YourNoLimitsBottom

I enjoy feeling when he pulls out just before cumming and squirts a shot or two of jizz on my opening, then pushes back in to finish cumming and holds his cock there, putting his weight into it. I like a guy heavier and taller than me for multiple reasons, mainly to make me feel more submissive in my bottom role and for this topic because when I am lying on my front, I want to feel him pinning me down making me take his cum deep in me. Then laying there keeping his dick in me as we both come down from that fuck-high. And I love those first shots on my opening because I want to be a mess when he is done, the more cum on me while still having it leaking out of me the better. Leaving me a mess is like a top's way of signing his work. And it gives me more cum to suck off his cock when cleaning it after. 🤤

Fantasies... oh I have a few... 1) I love water (pools, lakes, oceans, etc) and would love to find a group of Dominant tops that would push my limits having me suck them while they fuck me underwater. I love giving underwater blowjobs and I love getting fucked underwater, I want them to do both at once. I want to be held up underwater with my back to the bottom, and my head tilted back like I was laying on a bed and have my throat being fucked while another top fucks my ass. I want them to line up and when one cums, switch out with the next. It'll be a challenge, how good is my mouth and breath holding abilities, versus how sadistic and horny are they? And yeah, I'd do this in a heartbeat. 2) The timing of this is important. I want to put out an ad for a top that will fuck me bareback the night before my birthday, or on New Years Eve. They push in before midnight on either night, and they won't pull out until after midnight. So I in affect was being fucked from one landmark moment to the next, "one year to the next". Once they push in, they do not pull out, and I only have the option of telling them to pull out or pulling off them after midnight. I'll put all this in the ad and let them imagine the possibilities. I won't ask their status, and that makes it all the hotter. He can play with my opening up to midnight, running his cock head along my crack, teasing my opening, pushing against me, stretching me open... but once he slides it in, he stays in until after midnight. Is the guy sliding his cock into me carrying more than just a hot load? I won't know, but he can tell me any time he likes. If he tell me before midnight, do I just play with his cock, letting him tease me, but then suck him off and call it good? I can tell you, once I am naked with a cock all inhibitions are gone. I want to fullfill this fantasy, if he does tell me he is carrying more than just a cummy treat I bet I will still let him push it in. Does he play with my ass and push it in just before midnight, giving himself little time? Or does he give himself several minutes, to enjoy the buildup to midnight? Will he fuck me into a frenzy and when midnight hits do I pull off and take his cock in my mouth and finish him that way? I love to fuck, and the thought of his thick pole shooting a hot load in me will probably override any reason. I bet when midnight hits he will start fucking faster, hoping to fill me up before I pull off, and I will instead push my ass back into his cock, and beg for his load... Would I do this? Hard to tell, but my birthday is a ways off, and News Years is even further, who knows how things change...

Based on my experience, I'm going to guess that a number of those pictures from chatty accounts are not really that person (or their cock, ass, etc.). They want to talk about what you will do to them if you do meet, shoot a load into a Kleenex, and then ghost you when they can't deflect talk of actually physically meeting. I guess I should add that I do agree with others when they say to make sure your profile states what you are looking for. If I want a long "will he or won't he" conversation, or even friendship building to a relationship of some sort, I'll make sure my profile states this.

I've had cum that was flavored from sweet to horribly bitter, but what thrilled me was the act of getting it from cock to mouth. Thinking of the bitterest I ever tasted, it would not even slow me down if that was the only flavor of cum out there. That hot pole in my hand, leaking pre on my lips as I swallow his knob, my nude body flush with excitement as he grips my head as I suck and slurp his length... it is definitely the journey that turns me on and makes every mouthful satisfying.

I hooked up with a guy who was better than six inches shorter than me. He wanted me to bend over his kitchen table so he could fuck me, but logistics being what they were obviously this didn't work. So then he wanted me to bend over the back of his couch, which again didn't work. I saw he had straight porn playing on his living room TV and I put two and two together that he was used to fucking women, and probably ladies shorter than he was. He was getting flustered so I convinced him to fuck me missionary. He came and I went. This is one of the reasons when talking to a guy unseen I stress my height and I like to find tops that are either taller than me or who like positions that will allow them to fuck comfortably. If the top isn't into the fuck, it all tends to fall apart. AND this is why I like tops that are gay, I know they are interested in fucking ME, and not using me as a substitute for a woman they couldn't get in the heat of the moment. To this day I usually only play with gay men.

I enjoy being fingered, at least I haven't had a bad experience yet. Usually it happens when I'm in a bar or public place. Typically it starts as you would imagine, a guy "accidentally" brushes against me and I don't move away, hell if I saw him coming and he is hot, I'll move into the brush to signal interest. My butt typically attracts the interest, and it's where their hand ends up. Things progress from there, usually they want to see if my butt is as tight as it looks. When having sex or at least fooling around in private I don't mind if he just wants to finger-fuck me, because so far I have always had the cum shot on my opening. I've never had a guy finger-fucking me who hasn't had his cock out at the same time. I love the feel of cum spurting on my opening and feeling it run down my skin.

I did have an encounter on Halloween 2021 that flipped a past straight encounter I had. When I was in college, I had sex with a girl while two guys had sex a few feet away after a party in her apartment. This past Halloween, I got fucked by a buddy bent over a picnic table while a male-female couple fucked at the same table. It is hot to think I came full circle. Hopefully 2022 will see a lot of buck-list fantasies crossed off my list!

