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Perhaps you have experiences that inform your restrictions, but I really recommend opening yourself up to men of all races and ethnicities, uncut, as well as men over 40. If I were to plot my best experiences on a graph, many of them were older, uncut men of color.
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Based on your description, you were raped. No consent, being physically overpowered, and forced penetration = rape.
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Took my first dick ever anon, raw, and understall
blackrobe replied to danielfxxx's topic in Your Last Load...
I would perhaps say he's been perfected and found his calling. -
It brings to mind a saying an old friend used to say to me... "Long and thin gets right in, but short and thick does the trick." There are different average dick sizes in different countries. There are datasets that exist and can show what the average is for each. You can explore and get a more realistic sense of what is average at [think before following links] https://calcsd.info.
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How long do most tops really last when fucking
blackrobe replied to btmdad's topic in General Discussion
Yeah, I get that. It's a very different vibe. The holy grail for me is a connected fuck with what I think of as "long-haul" fuckers and breeders. An intense experience that unfolds over a few hours without rushing. My best experiences tend to be 2 to 5 hour long sessions where we lose ourselves, get primal, and don't even feel the time passing. My daddy and regulars can always tell how much I'm enjoying them inside me and pleasing them. I'm told I make great sounds when I'm being fucked, but what they love most is how much my dick leaks while I'm being fucked well. Multi-cummers, long-fuckers, or guys who take a long time to cum are ideal playmates. I like giving the guys who can go long the time to do that, since they tell me so many bottoms are one and done and not up for the long-haul. I like to really surrender and earn the moments when a man can't help but lose himself completely and throb his seed inside me. -
How long do most tops really last when fucking
blackrobe replied to btmdad's topic in General Discussion
The slow intensity building sounds very tantric in quality. Men who are that patient and capable of deferred gratification aren't as common as I'd like. -
Side was coined for men who have sex with men that don't have or want anal sex. I support the use of the term and them in that choice. People have already started confusing and diluting what side means. I see lots of profiles with "Top/Side" or some other union of buttfucker and non-buttfucker. Any profile with side on it (in any combination) I don't approach. I've had some conversation with "Top/side" guys who are annoyed at my passing on them because they are sides. When I point out that top means you do anal, and side means you don't, things seem to go downhill fast from there. It's an oxymoron like "carnivore vegetarian" and "religious atheist". I am vehemently in favor of respecting what people want for themselves. It's not a good sign when some of them don't understand what that is or can't express it coherently. When it's ambiguous or confused, I'm politely uninterested.
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I was drugged and raped when I was 12 by the dormitory master for my year, a religious brother, at the boy's home I was in. It completely fucked up my sexuality and personal relationships for decades. I didn't even realize what happened to me was child sexual abuse until I was reading an article in the newspaper in my 20s about the outcomes for child rape survivors. As I went down the list of impacts my stomach felt like it dropped out of me, almost every impact applied to me. I started therapy that week. I did all the work to get my head right, but no one has a roadmap for how to deal with how your body holds on to what happens to you. It took a long, long time to undo the abject terror of getting fucked and try it in a way that let me feel safe and in control. That's when I realized I was wired as a bottom and discovered incredible joy from getting fucked and bred. Rape affects men as deeply as it can women, but for children there's significant research showing child sexual abuse affects how our brains work (fMRI studies) and alters structures in the brain and how they function. Child rapists don't just fuck our bodies for however long they want us, they fuck our brains and they stay that way. We have to learn how to manage the results for the rest of our lives.
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How long do most tops really last when fucking
blackrobe replied to btmdad's topic in General Discussion
I love the fucking a lot too. It's how you drive up the intensity and connection and its certainly what distinguishes a regular breeder from a Special Guest Star.. At the same time, if a man isn't a long-haul fucker I'm fine with him breeding whenever the spirit moves him. I'm into meeting breeders where they are and connecting with them there. After all, the same man who impregnates you after a half-dozen thrusts one week might wear out your hole before breeding you the next. Be open to whatever he's bringing into the room and maybe he'll do the same for you. -
This. The best way to receive a breeders seed is with him in full rut like this. It's a feeling like you're trying to merge bodies completely. There are different vibes to this through. Some breeders are cunt-stabbers who pull back enough to really stab their cock into your soft guts, as though impregnating you properly must involve some momentary pain. Some breeders are cunt-pounders who want your whole body to feel your impregnation in your blood, bone, and sinew. Other breeders are cunt-stretchers who have to pop open your inner cunt when they impregnate you and hold it open until they are finished seeding. While still other breeders are cunt-grinders who seem like they need their cock to touch and claim every part of your cunt and coat it with their DNA. I'm content with whatever vibe so long as he's in full rut.
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That's inexcusable. In the same way bottoms would like tops to be understanding of the complexities and difficulties of bottoming, bottoms have to understand the challenges of topping. I've had meetups with men who said "I don't always get hard" or something like it. I smile and just say I'm there to make them feel good and just relax and do what feels good to them. Every time they relax, we make out, and they get very turned on and have no problem getting hard. Arousal is such a multi-factored thing. I try to take the pressure off tops so they know whatever happens, it's going to be fine and fun.
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I've found Recon to be very inactive in my area. FetLife isn't gay/queer enough for me. I've found most of my power dynamic fwbs and my daddy through regular hookup apps. At the end of the day, you need to meet more guys who are open to your kinks, talk about power dynamics in your profiles. Regular hookup apps and in person cruising are the best way to meet more men in my experience.
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I don't know what this is supposed to mean. Is it meant to imply they have no dicks, that they only do oral, that they have no sex at all (lesbian bed-death)?
