Best Use of Slings in Saunas

[ChesterCub]

So I use slings in saunas often, I find them very horny, and love being approached, played with and fucked.

But on the other hand, not everybody is as into them as me, or 90% of guys who come to look at who is in the sling will immediately turn away.

Now I'm willing to accept that I'm not the most attractive guy to find in that position, but personally I believe that the guy in the sling is just a hole to be filled, and so looks shouldn't be that much of an issue.

I want to know if there is more I can do from my suspended position to attract as many guys to use my hole as possible, to maximize it's usage.

What do you guys do, or find pulls you to hole that's waiting?

[Guest Givemeyourload06]

blindfold and leash

[tallslenderguy]

3 hours ago, Givemeyourload06 said:

blindfold and leash

I think giveme makes a good point here. I'd say, "blindfold or hood."  There are guys who want to fuck who wrestle with self consciousness also. I.e., it is not just your looks to consider, but theirs.  Consider the appeal of the darkroom, a blind fold or hood sort of makes for a oneway darkroom. Some sex clubs also have private rooms with a sling, i.e., a single room with a door where the top can have privacy if he wishes, not all tops are exhibitionists. That in combination with a blindfold or hood gets you closer to being "just a hole to be filled."  

Really though, if guys were just looking for a hole to fill, they could use a flashback. I think most guys want a person to fuck, not just a hole, but as tops they prolly often want control of a person too? The leash/collar idea certainly enhances the message of submission, especially in tandem with the hood, blindfold, sling. 

Something else a hood takes out of the equation is looks. Not completely, but to a large degree. Especially when it comes to age. 

[phukhole]

I have found myself in that position often. Waiting in the sling only to have someone cum in, maybe finger my ass and then walk away.  Hard to say what makes them leave or why they choose to stay. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, I'll admit, but when I am in the sling with a hood or blindfold on, it clearly signals that they are to use my hole with no concern for the rest of me.   I HAVE found that it's often a matter of timing - the later in the night I hop in, then more guys are ready to play.  It may be the "is there someone hotter I haven't seen yet" thing or it may be the "I don't want to cum yet" thing as much as not finding me attractive.  I used to be upset by it, but now I just wait for the next cock!  there's ALWAYS another cock.  ....AND, if I've been waiting in the sling with no bites, I hop out and walk around or hit the gloryholes. No one likes a sling lizard.

[hungry_hole]

On 2/5/2011 at 8:03 AM, ChesterCub said:

... 90% of guys who come to look at who is in the sling will immediately turn away

Sometimes these are bottoms who are just curious of who's on the sling, and had not intention of fucking.

But of course it's also because the guy on the sling is not their type and mostly older. I'm sure that a cute twink or a muscled 20-something guy would get fucked, because after all there are not that common to see. Guys 40+ are more open minded.

On 8/18/2017 at 11:08 AM, phukhole said:

I HAVE found that it's often a matter of timing - the later in the night I hop in, then more guys are ready to play. 

Earlier in the evening there are more guys just walking around, many of them saving their load. When spending the night at the bathhouse I make myself available as a cumdump late at night when guys are going home because it's then when even bottoms enjoy breeding a hole. I usually recognize when a total bottom is fucking me because they cum very quick, which I don't mind at all.

On 2/5/2011 at 8:03 AM, ChesterCub said:

I want to know if there is more I can do from my suspended position to attract as many guys to use my hole as possible, to maximize it's usage.

I use signs that I hang on the wall in my room and that glow in the dark. I also wear shorts with a hole circled with glow in the dark paint, emphasizing my hole on the sling. I also dim the lights of my room so basically all guys see is my hole and the signs.

The signs have helped a lot because with signs like "CUMHOLE" or "BREED ME" posted on the wall I'm sure to at least catch the attention of many guys walking by my room. I remember a young bottom who kept coming over to my room because the setup turned him on, he would play with my hole and then leave. He was getting fucked a lot. But eventually he came over and started fucking me until he bred my hole. He told me that he never tops but the signs turned him on.

