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Practicing Social Distancing has caused me to spend more time watching the videos I've taken over the years (as well as a lot PornHub). I was watching a hot video of a guy fucking me and noticed that he would methodically pause to retract his foreskin each time it rolled back in place. He'd either pull out completely, retract and renter or grab the base of his cock to hold it in place for a few moment. I looked at some other videos of tops fucking me and noted some stay retracted, other seem to not care one way or the other and some don't really seem to retract at all. This got me curious about preferences and trends so I thought I'd make a poll. I'm also curious to hear your perspectives on this.

Looking for a reliable private glory hole within walking distance of downtown business districts for mid-day release a few times a week. Please send a private message with contact details if you can accommodate. Had a great arrangement with a guy who lived walking distance from my office but he's moved away. He usually sucked me off but occasionally bent over. I'm sure I'm not the only office worker looking for a replacement.

I remember the memorable ones! 🤩 Some are just not memorable

The worst feeling in a few days after being a bottom whore, particularly if you took a lot of big cock, when you have a mild ache in your ass and can't tell if its gonorrhea/chlamydia or just sore and tight from the workout, similar to muscle fatigue feeling a few days after the gym. By day 4-5, you'll know as it's either gone or getting worse. There are 2-3 days in there where it's the exact same feeling and I'm always wondering if I have a problem. I rarely get an STD in my cock. Not sure why. Just twice ever and I top a lot, including frequent visits to anon cumdumps.

Zone LA Sunday evening. Hottest sex I've had in a long while, changing my opinion of this place. I took 6 loads in under 90 minutes and nobody tried to use a condom, which is not my past experience there - though it's been a while. Load 1 - within five minutes of arrival - hot ,muscular middle eastern guy, 8" tick cut cock (larger than I expected 😲), mid to late 30s. I walked up the stairs near the glory hole booths on the first level and he was standing alone near the top. Brief eye contact, mutual interest, we stepped into nearest booth and closed the door. Sucked him for a few minute then stood up and bent over. He forced in, balls deep with just a little spit and a few thrusts. It was a painful start but I told him to keep going and I was fine within a minute or two. He fucked me pretty aggressively for about 3-5 minutes with a few awkward stops and starts then pulled out. I asked him to give me his load and he said "I did". I reached around and felt a gob of cum on my hole. No other words were exchanged. Load 2 - I stayed on the top level and a hot latin guy, late 20s, almost immediately grabbed me and took me to the back corner of the top level of the glory hole arcade in the middle. You know that really dark area. I have no idea where he came from but suspect he was loitering around the booth I was getting fucked in and wanted to be next. He stuck is tongue down my throat and my hand went down his pants. I felt a semi hard very meaty uncut cock. He turned me around and bent me over and licked my ass which certainly gave him a big taste of the load that had been in me for less than a minute. He stood up, now fully hard and very hung and pushed in. His uncut cock felt so nice after the first fuck. This guy clearly wanted to cum because he fucked hard from the start and i could feel and hear him building up the whole time. He was a very experienced top who knew how to fuck and every action was for his pleasure. He stayed inserted right to his balls the whole time but managed to use every millimeter of his foreskin to have full thrusts, resulting in an amazing feeling for me. He also assertively postponed me to exactly the angle he wanted. He fucked me for a little under 10 minutes until he mound and blasted inside me. We'd formed quite a crowd by that point and I don't think he liked that because he ran away quick. He shot a massive load which was running down my leg. I stuck around for a second to see if mister next was there but I didn't like my options. Can't decide if this or No. 6 below was the best of the night. Load 3 - Went back downstairs, to the glory hole arcade and walked around for a few minutes. A shy, thin white guy, maybe early 40s gave me a smile and stepped in a booth. I entered the booth next to him and he stuck his cock through the hole. Nice size cock but not as big as the first two. Sucked him for a few minutes, he signaled for my cock which I let him suck for a few minutes (he gave great head). He stopped sucking signaling it was my turn again and I decided to offer my ass. I thought that would scare him away but, to my surprise, I felt his cock at my hole. He slid in, fucked for a few minutes and gave me his load. Load 4 - Went to dark room (not pitch black) on the first floor. Big crowd, one hot young guy fucking another hot young guy in back corner. Lots of on lookers, I did a lap to avoid the frenzy. Went back to that area, hot guys were gone crowd was dissipating. Fit white guy mid to late 40s was standing with his average cock out, rock card. I sucked him for a bit and decided to try my luck again. Stood up turned around and he slid right in. He pumped my hole for a few minutes, gave his load and we went our own ways. Load 5 - I went up to the mid level to chill for a moment as I was slightly light headed from poppers. Went into glory hole boot with a bench. Nobody else was around. Next thing I know a cock comes through one of the holes. Another large uncut cock, very curved white with a pink head. European looking based on past experience. Maybe German. I didn't even suck him. Just pulled down my pants and backed up. Right in he went. I was leaking a lot of cum as he fucked me and this was the longest fuck of the evening. He eventually came and I never saw him. Load 6 - I was actually heading for the exit when I saw a hot guys, mid 30s, soft muscly with a little meat and hairy. Not an Otter. Also not a Bear. I decided to see if he was interested and initially got the impression he was not. I decided to do another lap and bumped into him a few minutes later upstairs. He was talking to a tattooed latin guy but disengaged and looked at me. I initiated chit chat and asked if he wanted to play. He indicated that he wanted to bottom and I indicated I'd top him (since I was leaving). The latino guy had sad puppy look and followed us to the cubicle. He was sexy and the cubicle wasn't so small so I suggested that we let him join. Muscle guy stripped and had a nice beefy very furry ass and nice uncut cock. I was instantly rock hard. Latin guy also had a nice uncut cock and was ripped when he took his shirt off. Latin guy was a top so hairy guy and iI swapped back and forth between middle position and bottom. We were all the same height (tall) so this setup actually worked. On my second go in the middle with latin guys cock up my ass and mine balls deep in the hairy guy's hole, I had no control. I was in popper ecstasy getting pleasure on both ends and they were fully controlling the motion. I exploded in the hairy guys ass but they kept going and I came a second time a minute or two later. I was spent and the latin guy pulled out of my very cummy hole and pounded the hairy guy for a few more minutes before giving up his load. Hairy guy then asked I i could take his cock after shooting my load and I agreed. He was right on the edge and came almost immediately after sliding in my hole. There were still guys coming in when I left and I'm sure I could have gotten more action. However, I was very satisfied and decided to leave on a high note.

