Bttms Who Can't Take It

[mike258]

Tops: how do you deal with bttms who can't handle your cock? I'm well-endowed and I've always been able to go deep with mixed results. My main bud can take my cock deep with no problems or complaints, but lately I've been with a new guy (closer to my age) and it's like I'm always chasing around the bed. He'll send me texts talking about how bad he wants my cock, he likes gagging on it, but the second I go in he's putting his hands up. It's annoying.

 

 

[NLbear]

As a bottom I can take any cock, doesn't matter which size. Why is he complaining? The bigger the better, no?

Which size is your cock?

[nelliess]

It sounds like he isn't preparing himself properly to take it. Sometimes I might have an issue if the guy has a really thick cock but a little bit of hole stretching and I'm good to go. If you try opening his hole up with your fingers first or suggest he do it himself might make things easier.

[Guest ff-whole]

He is trying to make his fantasy reality, but reality is kicking in and he can't stop fantasizing.

[not_sure_bb]

if a huge hung top goes slow in the beginning its never a problem. if he rams it in, hes done, go away.

[topstud127]

If more foreplay or poppers won't help, I'd move on. Sex shouldn't be frustrating or a battle of endless stop and starts.

[FelchingPisser]

Rimming should be your secret weapon....

[toddbb]

if a huge hung top goes slow in the beginning its never a problem. if he rams it in, hes done, go away.

yup.  even if it's not huge, a top needs to know how to start.  I was with a guy recently.  Cock was big but not enormous.  He kept trying to jam it in.  He was clueless and got pissed when it didn't work out.  I tried to tell him but he refused to listen.

[cumslut23]

If you like this guy, go slowly. You have to train him. If he likes to become a slut, he will get turned on by it. Finger him, stretch him and move in very slowly and rest. 

You are creating your personal hole. Enjoy it

 

If he is random, move on....

[NLbear]

It's never too big unless your dick is like a telephone pole.

Edited December 5, 2015 by NLbear

[PERVERSATILE]

A while back I had this grunt chasing after my dick constantly, and even though he had a big ole bouncy butt and the sweetest

lil pink eye, getting up in his kunt was too damn much work. Finally I told him next time you come over to my house lookin

to get you hole banged out, I better be able to just bone your hole in one long even stroke, or you're hittin the bricks.

So now he stops at an a ABS on his way over and get thrown a fuck by a stranger, and I get some nice wet marine pussy to

fuck the shape of my dick into

[fuckrogerbb]

I think porn is largely to blame here. They show tops just going in all the way. No foreplay just ram it in and fuck away. For most bottoms that does not work. Go slow at first and yes rimming first helps, but take your cues from your bottom. He really wants you to fuck him or you wouldn't be there. Just take it slow.

[AlwaysOpen]

Hi Mike. The guy you WERE  fucking took you to the hilt, now one closer to your age ( 26) cannot--so I am stepping out on a limb and guessing you were boning an older, maybe more relaxed hole and sexuality wise guy before.?? If so, then sure- the new guy is probably still in that kid in the candy store phase where he wants it all now and is not willing to  A) work on/for it go slow and be honest about his  abilities and even maybe C) his own sexuality is  in flux and while his COCK brain wants to be banged silly, his upbringing about man and a woman crap floods him as the deed is about to really happen.

So, you can  try to force yourself on him and scare him  away, or take it slower and do what others have suggested with rimming and fingering to relax him. Try focusing on him  a couple times  versus your orgasm - work him to an orgasm and  leave your cock out of it once- he may try to take care of you afterwards and that is cool. I bet tho, he runs home and takes a 30 minute hot shower to wash the "sin" off. Last option, fuck both those guys- I have a willing hole and can take daily, multiple fucks- and as long as you are not more than 12 inches, I will ride you to the pubes and grind back hard enough that you will end up  hairless when we are done<g> (and if you are over 12 inches, see the part about going slow and easing into the hole, and by fuck my 2nd sphincter will be yours )

  

[C10H15N]

With us fisters, no human cock is ever a problem.

[mike258]

Thanks for the input, guys.

 

My cock is about 8 1/2. Slightly better than average girth. We've tried several things. I'm not into rimming (I know it makes me kinda lame that I enjoy getting my ass eaten by my main bud but don't like doing it...) but I have tried taking it slow, different positions, lube, poppers. When he does poppers he can take it a little better, but after a minute or two he's saying "fuck you're so deep" and I'll think he's getting into it, so then I start to give it to him harder and that's when he starts clinching up.

 

AlwaysOpen, you really sized up my situation. He is still new to most of this. He knows I'm bi and he says he likes that I'm a "regular dude", which I think is code for he doesn't want someone stereotypically gay. My other regular bud is older and...yeah, no muss no fuss with him. The only time he complains is if I need a bit more lube. Other than that, I can bend him over, put him on his back, piledrive him, and let him ride it and all he does is beg for my load. Older guys are fucking awesome. I'm sure you are as well.