blackrobe
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I prefer being naked so the breeder can touch whatever he likes. Of course, I also honor requests to wear a jockstrap if that's what lights a breeder's fire. I think some guys wear a jock because it makes their ass look hot and inviting and they want to get dick in it. I don't think universally painting a jock as a tool for sequestering a man's cock passes the red face test. Jocks are so fetishized and linked to sports and high school that there are a myriad of reasons a guy would want to wear one.
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I completely get where you are coming from with this observation as it's certainly what's reflected back at us in a lot of porn. I'll be honest, I'm amazed I get any dick at all when I see the juicy black, brown, and API bottoms out there. They are just *so* damned sexy and I feel mystified why they aren't near the top of most tops "must breed" lists. ...until I consider what mainstream porn reinforces in its taste-making role in our community. Then there's the archetypes and power dynamics that people have grown up surrounded by. I'm just happy to have a sexy man's cock in my mouth.
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I feel you, brother. -
Smart bottoms don't narrow the field up front, you want as many breeders as possible to try your hole. It's just about chemistry at the end of the day. Some of my best experiences have been with under-served men.
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I think over the summer it makes sense for there to be lots of guests passing through while tradesmen visiting would have to be for an emergency, with the rest of maintenance postponed until the peak season passes. I'm sure there are events in that area that cause people to visit in the summer.
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What awakened your sexuality in your early years.
blackrobe replied to a topic in General Discussion
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An elderly friend of a friend has been going through oral surgery to remove all his teeth. He's had the bottom teeth removed and is getting used to his bottom dentures. Next he'll have his top teeth removed and get an upper denture. I'm thinking about once he's healed encouraging him to give out gum jobs to men who need them. I'm not sure he knows that this is a thing men hunger for.
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I think what you are getting at here is what I think of as "agency". Choosing to act in a way to secure a specific outcome. Even while being controlled by a man using you, you can choose to act in a way that maximizes his, and your own, pleasure and fulfillment. Some dominants and tops would think of this as their bottom showing initiative in securing or enhancing their pleasure. Freedom to act within the parameters of pleasing your partner and meeting, or exceeding, their expectations is not the same as taking control from them.
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A man's voice, what he says and his accent, can have a huge impact on my desire or need to service and be impregnated by them. Deep voices, rich, distinctive, unusual voices are very attractive. Men who know how to express themselves and their needs and feelings in that moment are oh, so very attractive. Men seem to enjoy the sounds I make and they enjoy hearing my (Australian) accent come out as I respond to them. Quite a few men are more excited to fuck and breed me once they know I'm an Aussie and hear my accent come out the more intensely we fuck and connect. I think being authentic in your reactions and how you express yourself pays dividends in terms of connection and satisfaction you can give your partner.
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What's your total number of loads for the year, puppy?
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Damn. What kind of conference was this?
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Of course it is (dad and sons).
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OK, Explain: Bottom Profiles With Cock Pics
blackrobe replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
Then you clearly missed the point I was making in this last response. We all have free-will, and everyone makes their own determinations on what concessions they can live with to get what they want or need. After that, we either just accept any accommodations we can live with as the cost of doing business and get on with life, or spin our wheels complaining about why things aren't the way we'd prefer them to be. I don't see trying to fit other people with black hats for expressing their own free-will and making their own accommodations as being very useful. After all, they are just making the same kinds of trade-offs I am. -
OK, Explain: Bottom Profiles With Cock Pics
blackrobe replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
It's a bummer when other people's free-will and self-image gets in the way of one getting the quality and quantity of sex one desires. C'est la vie. I'm fairly certain that blaming people for not doing things your way is *not* going to lead to the outcomes you're hoping for. -
OK, Explain: Bottom Profiles With Cock Pics
blackrobe replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
My regulars enjoy that they can fuck ropes of precum out of my dick and have it end up soaking us both depending on the position. A couple of them check to see how much I'm leaking as they fuck me, and then feed my precum to me as I leak. -
OK, Explain: Bottom Profiles With Cock Pics
blackrobe replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
That's a good insight, @tallslenderguy. I'm a total bottom that loves a man with a big strong ass fucking me. I instinctively feel like his strong ass is the flexing, driving engine of his fuck and means of him possessing my ass and impregnating me deeply with his seed. Grabbing hold of his ass as he pounds into mine and feeling his power and need to breed is hot as fuck for me. I love seeing a breeders strong ass and feeling it in my hands, but it sure doesn't make me a top. Why should the flip of that be true then? -
OK, Explain: Bottom Profiles With Cock Pics
blackrobe replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
I tried not having a cock pic at all. It didn't go well. Guys were always asking for a dick pic even though I was clear on my profiles that I'm a total bottom. It seems lots of tops have a thing about the bottom's dick (small, big, cum volume, locked, etc.) which made it matter to them somehow. Versatile guys too. I tried sending pics of my locked cock to reinforce that I'm a bottom, but it doesn't appeal to most tops and narrowed the breeder pool too much. On squirt, the only way I got much attention was with a dick pic for my main profile pic (I tried a timed experiment, the dick pic drove more messages and chats than anything else). I swapped it out for an ass pic eventually, taking the hit in traffic to get fewer more qualified breeder leads. In the end I had to put dick pics as secondary images on my profiles to avoid having to send them to prospective breeders who request them. The downside is low-comprehension high-intoxication bottoms sending "Breed me!" messages. I think it's tough to get by without a dick pic at all. -
Cumdumps know where they stand with you.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
blackrobe replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
A chastity cage is the gift that keeps on giving. -
That was myself and a buddy yesterday at an ABS in Seattle. A horny, thick-dicked, pig top went back and forth between us and we each earned a load from him.
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Much of what @Baretop4ever relates resonates strongly for me from the bottom side. If it gets to that primal level, a different kind of consciousness seems to be in control. I feel incredibly receptive and need to feel him rut in me and his drive to impregnate. My body spasms (and my dick leaks a lot) when I'm being fucked well. My ass often continues to react to a powerful mating for up to a half hour afterwards. Connected primal fucking that rises to mating is another level or experience. When I next travel in Germany I'll reach out to you @Baretop4ever and we can compare notes in person
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Gay sides on hookup sites and in in person sex venues?
blackrobe replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
My understanding is that "Side" was coined by Joe Kort PhD in a Huffington Post article titled "Guys on the 'Side': Looking Beyond Gay Tops and Bottoms" in April 2013. From his article: My interpretation based on this definition is that the only thing that's off the table with side men is anal play. -
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My standard is that it's in a venue open to the public (who aren't there to have sex). In this case, the bar often has straight women and men there who are waiting to get into, or have just come out of, a music venue a few doors down. On several occasions these straight women have tried to look behind the curtain and I've had to pull it across tightly and stand in their way smiling implacably. That feels pretty damned public to me.
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Yup, that's the last place I took public-ish dick. BTW, CC's Seattle has an SML Leather Social on the first Friday of each month as well (and has a curtained-off section too). I prefer Diesel for a bunch of reasons.
