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For those of us with a physiology that doesn't accommodate big men fully in our mouths and throats or where teeth placement isn't ideal, it's a challenge. I have a shorter and narrower jaw with a smaller arc and it makes sucking in some positions and angles very difficult. I need to open wider than most to avoid tooth contact and that takes effort. I get very good (and a few rave) reviews for worshipful sucking of men's cocks, but if it becomes a session of 30 minutes or more focused only on sucking then muscle fatigue and TMJ problems become an issue. I've also found that swallowing big cocks down my throat most often completely blocks my ability to breathe through my nose, so I've had to master holding my breath and learning to breathe around the cock without drawing attention that I'm doing it. I'd love a larger opening between my left and right molars (a wider jaw essentially) to allow bigger cocks to be sucked and slide down my throat more easily. In lieu or maxillomandibular surgery I do the best I can and always have my hole ready for use.

To @viking8x6's point, I came across a fact after someone close to me had prostate cancer when I did some research on sexual functioning outcomes for gay, bi, and MSM versus straight men. While the literature says straight guys do okay generally, outcomes for GB&MSM are (in the few studies examining them) mixed with some saying worse, and some better. One of the reasons is that "Anal penetration is estimated to require 33 percent more rigidity than vaginal penetration. (56)" from "Understanding Prostate Cancer in Gay, Bisexual, and Other Men Who Have Sex with Men and Transgender Women: A Review of the Literature" by B. R. Simon Rosser,1 Shanda L. Hunt,2 Beatrix D. Capistrant,3 Nidhi Kohli,4 Badrinath R. Konety,5 Darryl Mitteldorf,6 Michael W. Ross,7 Kristine M. Talley, 8 and William West 9.

I haven't had a dad since I was a very young boy, so I think that's kind of awesome.

Now is probably a good time for folks to take a breath and re-read what the OP (and very likely troll) actually said, and did not say: They asked why *most women* aren't at least as (or more) sexually active or adventurous as "fags" are based on the postings on this site. They observed that women are designed to "take dick", implying that being so designed means they should be "more sluttier" than "fags" who are not so designed. What the OP didn't say: They didn't say women weren't slutty. Setting aside the veracity of the stories and experiences related on this site, it's very odd that the OP thinks the people on this site are a fair sample of "fags" in general given the clearly very niche nature of the site's membership. Thinking this skewed sample of people is the right one to use as the basis for this question about the whole population doesn't make much logical sense. Between the lines it seems that the OP wants most women to be more available to them sexually. They also seem to have lost sight of the fact that women have a complete and complex reproductive system as well as their own agency. The OP is likely a troll, a homophobic troll, and a misogynist homophobic troll. Don't feed them your energy. Finally, modifiers in language matter as they refine meanings to be more accurate. When someone says "some people" or "most people" or "all people" that's likely what they mean and it's a great timesaver to take them at face value.

I'm with you, @hntnhole, the experience and connection matter a great deal. That said, "There's time enough for counting when the dealing is done" as the man sang. I do a few seconds of book-keeping when I get back to my car and the experience (and their cum) is fresh in my mind (ass). It really helps knowing who fucked you and when if you need to contact sex partners for an STI exposure. The app I use (Bigger Black Book) also lets you note what you did and how good the sex was quickly and easily which is helpful when considering repeats. When I go in for my STI screenings and they ask me how many partners I've had since the last screening I can tell them exactly. Oh, and I'm a data guy, so...

I've bottomed for 68 people, 27 of them known and 41 anonymous. But that number doesn't tell you about how many encounters you have had with those people. I've had 110 encounters and been fucked 113 times and bred 104 times.

If I'm faced with this dilemma and he needs more stimulation than my mouth can give, I use my ass to suck and milk his cock.

