Did You Ever Think You Would Be A 'barebacker'?

[AlwaysOpen]

I have been taking loads raw  for the last 44 of my 59 years- got a partner in 1984 and we fucked raw until I  tested poz in  Jan of 1987- then the few rare fucks he threw after that were always wrapped, and not very good for either of us. I was still staying slightly satisfied  with some porn store sex and park play. Moved out in 2000  and have been a certifiable slut since,and while a few rubbered up cock have hit the hole ( hey, some is better than none) better than 99.89% of my lifelong cock were raw, and I  just keep working that percentage closer to 100%

[RayKindle]

I never thought that I would. One night I went to go hook up with a couple and one of them tried to enter raw while I was sucking off the other, and I stormed out of the place pissed off. A few weeks later I found myself looking at nothing but bareback porn wondering, "What if?". 

 

I wound up finding another couple that wanted to fuck, we had spoken about playing safe, which they agreed to, but after I got one of their cocks nice and wet, I backed up to it and he slid in happily, I took several loads that night and haven't looked back.

[negbtm]

I didn't think I would be either, I started off not using condoms because it was with my first boyfriend, but once I started hooking up I became a condom nazi. But then one night I got drunk and got bred and loved it, and just kept doing it. 

[Guest cardoc49]

bbbearlover1: thanks for being so honest. and as a top I agree: never looked back once I started bbing last 90¨s

[bbzh]

When I was 18, I never thought I'd bareback. Ever.

I only began to consider it in my 20s when I felt comfortable with my partner and we were somewhat exclusive.

In my 30s, I think low self esteem caused me to take more risks. I just didn't care if I pozzed. I wasn't chasing but I didn't respect my body enough to take the steps to stay neg.

After I pozzed in '09, and became undetectable in 2010, I started taking loads regularly. In fact, I would rather not be penetrated at all if the guys insists on a condom.

 

I do think however that asking others to bareback actually makes them hesitant. It's better to go with the flow and hope they prefer it raw.

 

One major mistake we as barebackers sometimes make is that we assume that people who bareback are actually informed about STDs - particularly HIV. I will never forget being at a sex party where 99% of the fucking was barebacking. I hinted to one of the guys there that I was poz and he totally freaked out. 

[Guest AIDSfuckpig]

I never thought i wouldn't

[Locomotion]

I was a life long condom guy until recently. I felt for many years that I was being dishonest to my true desires, but all of the "safe sex" warning bullshit kept me being safe....and kept my sexual enjoyment limited.

I spent a long time trying to figure the who thing out on both emotional and rational terms. A number of weeks ago, I finally let loose of all the fear induced limitations and started enjoying the pleasures of raw cock in my as. I should have never waited so long.

I guess I should add this. I evidently got "knocked up" soon after...as I tested poz 36 hours ago. That happened...just like all the warnings suggested it would. However, I expected it would....perhaps surprised by the speed with which I converted..but fully understood it would happen at some point. There are consequences....bur if you understand that, the sex can be transcending.

Edited February 28, 2016 by Locomotion

[Docebrown]

Having grown up in the eighties and being bombarded with the safe sex message, I never thought I would bareback. But due to reading a lot on the Internet and watching bareback porn it all just seemed more enjoyable. So gave it a try 6 years ago and love it.

[Guest]

I never thought I would be a barebacker, especially in college in the early 90's I was so uptight. In grad school I slipped a few times when the guys were really hot, but still never thought it would be a thing. I figured it didn;t feel any different with or without a condom.

 

Then I moved in with my current partner. He said he always wrapped (he's an uncut total top) though we fucked bare. Then I found a bunch of pictures of him fucking other bottoms -- all raw. I found it so hot. I didn;t tell him I knew and would secretly beat off to it. I also hacked his accounts and read message exchanges with bottoms and how much they loved getting filled with his seed. It was so fucking hot and I would secretly beat to it. One day a bud of his hit me up on line while I was under my partners account. Next thing I know my partner is swinging the door open - he has come home in the middle of the day because the guy I ignored called him and asked why my partner was ignoring him on-line. My partner knew he wasn;t on-line and realized had hacked his accounts. So there he is busting me looking through his accounts with my throbbing hard dick in my hand.

