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I agree, I don't like pull outs. Not in real life, then not in porn either. In my ideal porn scene, the bottom will later fart the cum from his ass. I know this is not very humble of me, but here is a short scene I shot with my bf in the woods. We didn't plan the creampie, I just asked him to show his ass to the camera, and then he farted it all. I think that this is how it should be made. here's the link http://bit.ly/1svdFzK

Hehehe glad you liked it NL. He's my bf. We plan to make more vids

Here comes mine http://bit.ly/1svdFzK

Here's my last vid http://bit.ly/1svdFzK

I'll be in GC-PDI from July 13th until 20th.

I'm planning to go to Berlin next August, and I'll make it to the horse fair party. I hope the reed hood doesn't scare stallions. Also, I don't like the idea of being fucked with a condom, if the stallion so decides. I have one question: I like to use poppers. Can I use some, is it allowed? Or I just can't move my hands?

I'll be there for the August party.

You nailed it there. I've known many HIV+ who will eventually adapt their sexuality to those situations where you "don't have" to disclose your status. Clubs become enemy turf.

That reply was very informative. Thanks.

I've had this thing lately with whether there's a need to disclose your HIV+ status depending on the situation. First, the facts: I'm HIV+, consistently undetectable; in my country, the most common practice regarding HIV in sex is "don't ask don't tell"; also, it's not so common so be prosecuted for allegedly passing on HIV, actually you don't need to disclose if you keep it safe. My opinion is that in those circumstances in which you effectively show and display a total disregard and lack of interest for your sex mates' statuses, it is obvious that you can and will surely be HIV+. Or that you don't know, hence you could be. Hence: in a darkroom, sex club or sauna, if I'm taking or giving loads like there's no tomorrow, then I'm HIV+; or when cruising, if I bend, open my cheeks, reach my poppers and offer you my pre-lubed hole, then I'm HIV+. However, I've found that for negatives, it's just the opposite. They imply that you have nothing to warn against. From past experience: I made a profile in a sex/dating mobile app that was named "bareback". I met a guy, I breed him once or twice, every week, for two months. He never asked about my status. Neither did I about his. To me, that would lead me to imply that he's HIV+, and that so am I. However, he was not the HIV+ type (! LOL), nor the reckless HIV- one... but obviously he's one of them, or both! He recently asked me and I said that my last tests were fine (well undetectable is my "fine"); and he said that so were his. Wtf, whatever. What do you think about all this? Do you ALWAYS disclose? Even in a darkroom? Can you expect, in an orgy, to not catch any STD?

It's been said already: 1) Push it out when he's pushing in. Seriously. You're opening your hole. And make sure you're all clean LOL. 2) Poppers. More poppers. And more. 3) Lube your hole. Not only his dick. Lube your hole with one finger. Lubing my hole with one finger relaxes my hole and it opens up. It's a secondary effect, besides the lube. Actually, lube it before meeting him. Finding a pre-lubed hole is such a turn on for tops, I've found out. 4) Training is key. Seriously. The more cocks you take, the easier it is to fit them. 5) Find a comfortable position. Four legged, the dick tends to go very deep. On your back spreading your legs, you can adjust the angle by moving your hip.

I love it too. I love being on for legs with my bottle of poppers stick to my nose while I'm being pounded. My hottest kink is inhaling poppers just before I'm meeting the top. When he comes, I'm super horny and my whole is already open. When they'll find my hole open and lubed, damn they get so horny. If it's during the day, I must pay attention to not get red eyes, some tops are scared that you're such a slut. What I love the most is when it's the top who's hosting, and I'll inhale poppers on the street as I'm approaching his place. Taking poppers in public can be tricky. During the day it's very difficult, sometimes I cover the bottle with some handkerchief and pretend I'm blowing my nose. If it's at night and streets are empty, it's perfect. It feels great to walk on the street feeling like a slut, craving cock and cum and knowing you're just gonna get it.

I usually have that. My trick is: when I'm getting ready for a guy to come and breed me, I'll first use my dildo to open up my hole and get all of the water out of my ass. You could think it's too much work, but you get rid of that water, and your hole is already lubed and open You only need to plug it in deep once or twice, then stand up, take it out, and the water will spill out.

I'll keep it as long as possible. I like to go to sleep with the load inside of me. It's nice to sleep with cum in your ass.

You all piggy bastards. LOL

cockslut I know what you meen, been there done that. Yes, you're a whiny bottom, but aren't we all? When we want cocks and cum we just want that. You're not complaining for no reason. What you describe is just the reason why I stopped going to saunas. When I go there, it's not to haggle or compromise on my expectations. I don't want to have to adapt to sb else's desires and limits. And, in the end, the average guy I tend to cum across won't be into barebacking. Plus there's a logistics thing in saunas: if I'm wearing just a towel, where do I carry my lube? And poppers? And lube wears out as you sweat and all that. I do agree with previous comments that being pre-lubed is fundamental. When I go cruising I'll have my hole all clean and lubed. No lube is enough, just add extra, it will make your hole more humid and tempting. One trick I'll do is that, once I've spotted a guy I'll sniff some poppers before approaching him, then he'll find my hole all lubed and open. They usually won't resist burying their cock in it.

I agree with you NLbear and with cumslut. This has been an issue for me too: I can be a piggy bottom, craving cocks and cum, always asking for more cum in my hole, but I'm NOT submissive whatsoever. Some tops think it's the same. I get a lot of pleasure from seeing a top enjoy my hole, make him lose control and dump his load. I kind of compete with the top to make him cum faster, I love it when they'll say "oh please stop moving or I'll cum", then I'll squeeze him. Somehow I feel honoured and flattered to be able to possess his cock. So in the end, I get pleasure through his pleasure. But my pleasure is ALWAYS first. I can be quite commanding when having sex. If I like what he's doing, I'll let him go. But we'll never do anything I don't like (such as fingering or rimming my hole, I hate it). With some tops I've gone too far and it's really obvious that I'm working their cocks with my ass just to get the load. Once that's done, it's over, good bye leave my home now. Seriously, it sounds egotistical but that's how it is in my mind. I'm nice to them, but this is it.

