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My friend, you must be the most generous-of-heart man Earth. "Unrepentant traitor" is far too kind. The misshapen mistake-of-nature you refer to, hardly possessing any intelligence, yet crafty as any common circus barker, con man, thief, grifter ever to walk this earth, may well wind up in the White House again. If the citizens of these Dis-United States don't vote en masse in a few months for decency, honesty, integrity - all of which the depraved would-be despot possesses none, our Democracy may well sink into the quicksand of history. Every single citizen possessing some measure of humanity must register and vote against such a calamity. Even if only for personal, selfish reasons, since once these hatemongers dole out their horrors to those who appear differently from themselves, they will come for us too. If I believed in such things, I would imagine that there are the infamous 3 sixes burned into that filthy, foul scalp - hidden under that ridiculous, cheato*-colored pompadour. *intentional

That's the crucial component - each guy supports, approves of, helps bring to pass what defines a cumdump, and it makes the other guy's Cock hard pimping out his partner. Each guy accepts and supports the other's sexual needs.

Fin som snuss !!!!! (now how archaic was THAT ???) 😉

Can we be more specific about the meaning of that term? What, exactly, is the definition of "date", "dating", as used today within our subculture? I would offer that "a date" implies an exploratory get-together, with the intent to discover mutual qualities about the other. It may or may not lead to more "dates", with the objective of figuring out what kind of partner the other guy might be. For men like us, obviously somebody would Breed somebody, but that's merely the sexual quotient (which, for some reason we tend to satisfy first) ....😈 Does a "date" today mean what "trick" used to mean a couple of decades ago? Does it still imply the possibility of something "more"?

This is a day we should send our thoughts Eastward, to our brothers (ok, sisters too) in the Ukraine. Whatever your beliefs on a wide range of issues, there are men in terrible danger, men who are indeed our "brothers", men we cannot spare. We need all of us to be safe, secure, and alive. No doubt there are Russian soldiers too, pressed into their armed forces who will be lost. They too are important. Today, and in the coming weeks, ALL lives matter.

As usual, well said, ErosWired. It gets tiring to put up with these Gen-"nothing but me" creatures, but what else are we going to do? The way I see it, all I can do is maintain my standards, and avoid interacting in any serious way with these kids so eager to demonstrate their supposed, assumed aura of superiority. I might point out that BZ is the only "social media" website I participate in these days, since there are some men on here that actually do think about the greater "we".

LOL ... I think I still have an old Polaroid shoved in some box somewhere ... Thanks for the words of encouragement. I always had secretaries to deal with all of the electronic stuff. And if none of them could, one of the editors was a computer-whiz, so I'd get him to do it, so I avoided the "ground floor" of how all this stuff works, but we live with the decisions we've made. I do feel a bit - oh - ashamed, I guess - for not being proactive in learning all about this stuff years ago, my only excuse is I was really too busy with other things to take the time, and I didn't really care how it all worked. Weak as water, huh? Per the question though, yes, and yes I did. He was from India, dark hair, brilliant smile, lovely Hole, but it took him a while (I'm on the thick side). Of course, when something deleterious happens with the computer, I just so happen to have his personal number, so I call him first. Unfortunately though, he's not really a Pig in the same sense I am, but at least he takes raw Cock/Sperm up his gut. There have been others from the same company that haven't given off the slightest hint, so I didn't either. I think he sniffed around on my computer and saw some stuff when I wasn't looking (plus, the slingroom door is right next to the bathroom door, so it's entirely possible he glanced in there at some point if he had to take a leak). In any case, his demeanor changed from thoroughly professional to thoroughly interested in fairly short order. When the Universe presents us with that kind of gift, who am I to turn it down ??? 🐷

One more thing: there is NO State income tax here. Oddly, there is also no emissions testing for your car.

Well, BreedingandSeeding ... a lot of excellent advise from a number of perspectives. I know Ft. Lauderdale is well-known for it's wanton sex, and the real estate prices here have leveled off, but are still high. There are, however, smaller burbs in the area, and maybe a 20 minute drive from "Ground Zero" of the gay life here*. Just south of the airport is Dania Beach, Hollywood, a few others, and while I don't know all that much about them, it might be worth your while to take a sniff. East So. Florida is a megalopolis now, like your area, in that there is no open land. You cross a street and you're in another town. Broward County is the largest and most "blue" in FL. Yes, we get these storms called hurricanes occasionally, but the come, do their damage, and go. Winter comes every year, last for 4 months at least. But other than that, if you like warm weather and hot sex, it's something you might want to consider. One other consideration: With the Russians on the march, the markets have crashed, the Fed is raising rates as quickly as they can (I expect a couple more this year), inflation, and at some point the real estate market will crater. Most folks around here are up to their eyeballs in debt**, and that won't be sustainable for much longer. I don't know how much time you have to choose where to relocate to, but if you do have a little time, take it. When the shit hits the fan, things will change quickly, and that will be the time to pounce. Congrats on the new job, and wherever you go, best wishes !!! *I don't know how much importance you put on the availability of a lot of raw sex, but it you actually wanted it every night, you could get it easily. **it's very different here - everything is about showing off - big house, lots of expensive phony furnishings, fast expensive cars - all kinds of Un-Northern characteristics. If you're culturally inclined, don't move here; there's almost nothing worth the name in that sphere.