When I was a teen and having sex with girls, I loved to creampie a willing girl and have her sit on my face as I ate her out, licking and sucking out my own cum. Looking back, I'd say this was my start to being a submissive cum-loving slut to men today.

As a bottom, I did this on a dating site to explicitly state what I was looking for. And I changed it as I my mood changed. Sometimes I want a hookup, sometimes I want something longer lasting. And I know as a bottom I appreciate when the top states what they are looking for and I honor those requests. I won't hound a top looking for something he isn't or make ridiculous requests, that's just a waste of everyone's time. Meeting guys in the real world has always worked out better to get to know each other before any bedroom action, but it is nice to have a profile on a site that people go to. Keeping it up to date with what I am looking for hasn't always filtered out the requests that don't mesh, but it does knock down the time wasting messages.

@ErosWired summed up my Christmas as well. Too much going on, way too exhausted. If I laid on the bed and was being fucked I'd probably doze off part way through. No offense to the top, but I spend Christmas constantly running to satisfy everyone. Then the next day or so decompressing. But with New Years on the other hand I am looking for a top that wants to breed me as the ball drops! Slide it in before midnight 2021, and no pulling out until 2022!

Lol I spend the weeks up to the holiday constantly running and stressed. Next week I plan on destressing, and hopefully a fun encounter or two present themselves. Anything from a simple nude make out to something way more hardcore will be welcome. Thanks @funpozbottom I also wish everyone a safe and happy holiday!

Thanks @Bruce999, I appreciate the reply back.

Did it ever reopen? Have a number of things to cross off the BDSM bucket list.

I always attributed it to the top coming down from the height of activity and orgasm. As the top is coming off the high he hit from fucking, the slap is an expression of the last gasp of energy he is feeling. Just one of the many different activities at different points of fucking, such as the top's exhale when he first bottoms out, and the top's fingers digging in to my hips as he starts to cum. Just my take.

It was the natural progression of a relationship. We started with condoms, then as we became exclusive and were comfortable with each other we started to bareback. And yeah, bareback is far hotter in pretty much every way!

I guess from the conversations here I'm not a total bottom. While I don't mind mutual oral and will do so with guys if that is all they are into, I won't fuck them. If a guy starts the conversation saying we can do mutual oral and says when we are done I can fuck him, I'll decline from everything. As I said above, I don't mind mutual oral but if my cock is never touched it's fine with me. The only thing I give a damn about is HIS cock. If my cock has to be involved, what I DO like is having my balls squeezed and cock manhandled, yeah, I love CBT. So in the end, I may not be a total bottom, but will happily jump into the BDSM-bottom role.

Sucking cock for the first time, late 30s, early 40s... I remember the meet like it was yesterday, just don't remember the date. Yeah, I was late to the game. It was a mutual hookup, he may have taken my sucking virginity but it was very willingly given. I went into his living room, he pulled out his cock and damn there was no hesitation, I was on my knees and sucking him instantly. I had never touched another guy's cock before but you wouldn't have known it. I still remember the feel, taste, and how fucking hot it felt having his cock head pushing against the back of my throat and his fingers gripping my hair. We eventually went to his bedroom and we ended up in a 69, and sucked each other to completion. I was overwhelmed with lust and it was fucking mind blowing, but I guess most first times are. We didn't fuck that day, that came later. I haven't looked back, sex has been all about cocks in me and cum running out of me ever since.

I haven't had any STIs pop up yet, but would abstain from sex if they did. Since I made it through quarantine, I shouldn't have a problem abstaining until things are clear.

Yeah, the whole "league" thing sucks and the world would be better if everyone got beyond it, but I'll admit I've been guilty of checking out a guy and being too intimidated to start a conversation. Self-confidence is great, but as I get older my self-confidence takes more and more hits. Usually self-imposed hits! I guess the best we can do is take stock of everything that makes us personally awesome and keep it in mind as we approach the world. And know that regardless of how things work out, no one can take those traits from us.

Like others, I always figured "discreet" meant that the person was probably attached. I steer clear of married guys, I've been cheated on and I don't want to be the guy they are cheating with. My three favorite words in a guy's profile are "gay", "single", and "top".

I love being totally nude when I am having sex. It feels more liberated, primal... all I know is I am horny as hell just thinking about it. And since I like the sex hot and messy, I want to feel his heat and cum on my skin. I'd prefer him to be nude as well, but as long as I am nude, all is well. And there is something about being totally nude for a guy who keeps his clothes on and demands I service him... I love a guy in charge. I've had sex outside a few times and I wish I had been nude for that as well. Not just for the reasons above, but also for the thrill of maybe being caught.

I can suck without the expectation of getting fucked. I enjoy sucking cock. If I can drive him wild while sucking him to where he changes his mind and does want to fuck me, well all the better! But in the end, I can be content with just giving a blowjob.

I've shot on my stomach and chest before from the top jerking me while I was being fucked, then my cum gets smeared into the mix when we are laying on each other and rolling around. I've sucked and licked my own cum off guys plenty of times. I have no problem with it, I love sex wet and messy and if my own cum makes it to my mouth, well that just means we are really being messy! That's a great time!

Typically mine goes right down the toilet. I think it has to do with the thought of heading into a new year with nothing much having changed from the previous. I'm hoping to find a New Year's top who wants to do me doggy style so we can both watch the ball drop, that'll make the slide into the new year a little better. Put it in in 2021, no pulling out until 2022.

Near Corning NY, travel to Rochester often.