To me the hottest thing is when it's real sex that happens to be recorded, especially a cumdump taking loads. The original TIM Fuckholes is the best example of this. I was in high school when I first saw it and those scenes still get me off instantly every single time. Also like several things motioned above and didn't realize so many other got turned on by the cameraman.

Like many up thread, I also love quick cummers. Getting the load is the most satisfying part of bottoming. What bothers me the most are guys who fuck for a long time and then pull out and walk away without cumming.

Personally I'm fine with any cock that's average (say 6") to giant. It's the small ones that hurt me. Too much poking. With a really big cock, for me, I like the tops to ease in slowly but all the way during the first minute then I give indication that I'm ready to take it. There's then maybe another minute of discomfort (not pain) as he's opening up the second hole but there after it's all pleasure. I also find that tops get really excited. Some seem surprised when I tell them to go all the way in right away but they get a devious smile. Becomes clear to them that I'm going to be a good fuck, I suppose.

I regularly have success meeting guys from BBRT, Grindr and Scruff. I use others apps too but those are the primary sources for sex. Hookups are multi-demential. You need the right combination of attraction, opportunity and state of mind. Sometimes when I really want to hookup, it's a ghost town and nobody is looking. Other times when I'm not in the mood or have plans, I get pinged non-stop. Same can happen with role. Sometimes I want to top and the apps area awash with tops. Other times when I want to bottom, not a top available within miles in a major city. But then there are the times when all the criteria align. I think the key is to be spontaneous and take the opportunity when it presents. I had this happen yesterday. I had just gotten home from traveling and had about two hours to myself before dinner plans. A hot guy hit me up and wanted to fuck me. I hadn't planned on getting cleaned up but took the opportunity. He came by, turned out to have a giant cock and really knew how to use it. On top of it all he was a really nice guy and I probably have a new regular FB. I make this point because I had to overcome my initial instinct which was to say, I don't have time right now. From reading posts in this thread (and similar) I always get the impression that guys take hookup success (or failure) too personally. It's really transactional. Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn't. Reasons are always out of your control.

I have a very high sex drive (blessing and curse) and I can easily keep going. Agree with what others have said about orgasms getting more intense each time. I do find it a little hard to get fucked after I've cum. However, in my experience, if I grin and bear the intensity for a minute or so, it become enjoyable again.

Sometimes I feel it, sometimes I don't. I think the motion certainly impacts the ability to feel but don't think that position or intensity matter much. I do think anatomy of the top is a big factor. Some tops' cocks really pulsate when they cum and these are the ones you'll feel easily. Think of a jerk off video where a guy shoots numerous quick little squirts of cum that tend to shoot farther. Other guys, and I fall into this category, have thicker streams of cum that do not shoot very far but are dense. I can feel these too but the feeling is less pulsating more very quickly getting slick and wet, possibly even leaking a little bit. Many guys just don't have very big (whether it's nature or they're sluts that cum constantly 😈). You're unlikely to feel these guys shoot but their cum will still be in you.

