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Oh man, "hours afterward"? I definitely enjoy a cool down period which sometimes leads to subsequent rounds. But unless it is late night where I fall back asleep; certainly within half an hour after; and many times immediately I am ready to disconnect and do something else with a guy. In particular when that guy is a trick; which seem to be more in the "kum and go" camp.

Most definitely. The classic "lesbian turkey baster" but the "pregnancy" is different. Also, HIV is a pretty weak virus; exposure to LIGHT and AIR render it ineffective pretty quickly. You can imagine the challenge of collecting that much cum, in the dark and absent air would more likely than not render any virus ineffective.

These things combined with a never ending stream of "breaking news". The orange clown ensures by his misdeeds that he is at the top, or near the top of every news story. It's time to put him at the END of the newscast. We've a genie out of the bottle of too much news. Bad weather is no longer news. It is part of everyday life. Ditto shootings. How about actual new things that happened, and then updates on open items once a week? Here in Wisconsin it seems all the networks care more about how we feel and less about reporting facts. Is there a way, socially, politically and in our media to quiesce the noise and get back to more personally productive pursuits?

@DirtyFckr congrats on your PA! My experience matched yours. Nip piercings way more painful. PA was maybe one second of "yikes" and then nothing. Comfort from then on.

Plus the state of heathcare good or bad is not a reflection of any one of us - even IF we were in positions as healthcare leaders in our respective states. (which to be clear is not the casre for me). What happens in our respective states isn't the metric to evaluate our individual knowledge.

I love this story - one which expresses the connectedness we share when we let it in. @TexRanchKing you put together a well crafted story! Thank you!!!! For me this is definitely not "dark".

I am not even sure I can describe encountering dead end screen names on other sites as a "peeve". I don't feel upset, just disappointed - sometimes. Other times perhaps it's for the best. They moved on. Sometimes I find them accidently later on.

Thanks rawTOP. Fortunately still treatment albeit a 2x daily cadence, sensitivity to sun. Glad to have options anyway.

@PissPigBrooklyn I definitely want to watch that video my friend!!!

@DirtyFckr I've not once regretted getting my PA. At this point I don't wear it every day; and thus appreciate more the days that I do. It is a pleasure when a bottom let's us fuck them with it in. I fear there are huge misconceptions on the amount of damage from it. And certainly there is some spikey jewelry out there. But on balance it all seems to go with no perceptible damage and a hell of a lot of prostate pleasure for the lucky bottom guy. I always encourage tops with PA's to enjoy my hole with the PA in. One thing that has puzzled me; from time to time I've run across fellows on Proximity Aps who refuse any play just because I have a PA piercing; whether or not I am wearing any jewelry.

Unless it is the tingly chapstick, although..... 😆

I tend to just ignore those myself James.

Indeed, there were a ton of friends who took the position "I don't wanna know".

Very true @hnthole. I pretty much knew when my buds were going to pass in the 80's and even the 90's. I pretty much automatically pulled in the range of my fuck circle as much as I could. A half assed serial monogamy sort of thing. As knowledge of HIV and treatments emerged in the 90's my inner slut came out to play more. I always have had poz friends and we taught each other. Still do....

Thanks @rawTOP It occurs to me our BZ community might be evolving into the Horny Geeks. I've so many friends whose eyes glaze over upon the mention of "IP Address". 🙂

True. I've been the one in a purportedly monogamous relationship who discovered his partners outside dalliances quite by accident. I tend to agree at least more times than not, the cheating will be found out. In part because the one cheating needs to be found out; and in part because I think thay want to be discovered. Part of their thrill. Or at least in my two "at bats" for this they were. My current 23 and continuing relationship; we had both experienced that. And rather than put that artificial constraint on our lifelong relationship; we decided to keep it open. We have fun when we share our experiences with each other. To us it has proven better to discover and accept who we are with all our foibles and qualities. A good half of my fuck buds are on the DL. Their relationships, their problem. I am not forcing them into my dungeon and I am not the keeper of their relationship. Some of my buds and I discuss their rationale. In the ones I know of, they love their partners, have asked for openness; and been given a flat no without discussion. In those circumstances I can understand their "fuck it" approach. In my couple decades doing this; the majority of those relationships fail; and when the next one emerges for them this stuff is agreed to up front.

Thanks @rawTOP. How is your recovery going??

I'm in that 10% chance shown by genetic testing. I have half of the two possible CCR5 gene so resistant, but not immune here.

I am a strong proponent of "your body, your choice". Unless there was a medical need it isn't something I imagine.

As has become your traditon, a fine piece of horny writing @Vancrawman

Fun to do. I let excel do the heavy lifting. My number is 320

What a terrific story @bentover4u1972. My hope for you is that it was true. But regardless a great piece of erotic chaser writing. Bravo!!!

Thanks @viking8x6 That page opens with this: Following a comprehensive review of evidence, the NBHW concluded that the evidence base for hormonal interventions for gender-dysphoric youth is of low quality, and that hormonal treatments may carry risks. NBHW also concluded that the evidence for pediatric transition comes from studies where the population was markedly different from the cases presenting for care today. In addition, NBHW noted increasing reports of detransition and transition-related regret among youth who transitioned in recent years. NBHW emphasized the need to treat gender dysphoric youth with dignity and respect, while providing high quality, evidence-based medical care that prioritizes long-term health. NBHW also emphasized that identity formation in youth is an evolving process, and that the experience of natural puberty is a vital step in the development of the overall identity, as well as gender identity. In light of above limitations in the evidence base, the ongoing identity formation in youth, and in view of the fact that gender transition has pervasive and lifelong consequences, the NBHW has concluded that, at present, the risks of hormonal interventions for gender dysphoric youth outweigh the potential benefits. As a result of this determination, the eligibility for pediatric gender transition with puberty blockers and cross-sex hormones in Sweden will be sharply curtailed. Only a minority of gender dysphoric youth—those with the “classic” childhood onset of cross-sex identification and distress, which persist and cause clear suffering in adolescence—will be considered as potentially eligible for hormonal interventions, pending additional, extensive multidisciplinary evaluation. For all others, including the now-prevalent cohort of youth whose transgender identities emerged for the first time during or after puberty, psychiatric care and gender-exploratory psychotherapy will be offered instead. Exceptions will be made on a case-by-case basis, and the number of clinics providing pediatric gender transition will be reduced to a few highly specialized centralized care centers.

If I ever got the chance I would love to play together with you

If I ever get a chance to meet Joel Someone in person we are going to fuck...