in my head, I equated using them to sniffing glue. It's not a valid comparison but that's what it was in my head. When I didn't conform I would pick up signals of disappointment or judgement from people around me, but I always dismissed it as me being insecure. Then the incident happened where the guy I was hooking up with bailed and it really stung. He basically said, "I'm sensing a lot of judgement here and I'm not comfortable" when I hadn't said anything except, "No thank you." These days it just rolls off my back, but as an insecure teenager it was hard on my already fragile self esteem.
  22. backdoorjimmy
    As someone who strictly bottoms, I've been offered poppers more times than I can remember but I've always been nervous about trying them. So I either say "no thanks" or just act like I didn't hear the offer and try to ignore it so I won't feel pressured. It sounds dumb when I type it out here, but I've never used poppers, or any other substances like meth or pot. I tried to drink a beer once and couldn't even finish it. Usually when I say "no thanks", it's accepted and we move on. But one time it caused the guy I was with to feel judged and he called off the hookup. It sucked but I wasn't willing to go outside my comfort zone. I've also had some guys tell me that they rarely or never meet slutty bottoms who don't want to hit poppers, and that I'm the only one they know who won't try it. My bf and his boys all drink and smoke weed but they don't even bother asking me if I want in because I've passed on it so many times before. Is it really that much of a rarity for guys like me to avoid any kind of drugs or alcohol? I see threads about chem sex and poppers all the time but I never comment because I have nothing to add since I've never tried it before. Sometimes it makes me wonder if I'm being a prude and if it's worth trying at least once, but if I'm honest it makes me nervous since addiction runs in my family.
  23. backdoorjimmy
    Mmmm… I love eating ass. The sweatier and stinkier, the better. I could keep my face buried between a set of hot, briny buttcheeks all day. 🐷🏳️‍🌈
  24. backdoorjimmy
    lol I hope not. I told her to cut it out a long time ago and as far as I know she hasn't posted anything private about me since then. But before that my life was blasted online and it was humiliating because there was no privacy. If I found out she was sharing stuff about me she'd be back on my shit list for sure.
  25. backdoorjimmy
    I came out at school when I was 12, then to my mom a couple weeks later. I didn't have to come out to the rest of the family because my mom's Facebook page is like a bulletin board. By the end of the week all of our family and anyone else who was friends with her on Facebook knew I was gay because she posted cringy updates about how proud she was to have a gay son on a near daily basis until I was told her to knock it off.

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