Late bloomer -- I was a total top until I dated a total top in my late 20s. We both had to learn to bottom. When we broke up, to my surprise, I found myself wanting to get fucked and that led to a 1-2 year period where sex was very exciting. Felt like I was 16 again as it was all new when I was in bottom mode. Initially I'd arrange hookups with tops from Grindr mostly. This was anon in the sense that I didn't know the guys and often never saw them again after taking their cum. As I got more experienced bottoming, and went on PrEP, I started setting up BBRT parties while traveling for work (still do this) where I typical end up taking loads from 5-10 guys in an evening. This isn't a no load refused scenario. I only Invite guys I'm attracted to and typically catch 1-2 more attractive guys from Grinder in the moment. The level of anonymity varies and is dictated by the top. It ranges from a sociable meetup and fuck to "make the room pitch black and lie on the bed" (usually horny flight attendants and pilots traveling with their crew who request this - LOL). I've only taken truly anon loads a handful of times (less than 10 and I can recall each time). The most anon thing I've done, and just once, was park myself in glory hole booth at an ABS and take the cocks that came through the hole. I took six cocks but I didn't really enjoy this and I'm not likely to do it again. Twice I've gone into the dark room at a Bathhouse and bent myself over on a fuck bench. Between the distracting fondling by other guys every time you're getting fucked and the parade of sharp fingernails being jammed in your ass... no thanks. I've also tried totally anon scene (blindfolded) at my apartment but, second time, one of the guys stole random things (like a phone charger and a bottle of wine?) so I decided that wasn't a good idea. Overall, I think it's fair to say that I love taking cock from strangers I'm attracted to but I'm not very much into totally unscreened anon situations. p.s. This thread very much makes me sound like a bottom. However, I'm 50/50 vers and definitely fuck more often than I get fucked.

Never done this and I don't think I'd ever initiate if I valued the friendship. I do have one friend who jokes about it with me (in group setting) but he's never acted on it or brought it up 1-on-1. Similarly, I have a straight friend who has an absolutely giant cock. No matter what clothing he's wearing it visible and he seems to be completely unaware. My goal is to just see the thing!

I have an extremely high sex drive so will act on any appealing opportunity to cum. I find it more difficult to cum from a BJ than jerking off, fucking or getting fucked. If the guy does not have strong BJ skills, it's doubtful that I'll cum. Even when the guy is skilled, it takes longer. I feel the build up to ejaculation but linger at the edge for a long while struggling to shoot. My experience is that most often, the guy will subtly change how he's sucking and I lose the build up at this point. Then most guys will suck more aggressively which tend to have the opposite effect on me. If/when I do cum, a BJ orgasm is is the weakest for me and I typically remain horny afterwards. Jerking off, which I only do out of necessity (always look for a bottom first when time permits) is the second weakest but with some hot porn and a bit of edging, I can work myself up to a decently satisfying orgasm that will hold me over for a little bit (like half a day - lol). When I top, I have very satisfying orgasms which are much more intense and result in a much bigger cum shot, leaving me very satisfied. The best though is is the orgasm when I cum while or after bottoming. The feeling is full-body and very intense - I almost end up dazed for a moment - and the cum shot is impressive. I rarely cum hands free, but it doesn't take much, particularly in the cock is big. Just a few rubs from either me or the top. If I'm on my stomach the friction between me and the bed does it nearly every time. In a perfectly world, this is the only way I'd cum.

This is actually one of the things that frustrates me about bathhouses. If a top fucks me, I'm greedy and want the load! I hate when they don't want to cum. For this reason I typically top more than bottom at a bathhouse. And if you get my cock, you get one of my loads.

I don't enjoy getting fucked by a pierced cock. Personal preference. I've always wondered if pierced tops would be accommodating or aggravated if I ask them to take it out. (I've never asked.)

I went to High School in Manhattan and we were permitted to leave for lunch our senior year. Once or twice a week I would go to an ABS a few blocks away and stick my cock through one of the glory holes to get off. I usually got sucked off but sometimes whomever was on the other side would back their ass onto my cock. I let it happen without a condom every time. This was my first experience fucking raw with total strangers. I probably bred about 20 bottoms at lunch in high school. I've never told anyone this.

