Did Your Sex Drive Increase After Getting Poz?

[jtonic]

I think it depends on what kind of person you are.

 

For some I think getting tested poz can decrease or even kill the sexdrive. Perhaps it depends on how slutty you are and what your sexual fantasies are about. For me it definitely increased the sexdrive because it made me feel more slutty and worthless, which is exactly what i fantasise about. I just love being a cumslut and I have that constant craving for cock and especially for cum. So for me being converted released me from any fear that might have been there, so i could act out every fantasy without any regrets or worries. But I don't think it's like that for everyone. If you're a slut i would say it definitely increases your sexdrive and if you're an alpha male it possibly will too, because you most likely wouldn't care if you were spreading the disease to worthless sluts like me. But if you're something in between you might just have to listen to your gut.

 

I have to agree with this. It depends what aspect of bareback turns you on, and what kind of person you are. I seem to be in the other camp in this thread. When I found out I tested positive, my sex drive pretty much vanished overnight. It took many months of adaptation and therapy before I regained a hard on or just the desire to hook up in the first place.

 

Now it may sound childish, but one of the triggers that drove my sex drive down (aside from the initial fear of stigma and panic about HIV) was the fear of needles. I grew up with a very intense dislike for shots or anything involving medical checkups. Anything too "clinical" such as a doctor or dentist's appointment would make me uncomfortable and stressed. I remember seeing "medical-themed" porn on the internet when I was younger and asked myself "how can people jerk off to this?".... While the fear didn't necessarily prevent me from going, it still became like a Pavlov's dog reaction in my head. I would still go to the doctor and get my STI checkups, but I could never take it easy or go through the appointment like a champ. When HIV hit, my stress went through the roof, because that meant I would have to go back to that place I dislike, and get jabbed with a needle many many times in my future. For about a month, every time I would think about sex, I would have this image of me laying in the doctor's office waiting for shots. That image stuck every day. So I sought therapy, went to discussion groups, and eventually came to really appreciate my doctor as she got to know me. I find this whole aspect about me pretty funny looking back. I'm glad to be not only past the frequent follow-up phase, but also past this whole fear alltogether. It's gone now. 

 

If I compare to before and after turning poz, I'd say my sex drive is way more enhanced today then a few years ago. It has been liberating for me, in many ways.

[dickinmee]

well i think i would fuck a lot more, am now mostly bottom, and still neg, am sure when i get pozzed i will be much more top and breed neg, just need to be pozzed, can anyone help  mmmm

[SuccessfulChaser]

KInd of a split answer for me.   No doubt, chasing was hot, I loved each and every thrust of every dick.  I quickly adapted to an HIV+ mindset that many guys have and that is once you got it, you won't get it again...so go fuck.   No doubt my mind was converted before the rest of my system.  And, post pozzing, I am finding the poz on poz interactions quite interesting and in many ways distinctly different from uninfected fucking.

 

So for the most part, I am more aroused, and more sensual while getting fucked and spending much more effort finding great poz guys.  So in my mind my sex life has amped up a lot since I stated chasing and went up a bunch more when I eventually converted.

 

But, that is all mental....the physical side..the biological side has remained kind of flat or subdued.

 

KInd of strange....and as a bottom, I can always find a way to really give my top a good ride.   If I was a top, I am not sure how my performance would be.   I have bred two negative asses and neither one was all that great for me (but no topping real is).

 

For me it has been great.......the increases have been amazing.   Would not reverse it if I could (right now).

[Insidemenow]

It was kind of a split answer for me too.  For a bit after I found out I wanted to fuck every hole in sight but that's changed where I want every cock spewing their raw cum into my ass and I'll take almost any cock as long as they fuck me. Anonymous became very hot and almost all fucking now is anon though I want to get fucked everywhere and don't care who watches or how many use me. I'm a cock and cum slut and just can't get enough. Like today, the front door is unlocked and whoever contacts me gets the address to cum use my ass. 

[1happyhomo]

I will not claim an increased sex drive. I have always pursued a very (VERY!!!) active sex life and have had many partners. Several years of PrEP did nothing but help me increase the frequency and variety of fucking.

I just got knocked up last month (intentional, but a bit of a surprise---first post-PreP cock did the job). Since then I have had LOTS of sex....some really really great POZ on POZ fucking for the most part.

But the sex drive is about the same....just the opportunity to enjoy and celebrate my changed status has opened out the door to even more cock than in my PrEP or pre-PrEP life.

[hungry_hole]

On 2016-02-28 at 2:39 PM, Locomotion said:

...the night I learned I was poz, I topped a young twink and gave him a dose of the toxic cum as had been given to me. I would never have imagined how much that has increased my desire for sex. A life long bottom, I now see I have a desire to enjoy a more versatile sex life.

Interesting and at the same time so hot.

[rawsatyr]

All the things that were once 'forbidden', taboo or 'too risky' are now a big turn-on: somebody say 'poz', promiscuous, anon, sports-fucking, any of that and it gives me a boner. Just don't feel 'fully initiated' until submitting myself to RAW, random breeding session to promiscuous strangers, in a sling, in full view of others...

