Cumdumps - Do you need to ejaculate anymore?

[ErosWired]

3 hours ago, hungry_hole said:

@ErosWired: Are you one of these guys who can never ever shoot his load? If you are, I'm not talking about you.

No, I’m not incapable of ejaculating. The only time I masturbate to ejaculation is perhaps maybe once or twice a month when I have been isolated from sexual contact with other men for a couple of weeks or more. Then, when I do, I feel a sense of self-loathing immediately afterward, every single time. I do not jack off after a night of anal service.

But even if I did, it would not make me any more able to Top another man. I simply cannot get into that headspace, and if I try, I lose my erection without fail. Do I disagree that it would be considerate if vers bottoms always did a little Topping? No. But I am convinced that there are too many variables influencing human sexuality to expect such a broad imperative as yours to apply. Ability to masturbate does not automatically translate into ability to Top.

Edited November 18, 2018 by ErosWired

[hungry_hole]

2 hours ago, ErosWired said:

No, I’m not incapable of ejaculating. The only time I masturbate to ejaculation is perhaps maybe once or twice a month when I have been isolated from sexual contact with other men for a couple of weeks or more. Then, when I do, I feel a sense of self-loathing immediately afterward, every single time. I do not jack off after a night of anal service.

You aren't the type of bottom that I'm talking about because you say that you don't need to cum after a breeding session at the bathhouse.  No need to argue with me then. I'm talking about the bottom who at the bathhouse jerks-off alone in order to take a break or to stop being horny so he can go home. To those bottoms I would suggest they pump their load in another hole instead of jacking off. Why not make another bottom happy?

2 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Do I disagree that it would be considerate if vers bottoms always did a little Topping? No. But I am convinced that there are too many variables influencing human sexuality to expect such a broad imperative as yours to apply. Ability to masturbate does not automatically translate into ability to Top.

I disagree with strict rules on bottom/Top because I see it more as a suggestion: "I like getting fucked". Being a bottom or a top or anything in-between is not in the genes as some guys want to believe. Being a woman or a man is in the genes and it's funny how some people reject their DNA.  Sticking their cock in a hole is normal as taking a cock in your hole is something that needs training and a state-of-mind. That's why many bottoms start as tops and then move on.

 

[BreedingTop71]

19 hours ago, hungry_hole said:

You aren't the type of bottom that I'm talking about because you say that you don't need to cum after a breeding session at the bathhouse.  No need to argue with me then. I'm talking about the bottom who at the bathhouse jerks-off alone in order to take a break or to stop being horny so he can go home. To those bottoms I would suggest they pump their load in another hole instead of jacking off. Why not make another bottom happy?

I disagree with strict rules on bottom/Top because I see it more as a suggestion: "I like getting fucked". Being a bottom or a top or anything in-between is not in the genes as some guys want to believe. Being a woman or a man is in the genes and it's funny how some people reject their DNA.  Sticking their cock in a hole is normal as taking a cock in your hole is something that needs training and a state-of-mind. That's why many bottoms start as tops and then move on.

 

I am struggling to understand your point. If a bottom wants to cum alone, who is anyone to say he is greedy? Why should he be compelled to share anything related to his body?? It’s his load, his pussy. Most subs know they exist only to please us Alphas. As a total top it would be extremely annoying to me if the bottom I am using starts to please himself before after or while I am using him. So from my perspective, to each his own, and passing judgement on someone else’s practices is not only improper, it’s reprehensible.  

[Guest BBalticFFlyer]

On 11/18/2018 at 5:38 PM, bellyguy44 said:

If it comes to fucking, I am a total Bottom. I wear chastity under my jockstrap and my cock is not a part of the game. I do not feel the Need to cum. Just to servy Top men my two fuckholes all  the time.

That's my way of serving as a bottom too. There's only the cock of the top and my cunt that is only for HIM.

[averageslut48]

On ‎11‎/‎18‎/‎2018 at 5:57 PM, hungry_hole said:

@bellyguy44 I know you like serving tops with your two holes, but you are saying that you never ever shoot a load? Not even when jerking-off while watching porn?

Well, usually i wear chastity 24/7. So I can´t get hard and masturbate.  But sometimes it happens, that my dicklet laeks out some fluid inside the chastity. Thats all.