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My nipples are wired to my hole. I love having my nipples touched, but having them sucked and nibbled and licked passionately drives me crazy. Men who do it while their dick is inside me connects to something primal in me.
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Some of my best sexual experieinces have been with men who produced lots of precum. Every time I tasted a surge of their sex-drive juice it made me moan around their cock and feel more and more desperate to feel them precumming inside my cunt and making me wetter and wetter (these also tend to be the men who love a hole that talks back to them).
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Do you bottom with guys that have small dicks?
blackrobe replied to Iker80's topic in General Discussion
There's some enlightened self-interest in taking "small" dicks too! Every fuck is an opportunity to expand your horizons and I've had awesome fucks from smaller guys that were scorching hot, and tepid fucks from a bigger guys where the vibe dragged. Filtering out men by size robs you of the surprise brilliant fuck. -
why do tops care what a cumdump looks like?
blackrobe replied to btmdad's topic in General Discussion
It's not at all weird to want to be attracted to the bottoms you fuck. I greatly enjoy spending time with a top breeder who is into me. Don't get me wrong, I'll take care of any man I connect with, but when you're both really into each other the experience is so much more intense. -
There's no need to be curious, there is data. At 5.5" using the global data, you're at 50.69%. That means that in a room of 1000 men, 493 would be bigger. At 6" using the global data, you're at 78.11% and in a room of 1000 men 219 would be bigger. 5.5" is slightly above the global average, and 6" is significant;ty above the global average. Length isn't the only metric, there is data for girth as well, so having BPL "Bone Pressed Length" and widest girth while erect is the best way to see how you actually measure up based on the data at [think before following links] https://calcsd.info. Note that there are different datasets for different regions of the world, but I'm using the Global data. 5.5" to 6" sounds eminently suckable to me.
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I'd be considering all of these places, but I don't speak Spanish. It feels disrespectful to go and live in a place where you don't speak the language passably well. At the same time, there's a lot to like about places like Ecuador and parts of Mexico. Indigenous and transplanted cultures add to the interest there with First Peoples and Afro-Mexicans. Oaxaca seems very interesting at first glance. It makes me wonder how they'd cope with a fair skinned Australian living amongst them. I'm interested in all kinds of men from all cultures, but wonder if I'd be an outlier and not their cup of tea.
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I appreciate men who have strong instincts and need to breed deep and impregnate my hole. It's a good balance to my powerful need to be filled deeply with men's DNA. I've noticed that in home-made porn (where men just set up a camera and then just focus on fucking) it's the tops who thrust their cocks in deeper and harder as they come that really get to me. The best are the men so overwhelmed by their instinct to breed their seed deeply that they climb up the bottom and hold them down to jam the root of their spasming cock in as deeply as possible so that their glans are at the deepest place inside the bottom that they can possibly reach.
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I find I'm horny when I have a cold as well. It's tough because infection control says we should isolate and not give the cold to others, but the longer the cold goes on, the harder it is to resist giving up my ass for men to enjoy and fill. That means by the time I'm well and not contagious I'm going to be very, very eager.
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I ran across this guy and his podcast and I found him ethically troubling. I thought he showed poor judgement in what he glorified in what he termed "alpha men". He revelled in these supposed "alphas" doing whatever the hell they wanted no matter how it hurt the "fags". I'm into power dynamics, but nothing about it was good. His interviews with "alphas" were just him fawning and seeking their favor. It was Red Flag Central for me.
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Here's a list of the reasons I've tracked or am tracking my sex with men: Tracking for PrEP and STI testing appointments. Tracking because your daddy or dom has told you to. Reporting all sex not with them. Recounting all sex for them to enjoy as they fuck you. Tracking to ensure that >50% of all loads you get are from your daddy/dom. Remembering what men like and enjoy in case of repeats. Remembering which men affected me most profoundly as we played. I'm like you when I'm playing, I'm immersed in the experience and enjoying the passion and connection. When I'm finished and sitting in my car, my hole wet and supple with fresh bred cum, I pause and capture the experience for a few minutes before I drive home and absorb the seed I've been given. It's not onerous or distracting, it's mindful and useful. YMMV.
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First time fucked. Unexpected and shocking
blackrobe replied to Teeslad70's topic in Your Last Load...
PSA: 12.7K views does not equal 12.7k unique viewers. Every time a new post is added to a topic (like this one) the topic shows something unread to be viewed. That means everyone who has viewed it before has a reason to view it again. With 15 posts per page and 6 pages, for example, that's 90 chances for users to see the new post flag and view or re-view the thread. In writing this post I viewed the thread 4-5 times myself. Perhaps there is a Unique Users counter in the software, but I don't see it exposed here. -
How to handle ones that are too big?
blackrobe replied to slaveboi's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
For those of us with a physiology that doesn't accommodate big men fully in our mouths and throats or where teeth placement isn't ideal, it's a challenge. I have a shorter and narrower jaw with a smaller arc and it makes sucking in some positions and angles very difficult. I need to open wider than most to avoid tooth contact and that takes effort. I get very good (and a few rave) reviews for worshipful sucking of men's cocks, but if it becomes a session of 30 minutes or more focused only on sucking then muscle fatigue and TMJ problems become an issue. I've also found that swallowing big cocks down my throat most often completely blocks my ability to breathe through my nose, so I've had to master holding my breath and learning to breathe around the cock without drawing attention that I'm doing it. I'd love a larger opening between my left and right molars (a wider jaw essentially) to allow bigger cocks to be sucked and slide down my throat more easily. In lieu or maxillomandibular surgery I do the best I can and always have my hole ready for use.
