Anal Orgasm or Penis Orgasm - What's better?

[backdoorjimmy]

4 hours ago, david john said:

Anal orgasm is the best. Until you've had one you'll never know just how much of a bottom sub you  really are.  The pleasure you get From busting your nut with out ever  touching your cock , while a top is breeding your man pussy is like no other.

So you cum with your dick but it happens when you have an anal orgasm? That must feel intense. 

[find91]

On 7/29/2019 at 2:07 PM, tallslenderguy said:

we seem very alike in this. i don't think i have experienced and anal orgasm?  i've cum from my penis by being fucked, but i'm guessing this is different from what is being described as an anal orgasm.  Mentally and emotionally, i'm a receiver, ideally would never touch my penis on my own (though i do), i'd rather be able to be sexually like i have the equivalent of a male "pussy" and "clit."  That works for me psychologically too. The only times i am satisfied by a guy making me come using my penis is if He is relating to it, not as a cock or even a penis, but something only a bottom sub has, so "clit" works for me.  The mind fuck of Him believing He is stimulating my "clit" and that i don't have a cock or penis is an integral part of it since my mind and emotions are very engaged in sex.

i am wondering if this is why i have not experienced an anal orgasm? That i am to focused on trying?  Or maybe i haven't done it right?  i've had some awesome and long fucks before and felt like i was close on many occasions, but wonder if i have prevented it from anticipation?  i do have a fuck machine, is it a matter of just going long enough?  How do i get one? i feel like if i just experienced it, id be able to train or at least know how it's done?

anal orgasm is more about hitting the right place and the right intensity. Too hard you over load the prostate, too soft and it can turn into an internal edge fest. Relaxing does help it but Just to make it clear it does not happen to everyone all the time

[Pozguyinchi]

They do not happen every time for me but when they do it is really intense. I also feel as a sub that when a dom makes you cum naturally with your pussy you develop more of a connection with him.

[RandyCubby]

I call anal orgasms "buttgasms." I fucking love buttgasms. I'm ruled by my butthole and its need for pleasure.

Edited July 31, 2019 by RandyCubby

[ErosWired]

17 hours ago, find91 said:

Too hard you over load the prostate, too soft and it can turn into an internal edge fest.

This is so true. There’s a Top who tortures me with this internal edging. The horror of it is, after you cum, you can instantly start edging right from the edge! Over and over! I only say ‘horror’ because this particular Top likes to play it through 15-20 times. It’s brutal. It’s like the Top reaches inside you, pulls out the most private, vulnerable, intimate thing about your sex, and plays hackey-sack with it.

[backdoorjimmy]

1 hour ago, Pozguyinchi said:

They do not happen every time for me but when they do it is really intense. I also feel as a sub that when a dom makes you cum naturally with your pussy you develop more of a connection with him.

I love that feeling. This morning I woke up needing my boyfriend's cock but he had to open at 6 so he's not available. I'm feeling so feminine and horny right now that I might need to hit up a hung FWB to get my boypussy serviced. I don't have to work until 2:30 so I have time to have my ass spread open with a nice big dick. 

[Guest Reeo]

Anal orgasms are far superior ❤❤❤

[xxbjn2]

1 hour ago, bottom4lyfe said:

Anal orgasms are far superior ❤❤❤

they are definitely much more intense orgasms. Don't happen all the time and not sure why some tops can make it happen and some just can't. But when they happen.. wow.. It's hot as having one as a top is fucking you and he's never had that happen before, to see the look of concern to see if you're ok and then the look of pride when they realise what happened.  double bonus.

[Hunter22]

Anal orgasms by a mile for me! Makes me feel like my body turns into jelly while having these intense orgasms. Specially when I’m being gang fucked and I get multiple anal orgasms, by the end of the night my body is completely spent 

[pasv35]

I can't answer the question, for me the only thing that matters is the Top's orgasm.

[horndoggy]

Sad to say but I don’t think I’ve ever had an anal orgasm. My bf/hubby/ex of many years, while sexy and cute, could have served for the illustration of premature ejaculation. I’m talking “this won’t take long, did it?” 

I’ve tried a number of prostate massagers, dildos and an Aneros, and while they feel pleasant at first, after a few minutes it gets kind of Ho-hum. 

I’m jealous of all those guys in porn stories who “suddenly felt an electric shock when his prostate was hit, followed by wave of pleasure radiating out of his ass. ‘Oh Rolf,’ he cried. ‘You’re gonna make me cum!’”

You guys that have anal orgasms, does it typically include ejectulation? An erection? Both? Or is it just an intense prostate-centred climax?

[shinelover]

On 7/31/2019 at 7:31 AM, RandyCubby said:

I call anal orgasms "buttgasms." I fucking love buttgasms. I'm ruled by my butthole and its need for pleasure.

Buttgasm was the word that came to mind for me, too. And they are truly awesome!!!

[tallslenderguy]

This has become a great discussion to me on several different levels.  i'm continually fascinated by our various wiring and the terms that we've come up with to try and explain what we think and feel, who we are. 

Anal orgasms aline with my nature (or vice versa?). i love the idea of being dependent on my Top for pleasure, the dynamic of control. And i get it intimately. i was married to a woman for 31 years. i learned early on how to give her multiple orgasms and manipulate her pussy and clit, because by nature i was very much like her.  Despite all the pleasure, she actually would get frustrated with me because i was so focused on her pleasure and not my own.  But i'm sub bottom and my "pleasure" was derived the same way her's was.. by being there as a receptacle for a Mans pleasure. It's a little strange and humiliating to me (in that good, erotic way) that i can identify and relate to a woman in this, the deep desire for this kind of relationship with a man. 

[Guest SEPaBBGuy]

1 hour ago, tallslenderguy said:

i was married to a woman for 31 years. i learned early on how to give her multiple orgasms and manipulate her pussy and clit, because by nature i was very much like her.  Despite all the pleasure, she actually would get frustrated with me because i was so focused on her pleasure and not my own.  

I know what you mean. Before I switched to men as partners I had one woman lover that if would lick her clit to orgasm, then doggy fuck her to another one. She was so HOT when she came.

[tallslenderguy]

3 minutes ago, SEPaBBGuy said:

I know what you mean. Before I switched to men as partners I had one woman lover that if would lick her clit to orgasm, then doggy fuck her to another one. She was so HOT when she came.

For me, this was one of the bigger evidences for me in how we can really be 'wired' "bottom" or "sub"... which i suspect is akin to being more like a woman? i resist writing that because i don't see it as either or, black or white (i.e. Male or female). In my case, i am male with no desire to be female, but i suspect that my bottom, sub nature is a female component of my being a male that makes me different than a heterosexual, or a Dom or Top gay guy.  i knew how to give her pleasure or make her cum just like a bottom or sub knows how to give another bottom or sub pleasure because he can relate.  What eventually frustrated her was she too could instinctively sense that i was sub, bottom, that i was like her vs being her opposite, chemistry match that would naturally attract and bond.  After divorcing and learning to accept and experience my own nature, i really cam to understand her position.  It's different, because i still have maleness that she didn't have. For insrtance, a female Dom with a strap on might work a little better, but still wouldn't work with me. There are things a Man has that are a match to my needs and, apparently, vice versa. pretty damned awesome.