I'm with you, DarkroomTaker. I've kept myself from saying much on this thread, since it seems a bit lacking in substance. Of course we should all do what we need to do, provided we do it with care and grace. I don't "fetishize" any straight man, pseudo or otherwise. Producing offspring is some sort of proof of anything? Any of the late-night comedians on tv could shred that notion with scalpel-like precision, and we'd be laughing our asses off. I have my own fetishes, and if some father of many offspring has his Hole up in a darkroom, I couldn't possibly care less. If his Hole is full of loads off other Cocks, he's on my radar, and - in that moment - regardless of anything/everything else - he's as queer for my Cock as I am for his Hole. I can accept that online ads for "straight" men, written by guys that mean "masculine" men. Dull is as dull does. But in the end (!), what counts is the behavior. If some self-proclaimed straight man wants to fuck other men, then so what? Let him proclaim his Martian Citizenship for all I care. It's the behavior that counts, and precious little else.

On the "Causes Anxiety" scale, I tend to give what other folks think about me around a 1, maybe a 0 (or, a negative). It's wasted energy, time, effort when I could be doing other productive things. My neighbors, friends know I'll do what I say I'll do - not do what I say I won't - and be there for them when they need me. The rest is nothing more than a fart in a windstorm.

Why would you allow behavior that might injure you permanently? I fully understand how you feel you owe your services to this man, but if he's doing dangerous (i.e. potentially injurious) stuff, why accept that? It might grant that one man what his desired dictate, but deny every other man his less-destructive needs.

Thanks, Viking8x6 & fskn. Next time Chris comes over, I'll ask him about all that technical information: to me, it might as well be written in Swahili ... some things I'm good at, and in those cases, really good. Some thing's I'm not at all good at, and in those cases, dense as dirt. I get that guys shouldn't be able to "react" to their own submissions - that would be silly. I subscribe to a computer-support service, and if Chris can't figure it out, I'll call the service. All I know about this stuff is, I push the button, the computer either comes on or it doesn't, in which case I make the call. Thanks for the replies.

Well, just like anything else, I suppose - there are quality products and there are inferior products on the market. I think sometimes these talentless video editors get one chance at their task, and whatever ensues gets peddled. Having a bit of a musical ear, I've actually heard the same soundtrack used on two entirely different videos !!! Talk about cheesy ....

My only suggestion would be to take the cruise-site potential hook-ups with the proverbial grain of sand. I don't know anything about your city, having never been there, but maybe you should try the physical locations where men in your area meet for sex. At least you'd know that there are living, breathing, actual men needing Cock/Hole - and not depending on bs fap fap fap (thank you again, BMLA) fantasies to jerk off to. It's not *real* until there's an actual hard, raw Cock up your gut, with more lined up waiting their turn .....

Heartfelt Congrats, ohmalewhore .... Sounds like you and your Daddy have arrived at the perfect solution for both of you. Thanks for sharing your experiences with us. Best wishes to you both.

No, I didn't. The only answer could be that most of the participants in that poll were so full of O.R. bullshit, they only dared to try out an infinitesimal number of sex-partners. Even when I was in high school I fucked more girls that that ....

100%, PigBoyDallas !!! What could be more masculine than bending over for another man's hard Cock ??? Some guys think its' 'submissive', and it can be. Some guys think it's 'feminine', and it can be. Some guys think with their assholes too - and that's ok. There's room for every guy, especially the guys that have outgrown the cultural bs drummed into us from childhood. Agreed. I'll fuck an inked guy over non-inked any day. To me, it means pretty much the same, and I kinda like guys that walk down the street showing off who and what they are - it reflects Pride in himself, and his self-fulfillment. It also announces to one and all his disinterest in cultural garbage.

