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I think you need to get out more. It's definitely not creepy, and it is definitely widely accepted between men that need to show the kids how to fuck, and take pride in their work. I'm no chickenhawk, but I've fucked the feathers off a number of them through the years. It's up to the more "experienced" to pass our learned-talents down to the younger guys. If we don't do that, then how will they learn?

There's an as-yet unmentioned benefit to wearing steel in these bodily places; airports !!! When going through the magnetometers, they will pick up the presence of steel, and unless the owner removes them first, a most interesting result will occur. It can be a lot of fun, particularly if the magnetometer attendant happens to be a guy. 😁

Assuming this post refers to the viability of my load to produce offspring, I couldn't care less. Since my earliest memories, I've preferred the company of other boys, and subsequently, men. Thus, there's zero chance of me producing offspring, whatever the viability of my loads might be.

I actually sat down with the calculator and honestly tried to figure this out: The results could make a dog blush. X# on a weekly basis, times 4 weeks in a month, times 12 for a decent number of years, (this is not counting deliberate "repeats"), and the result is a figure well into the zeros. Thus, I've done my duty honorably. I'm neither proud nor ashamed of it .... it is what it is. What I am proud of however, is that so far I've lived my life on my terms, not those of certain institutions, or cultural repressions, or any other impediments.

I'd wait that long to get some ... assuming the previous 10 hours were spent collecting loads off other cocks ... I've always preferred hairy over bald hole.

The usual fuckjoint last night - and I'll do it again tonight.

That's why you're one of our hero's, silly .....

Well, for me there is one thing that's non-negotiable, and you just alluded to it. "Limits" should be negotiated, particularly in the more "specialized" sexual tastes. I merely "assume" that particular facet has been successfully dealt with, without any mention prior. Rather seldom do I have to say "no". No hole prep = no dick.

I doubt any rawguy with some experience would posit that hole-hair (or any pubic hair, for that matter) is unattractive. "Natural" is the key for most, whether that means a jungle of pubes or a bald as a cue-ball guy, the presence of hair or lack of it is really just icing on the cake, or lack of it. I've fucked all kinds of holes; from jungle-hairy to cue-ball bald. I do have a preference, of course, but it's not cast in concrete. The only thing I actually will avoid is a guy that's careless about hygiene, which is not an inherited trait. Just because I take special delight in fucking a "fresh-outta-the-jungle" hole doesn't mean I won't fuck a smooth one. When all is said and done, it's all good.

And I would add, any gay guy (even the wannabe's) would come to heel if they experience real, honest-to-goodness, exchange of sperm, is what "connection" is all about. Without that exchange, how can there be any *real* connection between the two.

For me, every phrase of your contribution is spot on, and beautifully said. Thanks. To the quote above, it's spot-on. Chasing x,y,z sexual act may scratch the surface-itch for a while, but only a *real* connection - however brief - will fill that special "hole" - slake that lovely "thirst" - feed our souls.

One of the events every guy looked forward to in the past, were the stairwells between the floors of the hotel - particularly at night, It was pure filth, refined to the "enth" degree - men breeding in the stairwells everywhere, to say nothing of the public johns .... I'm glad I experienced it for those years, when IML was at the heights of celebration with our brothers. I'm so sorry to know how IML is fading away.

Which hotel was the principal host this year?

Well, I'm really sorry to know this. IML was the event stateside for decades. Sometimes though, when the person (in his case, Chuck Renslow) that has kept an event like IML moving from strength to strength is no longer, either someone else picks up the baton, or the event fades away. There were other events on the coasts, but IML was the King of this particular hill for decades. As you say, though .... life goes on.

True, and there is something akin to "making love" when that particular thing, characteristic, whatever, that just turns your crank is present in the other guy. For example, I just so happen to adore a hairy hole, for a number of reasons, and while I don't demean 'making love" at all, it's possible to get really close to "making love" when a physical characteristic that really pushes your buttons is present.

Or .... in case they don't, at least he wouldn't be invited to subsequent events in the first place. 😉

Within the Bd/Sm community*, there are some acts that simply are not acted out. *by that definition, I mean members of that community that are known to each other, and these men derive their identity, their sense of self, their dedication to their craft, and consider themselves members of a very special sub-group within the wider gay community. There are usually organizations in the major metro areas that exist to provide a communal space for men drawn to the Bd/Sm community, and the very last thing on earth these men would want is to have their reputation, their integrity, their dedication to Dominance or submission, or any other facet of their lives brought into question. Frankly, any member of the Bd/Sm community that disrespects the greater community (in the context of a scene) by acting in some way that disrespects the greater community, would be kicked out of that organization at the earliest opportunity. There are protocols that every member of any Bd/Sm organization/club respect, and earning a reputation of dishonesty in a sexual situation would be unthinkable to a man dedicated to this life. This is why these men form organizations/clubs in the first place; to support and defend each other whenever necessary. It's like a family bound by respect for each other as much as anything else. Obviously, the communicative "thread" is a special kind of sexual ritual, but the situation you allude to is something I've never heard of. That said, there are always outliers who don't respect themselves, let alone anyone else. These types seldom make it into a Bd/Sm club or organization in the first place, since new members have to be "sponsored" by an existing member before being allowed to join. In the scene you envision above, that Dom/Sir you allude to wouldn't have made it into any kind of Bd/Sm club. Becoming a member of any of the well-known Bd/Sm clubs is not an easy thing; referenced, all of that are needed. CHC* was the predominant one in Chicago - maybe still is, for all I know. NO member of CHC would want to suffer the humiliation of breaking his word - damaging his honor - anything like that. Thus, a man who feels "called" to Dominance or submission should always investigate the resources in his community. Guys that don't live in major metro areas should attend nationally-known events - International Mister Leather Contest, for instance - or any other similar event - to find resources in his own area. Clearly, a guy who's just discovering how this life might apply to him needs to find out about organizations similar, and contact that organization. It's a fairly close-knit community, and guys know and understand that protecting the potential initiates is paramount. The critter you're describing simply doesn't exist in the Bd/Sm community, and it's that community the newbie should be in contact with. A guy like the one you describe would not be accepted into any of the organizations. Most are located in major metro areas, of course, since men living this life aren't on every street corner. Gay newspapers (in major metro areas) would have listings including the organizations, clubs I'm referring to, and would sincerely welcome questions from guys interested in learning more, and would have a network of responsible guys willing to meet/interact with a new guy drawn to this special life. *Chicago Hellfire Club, down on Leavitt St, near north side. Any major metro area will have a similar organization. Thanks for the comment, rawinme; I hope I've made it a bit more clear.