YourNoLimitsBottom

Thanks @Bruce999, I appreciate the reply back.

Did it ever reopen? Have a number of things to cross off the BDSM bucket list.

I always attributed it to the top coming down from the height of activity and orgasm. As the top is coming off the high he hit from fucking, the slap is an expression of the last gasp of energy he is feeling. Just one of the many different activities at different points of fucking, such as the top's exhale when he first bottoms out, and the top's fingers digging in to my hips as he starts to cum. Just my take.

It was the natural progression of a relationship. We started with condoms, then as we became exclusive and were comfortable with each other we started to bareback. And yeah, bareback is far hotter in pretty much every way!

I guess from the conversations here I'm not a total bottom. While I don't mind mutual oral and will do so with guys if that is all they are into, I won't fuck them. If a guy starts the conversation saying we can do mutual oral and says when we are done I can fuck him, I'll decline from everything. As I said above, I don't mind mutual oral but if my cock is never touched it's fine with me. The only thing I give a damn about is HIS cock. If my cock has to be involved, what I DO like is having my balls squeezed and cock manhandled, yeah, I love CBT. So in the end, I may not be a total bottom, but will happily jump into the BDSM-bottom role.

Sucking cock for the first time, late 30s, early 40s... I remember the meet like it was yesterday, just don't remember the date. Yeah, I was late to the game. It was a mutual hookup, he may have taken my sucking virginity but it was very willingly given. I went into his living room, he pulled out his cock and damn there was no hesitation, I was on my knees and sucking him instantly. I had never touched another guy's cock before but you wouldn't have known it. I still remember the feel, taste, and how fucking hot it felt having his cock head pushing against the back of my throat and his fingers gripping my hair. We eventually went to his bedroom and we ended up in a 69, and sucked each other to completion. I was overwhelmed with lust and it was fucking mind blowing, but I guess most first times are. We didn't fuck that day, that came later. I haven't looked back, sex has been all about cocks in me and cum running out of me ever since.

I haven't had any STIs pop up yet, but would abstain from sex if they did. Since I made it through quarantine, I shouldn't have a problem abstaining until things are clear.

Yeah, the whole "league" thing sucks and the world would be better if everyone got beyond it, but I'll admit I've been guilty of checking out a guy and being too intimidated to start a conversation. Self-confidence is great, but as I get older my self-confidence takes more and more hits. Usually self-imposed hits! I guess the best we can do is take stock of everything that makes us personally awesome and keep it in mind as we approach the world. And know that regardless of how things work out, no one can take those traits from us.

Like others, I always figured "discreet" meant that the person was probably attached. I steer clear of married guys, I've been cheated on and I don't want to be the guy they are cheating with. My three favorite words in a guy's profile are "gay", "single", and "top".

I love being totally nude when I am having sex. It feels more liberated, primal... all I know is I am horny as hell just thinking about it. And since I like the sex hot and messy, I want to feel his heat and cum on my skin. I'd prefer him to be nude as well, but as long as I am nude, all is well. And there is something about being totally nude for a guy who keeps his clothes on and demands I service him... I love a guy in charge. I've had sex outside a few times and I wish I had been nude for that as well. Not just for the reasons above, but also for the thrill of maybe being caught.

I can suck without the expectation of getting fucked. I enjoy sucking cock. If I can drive him wild while sucking him to where he changes his mind and does want to fuck me, well all the better! But in the end, I can be content with just giving a blowjob.

I've shot on my stomach and chest before from the top jerking me while I was being fucked, then my cum gets smeared into the mix when we are laying on each other and rolling around. I've sucked and licked my own cum off guys plenty of times. I have no problem with it, I love sex wet and messy and if my own cum makes it to my mouth, well that just means we are really being messy! That's a great time!

Typically mine goes right down the toilet. I think it has to do with the thought of heading into a new year with nothing much having changed from the previous. I'm hoping to find a New Year's top who wants to do me doggy style so we can both watch the ball drop, that'll make the slide into the new year a little better. Put it in in 2021, no pulling out until 2022.

Near Corning NY, travel to Rochester often.