[BREEDmeRAW]

On 11/11/2018 at 5:30 PM, Ozpig said:

Not at all. I sometimes take care of myself - especially if I have been fucked 8 or ten times and am still super horny - but usually I just get off on being fucked and seeded and being a no cock or load refused cumdump

 

I don't need to cum when their is a Top that has a need to Fuck a hole and release his Sperm. If I am taking loads I don't need to cum. I will want more Men to BREED my ass.

[Guest alwaysready]

I think I have a fairly unusual situation; I am able to ejaculate b4 the orgasm. it comes in handy in certain situations. not talking about precum, though I seem to produce a lot of that as well.

[BgChsr35]

I hardly produce cum anymore....however i can orgasm several times when alone.

[Guest smileatyou]

Not when I'm bottoming. But I love to end a load-taking day by dumping mine in a bottom bitch like me. Enjoy telling a bottom, as I'm breeding him, that I just took a bunch of strangers' loads myself. 

[hungry_hole]

4 hours ago, BreedingTop71 said:

I am struggling to understand your point. If a bottom wants to cum alone, who is anyone to say he is greedy? Why should he be compelled to share anything related to his body?? It’s his load, his pussy. Most subs know they exist only to please us Alphas. As a total top it would be extremely annoying to me if the bottom I am using starts to please himself before after or while I am using him. So from my perspective, to each his own, and passing judgement on someone else’s practices is not only improper, it’s reprehensible.  

To answer you question just read this response:

5 minutes ago, smileatyou said:

Not when I'm bottoming. But I love to end a load-taking day by dumping mine in a bottom bitch like me. Enjoy telling a bottom, as I'm breeding him, that I just took a bunch of strangers' loads myself. 

Yes, a bottom can end his load-taking day by dumping his huge load, after edging for a long time, in a hole of his choice. I'm sure  that smileatyou shoots as soon as he goes into the hole or not because the only purpose of the fucking is to get off. And the bottom is left happy with one more load in his hole.

I've noticed that so many guys take their role so seriously and if a guy defines himself as a bottom he feels he is betraying his bottom role if he breeds another hole. I think guys take on the role that they feel more comfortable with and nobody is born to be a bottom as some seem to suggest. 

I'm sure that if a guy gets good hard-ons, can fuck for a fairly long time before shooting his load, and enjoys the fucking itself, he'll probably be more of a top and want to fuck more than a guy who has trouble getting a hard-on or cums too quickly. Getting fucked is not for everyone so some try it and some don't.

[Daddysapig]

Hell yes I do!! Most guys I'm with want me to as well. However, I'm so focused on what I can do to please the man, before and while he's fucking me, I don't think about myself until after he's been satisfied.

[daddyboyleo]

Some guys want me to cum when they are breeding me, while others are only concerned with shooting their load.

Which is cool with me, either way. As long as my hole get's fed, although I do love a good ass-gasm.

[ErosWired]

2 hours ago, alwaysready said:

I think I have a fairly unusual situation; I am able to ejaculate b4 the orgasm. it comes in handy in certain situations. not talking about precum, though I seem to produce a lot of that as well.

Good for you! That is a useful skill. I can sometimes do that too - one of my meds seems to trigger a release of cum right before the point of no return. I have been in situations where a Dom Top demanded that I jack off for him (so he could feed it to me, lube me with it, they get creative), but I knew that if I had a full climax, what was coming next would be unpleasant during a refractory period. I only wish I could do it reliably every time.

[analluv27]

On the most part I do cum. The few occasions were the top wasn't interested if I came or not and rushed me to dress and leave, they put too many stipulations on me cumming ie only on a  tissue, or do it in the bathroom. I find it hot after a top uses me then helps me get off, like my reward for a job well done.

[hungry_hole]

4 hours ago, smileatyou said:

Not when I'm bottoming. But I love to end a load-taking day by dumping mine in a bottom bitch like me. Enjoy telling a bottom, as I'm breeding him, that I just took a bunch of strangers' loads myself. 

This is a bottom that I would not call a greedy bottom because at the end of the load-taking day he is generous with other bottoms and makes them happy by pumping his load in their hole. He has a good time and the other bottom too.  And one day there will be another generous bottom that will return the favor. I've been bred by bottoms at a bathhouse and I really appreciate it.