This. I stipulate all the socialization and societal and family dynamics affecting women's sense of what is acceptable and allowed for them. Male privilege as well. But even with all that, testosterone. A friend who was in the process of transitioning FTM pulled me aside after he'd begun testosterone. "I feel incredibly horny all the time. How do men ever get anything done?" he asked. "I want to fuck *all the time*!" We chatted for a while and I theorized that a boy going though puberty was likely the closest analog to what he was feeling. But that where a boy had a period to adjust to the onset of puberty, and was starting from a more neutral state, my friend had been through puberty originally as a female. We wondered whether the transition was more intense because of it. Don't underestimate the influence and power of testosterone to blow through previous AFAB socialization and constraints.

Was his your most influential cock, though? I don't get that from the above.

Yeah, but there are "suspender and belt" types out there. Their argument is "PrEP gets the HIV, for everything else, there's condoms"

One on one, I won't hook up with guys who insist on using a condom. First, if he's fucking the condom he's not fucking me, the condom is fucking me and that doesn't work for me. Second, If they use a condom they aren't a breeder and they aren't for me. In a bathhouse where I'm ass up and taking anyone who needs a compliant ass to fuck, I still make my preference for bare cock known. At my last bathhouse visit, I was ass up on the edge of the bed in my room taking dick and seed for 8 hours and lost count at 16 men having fucked me. One young athletic guy with long dark hair tied up in a top-knot came in and was waiting in line stroking his promising looking dick and watching the guy currently pounding into my ass. When that guy came inside me, Mr Top-knot put a condom on his long dick and, knowing that I was acting as a public utility for horny men, I swallowed my instinctive refusal and presented my ass willingly. He was an awesome fucker and he long-dicked me with his hands on my hips controlling me the whole time and made me moan so well he drew a crowd to my door. It was so intense, I felt that strong pull in my gut to have his seed inside me and I caught his eyes in the mirror and said that I wished he was bare in me. I could tell he had no intention of taking off the condom, but telling him seemed to make him harder and fuck my ass more aggressively than before. The way he was fucking, I could tell he wanted to cum inside me. The shorter Asian man standing in line behind him couldn't stop watching. After another few minutes of progressively harder fucking he pulled back on my hips hard jamming his cock in as deep as it could go and I felt him throbbing his cum into the condom, but not into me. I felt that unpleasant pang of pleasing a man enough for him to cum, but not getting his seed inside me. When he finished and pulled out, I watched him as he carefully removed the condom. I asked him politely if I could have it, and he nodded, gave it to me and left. I turned to the Asian man who was next, handed him the condom and said "Use this as lube" and assumed the position again. I got his cum inside me, even if it was someone else who fucked it in. Some guys insist on condoms, but I decline hooking up with them one on one. In group or other public sex environments where I'll be bred by many men I'm still clear about wanting them to breed, but know I'm there to take care of every man who needs to fuck, even with a condom.

I'm fairly certain that it's all about testosterone, so its no wonder that most men are hungrier than most women.

Point Wells, Edmonds - it's just north of Shoreline. Very popular with my gay nudist friends.

Which gay beach? Howell? Denny Blaine?

This. I know there are plenty of breeders turned on by the anon situation, regardless of the hole, but I hope for a breeder who is turned on by and really wants to fuck his loads into me.

I think the point being made is that not all black men have big dicks, that not all black men are tops, and that not all black men are comfortable being objectified and fetishized based on either of those things alongside their skin color. For black men with big dicks, who are tops, and/or for whom that objectification and fetishization isn't an issue, it's no doubt as awesome as @topblkmale so wryly attests. But for plenty of black men I've spoken to personally they feel dehumanized, devalued, and like there is no place for them in gay life because they don't fit one or all of those expectations that people project onto them. So many incredible hot black bottoms tell me they are pushed into topping by men who can't see them in any other way. As a total bottom myself, that sounds miserable, annoying, and depressing to me.

I'm not sure of the OPs age, but I came of age in Sydney, NSW in the 80s, even then arguably one of the gayest cities in the world. We also had the "Grim Reaper" commercial about HIV, so I know what it felt like to have the crap scared out of you and carry that fear for decades. If you are ready to lay down your burden of fear and dread about HIV and STIs in general, get an appointment for PrEP, Doxycycline PEP, get your Hep A and B shots, and your HPV vaccination. I set down my fear and I've never been happier. There is nothing like the feeling of a man you're connected with cumming inside you when it's what you both really, really want.

