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Agreed. While any leader of any group will have some kind of platform, his was world-wide, and he did speak out in favor if treating others with compassion, all the generally-accepted "positive" values. Not that I paid much attention, but he managed to avoid pushing all the overweening magic stuff. That was refreshing.

Actually, that's entirely likely. I get similar phone calls all the time*, and it's a fact that (apparently) I could easily get 4x what I paid for my place. The issue is, assuming one wants to stay in the area (I do), where to move to and a) stay alive, and b) not blow all the profits on a new place. There are a handful of area in greater Ft. Lauderdale (but not Ft. L. proper) that are simply not safe at all. As to the "improvements" issue, the mayor (one of us) held a function in this 'hood several years ago, promising this and that, none of which has yet materialized. Apparently, gay mayors get the same "tell em what they wanna hear" illness that seems to infect most mayors everywhere. *that's about the only thing I like about cellphones: we can "block" the number and not hear from the caller again.

Well you sweet pig !!!!! I'd go prowling with you .....

My favorite is Land 'O Lakes unsalted butter ... nothing makes a Hole taste better than the mixture of salt-free butter and sperm. But, I keep a selection of other, commercial lubes on hand, just in case. I've never heard of Marmite, but I recall something that might have been that substance when in GB. Didn't taste it though ..... Generally, I offer them a selection of commercial lubes, and the LOL's as an "up & extra" if they come over for more at some point.

Well, there are good reasons not to relocate here ("f"l meaning Florida, or "fl" meaning Fort Lauderdale), mostly related to weather issues. It's true that we (collectively) have fucked our home (Mother Earth) to the point that she'd fucking us back, but there's no (habitable) place that isn't experiencing some level of M.E.'s wrath. There are a number of reasons to at least visit here, depending on your tastes. There's no winter, which is a big one for me. For example, "planting season" begins in October !!! For folks that enjoy gardening/horticulture, Florida is paradise. For folks that hate the cold, dark winters, it's paradise all over again. Then there's the "No State Income Tax" thing. Interestingly, I just read an article about how the land-levels are sinking, all over the world. Apparently, we (humanity) has been pumping so much ground water out (irrigation of crops, etc) that what land used to be held in place by large concentrations of subterranean water (apparently very, very deep, but now depleted) is allowing huge tracts of surface earth to be slowly sinking. No place is everyone's cup of shit, Florida included, but it's alright for some of us.

I'm wondering if we're "shirttail" relatives, on a really longtailed shirt ......

Same fuckjoint as always .... Most of the snowbirds have flown back North now, so it's not as jammed as during the Winter months, but somehow there's an increased sense of "anything goes" this time of year. Maybe it's just that the not-quite-so-dedicated guys aren't around, but there's a palpable aura of more concentrated wantonness over there. Fine with me.

I have nothing against it, but the others involved need to be real pigs too. It's fun to have a little (good natured) competition of who can be the most brazenly focused on exchanging raw loads. Plus, if there are a couple of real pigs involved, others that have yet to "let loose" can watch, get accustomed to the complete freedom, and become that much closer to who/what they need to be. I'm not much of a kisser, but when some guy has a mouthful / holefull of loads, I'm all over it ....

Well you sweet piggy !!!! Well done 😉

It takes quite a while for some guys to ditch their inhibitions and let their Lusts out of the box, and while that's a shame, at least they finally get over the cultural bullshit and start living "their truth". I think that the guys that have the most difficulty allowing themselves to become what they really *need* to become, have been raised with cultural repressions to the point that they don't realize those repressions are negative characteristics in the first place, designed to keep society in someone else's notion of what "order" is. Freedom is contagious; when we get a little taste of real freedom to be who we need to be, we only want to experience more freedom. As long as that doesn't entail negative behavior towards others, where's the harm? Good for you, for allowing him the time to get his lusts in order. If he hasn't yet, allow me to thank you on his behalf. A sexually-wanton guy is a terrible thing to waste !!

Neither have I .... but I suppose you and I live in more open, less prejudiced areas. Too bad so many folks don't.