Actually, I have come to understand that love and extra, "outside" sex are not mutually exclusive. When two (or more) men accustomed to a lot of sex with many partners learn to love each other, the first block of stone in the foundation of that budding "relationship" is that they're both (or all) sexual Pigs, confident and accepting of their Lusts, and the following blocks of stone (i.e. building a relationship) must be built in full recognition and acceptance of that first block of stone in the foundation. Any thing else would be building a relationship upon a foundation of sand, which is the definition of "unstable". Men who simply love sex with countless other men are just not going to give that up for just one guy(s). The affection, love they feel for each other must be inclusive of their Lusts, and each must love and revel in the other's wanton Breeding urges. The very word love encompasses all the characteristics of the other - or it's something other than love. We don't want to to change who and what we are - we want to be our honest selves within a relationship - and build upon that wholeness of sharing each other's need to give/take Sperm off as many Cock/Holes as they need or want. More than ok !!! With THAT tongue, I'd eat wet Holes and felch them back and forth with you any day !!! To the rest, I've worked all my life, and whether or not I have a couple of nickels to show for it isn't the point: I'd expect some kind of sharing not only of Lusts, but living expenses as well. No one praises the Lord for free anymore - and the clerics never have. Well, we do diverge on this one. It's from experience on my part that I won't accept habitual drug use. I've just seen too many guys lives ruined or even ended via suicide. I would have no limits in a relationship re: outside sex - I would encourage it. That said, I draw the line at the junk that alters one's mind. I simply wouldn't trust a guy that's addicted to mind-altering drugs. Smoking a joint is one thing - but the rest is a non-starter for me. Yeah, nothing lasts forever, but to me, that doesn't mean we shouldn't accept a loving relationship when the opportunity presents itself. To me, honesty is the key - even if the definition of that "honesty" would be enshrined in the foundation of the relationship as not disclosing every Cock, every load, every single time. The crux of the issue is, each guy in the relationship knows the other is a sexual Pig, and that means each of them will eat, sleep, walk, talk, go to work, come home, have a beer, get a haircut, go to the store, the whole panoply of our lives, and take/give loads as their Lusts dictate. Together, separately, each guy loving the other in Freedom from judgements, control, accepting of each other's carnal requirements.

Great cruising ground bites the dust .... On the next corner south of RR there's an old abandoned gas station, which had an 8' cement-block wall surrounding much of the northern end of the property. The other day, there was a crew over there with sledgehammers, beating down the wall facing NE 4th. The wall on the northern edge is still there, but relatively useless. They painted the old gas station building. It was a great place for numbers of men to get inside the walls and fuck, but no more. Looks like someone actually bought the dump, and is planning on opening some kind of business there. On the bright side, maybe it'll be some kind of filthy fuck joint .....

See? I just thanked Blackrobe for posting this, but the "response" doo-dad isn't there (at least on my screen). The lower right corner has nothing - the little circle with the white heart isn't there..... but then, I'm hardly the most compu-literate guy around either.

Mine works .... but oddly, when I reply to a post, there's no little doo-dad to choose a reaction. Sometimes, guys apparently can, however - since there's one of the reaction doo-dads next time I sign on ... but, this site is waaaay better than the online cruise sites, so I'm not complaining - just don't know why it's happening.

Thanks, ejaculaTe ... The IML busses, if they still offer them) are part of the IML event. They go only to the various bars, certain other specified locations around the N side, from the hosting hotel. They run on a schedule, so IML'ers can get to a bar, tubs, fuckclub, stay a while, and catch a return IML bus back. Of course, the City bus lines run 24/7 (with some reductions in frequency on weekends, the wee hours, but they still run consistently. One more thing I remember: Given that the weather can turn chilly - even at the end of May - attendees should bring at least one pair of jeans and a sweatshirt, jacket, whatever. I remember several times seeing boys with nothing but skimpy shorts and a "cruise" t-shirt freezing their balls off. It is called the Windy City, but not for the reason you might expect. While the lake breeze can get downright chilly, in the early years of Chicago's development as a major city, entrepreneurs starting businesses were full of braggadocio about Chicago - and "bragging" was called being "windy" many decades ago. Thus, while there is plenty of actual wind off the lake, at one time it meant "too much bragging about the business opportunities" in Chicago. And, with that, History Class dismissed.

oh - one more thing - Try to get a nap in before the day is over. The stairwells/hallways used to be breathtakingly depraved in the wee hours. Better than walking the halls looking for open doors.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ...... very imaginatively put !!! Oh geez ... no coffee? My mother's left tit was black coffee - we were raised on it, and I drink it black, at least a pot a day. Give up coffee? I dunno if that's in the cards for me ... I do eat a very healthy diet, mostly because I like almost every food, and it's easy to avoid deep fried (might as well keep this subject going) shit, all the unhealthy garbage being peddled these days. And, that shower-nozzle is still attached to the shower, so any guy over here can use it when needed.