Bttms Who Can't Take It

[breederboy]

I would love to breed TigerMilner sometime 

[FelchingPisser]

I would love to breed TigerMilner sometime 

 

Me, too....a man who CAN take it....

[subbytch]

AlwaysOpen, you really sized up my situation. He is still new to most of this. He knows I'm bi and he says he likes that I'm a "regular dude", which I think is code for he doesn't want someone stereotypically gay. My other regular bud is older and...yeah, no muss no fuss with him. The only time he complains is if I need a bit more lube. Other than that, I can bend him over, put him on his back, piledrive him, and let him ride it and all he does is beg for my load. Older guys are fucking awesome. I'm sure you are as well. 

 

Suggestion? And it's a variation of what others have said. Can you get him to use a butt plug for an hour or so before you meet up? Have him clean out, lube up, and slowly open himself up with a small, then medium plug. I've only really been fucking for about 14 months now. Getting fucked up the ass is crazy fun. But I still use a butt plug before hooking up with the top. Makes things so much easier. 

Also -- and you've probably done this -- have him sit down on your cock. That way he controls the depth of the penetration. I would think that after a little while of this, you can then move on to better, stronger, positions. 

[topstud127]

In my experience, guys naturally have variances in tightness, but if you're comfortable, know you're clean, and want the dick, it goes in without too much fuss.

 

Lube use may vary. Eat a hole right, put some spit on your dick, and have a horny enough bottom, that's all you need. Some guys like buckets of lube because they THINK they need it up, but get them comfy and you hardly need any.

 

Novice or pro, its always more mental than physical. 

[Nasty Raw Bottom]

Honestly, he doesn't deserve your cock.

 

He should be cleaned out and lubed up (especially if he knows u don't like to rim him) well before you arrive.

[freshxtop5]

I actually had this problem at Cum Union LA last night there was a bottom on the big fuck bench who obviously wanted my cock and I most fuck slow, but every time I get a little over half way he kept pulling of. He would guide my cock back in, but once I try going deeper he would pull off again. My cock is a little above average thickness and 8 inch cut. I honestly don't think it is that big lol. I had to stop fucking him because he made me lose my hard on. He was taking poppers too and I used a lot of lube.

[niceguy70]

stories like this always frustrate me, i can take any cock easily and it really grinds my gears when i see videos of or hear stories of bottoms who tell the top to stop half way through cos they can't take it, or when the top can't push it all the way in and its only half the dick fucking the hole.

 

 

same with straight porn, I've seen a few with the girl screaming and telling the guy to stop fucking or pull out, and I'm like "bitch please, i could take that dick AND half his foream... "

 

 

 

well that last part was just me trying to be funny, but you get my gist haha

[freshxtop5]

stories like this always frustrate me, i can take any cock easily and it really grinds my gears when i see videos of or hear stories of bottoms who tell the top to stop half way through cos they can't take it, or when the top can't push it all the way in and its only half the dick fucking the hole.

 

 

same with straight porn, I've seen a few with the girl screaming and telling the guy to stop fucking or pull out, and I'm like "bitch please, i could take that dick AND half his foream... "

 

 

 

well that last part was just me trying to be funny, but you get my gist haha

I can take dick pretty well myself without poppers, but if I feel it is too long or too thick poppers usually just let them slide in with one stroke.

[niceguy70]

i take poppers too, but never to loosen up or relax, i can do that just fine. ive been fucked in the past without lube or poppers and it worked just fine for both of us haha

 

i only take poppers for the high feeling in my head and the tingly feeling inside my asswall

[snaketat]

i have only every encountered one cock that I could not take.  The poor top was well aware that he had something that no man ( and likely no woman) could ever really service fully.   I worked on it it a bit orally...but it was a true freak of nature.   I wish I had a photo of that one....nobody would ever believe it.

 

That being said, it is not always the bottom at fault if the anal sex is difficult.  A skilled cocksman knows how to get an asshole opened up and ready to receive the meat...regardless of size.   I have encountered a good number of tops who (and someone else mentioned this) seem to think that they are porn stars and can just ram it home.  I usually am able to just grit my teeth and take it...but if they had more skill, it would be better for both of us.

[Webster9]

I've encountered plenty of tops who think they can just ram their cocks into me, and start pounding away, without even using any lube.  It finally got to the point where I stopped getting fucked, altogether.  Then, I decided that what I needed to do was to take charge of the situation.  I showed up with lube, and I handed it to them.  I told them to take it very slowly, going in, then wait for me to get used to having their cock in me before they started fucking me.  That's especially important with you really heavy hung guys.  Yes, I want it, but I don't want it to be nothing but painful.

[calgary84]

As a bottom that has issues at times taking cock uo his ass, I can say that headspace plays a huge amunt into this.  I NEED to be in the right state of mind if anything above average is going into me; my body just naturally clamps up if not and chokes out my tops boner.  Super annoying, but its the truth.  Get me in the right state of mind though, and i'll be begging for more in no time.

 

Throat though, that's a different story. I can swallow a coke can im sure of it lol

[melvin0095]

As a bottom that has issues at times taking cock uo his ass, I can say that headspace plays a huge amunt into this.  I NEED to be in the right state of mind if anything above average is going into me; my body just naturally clamps up if not and chokes out my tops boner.  Super annoying, but its the truth.  Get me in the right state of mind though, and i'll be begging for more in no time.

 

Throat though, that's a different story. I can swallow a coke can im sure of it lol

Throat though, that's a different story. I can swallow a coke can im sure of it lol

 

Thanks for the laugh... love this line.

[hungryholeboy]

A butt plug has always saved me when it comes to a big cock! Its become common practice now, plugs just keep getting bigger with the cocks! 

[Mathieu]

I am something of a difficult bottom--not in the cleanliness sense, but in the "mouth writes a check my ass can't cash" sense.

 

It's like when you're dining out and just kinda peckish, but for god knows whatever reason you decide to order three cows, a school of fish, and an amount of cake that can be measured only in parsecs; you fuckin want it bad, and at first it's pretty great, but as it goes on, there is an increasingly nagging sense of "at least i die doing what I love." Or for the difficult bottoms like me, it's the "ah ah ah...*sharp inhale* hold...hang on...just...pull out!" moment.

 

If I cum first when getting fucked, it's game over. I instituted a policy of not being allowed to jerk if I'm bottoming, primarily because I fucking hate it when a trick gets weird and uncomfortable and wants to stop, and I don't want to be such a trick. It's like anything else, practice, practice, practice (Norco helps, too). To wrap this all up (fucking condom pun, really?) the cautious, delicate cumdump should be realistic about taking cock; don't have to impress anyone, or be the first ho on the block to take a cock as thick as a rugby player's thigh. 

 

There was one guy who was pretty hung...dripped precum like I couldn't believe (or stop lapping up)...he fucked, I came and clenched, he got stuck. 15 minutes later and two loads lighter, he was free.