Well, not everyone is ever going to live their lives fully, openly embracing themselves in all their various attributes. I guess that all we can do is embrace them anyway, and try not to judge them for judging us. There's a lot of willful ignorance out there .....

Congrats - glad he managed to separate his love for you from his lust to watch you steep in your sexual lusts. No guy is "property" - we're with our partners because we care for their entire being. When we love them them in all their attributes, talents, then we're truly blessed.

I did - loved it. Initially though, he didn't want me to watch at all. He felt somehow that I wouldn't like it - and I suppose conventionally, a lot of partnered guys wouldn't care for it. Didn't take him long to learn though - and once he did, he didn't mind "showing off" at all.

What more is there to ask of a guy? (well, maybe to hang onto something while he's bent over ....)

Bingo. To which I'd only add, know your craft, Tops. We can bring a sperm-addicted bottom to tears of joy if we learn our craft, and realize that there are two equally-important components to a fantastic fuck.

The way I see it, obviously there's some difference between a full Hole and a cum-slicked Cock - but not much of a difference. The one cannot happen without the other. Bon appetit all the way around ....

To the OP, I guess I'd think of it as a challenge to be overcum ....

In the same vein, I've been using a VPN for a while now, and occasionally I have to turn it off (for a fraction of a second) while the computer thinks it over .... it only takes an eyeblink, and then I turn it on again.

Wow !!! There's a guy that's really got his metaphors tied up in a bundle .....

HAHAHAHA ........ I'd completely forgotten this, but when I was a little kid, my parents always told me to do the opposite of what they actually wanted me to do. Worse, it always worked. I don't recall though, when I "woke up" to the con, and began doing exactly what they wanted instead of what they said - just to spite them.

Welcome, new guys ... We hope to hear more from each of you !

"And that, I think, is a good start". Agreed, within certain parameters. I'm assuming that the "discourse" you allude to is with someone you feel is a "friend", to some degree or another. Someone you like (at least somewhat), and respect (same qualifier). When those are the "default" positions - most likely mutual - there's every chance that neither person (m or f) would want to purposely disrespect the other, and thus keep the tone of the conversation within certain "non-challenging" parameters. This assumes, of course, a pre-existing sense of friendship, respect, each for the other. In that kind of trusting situation, what the other person has to say is important, and received with the aforementioned sense of trust in mind. Even criticism for x or y or z can be considered within the framework of non-judgementalism. While some folks are not disposed to this kind of sharing relationship, I'll bet 10-to-1 that you are. Thus, the "trick" is to parry conversations that may prove distasteful, and engage seriously only those you trust - and who trust you. Now, I know you wouldn't be engaging in this kind of sharing with just anyone you happened to meet - who would? It would be someone you already trusted to be decent, honest, and couch any potential critical statements as carefully as they're able. However - "if their logic doesn’t hold up against my own values" - then your friend can still remain one of your friends, but there's simply a depth of that friendship that will not be plumbed. And, that's alright. We don't need all that many "real" friends, but we do need a few. Like you, I generally don't engage in these kinds of discussions until I really know someone, and for the same reasons. Combine that with a disinclination to accept poorly-thought out, poorly conceived blathering with little respect, and we wind up being refreshed, validated in our sense of self, our sense of purpose, and our sense of determination to be the man that we aspire to be. Thanks for that most interesting post.

Could be great for the bottom, particularly if he's adept at imagination. Would need to be agreed upon prior though ...

Well, it's the height of "hot". A lot of guys in this neighborhood bought homes (I mean, close to Ramrod) back when the r.e. prices had bottomed out, so it's at least 1/3 gay households, more wouldn't surprise me. The place across the street from me (at one time, owned/lived in by the Chief of Police in Ft. L.) has a two-storey garage in back that's been converted to two apts, the main house has been subdivided, and it's all rented out for AB&B short term travelers. There are people coming and going constantly over there, (which is fine by me - n.o.m.b.). Those properties that aren't AB&B are mostly owned by gay guys who bought here when RR was still going full blast (like me, for instance). The residents that bought a house 40, 50 years ago might be straight, but virtually all of the original homeowners are long dead and gone. So, it's diverse around here, which I like.