Whoring: nature or nurture?

[bihairy]

I've always had a high sex drive and now just enjoy and let go. I'm glad to find others that are the same as me!  The pleasure is so great that I don't want to stop. Fucking in loads is what I was meant to do. Love finding others that are sex addicts/sex focused like me.  So much pleasure to be had. For me its nature. The intense feeling of sliding inside another mans hole and unloading makes me want to repeat as often as possible.

[Guest curiousnegsub]

It can be a product, or a channel, for different things and different reason.

For me, it is really a channel of my sub nature that is driven to serve and please. Until quite recently that was channelled through monogamy to one man. It was only with my first bareback fuck with a stranger that I discovered that there is a better and more fulfilling way to give myself. I've only been a bb slut for the past few months, but I can give myself to any and all men now, which is incredibly liberating for both me and my needs, in a mentally, physical and spiritual way.

[Guest faggot hole]

it clearly is nature that sets our programs, and thus our role is set for us even before birth, along with the setting of out eye color, hair color, complexion, body type.  These features, including"faggotness"you are born with.  Some faggots don't understand or reject the essential features that they were born with.  Buy a few lucky faggots get identified for what they are at a very early age -- like me. i was lucky that my dad spotted my nature and took the time and effort to train me, teach my the basic skills a faggot should be expected to master.  And most important, my dad taught me what my purpose in life was, that i shoud be proud uf what i am and strive always to be of service to real alphas, yo relish the role i was born to play,to triy to the constantly improve my skills in pleasing men.. He taught me that not all men are Alphas, but that Alphas are a special breed deserving of the dedicated service o a fag like me.  i nave been taught that  seeking out men to please them and serve their needs is nor bring a whore.  Rather it is fulfilling my destiny.

[NLbear]

I'm a slut by nature. Before I met my (one and only - so far) partner I was cruising the park every night looking for dick as soon as I had the opportunity to do so. When I met my (ex-)partner he had just been circumcised (at age 27) and we couldn't have sex. It was too painful for him. A few months later in the relationship I found out he had an extremely low sex drive while mine was sky high. I could go at it every day while he could go without for months. And he was vanilla, very vanilla. I'm not really into really kinky sex and compared to others here on BZ I would probably be called vanilla too but I don't mind it a bit rougher and inventive and most of all lots of it. I tried to be patient and stay faithful but I just couldn't. My partner was very goodlooking, successful and a lot richer than I was (I was a poor student) but the urge to suck dick and get fucked was too high and I went back to cruising when the need for seed was too much and I couldn't get it at home. His low sex drive was only one of the reasons of the inevitable break-up but still a major part. I couldn't see myself living with that for the rest of my life and he was not the type to agree to a more open relationship. When I was officially single again I went for it full force and went crazy taking as many dicks and loads as I could get. I was one of those guys in the clubs who went home to get fucked by whoever was still available and remotely attractive when the lights turned on (and after that still went cruising at 4-5am in the park looking for more dick). I then realised that was what I wanted and needed, even if it meant not having a significant other. I'm older now and no longer the sexy young guy with the perfect bubble butt (that, with my good looks and having a fat 7" being the main attraction in the cruising park) but I'm still a slut and at it whenever I can and luckily there are still plenty who want my hole or mouth!

[AZRawPig]

18 hours ago, jizzmboy said:

I cant really answer to nature or nurture, but since I was started early(very young) at my request by family. I  have always just wanted cock and  cum in my ass.  watching my dad and his buddies fuck gave me a head start on sex. when I asked to join them, they saw no reason why I shouldn't.  I was able to take cock in my ass since before puberty.  as I grew older I just never thought about it... it I wanted to play, I did. and no one ever said no.  I got a young girl pregnant on purpose , paid for the privilege of being a dad, but never hid sex from my son... he saw me fucking and being fucked from birth.  as he got older he too watched, touched and asked to play. I never said no.  my dad, his buddies, me all male family members play together. we have played in shower rooms at truck stops, nude camp grounds, had open door days in motels, my sons wrestling team and his buddies on the basket ball team also fuck us.  so maybe its both nature and nurture....what ever it is, I'm glad... I love my time with the men in my family and their friends....

Now that's exactly my type of friendship. Being completely free without any inhibitions. 

[denverbare]

Definitely nature for me, I've always known I am there to take cock and cum and please my top. 