[Guest]

Original post is old but always relevant - 2 possible reasons to me

1 - even in a bathhouse or sex club, most guys still would rather not go home with an std.  The hornier I get, the less concerned I get, but I've avoided certain guys/situations that just seem like an std waiting to happen.  If a bottom's hole is dripping seed and it's obvious he's a complete whore, I have sometimes chosen not to stick my cock in there.  These days I'm more likely to seek out those sloppy cumwhores, but I used to avoid it more often.  The one and only reason I don't go to cumunion and the bathhouse more often is to avoid the stds

2 - second point makes me totally shallow I realize.  Guys are visual - it's not "just a hole" but the whole package - most guys I know would rather conquer a hot muscle guy than an average built guy.  Everyone has their best "assets".  My observation is that a guy with a few extra pounds with a bigger ass and legs looks WAY hotter on all 4s, ass pushed up and back.  His beefy ass and sloppy hole on full display, with his gut/belly/love handles hanging down in the front and out of view.   I fucked an anon "ass up" bottom multiple times and thought he was so fucking hot, then he flipped on his back on about our 4th or 5th fuck, and I realized how out of shape he really was, and I just couldn't get hard - even when he flipped back on all 4s   For a skinny/slim guy with not much ass, a sling is fucking hot....shows off that lean waist/body, knees pulled back and you can't even tell that there's not much bubble in that booty.  Everyone has their selling points and should work them - just my opinion from a VERY visual guy (too much cumdump muscle porn I realize lol)

 

[rawsatyr]

I got a few pointers here, thanks guys! I'm still a 'NEWBIE' to the 'sex dungeon scene'. Overall I prefer to be in the center of orgy-action where the lights are illuminating the roaming flesh of lurkers and willing participants and the interaction is non-stop. So to others who are new; here is my take:

Only once so far I flung myself into a sling in the darker adjacent niche because someone suggested I do... and there I hung like raw flesh at the meat-market with timid lurkers milling about. Most sneak a peak and move on. Your mind calculates 'rejection'... which of course is just your ego playing tricks! I didn't realize then yet that the 'timid lurkers' mostly do that leering and peeking all night; really to timid to join the fray. I was in there in that sling at best a total of 10 uncomfortable minutes with dark figures timidly inspecting the offerings from afar. Seems like quite a few of the 'customers' are really just lookie-loos like at any cheap yard-sale, not ready to step up and give away their greedy animal nature. I really felt a bit like a vulgar circus freak hollering a silent message: "COME ON GUYS! STEP RIGHT UP! HOT MAN-PUSSY! PRE-LUBED AND READY TO BE BRED! NO LOADS REFUSED! NO PULLING OUT!" Of course, you say nothing and maybe NOT making eye-contact would improve chances for multiple copulations??? I'm thinking of crossing my arms over my face so it is obvious I'm not looking at them in the dark...

It does feel a bit 'tingly' to just be a piece of RAW FLESH to be fingered, appraised and maybe finally fucked by any Tom, Dick and Harry, especially once you have committed yourself to the 'NO-LOADS-REFUSED' policy.  Like a total slut, to be seen by packs of men in a vulnerable lewd position, to be witnessed and confirmed and certified as a promiscuous bare-backer by total strangers and possibly guys who you have known for years. After that day, the is no 'going back' for a novice! Might as well get used to it!

I have to work out the kinks: accepting that the 'milling lurkers' who keep moving on are not a sign of rejection... But the questions remain: Is this all too 'passive-aggressive' for most of them? Do THEY fear rejection? Why don't they come closer? Then tension was finally resolved when my 'go-to-the-sling'- instigator finally showed up: a sexy, twinkish black guy half my age... he was as new to the sling-scene as I was, struggling for the right height and position... and my ass wasn't wet and sloppy enough. I wondered if I should have observed OTHER lewd suitor first, those human VENUS-FLY-TRAPS catching cock and seed in other nooks and crannies...

After some awkward fidgeting I went back to the big play-ground, to the orgy scene. A dude came up who knew me by first name. Shocking as I had no clue who he was.... he bred me in full view until he announced he was blowing inside. Eventually I got his name! Can't remember it though. All I know is I want MORE!!! Dick and lewd action!