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Poll: Sexual Risk Habits, For Both Poz/neg


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risk from 1 (lowest) to a maximum of 6 (highest)

 

Specify whats your risk level, and how many years have u practice at this risk level, and how long it take for you to convert, or still dodging the bullet

 

level 1 - condom Nazi, enough said

level 2 - will do raw with bf/partner

level 3 - will do raw with anyone who claims they are neg

level 4 - raw with hook ups that seem 'safe' from your own judgement, without discussing status (for me ill assume, students, and some professions, I know it sound dumb, oh well)

level 5- raw with anyone, except sauna/orgy party with knowingly poz personnel

level 6 - take ALL loads

 

Let me start the ball rolling

level 2 for 4 years, level 3 for 2 years,

 

neg here,

 

I think moving up each ladder seems challenging and nervous for me,

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level 6 here... which is basically same as level 5

I am missing a level were you would do poz undetectable...

I am really kidding myself because I haven't done officially poz undetectable yet though I have done raw at sauna's no questions asked. And if you take any loads you even do poz with or without medication...

God I am a pig. So now that I have that clear for myself [it's all in the mind] next time I am in a spot for all out sex I might as well just take all loads and don't go figuring out if it is poz with/without meds...

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Level 1 through my mid 20s

Level 2 for a couple of years

Level 3 for about a decade until I met my husband

Level 2 and monogamous for 6 years

Level 3 after we opened our relationship for a couple of years

Level 4 drifting into 5 and close to 6 for a couple of years as I came to believe converting was just a matter of time. 

Negative through all of that

On PrEP since this May

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I don't seem to be on your list. I was level 4 for most of my adult life.  I kind of have a problem with the judgemental tone of your Level 5. "with knowingly positive personel". How would you know the status of the personel at a bath house unless you knew them. And what difference does the status of the personel make unless you are having sex with them. Most of them are pretty busy when they are on the job. You don't go to a club to fuck the staff.

If level 5 was Prefer Raw, always. That would be me. Level 6 implies will take a load from anyone, and that is not me, even though I always prefer raw, that doesn't mean I take all loads.

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Mostly level 4 for the last 5 years, but occasionally drift to level 6 at sex parties or other group activities where I just give over my ass to any taker.

 

For more than 20 years before that I was usually at level 2.

 

Tested neg again in Oct.

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Started at 4 but always used a condom if I was asked. Discovered cruising sites in my 30's and started fucking how I wanted. As they were mostly lorry drivers on the a well known lay by, and they "didn't kiss or do rubbers" I ended up at level 6.

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