I've experience that some of them don't like it, so I won't tell them. A couple of times has happened that it was really obvious, but they did not complain.

I use pisstopper's trick. First, when I'm really horny I'll state I'm looking for kinky sex, whatever key word is used in your area and language. Connoisseurs will know what you're talking about. Then, when they ask for pics, I'll send some of my ass being fucked bareback. From their answer you can tell what their opinion is about bb. If they get really scared, I'll back off and will say it was my ex I made those pics with. Then I'll try to make the convo fade out, cause I'm not interested. I know this is quite hypocrite, but I live in a small city, so I can't have people commenting to their friends "oh this is a barebacker, he must be poz sure!". Bear in mind that some guys are not purposefully into bareback, so you can't get into the dirty talking with them, such as "I want your load deep in my ass". However, they'll confess being turned on by your bb pics, then you suggest you want his cock inside of you and then his cum, or some other shallow indication of bb sex. When you meet, they'll definitely breed you.

I'd be happy to read it. ;-)

Relating to some other threads about the eighties and those who made it through those heady years, I'm having some feeling these days: Do you miss those days when bareback was not an option, it was the norm? Or, if you're too young, do you long for such a day to come? This is my take: I'm 30 y.o., live in a not so big city (they're never big enough for me LOL), and these days I have no problems finding fuck-buddies. In market terms, my body sells well. Except for if I want to go raw. I've been hitting the gym quite consistently during the past couple of years and, even though I'm pretty standard, it seems that now I'm a little bit over the average. I know this doesn't sound humble at all, but the fact is that I have many more sex offers than I used to. I mean, sometimes I just keep saying no. Usually it's from average guys, of course. However, sometimes is from one of those hot guys with great looks. And still, I'll usually refuse having sex with them, which is something they're not used to btw. And it's because I want it bare. I'd rather end up with a load in my hole than waste my time having vanilla sex. I still consider the looks when having sex with somebody, that's not the point. But it amazes me, and them, that I'll reject those guys. On another level, I must say that I don't state in my profiles that I'm looking for BB sex. I imply it, I'll use the right words, and those "of my kind" will easily spot it. Actually I'm making it clearer these days. Still in the BB closet, but not so much. This is a small city, so one must watch out. What happens when I come across a profile is that I'll have to start a long, sinuous conversation to try to find out if that guy is willing to breed me. I've gotten to know the types, guess their view from their reactions and language, etc. There's a whole sociology in barebacking LOL. But in the end most of the times they'll run away scared, or they're just not interested. When I go cruising it's more or less the same, through body language I make the suggestion that I might take it raw. Some people will get it and will just fuck me bare. Later we go through the "That was hot! I'd never done this here!" and all those lies. But still, most of the times a guy will pop out a condom, and then I have to say I'm tight and can't take it, sorry (when my hole is obviously ready and waiting) and leave frustrated. Of course, I have a bunch of fuck-buddies who bareback, but in a not so big place there aren't so many. We all know each other. In the end: looking for sex is becoming exhausting and frustrating for me. I understand that I look for a specific kink, hence, there's a smaller market. But I wish I could go cruising, take a guys' cock raw, without fearing the stupid pull-out (well that's another post), and go back home with a couple of loads. No tension, no closet, just natural. I know that if it was not for the condom culture, I'd be able to do that. What do you think about this? PS: damn that was a long post.

What works for me: 1. Get a smaler dildo. Yes, I've made that same mistake so many times. I'll always buy one bigger than I can get into my hole. 2. Use a lot of lube. 3. I'm not so much into rimming or fingering. A finger, definitely, I can't take, I don't know why. It makes me sore or sth. I'd rather have a cock than a single finger LOL. 4. Your body position is far more important than you might thing. For example, lay on your back in bed, then spread your legs and grab your knees, as though you were stretching. If you stay like that for 2 minutes, breathing deeply, you're hole will just pop open. Seriously. Then it's time to start with the dildo. Or place it on the floor, then try to sit on it. I use this position for big cocks since I open up very easy, and also I can control the pace and rhythm. 5. When the top is pushing his cock into your ass, try to open up as if you were shitting. Seriously, this is weird but it works. Your hole will open then. 6. Be careful with bleeding and dildos. Let your ass rest. I had a fissure from going into a crazy sex spree over some days, taking many cocks, then trying to use a huge dildo. I had to take a month rest.

Just for an informative purpose: for straights into partner swapping and all that, it's quite common to fuck in public. I've herd of 2 nudist beaches in different meccas for "swingers" (Rovijn in Croatia and Cap D'Agde in France) where sex would take place on the very beach, right in front of everybody. I remember walking towards the gay beach and having to get through the straight one, then seeing a group of men in a circle, watching a threesome or some sort somebody was doing on the towel. The first time I found it gross. And now I think I'm kinky, I thought LOL.

I sleep with it inside my ass, so that it "absorbs". I know it won't but still I like to believe that. In the morning, I go to the toilet and love to gauge how much cum I had when it slips to the water. Yesterday I got 2 loads. I was doing some chores in the kitchen and I incidentally farted. All my butt was then full of cum. OMG, I had to go quick and clean myself. My roomie didn't notice xD

Porn is fantasy, and condom porn is right fake. Of course they BB.