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Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?


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I wonder if this topic is a little outdated? It began in 2010 -- prior to PrEP (2012) and lots of new HIV meds, etc. I haven't met a bottom in a decade that asked me or anyone else to pull out - -in fact, being flooded with cum is generally a badge of honor with bottom men begging for multiple loads and tops preferring pre-loaded, loose holes. 🤷‍♂️

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I might have already posted this story, but only one guy didn’t pull out that I asked him to (aside from being stealthed) he had a Prince Albert and didn’t use much lube, I thought he tore my ass but I didn’t know for sure until I went to the bathroom and saw the blood and cum leaking out. I asked him to pull out beforehand but he didn’t mention when he was about to cum. I just felt him  pin me down and thrust deep in me as he grunted. I asked if he came in me which was a dumb question and he responded with “well what did you expect faggot.”

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47 minutes ago, ShyBBFag said:

I might have already posted this story, but only one guy didn’t pull out that I asked him to (aside from being stealthed) he had a Prince Albert and didn’t use much lube, I thought he tore my ass but I didn’t know for sure until I went to the bathroom and saw the blood and cum leaking out. I asked him to pull out beforehand but he didn’t mention when he was about to cum. I just felt him  pin me down and thrust deep in me as he grunted. I asked if he came in me which was a dumb question and he responded with “well what did you expect faggot.”

That's where you should have kneed him in the balls hard, twice, and then thrown all his clothes out your front door. 

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Overlooking as already discussed that pulling out does not prevent HIV transmission, asking the top to pull out is so wrong for two reasons: First, the bottom is inappropriately topping from the bottom when making this request: and second, can any bottom really expect to comply with this request just instants before the fucking gets best?

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23 minutes ago, TightBott7 said:

Overlooking as already discussed that pulling out does not prevent HIV transmission, asking the top to pull out is so wrong for two reasons: First, the bottom is inappropriately topping from the bottom when making this request: and second, can any bottom really expect to comply with this request just instants before the fucking gets best?

Overlooking that the question as originally posed said nothing about preventing HIV transmission, it's not wrong. Calling this "topping from the bottom" and "inappropriate" assumes what you're trying to prove: you're saying that you shouldn't tell a top not to X because you shouldn't tell a top not to X. There's no magic rulebook that says a bottom can't determine what does and doesn't happen with his body, and no magic rulebook that gives all the authority to make decisions to the top.

Second, I know quite a few tops who like to pull out and shoot all over someone. While you can't judge anything specifically from porn, that's done ALL.THE.FUCKING.TIME in porn - lots of people, including a good number of tops - like cum shots.

That doesn't mean any particular top has to like them. But this complete bullshit of a top gets to decide everything about the sex needs to be called out for the bullshit that it is. If two people WILLINGLY enter into sex with that understanding in mind, that's one thing. For any top to decide - AGAINST the specific request of the guy who's allowing him to fuck - that he's going to shoot inside is just a top being a shitty asshole. 

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2 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

Overlooking that the question as originally posed said nothing about preventing HIV transmission, it's not wrong. Calling this "topping from the bottom" and "inappropriate" assumes what you're trying to prove: you're saying that you shouldn't tell a top not to X because you shouldn't tell a top not to X. There's no magic rulebook that says a bottom can't determine what does and doesn't happen with his body, and no magic rulebook that gives all the authority to make decisions to the top.

Second, I know quite a few tops who like to pull out and shoot all over someone. While you can't judge anything specifically from porn, that's done ALL.THE.FUCKING.TIME in porn - lots of people, including a good number of tops - like cum shots.

That doesn't mean any particular top has to like them. But this complete bullshit of a top gets to decide everything about the sex needs to be called out for the bullshit that it is. If two people WILLINGLY enter into sex with that understanding in mind, that's one thing. For any top to decide - AGAINST the specific request of the guy who's allowing him to fuck - that he's going to shoot inside is just a top being a shitty asshole. 

I'm a bottom, have topped alot before, and I agree totally.  Being a bottom doesn't suddenly grant a top to do anything whatsoever.  I get the hot-story factor and fantasy angle, but agreeing to something then not following through is being worse than a dick.  That said, a few of my hottest memories were tops who insisted on fucking me with condom, then they stealthed me.  One I remained in touch for a little while and fucked again, the other  fucked me for a few years occasionally raw.  Both kept telling me what a pig and whore I was taking raw dick, insisting I fuck anyone (I really don't) while they bred me.  Maybe it was their fantasy.  

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1 minute ago, UpstateNYexplorer said:

If you're willing to take my cock raw, you'd better be willing to take my load cause you'll get it regardless. I expect the same from any guy that fucks me raw too.

Then you'd better make that clear BEFORE fucking, and if a bottom tells you BEFORE fucking you don't have permission to cum in him, then you'd better not, even if it means you don't get to fuck him. You're free to set any requirements you want, basically, for a bottom to get your dick. What you are NOT free to do is ignore a direct instruction, on which the bottom's consent was predicated.

Otherwise you're essentially a rapist because you're fucking someone against his express consent. 

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2 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

Then you'd better make that clear BEFORE fucking, and if a bottom tells you BEFORE fucking you don't have permission to cum in him, then you'd better not, even if it means you don't get to fuck him. You're free to set any requirements you want, basically, for a bottom to get your dick. What you are NOT free to do is ignore a direct instruction, on which the bottom's consent was predicated.

Otherwise you're essentially a rapist because you're fucking someone against his express consent. 

I don't agree....no....i will be bred at the whim of whoever is inside me, period....what the hell are u talking about a bottom "thinking"-or-"deciding"-or-"demanding"-or-"making choices"???? i don't understand this thread at all!!! #confused&scared #leavingthis thread

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I have always taken it bare and had some tops who wont fuck unless they are wearing a comdom, the last time i had a top who asked if he could cum inside and i said yes! i love the feeling of him cumming and having his moment, for me that is what its all about, if im being fucked to give him pleasure that I want to give him that pleasure and will take what ever he wants. however most guys that i have fucked have pulled out and cum on my ass or on my hole after they pulled out. in any case im his bitch for him to enjoy so its what ever he wants i let him do as he pleases.

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