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    And of course keeping Citizens United in place....
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    <sigh> It does seem to be the way... Maybe we can stop trying to fix our issues by making up a new word every few years....
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    Both
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    I met my husband when I was 50.... We've had a sexually open relationship the whole time and so my answer to you is, you'll be you.... Enjoy it.
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    That is always the risk of serialized stories... Some never get finished. Bottom like, did you enjoy what was there?
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    Exactly. At a point I accept that "I can't fix stupid". I gave up reacting to epithets decades ago; a defensive decision that has served me well. Truly I would rather someone speak words many take as offensive than not speak at all. These days our society is to quick to take offense and it isn't making things better....
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    I am picky about guys I fuck. If they are fucking the virus in me; great but I might not be into him.... A similar argument; I poz so I don't have to worry. But I do worry. The neg guy I might run across who goes nucking futs I didn't give him the talk even though all my profiles are clear on my status. Hell I've even had guys message me the lovely "are you clean" message my obvious poz status notwithstanding. Suffice to say there are some on aps that aren't worth the bother as their head is so far up their own hole they are oblivious to the world around them.
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    I've been with guys like that; we're supposedly having sex while he is staring at his fucking phone. Ultimately I stopped and told him it was time to leave. I wasn't angry. But I was done with him.
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    Back to the original question. I really would not expect a non chaser to understand. Depending upon which frame of reference it truly makes no sense at all. And yet some of us did/do. Less important that we actually understand so much as recognize that each of us should be able to make the choices pertaining to their own body. Yes there are consequences for our choices and on balance I see my fellow chasers accepting them gracefully.
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    North of Chicago here....
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    I do, really to quell dingleberries.
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    Can we stop taking offense to the imperfect questions others ask us? Indeed if a guy asks if I am clean I am going to answer "yes"; or if applicable, I haven't douched yet. At least he is asking; we can work towards understanding given that start....
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    Thanks for those perspectives. We should also note that we weren't as a whole a particularly well educated society; and thus many couldn't read or write; which was also a significant factor in created EC.
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    Perhaps but honestly I am tired of people "correcting" each other. It's gotten to the point for me that those correcting are offensive as well.
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    @PozTalkAuthor We all have lives outside of BZ. Thanks for your efforts.
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    LOL obviously that's why it's hard to remember @hntnhole 🙂
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    Thanks,  Actually Toronto is deceptively far when one factors in the great lakes which are between us.  Last drive was 750 miles and a long long day's drive.  

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    All well said above. In so many domains we really seem to get into foisting our opinion on what everyone else should do. If a guy insists on condom sex with me and I'm not agreeable to that, then I don't have sex with him. No need to shame. I understand he wishes to influence his risk that way and that is his to do. If he starts to try to 'rip me a new one' because he thinks I am a cheap whore (and typically I respond to that with a 'fuck right I am asshole') we can go our separate ways. Mostly it never proves to be an issue. A guy sets his limits we hopefully reply "thanks".
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    My fuckbuds are for the most part suck buds. Every so often a lovely surprise raw fuck occurs.
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    And yet, when I am asked that I simply reply "yes". If one chooses to be ignorant that is their problem. I know the risk I present; and if they bothered to read profiles or 'about me' I am candid about being HIV poz. The wantonly ignorant do that these days by choice.
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    My online profiles are all clear that I am poz and not on meds. WRT to discussion? It depends. If we're going to fuck I'll at least ask if they are current on my profile. If I am going to suck them off? I don't say anything as there is simply no risk left (naturally suppressed viral load and, it's a blowjob).
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    I am not making any direct connection with hotness and profession. I guess I gravitate towards guy who build things; be it buildings, plumbing, wiring, HVAC etc. But also mechanics; system engineers, doctors, scientists, teachers. I guess truly is it less "what he does" and more "who he is (as a human)". Which for me is sort of a follow on to the whole BBC thing.... My life refocused as a young man in the late 1960's and 1970's. Race isn't something I gave a crap about. Deciding who I associate with based on where on our planet they came from seems stupid to me. And these days any stuff that is essentially preceded by <insert race, origin, et al here> and <pick a thought or any opinion here> and I discount it out of hand. We're humans; and we're doing a bang up job of decimating each other, historically our core competence as a species.
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    Religion sets the expectation that our personal choices are defined by others. And certain there are certain social choices that make sense. When the scope of what we do is combined to our body? I'll listen to ones suggestion but up to me to decide what I will do. I joined a couple of different religions as a young man. Ultimately each turned out to be a big ego telling everyone else what to do; and followers telling each other what to do. None were of a mindset to listen and make ones own choice about themselves. Over the years we see example after example of religious leaders fucking the neighbor (man or woman) all the while telling everyone else that they should not do that. Or that greed is terrible while buying a bigger Gulfstream.
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    The lovely thing about a global site like BreedingZone is that we interact with people over a broad geographic area.  If I lived in Toronto I think you and I would have already met up a time or three.  

    1. bbpoznow

      bbpoznow

      thanks , will see  hoe things work out 

  25. PozBearWI
    And sadly all this posturing on the campaign trail seems to never result in the population who actually want things to work well for most of us; and it instead tends to serve the minority.

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