Finding Men for Violent or Rough Sex

[manseeker]

In my profile I list myself as an aggressive bottom .It helps also that I list what I am into , like ," no gag" invites the top to scull fuck me . Hope this helps .

[Guest POZitiveBoyZ]

1 hour ago, DannyBoyCMH said:

My experience is that it’s rare to find tops that will truly take it that far.  Everyone talks a big game, but chicken out when shit gets real.  Just keep at your search, because there ARE tops out there that will give you what and more.  Believe me. 🙂

No, sweetheart. They are NOT A TOPS! They Are a FUCKING PATHETIC FAGS! You know what I mean! There is a difference between these two words! And, to be a very honest, they are a worst fuckers around this World. Cuz Mist of them has an ED in their 25-30 yo. That’s why there’s so many situations when Viagra’s overdose is happening! That’s why we has a LOT of Fucking CumDump Piggy 🐷 Slut Fags and a very little crowd of a good Tops. Firstly, this matter to Circuit Queens, Musc, Fitness and any “Real Alfa Mans”. And with all of these shits they are pretend to play with their “rules”? Ha-Ha! LoL 😆 

[ThroatFag]

I approach men online as a faggot. Occasionally, a straight stud will want service. Straight Alphas are the best. They brutally fuck my throat n dominate me. In have no say in the matter. Straight Men that use cocksuckers see me as a hole to abuse, dump, then take off.

[Ozpig]

I have one "straight" (well he is married) top who fucks me every month or so and he is the roughest top I have ever had. He is verbal, he punches me , slaps me that hard I have often been bruised, chokes me if I make a pleasured sound,  spits in my face. There has never been a tactile moment between us in the four years he has been using me - just making me gag on his cock and he fucks like an animal. Very little conversation unless it is to humiliate and abuse me. But I have never not been available when he wants to come over, as he is always good for a 20 minute pounding and he then drags me in the bathroom and pissed on me. I wish he would come over more often, but he runs the show and he probably has other sub bottoms he uses. That is one reason I never refuse him as he is pig arrogant and I don't think he would take a knockback well and probably move onto the next hole.

[Guest CuriousDallas]

On 9/20/2019 at 5:49 AM, Close2MyBro said:

It's kind of hard to describe, but some guys like the thrill of the chase. If you just throw yourself out there "legs up and ass open" you deprive them of the opportunity to feel that they've coaxed you into it.

I get what you’re saying. You don’t want to come across as too thirsty in the ad. A rough dom too likes the idea of making someone submit to their will. If the guy is already there it’s not as exciting. Guys I get with think I’m this cocky teenage guy who’s bi and probably doesn’t want to get fucked, hasn’t gotten fucked much, and may not like getting fucked. They like the challenge. They like the idea of forcing themselves in me, forcing me to take their cock, cumming in my ass even though that’s not what I want. I get that and I play along. I don’t want a top knowing I get fucked a lot and how bad I want their dick and that cum. I play hard to get, timid, shy. It means denying who I am and being what they want. Back in the old CL days I found the ads that gave away less and portrayed me as a scared new to this guy bi guy who “might” get fucked drew what I wanted. Results may vary for you. It’s like pushing on a rope and expecting movement. Sometimes it’s best to wait and see if someone on the other end starts pulling...

[ChainedBoy]

I get off on rough fucking too, but hookup/pump-n-dump culture has complicated making these connections. 

I make my preference plainly known in my profile/ad/chat and try to encourage the fucker using me to get rough...with decidedly mixed results. 

I agree that RECON caters to men with a higher kink qoutient, but I have found that it does not lend itself particularly well to immediate, random hookups (which are my preference). 

[ChainedBoy]

12 hours ago, Ozpig said:

I have one "straight" (well he is married) top who fucks me every month or so and he is the roughest top I have ever had. He is verbal, he punches me , slaps me that hard I have often been bruised, chokes me if I make a pleasured sound,  spits in my face. There has never been a tactile moment between us in the four years he has been using me - just making me gag on his cock and he fucks like an animal. Very little conversation unless it is to humiliate and abuse me. But I have never not been available when he wants to come over, as he is always good for a 20 minute pounding and he then drags me in the bathroom and pissed on me.

You lucky fuck! You are wise to keep your mouth shut and take his exquisite abuse on his terms. I envy you this arrangement. 

[Ozpig]

11 hours ago, ChainedBoy said:

You lucky fuck! You are wise to keep your mouth shut and take his exquisite abuse on his terms. I envy you this arrangement. 

I never rock the boat. Just wish he would come over more often but that too is out of my control. I just get a text giving me an hour or so's warning to get myself "ready" which is not only a physical get ready but a mental one as well as I fully know he is going to  hurt me. I just unlock the door and go to the bedroom and turn up the music as he basically starts the verbal abuse the instant he walks in and the physical abuse comes during and after the fuck. The only gentle part is my cleaning his cock which I do with orally and I also have to use wet wipes to clean him up as he says he doesn't want to leave smelling of a filthy cumwhore.

[Marlarbar]

I would dream to meet a little dumb slut who will accept that I beat the shit out of him during a good fuck session. 

I often feel that through the app, dudes are hot but when we meet and I start to slap a little hard the face, things have to calm down as they are not as ready to be used as they said. 

