Picky Bottoms

[averageslut48]

I have never been picky. And size doesn´t matter at all. As long as a guy can get hard, he can fuck me anytime.

[Guest]

I'm a picky bottom.  Everyone has their preferences and what they like, but when it comes down to it, I often bottom for tops I would not necessarily pick.  It comes down to the Alpha attitude and my place in the order.  My hole is for use by Alpha Tops, even those I would not pick on my own.

[Ozpig]

I have never been picky and never will be

[Pozguyinchi]

I am not picky. I had a man one that shared me a lot. It was his choice who bred me and when. I grew to love the dick but not the top.

[pozskincumpig]

hi men, ok i understand it and i would like to use men Pussy mmmm

[find91]

On 3/17/2016 at 3:51 AM, nastybottom said:

They must be super-fucking-hot to be making those demands.

No they are not and most that say this can't handle it when they actually get a big dick.

[leatherpunk16]

I admit to being a picky bottom. I started having sex as a barebacker, but always had to be the top because of the multitude of bottoms in my town. I figured this would make it easier to find a Mr Right because all the guys were available to me. That never happened like that. 

Lately I've been bottoming a LOT more than normal. Maybe it's out of exhaustion as a top. Maybe I'm still bugchasing. But I find I'm picky about who I lie down with. My physical composition is such that if you aren't packing at least 7 inches, I won't enjoy the sex much. If you can't penetrate the first ring (like my ex), we're gonna have a bad time. The best sex I've ever had has come from thick, big-dicked guys who know how to plow. Even sex with my late husband wasn't THIS good. 

When Cupid comes to tea with me, he must bring a Banker's Notice, two sureties, and a huge dong. 😝

[Guest Descartes70817]

The only good reason for 'needing' a top to have a 10" cock is that the bottom is so fucking fat no regular guy can get past the ass fat and get his cock in, so guys who say they only want 10" or more are an instant turn-off.

Regardless of ego 5.2" is the average erect cock length and anything more is a bonus. Girth matters more than length anyway, and the average erect girth is a mere 4.6", so if you find a top with 6.5" length and 5" girth you're a lucky guy and you should show your appreciation.

[daddyboyleo]

As an experienced Bottom I don't have a lot of things that I require from a Top. I do like guys who are Masculine and confident. (not into Twinks or Fems) And I do like men who have a bigger cock than me (I'm only 6 inches) but it's not a requirement. And stay rock hard. I've had guys with small cock who had great technique and a rockin' hard cock. Ultimately I'm turned on by "take-charge," kind of guys who act "manly" and are at least H/W proportionate.  The rest is negotiable.

[find91]

4 hours ago, Descartes70817 said:

The only good reason for 'needing' a top to have a 10" cock is that the bottom is so fucking fat no regular guy can get past the ass fat and get his cock in, so guys who say they only want 10" or more are an instant turn-off.

Regardless of ego 5.2" is the average erect cock length and anything more is a bonus. Girth matters more than length anyway, and the average erect girth is a mere 4.6", so if you find a top with 6.5" length and 5" girth you're a lucky guy and you should show your appreciation.

It's funny you say this because I know a fair amount of fisting bottoms that prefer larger cocks for obvious reasons, yet they don't blast to the world they "need" 10+.

I'm fairly hung and even I find it a turn off when bottoms put this in their profile. It reaks of fetisization and immaturity. There's a lot of great average size tops and horrible hung tops and visverca. Why limit yourself to just the physical????

[Guest Descartes70817]

1 hour ago, find91 said:

It's funny you say this because I know a fair amount of fisting bottoms that prefer larger cocks for obvious reasons, yet they don't blast to the world they "need" 10+.

I'm fairly hung and even I find it a turn off when bottoms put this in their profile. It reaks of fetisization and immaturity. There's a lot of great average size tops and horrible hung tops and visverca. Why limit yourself to just the physical????