[punaman]

my poz u/d husband said he never had as much sex as he has with me,  I'm neg and he fucks me raw almost every day. It's a thrill for both of us. He won't stop his meds and I don't want him to, but just the thought of an HIV poz fucking me is damn hot. 

[rede4it]

The quick and easy answer is FUCK'en EH!

The truth probably takes a bit more reflection.

First of all, I am of an age where that beautiful hormone Testosterone has been ebbing from my body.  With less Fag FUEL, it might be expect to that fewer cock sharing opportunities cum my way.  The reality is that I am getting topped more than I every have.  Additionally, most of the cock that I enjoy is shooting that terrific tainted cum.  While my poll of knocked up fuck buddies is not huge, they are active and they like to fuck---A LOT.   After 40 years of queering my way through life, the abundant sex is great.  I am even topping a few negative asses myself---have two conversions this year.  

That part is a bit odd as I have never had the desire and certainly do not have the skill and experience to be a cum slinging gifting stud.  

All in all the allure of sharing POZ cum, and sharing it anyway possible is driving my sexual desires in a way that simply being a horned up homo never did.

In full disclosure, my ass got converted this year, so there is still some "newness" factor I suppose.  I think the underlying factor is that the freedom to fuck, the more unique nature of POZ men and my own desire to simply live in as much of a cock filled world have helped me build a great network of diseased dicks to ride.  

Continuing on a bit, I am not sure if it is the virus or the fact that we get infected, but POZ dudes just seem to me to be more interesting, more authentic and the BEST DAMNED COCK and FUCKS in the world.  I guess that is one of the hidden secrets of our sub-mainstream world.  Many times I wish I had known that years ago.  But, perhaps since I am on a NO MEDS trajectory, I would be an AIDBONE by now had that been more apparent. 

 

 

[Leatherman667]

On 28/2/2016 at 7:39 PM, Locomotion said:

This has been interesting for me. While there was a very large sexual aspect that went into my decision to bareback, it was certainly not the driving factor. While others may not understand, concept of authenticity had more to do with my decision. But, after enjoying a few men who were poz and also bare backed me, the desire for more was immense. As it turned out, I was quickly converted.....but still crave more men. And, the night I learned I was poz, I topped a young twink and gave him a dose of the toxic cum as had been given to me. I would never have imagined how much that has increased my desire for sex. A life long bottom, I now see I have a desire to enjoy a more versatile sex life. So, at least for now, the process and results of chasing have put me into a whole new world of enjoying sex without fear.

Did the young twink pozz up?

[Guest PigTonight]

Testing poz was so freeing that the pig side that I only dabbled in became the forefront instead of the mostly hidden desires 

[Guest]

I have always had a high sex drive, and fucked bareback in many years, but after I was pozzed up I become more sleazy and perverted.

[Guest BBBoyfromTN]

Ive always had a really high sex drive and had a total freak out when I first tested poz. I thought no one would want to have sex with me ever again, either safe or bare. I felt kind of trapped as I was having pretty regular sex bare with a couple guys and knew it would be weird suddenly saying I wanted to fuck safe, cause I knew that would raise questions. I dodged their calls and texts for a while saying I was busy and stopped going out by my sex drive was making me crazy. But as another poz guy told me, if I was poz then the other guys I was messing around with probably were as well, so finally I started returning their calls and texts and went back to my old ways. I vowed anyone new I hooked up with I'd play safe with, and I did try using condoms and fucking HATED it. I could not stay hard or cum fucking a guy. Some weeks later I got messaged on Grindr by this hot Latino boy who wanted to hook up. He had a really nice big uncut dock and was teasing my ass with it and then eventually sliding in me raw. I didn't care...I mean shit...I was already poz so what's the harm. And I let him cum inside me. Then it was his turn and I just went for it. I slid inside him bare. He never asked my status, didn't offer me a condom, nothing. Fucking him felt so fucking good cause he had a hot body, tight ass, and pretty face. He was begging for my cum and I was so into it I must have shot one of the biggest most intense loads of my life. I said he could feel it and really enjoyed it. And so did I. Not twinge of guilt, no remorse, no regrets. We fucked pretty much every day for weeks and we still fuck pretty regular. But since then I quit worrying about it and just go bare. He knew and knows the risks but obviously doesn't care, so why should I?

[joethomas]

I've always had a pretty good sex drive, which was one of the factors that led to me getting pozzed. But once I got it, it seemed to trigger something in me that makes me want to hump anything that moves. I've gone from being a totally versatile guy to being a lot more inclined to top, especially when I have a chance to top a 20-something kid who asks me if I'm "clean." Most guys I encounter ask that question and never bother with a condom, which is fine with me.

[SDPartyPig]

From a bug chaser's perspective, testing POZ was expected & my sex drive multiplied.  I recently learned that I have HepC (chased) & I'm much more horny now because of this news.  I've always been a top & still am.   Would love to be taking loads of poz cum, but still working on that, seriously.  Used to hang with a total bottom bug chaser since we were both chasing.  A few years later we had a brief chat online & learned that since being POZ he has topped only.  That's fucking hot.  Back to my poz cock, cheers!