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Yeah, the whole "league" thing sucks and the world would be better if everyone got beyond it, but I'll admit I've been guilty of checking out a guy and being too intimidated to start a conversation. Self-confidence is great, but as I get older my self-confidence takes more and more hits. Usually self-imposed hits! I guess the best we can do is take stock of everything that makes us personally awesome and keep it in mind as we approach the world. And know that regardless of how things work out, no one can take those traits from us.

Like others, I always figured "discreet" meant that the person was probably attached. I steer clear of married guys, I've been cheated on and I don't want to be the guy they are cheating with. My three favorite words in a guy's profile are "gay", "single", and "top".

I love being totally nude when I am having sex. It feels more liberated, primal... all I know is I am horny as hell just thinking about it. And since I like the sex hot and messy, I want to feel his heat and cum on my skin. I'd prefer him to be nude as well, but as long as I am nude, all is well. And there is something about being totally nude for a guy who keeps his clothes on and demands I service him... I love a guy in charge. I've had sex outside a few times and I wish I had been nude for that as well. Not just for the reasons above, but also for the thrill of maybe being caught.

I can suck without the expectation of getting fucked. I enjoy sucking cock. If I can drive him wild while sucking him to where he changes his mind and does want to fuck me, well all the better! But in the end, I can be content with just giving a blowjob.

I've shot on my stomach and chest before from the top jerking me while I was being fucked, then my cum gets smeared into the mix when we are laying on each other and rolling around. I've sucked and licked my own cum off guys plenty of times. I have no problem with it, I love sex wet and messy and if my own cum makes it to my mouth, well that just means we are really being messy! That's a great time!

Typically mine goes right down the toilet. I think it has to do with the thought of heading into a new year with nothing much having changed from the previous. I'm hoping to find a New Year's top who wants to do me doggy style so we can both watch the ball drop, that'll make the slide into the new year a little better. Put it in in 2021, no pulling out until 2022.

Near Corning NY, travel to Rochester often.

Yep, ridden cock a time or two. Love the feeling when he gets wild and grabs my hips and thrusts up as I come down. Haven't had any accidents like it slipping out and me sitting on it at a bad angle. I have pretty good control with runner's thighs. But there is always the first time. 😱

I hope everyone had a great day, whether they celebrated a holiday or not!

One type of guy, one type of fetish, one type of _____.... If someone is only attracted to one type of something, I can't fault them for their fantasies. We all have things that turn us on. The only thing that gets to me (and I'll end up just shaking my head and ignoring it) is when people who limit themselves complain to the public at large that they can't find enough or any of their preferred 25 year old Greek statue bodied tops with a nine-plus inch cock that wants to fuck them. I have to imagine most of us on this site, while we have our likes, are open to people and experiences of all types. Personally, given the forum I am posting this in, I am also open to trying many fetishes at least once (except the big bad [banned word] or outright illegal ones we all can think of), and I'll try the fun ones at least twice, and the one I REALLY love I will actively seek out!! Enjoy life, and try to experience it all!

Not often. I typically get into long term FWB relationships, sometimes actual relationships. So while the sex is there, it is with pretty consistent guys. Hookups are tough in my rural area, typically I have to venture to a more populated city to meet people. Wouldn't mind traveling to one of these cumunion parties I keep reading about and really let loose!

Depends on the top. I can be anywhere between a lost-in-lust fog of pleasure to Deadpool's tuned out "Shit... Did I leave the stove on?"

Unplanned, but we had been together for a while and were comfortable with each other, so I'd also say it was inevitable.

The guys that hit me up say my ass grabbed their attention. Both guys and ladies seem to like it. Lots of running and squat exercises have paid off!

I prefer "cock". Gotta love those hard consonant sounds, they really describe how I love sex: rough, hard, and messy!