Yep, ridden cock a time or two. Love the feeling when he gets wild and grabs my hips and thrusts up as I come down. Haven't had any accidents like it slipping out and me sitting on it at a bad angle. I have pretty good control with runner's thighs. But there is always the first time. 😱

I hope everyone had a great day, whether they celebrated a holiday or not!

One type of guy, one type of fetish, one type of _____.... If someone is only attracted to one type of something, I can't fault them for their fantasies. We all have things that turn us on. The only thing that gets to me (and I'll end up just shaking my head and ignoring it) is when people who limit themselves complain to the public at large that they can't find enough or any of their preferred 25 year old Greek statue bodied tops with a nine-plus inch cock that wants to fuck them. I have to imagine most of us on this site, while we have our likes, are open to people and experiences of all types. Personally, given the forum I am posting this in, I am also open to trying many fetishes at least once (except the big bad [banned word] or outright illegal ones we all can think of), and I'll try the fun ones at least twice, and the one I REALLY love I will actively seek out!! Enjoy life, and try to experience it all!

Not often. I typically get into long term FWB relationships, sometimes actual relationships. So while the sex is there, it is with pretty consistent guys. Hookups are tough in my rural area, typically I have to venture to a more populated city to meet people. Wouldn't mind traveling to one of these cumunion parties I keep reading about and really let loose!

Depends on the top. I can be anywhere between a lost-in-lust fog of pleasure to Deadpool's tuned out "Shit... Did I leave the stove on?"

Unplanned, but we had been together for a while and were comfortable with each other, so I'd also say it was inevitable.

The guys that hit me up say my ass grabbed their attention. Both guys and ladies seem to like it. Lots of running and squat exercises have paid off!

I prefer "cock". Gotta love those hard consonant sounds, they really describe how I love sex: rough, hard, and messy!

Halloween night. I had spent the previous few weeks helping build props for an outdoor haunted display. I was asked to help by a former fuck buddy who knew me as being fairly handy with tools and electrical work. Halloween evening the display opened and people could go through. It ran until 10PM. Afterwards came cleanup. We got the more fragile mechanical items taken care of and most people left and some of us stayed to start disassembling the larger scenery. My buddy lead me to a wooded section with a picnic table that had been part of the tour. It was dark of course, but we could hear a couple of people already there obviously having sex. From the moans you could tell it was a male and female. Come to find out they were friends of my buddy and they thought it would be hot to have sex in front of us while we did it as well. It was pretty hot, and I was turned on and certainly not going to argue. I rubbed the front of his jeans and he was ready to go. It was hard to see, but you could see enough to know she was bent over the pjcnic table with her sweatshirt pulled up and tits out and jeans pulled down, and her guy was fucking her from behind. I unzipped my buddy's cock and bent over to lick the head, and got a nice taste of precum. I dropped my jeans and boxer-briefs and joined her bent over the table. My buddy rubbed his cock head over my opening, from the wetness I'm pretty sure he spit on his cock for lube, and then worked his way in. My moans and gasps as he worked in definitely rivaled hers as she was getting fucked. Then he started fucking me, getting in synch with his friend fucking the girl. We fucked like that for several minutes, and damn it was hot! The guy finally came in his girl. I don't know if they were bare or not. I was pushing back against my buddy as he pushed in to me, and he finally came in me. When he pulled out I made a show of cleaning his cock. We all got our clothes back on and walked out of the woods together. I have to say it was a pretty hot public encounter for me. I had only ever done it before semi-around other people in parking lots of gay bars. It would have been more interesting if it had been two guys fucking with us because of the possibilities, but we definitely worked off of each other's lust watching and hearing each other. Plus the chance of getting caught made it even hotter.

I wasn't in a steady relationship when Covid hit, and I was doing shopping for people that were at risk during the lockdown so I kept my bubble small. I made friends online during that time, did some self improvement, and after both of us got vaccinated I and a guy I had been talking to during lockdown celebrated with some marathon sex sessions.

I absolutely love taking cock this way. It is how I was taught to swallow cock by a friend who had the patience to train me. It took lots and lots of delicious practice. I love sex wet and messy, and this definitely leaves me a mess! ...and that is one of the main reasons I love it. If I could only find another top to fuck me while one is fucking my throat like this, that would be bliss...