When I was in my late 20s early 30s I used to cruise a lot in the Vondelpark in Amsterdam. At that point in life I just wanted to fuck and get fucked l, did not care at all with whom I did it. My day job was boring, my life was boring, was hooking up now and then, but cruising was so easy for sex I went almost every night, and during the weekend I went other places like a bathhouse or a large park further out of town. Some nights on the bike ride home I really wondered what the fuck I was thinking having sex with some real trolls. But in the moment it didn’t really matter, I got off, I got what I needed out of it. And the thrill of the hunt was exciting. And being used by some guy who was not your type was also kind of hot in a way. Since then I’ve mostly let go of types or looks, it’s attitude that turns me on the most now.