 

So he admitted he never wore condoms (uncut top - I totally get why) and said he wouldn;t.  He still wanted me to wear condoms through because I was receptive. When we'd play he'd always make sure the guy fucking me was wrapped. But I wasn;t having any of that (what's good for the gander ...) and as soon as he was distracted I would be getting plowed raw. It was actually a relief when I sero-converted. It was no longer this issue and now my partner only wants me to get fucked raw.

 

So from only condoms to only raw. I am glad for the move. I never knew sex felt so good. And I love knowing that bottoms all over town get to feel my partner's seed shoot deep inside them so they can really remember exactly what it was like being filled with his meat until they get to fuck again. 

[RawLeather]

I took my first bare cock at 18. Didn't think much of it. Played covered up most of the time after that. Around 25 years old I discovered book stores with glory holes and bathhouses. It was then that I started to become who I was a man into getting fucked bare and a man into leather. Became poz ten years ago and have never looked back. In fact when I find out all inhibitions were out the window and a pig was born.

[Guest]

When I first became sexually active in my teens I made no real distinction between bare and wrapped sex. As I got older and had more sex ed courses telling me how bad "unprotected sex" was that I started using condoms with more consistency. Going bareback as I do today wasn't even a thought to be entertained. 

 

But look at me now lol

[Guest bukkakio]

Never in my life. I was a condom nazi for years and turned down a lot of requests for baresex.

 

Then the hottest guy I met in years ran out of condoms... and no way I would have let that pass by

[Guest faggot hole]

i never thought i would be anything but a barebacker.  i was first fucked by my father and he fucked me raw (only natural -- within the family).  As i grew more skilled in taking cock, my dad would sometimes let his work buddies or drinking buddies fuck me.  Dad imposed no conditions on their use of my cunt and most often, dad enjoyed watching.  Then, all through high school, my younger brother and his buddies fucked me and these guys only knew raw.  i was maybe fucked 100 times before i even saw a condom.  i was dumbstruck by the appliance.  When its purpose was explained to me, i could not figure out why any guy would want to use one and i certainly resented not getting that load at the end of the fuck.  To this day, a i am most usually fucked raw (both times so far this morning before i head off to work).  i never ask -- the guy fucking me is entitled to do it how it gives him the  most pleasure -- that's a faggot's burden (joy) in life.  And it certainly is inappropriate for a faggot even to ask about status.

[averageslut48]

I took it bare my whole life. It was very simple. When i started my sex life, I was 11 years old and that was in the years before the first Aids-crisis. it was 1976. So I didn´t care. Of course I got fear, when the first news about the virus came up. But I had long term relationships at this time. So I hoped to be safe in some way. Otherwize condoms have always been a total turn off for me. When I went back to a promiscous lifestyle, I was a bit picky for a while, who fucked me.

Usually I was horny all the time and took it as it came. In my early 30´s I took my first knowingly poz load. I couldn´t resist. The guy was too hot. I wanted him. But He didn´t infect me. And as far as I know, I am neg actually. However, I know the risk. But I would never refuse a bare cock and its load inside my mancunt. And if I get converted, I will deal with it and will never regret anything. No fucking doubt about it!!!

[Guest Bearman]

My very first fuck was raw and so it continued until HIV first hit and then started to take  cock rubbered  up . Never did  like it but continued taking dick covered until several years ago when a guy I really fancied asked if he could take me raw. I agreed as I really did want his cock when I saw it hard and throbbing.The fuck bought back those feelings of old and when he dumped his load deep inside I knew I could never go back to being fucked by covered dick. I'm neg at present but would find it hard to refuse any cock as I just love the feel of a raw cock giving me what I desire most.