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downtownswallow

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  1. The Bottom's cum...the Top's precum cum and the Top's spit. I've avoided commercial lubes.
  2. I'm the one responsible for my health and well-being. So I ask for proof re status. If they refuse, that's it and I move on. And I expect my partners to be on pRep just like me.
  3. I was in my mid-20's and AIDS was raging. The first cocksucking I did was a gay friend of a friend who sensed my curiosity. He was patient, taught me some rules of gay sex and surviving AIDS before he taught me some cocksucking techniques. I experienced how it felt to make a man's cock cum from my oral efforts. I loved feeling the shift pulse and the gathering heat in the end of the condom. Still, it didn't feel right until I did it without a condom. That time was truly my first, since the end result was another man's cum filling my mouth.
  4. Nope. Period. End of story. Red line. Flashing STOP sign. Alarm bells. Banjos strumming.
  5. If I'm going consider allowing a man inside me raw, I not only ask about his status but suggest we exchange test results. I consider my health status to be paramount. The few men that have attempted to stealth me are nothing to me. The only one that ever did stealth me is lucky I allowed him to leave without a stretcher and ambulance. Honesty is critical for my enjoyment. I lived thru the AIDS epidemic and watched too many beautiful souls die horribly. As science progressed, I allowed myself to begin considering how I could enjoy a truly free sexual life. The protocols I've followed have allowed me to move past my past. Your friend/lover may have similar concerns. Honesty is critical and he may feel he was used, deceived and/or endangered. It's not up to you anymore. It's his choice where things end up.
  6. Monogamy relies on the trust in one another to commit. Romanticizing monogamy is dangerous because it's real work to remain true with each other. Monogamy means more than just being sexually active with one person. That's the least of it! It also requires tolerance when your partner is sick, in a bad mood, acquires a long-term or terminal illness. That's when commitment matter and your fealty is proven or betrayed.
  7. I'm hard until penetrated. My dick begins to go down as I'm fucked. There have been several occasions when it remained hard and I haven't a clue as to why.
  8. Annually....first with a finger and then a PSA test. You can't be lazy about your health.
  9. A straight hour? No. Fucked with modest breaks so we can play with cocks, suck balls, etc...and finally get bred....yes!
  10. I'm 6'3" with a regular build...not slim to the point I look malnourished, but no sagging. I've never had problems finding cocks attached to variously-shaped men that want to fuck and breed me. I've always found that you find yourself with the people you desire to be with, unless anon is good for you.
  11. It doesn't bother me at all. If you're a Bottom and relish cock in your ass...pussy...hole...asshole...cunt...manpussy...whatever...why dwell on the semantics.
  12. If the stealthing results in an STD infection, I'd start at 10 years max. If it involves HIV then I can see a life term.
  13. I began my journey at the height of AIDS. In my mind, safe sex meant life. It took me almost 15 years to become almost a pure bareback. Now and then I ask or insist the Top suit up...but rarely. Nowadays I relish being bred and feel very disappointed if my ass isn't flooded with the Top's cum. It took a while, but for me it's been a worthwhile journey.
  14. Annually via blood work and the doctor's good 'ol finger.
  15. I have so very little in common with much younger men that my interest in having sex with one of them is close to zero. I find older Tops and Tops my own age to be the best fit for me.
  16. Being clean in general....and also including as a Bottom my insides is a precondition to sex. Tops must be equally respectful and have clean asses, cocksand balls. BO (for me) is a turnoff and I'll say "No thank you" to any/all men that are not clean. Other people may find odors a turnon....more power to 'em and that's part of our individual sexuality.
  17. I own several dildos, sleeves, plugs and other toys. I use them to dilate my hole and some of my sex partners enjoy using them on me or watching before we fuck. My ownership is to make my sex life better.
  18. I've stayed away from married men. I can imagine a scenario where a bi married man might send off some signals that he's available, but it sounds like this guy has served as a mentor. His interest may or may not be entirely professional. I wouldn't want to risk losing the advice and counsel of a genuine mentor simply to get some cum. There are many men out there that would welcome the attention another gay man can provide.
  19. If you're with a Top and the scenario evolves into both Top and Bottom expressing a commitment to fuck, the next ( and what should be) and final decision should be whether the Top can cum in the Bottom. Once a Top's raw cock is in the Bottom, I can only imagine a few scenarios where the Top doesn't breed the ass he's in. As a Bottom, once the Top is in my ass I'd be very sad if he doesn't breed me. I'm so damned selective with Tops that I feel good about getting his load in me. If I feel his load splatter on my back, I'll let it happen but ask him why he came there instead of in me. It's happened a few times and I didn't give the guys a second try. I just moved on.
  20. It took me a while to get my mind ready to have cum in my mouth. After years of spitting it into a tissue or rushing to the bathroom to use some mouthwash, I took the plunge. My approach was to give myself less of a choice. An older (naturally) man was kind enough....and abundantly patient...to help me learn how to deep throat a cock. When I was ready to get some cum in my gut, I told my partner he was the Grand Prize winner and would be the first to cum down my throat. I drew out the blow job....thirty minutes of cock and balls worship...before I sensed he was ready. When he started cumming, I took him into my throat and put his hand on the back of my head. He got the signal and held himself in my throat until his balls were empty. After that, it became easy to let guys cum in my mouth and then swallow. It's not my favorite place for a man to cum, but guys like cumming in my mouth, so who am I to argue?
  21. I'd have trouble collecting enough cum to freeze, since I want it in me straight from the tap. That being said, I was successful collecting enough over an extended "dry spell" during the pandemic. I was so desperate to feel bred that I pushed it up my hole and then fucked myself with a dildo until it started foaming out. Not at all as satisfying as the real thing, but it was the best I could do.
  22. I've always avoided anonymous sex. It just doesn't work for me. I only get together with a small number of men that I've taken the time to know and feel a strong sexual connection. For me, it increases my sense of safety and whatever degree of exclusivity we feel together translates into better sex for us. I suppose that type of dynamic is a weird form of monogamy.
  23. Musty sounds like a fancy term for "not clean" which I would never do to any Top.
  24. Cheating while in a relationship actually says you're not in a relationship. It demonstrates dissatisfaction with your status and the so-called "relationship" should end. Otherwise, the cheater is simply using the other person which is wrong.
  25. If your cock or butt smell, please find someone else. Odor from under the arms and sweat are ok.
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