[evilalex]

I would love to take someone who was by nature not a slut, and work on them, stripping away their innocence until they're transformed into sexual deviants. 

[RawLeather]

To me its nature, I feel that it is in my natural instinct to serve as a fuck hole/cum dump for any top looking for some relief.  To me its nurture, i like to nurture the tops cock with my manhole muscles.  Milking his cock till the last drop of seed has been deposited into my hole.  

[btmwsfun]

On 9/24/2017 at 2:17 PM, bbaremich said:

I have felt this way for a long time. I am a natural raw cumdump slut bottom. If I haven’t had a load in my ass for 2-3 days, I really start craving it. It feels good to go to bed at night with another man’s load absorbing into my body.....especially hotter if it’s from someone that I don’t know much about. 

I feel the same way, nice to have a strangers load in my ass, completely giving up myself for a strangers pleasure. 

[HungryHole22]

I was def born a pig bottom. I could just tell when those token pig flaps of mine started getting bigger and more swollen that I was destined to have a slutty slit shaped cunt that sucks in anything that gets too close no matter how big it is. Tina turns me even more into a sub pig bottom slut with a bottomless cunt! Oink!

[Breedthisslut]

I have cum to the realization that I am a slut for all cum. I started later in life and once I got over the guilt, I found this craving for sucking cock and swallowing cum. I have a desired preference for black dick, but as a cumslut, I will suck and swallow all. 

 

[Calamus13]

slut by nature but kept it buried for years - no liberated - 

[BBbttm85]

Id say born with it, ive always gone for cock since i was young and have always liked big cocks, and ive looked for as many as i could get after i got my first taste of cock

[CumBustion]

On 9/24/2017 at 1:41 AM, MuscledHorse said:

males--hetero or homo or bi--are naturally driven to sex. It feels incredible and, more important, without that drive the species would die of. The urge is so strong that male preying mantis and black widow sacrifice their lives just for the chance to mate one time. The male drive to mate for sport and pleasure is strong and the Church has wrongheadedly suppressed it for some, 1,700 years,leading to the ideas of cheating and confusing love and sex as synonyms when they are not and, worst of all, making filling males with shame and guilt about their masculine sexual core. Instead of showing our cocks proudly and masturbating and having sport sex freely we are made to feel ashamed and pursue our natural instincts in private under a shroud of guilt denial for what we are doing. It's no accident that the largest consumers of porn, including gay porn, are the US states that make up the "Bible Belt" Being a male with a high partner count should be a source of pride--it is for me!-not shame. Embrace your inner beast and join me as a sexual athlete for the male sexual liberation.

^^NAILED IT!! Let me just add:

1. Its NATURAL to go bareback....condoms are unnatural. Physically, it dulls the sensation of the cock and robs the bottom (or woman) of the feeling of being penetrated by a real dick. Psychologically, it dulls the experience because both sides know that the sex act will not conclude in an exchage of lifegiving fluids and energy that passes from one to the other. The Chinese believe that semen has an energy of it's own and that energy is passed from the guver to the receiver upon ejaculation, hence the top feeling tired afterwards and the bottom having that "jizzjoy" sensation.

2. Its NATURAL to be a whore (or slut) but centuries of oppression by religion made it unnatural. Religion, Judeo-Christianity and Islam in particular, came up with the whole "one man-one woman for life" thing (and in actuality, criminalized being gay). I can go on and on about how this is tied to weath/power consolidation and progeny, but the bottom line is that religion outlawed a basic human pleasure/need. I'm just thankful that I live in a time where I can openly be a slut and have anonymous sex with multiple partners like a "Sodomite" and not be legally persecuted and prosecuted. 

I would be remiss not to mention, however, how scary the alt-right and religious conservatives are becoming. Under them, my life would be so wrong in so many ways: homosexuality (no brainer), sodomy (I had penetrative, non-vaginal sex), gay marriage (I was engaged to a man before he passed away several years ago), race mixing (I'm Asian who likes sex with all creeds and color of men), pornography (I regularly view, and even was filmed in amateur porn for consumption of others), and agnostic (ex-Christian that cannot fathom how God would willfully make people gay then force them to be straight or be put to death). If I was a female who had an abortion because I got knocked up out of wedlock, I'd be the poster child of all things "evil" in America...the land of the free.

[pozcommunitybottomtn]

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