Halloween night. I had spent the previous few weeks helping build props for an outdoor haunted display. I was asked to help by a former fuck buddy who knew me as being fairly handy with tools and electrical work. Halloween evening the display opened and people could go through. It ran until 10PM. Afterwards came cleanup. We got the more fragile mechanical items taken care of and most people left and some of us stayed to start disassembling the larger scenery. My buddy lead me to a wooded section with a picnic table that had been part of the tour. It was dark of course, but we could hear a couple of people already there obviously having sex. From the moans you could tell it was a male and female. Come to find out they were friends of my buddy and they thought it would be hot to have sex in front of us while we did it as well. It was pretty hot, and I was turned on and certainly not going to argue. I rubbed the front of his jeans and he was ready to go. It was hard to see, but you could see enough to know she was bent over the pjcnic table with her sweatshirt pulled up and tits out and jeans pulled down, and her guy was fucking her from behind. I unzipped my buddy's cock and bent over to lick the head, and got a nice taste of precum. I dropped my jeans and boxer-briefs and joined her bent over the table. My buddy rubbed his cock head over my opening, from the wetness I'm pretty sure he spit on his cock for lube, and then worked his way in. My moans and gasps as he worked in definitely rivaled hers as she was getting fucked. Then he started fucking me, getting in synch with his friend fucking the girl. We fucked like that for several minutes, and damn it was hot! The guy finally came in his girl. I don't know if they were bare or not. I was pushing back against my buddy as he pushed in to me, and he finally came in me. When he pulled out I made a show of cleaning his cock. We all got our clothes back on and walked out of the woods together. I have to say it was a pretty hot public encounter for me. I had only ever done it before semi-around other people in parking lots of gay bars. It would have been more interesting if it had been two guys fucking with us because of the possibilities, but we definitely worked off of each other's lust watching and hearing each other. Plus the chance of getting caught made it even hotter.

I wasn't in a steady relationship when Covid hit, and I was doing shopping for people that were at risk during the lockdown so I kept my bubble small. I made friends online during that time, did some self improvement, and after both of us got vaccinated I and a guy I had been talking to during lockdown celebrated with some marathon sex sessions.

I absolutely love taking cock this way. It is how I was taught to swallow cock by a friend who had the patience to train me. It took lots and lots of delicious practice. I love sex wet and messy, and this definitely leaves me a mess! ...and that is one of the main reasons I love it. If I could only find another top to fuck me while one is fucking my throat like this, that would be bliss...

I had a fuck buddy every Friday night for a few months after we both got vaccinated. Our schedules were all over the place but we both had Friday nights free. We blew off steam after long hard weeks. His schedule changed because of his healthcare profession and how crazy things are anymore and we only hook up very sporadically now. And we are both good with it. We had no real emotional attachments, we both knew it could end any time for whatever reason. We made passing mention when we were talking before first hooking up that if either of us found an actual relationship we would end it. For me this a fuck buddy. We're friends that fuck, and damn it's hot, but the sex can end any time with no regrets or emotional drama.

I'd say yes as well. The first time I sucked cock there was no hesitation, no fumbling, it just was instinctive and felt natural. Prior to my being solely with men I had had my cock sucked by women many times over the years, and I had some good and some very bad blowjobs. And I know what worked for my pleasure and what didn't. The women that sucked me had only my feedback, they couldn't feel it. Between knowing what felt good for me, and lots of porn to learn new techniques, I started strong on my first cock and have spent years now getting better. Practice makes perfect (and makes sweet cummy mouth-fulls of pleasure!) I imagine the same works with a woman going down on another woman, guys just can't do it as well.

Years ago when I had sex with women I was always the one in control. I always wanted to know what it felt like to give up that control. When watching porn I would identify with the woman. Once I finally gave in to my first cock there was no going back. I like the act of being the one submitting to being penetrated. I'm sure there is a psychological term for it. But I need to be penetrated by a man, I'm not turned on by transsexuals. Though I have seen some ladies with very hot cocks! The act of submission, the manliness behind the cock pushing into me, or those glorious times when I sat on his cock and bounced... every act with a man from vanilla to kinky drives me wild sexually. Way more than anything I ever did with a woman. Though I will say I did enjoy having women sit their pussy on my face, but as great as that was, being face fucked and deep throating beats it hands down. I felt I needed to add this: men have CUM. Glorious messy sticky delicious CUM. On me, deep in me, leaking out of me... I love it!

I can't stand outright liars. I am open to a lot if people are honest with me from the start. But if they blatantly lie, well I love cock and all but not enough to not walk away from an encounter as well.

Boxer-briefs that I change daily.

My big regret echoes others: denying my desires as long as I did. Now it's a matter of making up for the lost time.

Well said. People that are fun to be with outside the bedroom/dark room/bathhouse/sauna are tough to find no matter what side of the cock you are on. I think the entire gay/bi community would benefit from more friendships beyond sex. We'd have the camaraderie and emotional support that many times we do without.