Clearly it's time to visit my relatives in QLD and take a swing through Noosa. As of today, I've taken 99 loads from 108 bareback fucks this year. Tonight is a local leather social with a play area, so I'll hopefully be starting my second century for the year.

I absolutely saw how tightly scoped your observation was. I just wanted to give you a concrete example of someone outside that scope. Cheers!

You are in error. There was no mention of white men in the post @taye made. I took it to be very broadly observed and not specific to any one group. I'd suggest it's worth some quiet reflection to understand why you felt it was a personal indictment of white men in general and you specifically. It's ironic that merely perceiving he was "categorizing" white men drew so much ire from you, but the objectification and dehumanization of black men as body parts and robbed of their complete humanity and uniqueness doesn't draw any understanding or empathy from you. @taye related his experience and feelings about how he and other black men are treated. There is no rebuttal to that, his experience and feelings exist and are simply valid.

Nice to meet you. Lots of guys don't like the smell, don't like the mess, and can't use them for medical reasons. All three are true for me, but there's one other. It feels like cheating to have your hole open up artificially. I like showing breeders how my cunt opens up to them naturally. I want them to know I'll take them whatever size and thickness and I won't take shortcuts. Lots of breeders have insisted I'll need poppers to take their cock, they always find out I take their cock and seed just fine without them.

Exactly what I meant by working with your system's rhythm. Lots of humans have this morning bowel movement pattern. Once I prepare after that, I'm good from early afternoon to the late evening.

I'm built and trained for big boys, but the amount of preparation I make (and the time it takes) changes depending on how big a man is. I don't make any issue of the size of a man's dick, at either end of the bell curve, and would not bring it up except that I like to prepare appropriately so we can both relax and enjoy each other. I've had men who didn't share that they were 9" or over before we got together and thinking about it the deeper they dig can be anxiety provoking. When a big man pops the Sigmoid flexure and you weren't prepared for it... For that reason I appreciate men who share information in stats and pics that gives me what I need to know without asking how big his dick is. It just seems rude to ask since it's the whole man that fucks you, not just his dick. Know your system. If your body has regular times you pass stool, work with your body's natural rhythm and timing. My standard prep is regular fiber supplements, sparing food intake, clean out 2 hours before, relax, check my system is good and check/clean out one hour before, relax, and a final check before I leave. I have a silicone 12" douching nozzle I use to clean out depending on how big a man is, but I always use that nozzle (lubed) to depth and clean test my hole. Knowing how big he is, I ensure that I'm clean to His_Size + 2". Cleaning out produces, and can remove, a lot of slippery mucus and checking that it's clear is another indicator. Finally, I use a water based lube much like the natural mucus to ensure that it's slick and natural feeling when he slides in. All this said, accidents can happen so if it does, have a sense of humor about it. Go clean up, freshen up, and get back on that dick.

Many of us are looking forward to your next installment, but waiting patiently while you deal with your life, summer, and the challenges of creativity. Don't take silence as a lack of interest. 😈

The deeper and more intense the impregnation, the better for both. I appreciate breeders who pull out carefully to leave their seed where they pumped it. I've noticed that when hung guys have impregnated me deep and they pull out, it seems to take forever for their dicks to get out of me, and the feeling is so cum-slick that my ass often spasms from the pleasure during and after they pull out. As great as multiple men's seed feels in our holes, for me, a single hung breeder who has a solid impregnation drive/kink that matches or exceeds my own (hard to imagine) and the energy, intensity, and virile seed to back it up will always be the experience I gravitate to more. Now, if he's already a father and has known good sperm it makes the impregnation so much better. Knowing and feeling how much a man wants you knocked up with their DNA matters. I bond well with men who like to know their seed is being cherished inside me as I go about my day.