I have a couple of buddies I fist as well as fuck with huge toys, but neither of them ever complains about my cock size as long as I cum inside them. I'm not huge my any means, although I am a bit bigger than average in both length and girth.

[Funtime1967]

On 3/16/2016 at 1:40 PM, constructionguy said:

Gettin tired of bottoms saying "unless you have 10 inches or more, don't waste my time". Ok, bottom boys, you have been watching way too much porn. I don't have a 10 cock and neither do a lot of my top buddies, but we are good fucks. I have a thick cock and I fuck real good. You may prefer to stay home and fuck yourself with a giant dildo but a dildo can't shoot a load up your ass.

I would love more tops in my area to stop by my place more often.  Even just a couple of times a week. 

[Guest takingdeepanal]

6 hours ago, find91 said:

It's funny you say this because I know a fair amount of fisting bottoms that prefer larger cocks for obvious reasons, yet they don't blast to the world they "need" 10+.

I'm fairly hung and even I find it a turn off when bottoms put this in their profile. It reaks of fetisization and immaturity. There's a lot of great average size tops and horrible hung tops and visverca. Why limit yourself to just the physical????

Exactly.

My thoughts - do you have a cock? Do you want to fuck my ass? Do you want to cum in me? As long as the top has decent hygiene when we meet, affirmative answers to these three questions plus this criteria is all I need.

Edited February 23, 2020 by takingdeepanal

[garsento]

Quite. There is only a weak relationship, if one at all, between a top's penis size and the skill of a top. Two of my best regular partners have penises of different sizes, one perhaps five inches and of average width, one seven inches and thick. Frankly, they're both equally good: The first top does not reach an inner ring with his dick, but he does not have to. They do different things, and each keeps me coming back for more.

There are a lot of way to top. Happily, your top does not need to have a hard-on ten inches long and Coke can-thick to be a good top.

Beyond this, if someone is complaining about never being able to find a good top or is placing ridiculous requirements on what someone has to do to be a good top, this sounds a lot like this person try to explain a way something awkward about themselves. If all their sex partners do not work for them, maybe they are the problem? Blaming other people is a great way to avoid taking personal responsbility. Bottoming requires skills, too.

Edited May 11, 2020 by torcub

[hungry_hole]

On 2/21/2020 at 3:59 PM, DannyBoyCMH said:

I'm a picky bottom.  Everyone has their preferences and what they like, but when it comes down to it, I often bottom for tops I would not necessarily pick.  It comes down to the Alpha attitude and my place in the order.  My hole is for use by Alpha Tops, even those I would not pick on my own.

I, like most older bottoms are not picky, especially in places like bathhouses. But I've noticed that younger guys tend to be more picky.

I was not picky at all when I was younger. On the contrary, I had a fetish and at the bathhouses I used to enjoy getting fucked by older and other not very attractive guys.

Up to my 50's I had a very nice body and worked out and biked regularly. When at the bathhouse I would enjoy inviting into my room guys who were afraid to ask for fear of rejection. I re-started barebacking when I found a group in the Internet. I had stopped like everyone else but in the mid 90's I started taking loads again fairly early, when hardly anyone barebacked at the bathhouse. I had several "regulars" who knew I bottomed bareback and would breed me every time we met at the bathhouse because in those days fewer guys would be willing to bottom bareback. I still remember an Indian older guy, not very good looking, who would enjoy touching my pecs while fucking me and telling me how hot my body was. He bred me many times and I knew he was starting to shoot because we would say "Wow!". He would thank me every time for letting me cum in my hole. Another one of my regulars was an ugly guy in his 50's with a big hump in the back of his neck. If I saw him at the bathhouse I knew that at some point he would quietly drop by my room. He had a curved cock, was very verbal. He always left a nice load in my hole and also thanked me so much for giving them my hole to shoot inside. There was also an Asian guy, fairly small guy with a small cock but he shot nice loads. I also enjoyed getting fucked by good-looking in-shape guys which also was very hot.

If I had been a picky bottom I would have missed on all those hot encounters.