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If anything, I’m finding I’m getting more as I age. That said, I keep in far better physical shape than I did 20 years ago, so maybe that’s why.
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I don’t think you’re being un-PC at all. When I was in my 20s I was in a relationship with a guy older than myself. More than fuckbuds but we didn’t live together. When we went out to dinner or the theatre, he paid. I never once asked him to but that’s how it was. Now I’m much older and financially successful, if I went out with a younger guy I would automatically book the tickets and pick up the tab. Not because I’m “buying” him but because that’s just the kind of guy I am. If he offered to pay, I wouldn’t insult him by refusing, but I wouldn’t expect it. On a separate note, I once asked a young guy why he sought out older men. “The sex is always better,” he replied. “At the back of their minds they worry that they might be doing it for the last time, so they put their backs into it!” That flippancy made me smile.
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Did you ever ask a straight guy if he wanted head?
SpectreAgent replied to a topic in Cocksucking Discussion
One of my best mates - brother from another mother - is the straight me. Or I’m the gay him. He’s mid-40s but still in great shape. To say he’s well-endowed would do him an injustice. Let’s just say I reckon 13 sparrows could perch on it... although the last one might have to stand on one leg. He’s so bloody good-looking that I tease him he’d be knee-deep in cock if he came over to our side and put an ad on Grindr. He says he identifies as 100% straight. But when I asked if he’d every fucked a guy, he shrugged and said “Oh sure.” I don’t have to spell it out because he knows I’d be down on my knees given half the chance. Ah well, maybe one day when he’s finally worked his way through all the available women in the district... -
At the risk of being accused of arse licking (though that is something I’m adept at...) I think you’ve devised a good system. I know it can be frustrating until one builds a reputation, but this is a unique site which has allowed me to discover that other guys share my passions. But it’s perfectly clear that, by its very nature, a site like this could be open to abuse without firm control. And because of that control I find the site probably the friendliest of all the sites I’m on. And for that, one has to applaud you and the moderators.
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“Mine”
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Mind has often been one of them down Hampstead Heath...
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This is an excellent thread. I’m not quite yet at 60, but since turning 50 I’ve found myself being messaged by guys in their early to mid 20s. But then when I was in my 20s, I was only interested in guys a lot older than me. So in addition to the good advice above, always remember that he was you one day. The one thing no one ever tells you about getting older is that while your body might slow and grey a little, you feel much the same inside. My mum is 82 and joked that she still feels 18 in her head... until she looks in the mirror! 😂
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Rather sobering to read through this thread and see how Coronavirus suddenly hits.
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If that is how you genuinely feel, then I am sorry for you as I hate to see anyone distressed or upset about anything . But there is a censorious tone to your post which, on this particular site, is at best undiplomatic and at worst offensive. There is nothing horrible about my life. I have a very good and balanced one. To be frank, I barely notice my status at all. It is what it is. I didn’t seek it out but I was pretty certain it would seek me out eventually. So there it is. If the site offends you, perhaps it’s time to reassess if you wish to continue participating on it.
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I’m intrigued by your post. I’ve read that O Blood types are statistically less likely to contract Covid, or be severely ill from it. But is that anecdotal or is it something you’ve seen?
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If people don’t wish to have the vaccine, fine. I have my own thoughts on whether it should be mandatory but accept that it probably won’t be in most countries. But anyone refusing to take it should be shunted to the back of the healthcare queue and prevented from travelling or returning to work until they do in my book. And I can’t help thinking that we’d still be knee-deep in smallpox if Facebook had been around for the foil hatters to spout their nonsense on before that was eradicated. I had swine flu back when that was prevalent. It was very, very nasty. I was so ill that I completely lost 5 days in virtual unconsciousness. I never want to feel that ill again. So for that reason, as well as being a decent human being who wants to help everyone else reclaim their lives along with my own, bring it on.
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The Fort was something else. God, I miss that place. Nothing you’ve read about the place can ever do true justice to how deliciously depraved that place was.
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Words and their meanings in profile text
SpectreAgent replied to AirmaxUK's topic in General Discussion
Your last line (not in a drug sense, obvs) made me smile. For years, I was puzzled when I accepted a guy’s offer of G & T and he didn’t hand me a gin and tonic. -
Hampstead Heath: a summer to remember?
SpectreAgent replied to Rawneghole's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
As this is in the fiction section, some guys might think this is a fictionalised account. Maybe it is, maybe it isn’t. But I’ve known nights like that down the Heath and have been bent over the fuck tree. There’s nothing quite like being there at 2am on a busy night with the woods full of guys rutting anonymously. -
Bottoms, do you like your tops to tell you they are cumming?
SpectreAgent replied to baldwin's topic in General Discussion
God, yes. I love verbal. I love poz verbal even more. So if the top is poz, not only do I want to know when he’s cumming, but WHAT is cumming... -
I used to cruise a lorry lay-by in Suffolk called Barton Mills. It was near two American airbases, too, so I used to get a fair bit of trucker cock, but far more US airmen cock! I don’t know what it’s like now. I now have an apartment in MediaCity in Manchester. There is apparently some good fun to be had (or was pre-covid) at a lorry park in Trafford, but I can’t comment on that from personal experience.
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Deep inside. And then keep it there if possible, for as long as possible. My fuckbud cums bucketloads and knowing he’s still there long after he’s gone home is a massive turn on.
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I totally agree. I’ve got a mate - more than a mate, actually, as we’re brothers from different ent mothers - who identifies as 100% straight. He’s the straight me - or I’m the gay him. We got drunk one night and I asked if he’d ever fucked a guy. “Oh, sure,” he said. Then added: “But I’m not fucking you because they would feel weird...”
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Ah, Alert. Those were the days...
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Love it. I used to cruise near two USAF airbases - Mildenhall and Lakenheath - when I lived in East Anglia and hooked up with quite a few US airmen there.
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"You are only allowed to send 0 messages per day"
SpectreAgent replied to a topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
I found it a bit irksome, at first. But, do you know, I’ve come to realise it really works well on this site. I think it’s why this site is so friendly compared with others. -
There’s a long-standing joke in the UK (it’s probably universal): ”What’s the difference between a straight guy and a gay guy? Six pints of lager.” I’ve done tons of straight guys in my life. Hell, I slept with my best mate on the eve of his wedding (to a woman). And I was his best man... And that is a true story.
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Do I top? Yes. But not often. I have a wonderful top fuck-bud in Manchester, so I don’t top him in anal. And this past year - because of a certain pandemic - we’ve tended to play together, and sometimes with a couple of other trusted mates (we have a bbubble!) who are vers-top.
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