bareback weekend invitation - advice needed

[AZRawPig]

? STOP OVER THINKING ABOUT THIS INVITATION. Either you really want to GO or DON'T. Whenever I have someone who doesn't go with the flow of thing's. They always are the problem. Chose yourself what's BEST for YOU!  Outside options aren't valid because this is your invitation to having a wonderful time. Most HOST'S make an effort to make sure ALL OPTIONS are provided for. Especially if they do this by invitations ONLY. IT'S COMPLETELY THEIR OPINION that YOU'LL fit into their fantasy's. ENJOY!  ? 

[18plus]

Dude you’ll have love it! I went to a similar weekend away during the summer, one of my best experiences! A true fuckfest, where the tops rule! Us bottoms had one role serve the tops 24/7. There were no beds for the bottoms each night we were assigned a different top!  Just be prepared not to sleep much! I say just accept the experience and allow yourself to give up the control for those 72hrs!

[Guest ff-whole]

On 9/29/2017 at 3:41 AM, NLbear said:

Need some advice.

The two guys who organise BB parties occasionally (last Friday was the most recent one) have asked me if I would be interested in going to a bareback weekend in November/December. A popular region for the Dutch to go away for a long weekend around the Xmas period is the Belgian Ardennes. A long weekend is arrival on Friday from 2pm and departing on Monday at the latest 12pm. They want to rent a large mansion and invite between about 16-20 guys (depending on # of beds in the house) for a bareback weekend. Costs (aprox. €1000-€1200 for rent + other) would be split evenly. They will supply viagra, X and G (they're a fan of those). The house/mansion(/castle even if they can get it) they will be looking for would be remote (i.e. no direct neighbors), would have 5-6 bedrooms and large living area. Sleeping arrangements to be determined by the hosts.

They will be looking to get a good 'mix' of guys to cater for everyone's different taste (e.g. bears, twinks, average Joe, older/younger and so on). Most guys will be top or top/vers and about 4-5 bottoms (including me). Their specific question to me was if I would be OK with that because it would mean bottoms would need to be ready to be available for tops at any time. No exceptions. If a top wants to fuck you, you need to take it. The hosts are top & top/vers themselves and most guys I met at their parties are too with a few bottoms (like me). So the weekend would be similar to their parties but just longer.

It has always been a fantasy to do this but now the opportunity is here I am wondering about how this will work out in reality. Main question would of course be how you make sure you are ready for tops at all times. Let's face it, you cannot be clean 24/7 for almost 4 days so it means constant cleaning. Another one is how it will be to be in one house for 3 nights/days with maybe 20 practically strangers. Some I may have met at their parties before but it's one thing to be fucked for a few hours at a party and another to spend days with them. There may be guys I really don't get along with (or they don't like me) but there will be no escape or leaving early (I need to hitch a ride to the location so depend on the ride back too). There won't be sex 24/7 so you will need to get along socially as well (live/eat/sleep/doing other stuff). Maybe it will turn out to be lame weekend and you're stuck in there. From a selfish sexual POV: what if the other bottoms are more 'popular' than you and you just get to watch them getting it on? It sounds like a very horny thing to do but will it be? Just a few thoughts that come to mind.

They sent me a few pics of houses (& bedrooms and living) they rented before and those look really fantastic. It's a very appealing invitation but I need to figure out if it will be something for me. My hole says yes, my head not yet. LOL!

So my question: Has anyone ever done something like this? How did that work out? Any advice?

You're way overthinking this...
We are no novices -you and I and whoever reads these forums. So do it or regret the doubts not making you go to this party.
If you weren't used to unprotected and raunchy get together's, I would have advice you more carefully because the regret could go both ways.

When I was in my young 20-ish, I was hitch hiking in Australia and about half hour into a lift the bear had his dick sticking out of his shorts...
I wasn't a novice, but still very young and not sure. What could have been later on might very well have been way over my experience ever. And I guess I wasn't ready yet. So I told him I found Ozzy girls so attractive [still do] and the ride was stopped.
Now after all these years, I regret me chickening out, very much... It would probably changed my live completely, but we would never know for sure... Such is life.

[Mikeyd1111]

Go for it. Don't hesitate. Sounds like it will be hot time.