 

I don't know how I can find someone as I wish. Or maybe I am doing something wrong ...

[CumBustion]

Tease the Top, coax the animal out of him. I find a lotta Tops wanna pound the shit outta a bottom but go vanilla so they don't scare them off. They can't come off too dom at first, unless it was communicated before had that you want them to be that way. Flirt with them before hand. Tell them how you want "Big Daddy" to fuck you balls deep while smacking your ass. Tell them "You want me to deep throat your meat? Well then make me!" "Hate fuck your nut into me, Daddy!" Its all about communication and mental stimulation.

[Qban]

On 9/22/2019 at 2:23 AM, Marlarbar said:

I often feel that through the app, dudes are hot but when we meet and I start to slap a little hard the face, things have to calm down as they are not as ready to be used as they said. 

Tell me about it.  I like a “fair fight” - fighting other guys like me to see who can overpower the other one and get him to submit, but unfortunately finding guys who want to match you blow for blow with equal force is pretty rare.  Usually all it takes is one good slap and half of them either roll over right away and throw their ankles behind their heads or they start to tear up and whine.  Where’s the fun in that?  DAMMIT FIGHT BACK YOU PUSSY!  *Sigh* 

Edited September 23, 2019 by Qban

[Marlarbar]

20 minutes ago, Qban said:

Tell me about it.  I like a “fair fight” - fighting other guys like me to see who can overpower the other one and get him to submit, but unfortunately finding guys who want to match you blow for blow with equal force is pretty rare.  Usually all it takes is one good slap and half of them either roll over right away and throw their ankles behind their heads or they start to tear up and whine.  Where’s the fun in that?  DAMMIT FIGHT BACK YOU PUSSY!  *Sigh* 

Exactly ! Fight back ! I really want to feel a mix of arousal and angry at the same time. 

[NLbear]

49 minutes ago, Qban said:

Tell me about it.  I like a “fair fight” - fighting other guys like me to see who can overpower the other one and get him to submit, but unfortunately finding guys who want to match you blow for blow with equal force is pretty rare.  Usually all it takes is one good slap and half of them either roll over right away and throw their ankles behind their heads or they start to tear up and whine.  Where’s the fun in that?  DAMMIT FIGHT BACK YOU PUSSY!  *Sigh* 

I don't like violence at all so I'm afraid that at the beginning of the "fight" I will give up pretty quickly and roll over pushing my ass up.... 😉 Doesn't mean I don't like a rough fucker though!

Edited September 23, 2019 by NLbear

[ErosWired]

17 minutes ago, Marlarbar said:

Exactly ! Fight back ! I really want to feel a mix of arousal and angry at the same time. 

Okay, this is where it all starts to get confusing for me. So you’re a Top and you’ve got a bottom you’re going to fuck, and that’s the way it’s going to be, right, because you sure as hell aren’t going to let yourself get overpowered and fucked by a faggot, yes? And the bottom wants to be fucked. But you’re saying that in order for it all to work, you have to have a physical struggle between you which you are going to pretend is a “fair fight” that he has a chance of winning, and he’s going to pretend that he doesn’t want you to dominate him. And you both know it’s all a sham, but you want him to hit you back anyway.

So, why do you think you need the stimulus of the faux struggle, rather than simply relishing the opportunity you have to fuck him as violently as you want without meaningful resistance? Is there a difference between the brutal fucking a faggot gets when he’s been legitimately overpowered by a superior Man, and the kind of brutal fucking a faggot gets from  Top showing him his true place among Men?

[Marlarbar]

1 hour ago, ErosWired said:

Okay, this is where it all starts to get confusing for me. So you’re a Top and you’ve got a bottom you’re going to fuck, and that’s the way it’s going to be, right, because you sure as hell aren’t going to let yourself get overpowered and fucked by a faggot, yes? And the bottom wants to be fucked. But you’re saying that in order for it all to work, you have to have a physical struggle between you which you are going to pretend is a “fair fight” that he has a chance of winning, and he’s going to pretend that he doesn’t want you to dominate him. And you both know it’s all a sham, but you want him to hit you back anyway.

So, why do you think you need the stimulus of the faux struggle, rather than simply relishing the opportunity you have to fuck him as violently as you want without meaningful resistance? Is there a difference between the brutal fucking a faggot gets when he’s been legitimately overpowered by a superior Man, and the kind of brutal fucking a faggot gets from  Top showing him his true place among Men?

Okay, let me try to be clear (English is not my mother tongue so it can be tricky). 

First of all : yes I am a top, yes I'll fuck him anyway, yes it will be rough. 

I don't necessarily want the fight to be not fair. If you know how to fight, let's go ! If you are better than me, I'll fuck you to punish you to dare fight me, if I am better than you, I'll fuck you because you are just a weak peace of meat. 

It's kind of a game I think. It's a fetish for me, and I guess often fetish are king of a game. 

I think it's mainly because I like this kind of relationship between men : based on strength, Domination, virility... The last thing you have to know, I guess, it's that I am a growing sado and I take more and more pleasure when I hurt someone (who like it of course, all consentual!). So, fighting is a good way to hit and hurt. 

I hope I was clear enough

Edited September 23, 2019 by Marlarbar