I'm a senior level director and what you describe is legally a hostile work environment (federal). May or may be sexual harassment, depending on state. Your employer has an obligation stop the situation 1) if it is observable to management; or 2) if you report the situation. If your employer fails to take action (based on either scenario), it's legally actionable but make sure your evidence is solid. (For example, follow-up via e-mail after you report your concern, if you decide to do so.) Based on the details you shared, it sounds like your employer is part of the problem. What you describe is extreme, must be known to management and I've fired people for far less. I sounds like they tolerate this behavior (in violation of federal law) and will not fix the problem. Your best outcome may be finding a better employer. If you take that route, make sure to complain formally before resigning to preserve your legal rights. Do this when you're relatively far along in the interview process and if your current employer is stupid enough to fire you or take some other retaliatory job action, then you'll have a cash money $$$ legal case after you're happily at your new job. Most important - don't suffer in silence. Do something you are comfortable with to resolve the situation. Feel free to private message me and I can send you links to relevant legal reference material.

BB is the norm in forward-looking cities where PrEP is readily available and encouraged. Other places.... They fuck BB too but with more shame and more effort on my end.... Had this experience this past week while traveling for work. Hot guy fucked me raw then, after he was dressed, asked if I was on PrEP/Negative. A question I have is during say the late 80s to 2010ish, were condoms used a diligently as all would like to remember? Or did people just not admit they fucked bare.? I've always wondered this since PrEP was generally available from the time I was in my early 20s - granted not as common then.

Routinely taking the high road when bottoming in a group setting. When pushy bottom comes along and steals the top, I just let it happen and assume they need it more than me.

For years, a close friend and I were pig travel buddies. We'd regularly go on vacation and pig out together. Sadly, he's settled down with a guy and can no longer join me for sex vacations. So, the reason for my post is 1) I'm curious if other guys have similar arrangements and 2) I'm hoping that someone on this forum may be interested in establishing a friendship of this nature. Ideally I'm looking for someone who can be normal when appropriate (dinner, bars, enjoying a city, etc.) but then lets his inner pig loose at the appropriate moment. We can fuck each other or not but must be open to playing with others together. Strong preference for a top or vers guy so we're not competing for cock constantly. We'll also both pay our own way but fine to split costs like hotels and meals. I'm based in California. Your home city is not an important factor but US guy preferred for ease of coordinating travel. So if this sounds appealing, contact me. Otherwise just share your piggy stories.

I travel a lot so getting fucked or fucking guys who don't speak english is a fairly regular occurrence. I do find it hot but the novelty has worn off. Generally I see more of a downside to not speaking the local language because it's very challenging to hookup at off-peak hours when bars or saunas aren't busy. I recently had this experience in Sao Palo. Even with my diligent effort to Google translate Grindr messages and responses, I couldn't keep up or get the slang right and guys clearly just gave up on me. I did recently have a very hot experience with a friend. We've known each other for years but never played. I was at a sex party in LA (neither of us live there) and there he is so, one thing led to another, and his cock was in my ass. Right as he was about to blow his load, he began whispering to me in Serbian which was super hot because I had no idea that he even spoke another language. Apparently his parent emigrated from Serbia (I didn't know that) and while he was born in the US, his family spoke (and still speaks) Serbian at home. After we were done, we walked out together and he told me that only happens during really hot fucks where he loses himself in the moment.

Banking - which works out very nicely. I get to sample hot guys all over the world while traveling for business. p.s. Thanks for the topic. It's nice the read that fellow pigs are sprinkled across all aspects of life.

Filming should always be pre-negotiated. It's unreasonable to expect you have the right to film your encounter without consent (and illegal in some places). While you may not care if there is a video of you fucking on the web, it could be devastating to lives or high profiles careers. Otherwise everything in this thread seems either incredibly obvious or indicative of a high maintenance bottom or top. Do others really have so much trouble?

I've always struggled to understand the economics of places such as the ones listed. Simply put, the real estate occupied by these venues can likely always generate far more revenue with really any other successful business. Factors working against success include (not al apply to each business): 1. Real Estate that is in use just a very small percent of the time 2.Multi-shift staffing (if not 24x7) with extended slow time periods. 3. Relatively low cost of entry which results in limited revenue even during well attended periods. 4. Booming city centers resulting increased occupancy and operating costs. (magnified in situations where neighborhood has gentrified) 5. Limited customer base. Gays are a small percentage of the population and only a small percentage of gays actually attend these venues regularly. 6. Competition from far more efficient (and free) methods of finding sex. (Hi Grindr) 7. Mainstreaming and broader acceptance of the gay family unit I don't think there are any politics at play. Just pure economics.