Can you tell when a guy is about to cum?

[1000GUYS]

I'm a top only, 25 yo, and i fuck a 55 yo bottom. but what keeps me going back to him is his connection to me, when i fuck him he knows exactly when im about to cum even tho i dont say anything, i dont move faster or anything... when im closer he just knows and says "hmm are you gonna cum right?", and that drives me crazy and make me cum harder... idk if its because hes 55 yo and experienced or because you can tell when a man is about to cum... ive read here that some guys swells his penis when his about to cum, but idk if its accurate, but i just love it

[Guest Porthos]

I can usually tell when a guy is on the verge of cumming inside me. Sometimes its subtle. The pace of and depth of his thrusts increase, his breathing may get a little more rapid and their focus turns away from me or us to the desire to launch their seed in to me. Its instinctual, the desire of a man to impregnate his mate

[Guest Upstateguy518]

As said above, There are plenty of tells without being vocal about it. It's been more obvious when giving a blowjob.

[Guest CuriousDallas]

It must be experience as I’m terrible about sensing it when I bottom. I’ve had guys cum and I wasn’t even aware of it, but I can usually get a sense they’re close. I’m terrible at knowing when giving a blowjob too. When I top I usually shoot my first load pretty quick and it usually catches guys unaware as it comes out of nowhere. The second is more predictable. I hate it when guys are good at knowing when I’m about to cum as so often they want me to pull out and I just wanna cum inside them. It’s selfish I know, but if you bottom you’re supposed to take the load.

[alwaysready]

in porn, depending on the cam shot, look for upper leg muscles tightening, same with stomach muscles. I like to watch guy's facial expressions as they come. some are so interesting. others show no sign of an approaching orgasm. some guys report that when fucked a guy's cock swells a bit.

[ConversionPerv]

When I'm sucking a man's penis, I get a sense of his approaching orgasm when I can feel his erection stiffen even more. His cock gets more rigid right before he shoots, and sometimes it gets a bit bigger/ thicker as well. (This is aside from any of the other cues that have been mentioned such as the pace of his breathing, moans/ grunts etc.)

It's harder to feel this when getting fucked, but on a couple of occasions, I have felt the man's penis harden up just before he ejaculates. It's a major turnon when I can feel it.

[Pogie]

I'm terrible at it, especially when I'm getting fucked, every once in a while I can feel the change in the rhythm 

[leatherpunk16]

I almost never notice when he's put his load into me. I nearly always have to ask if he did it. There's no interior feeling or warmth or anything for me. Maybe the cumshots are too small for me to notice? 

Or maybe I'm broken. 

[barefootboy]

When bottoming, I can never tell when he is about to cum. I always tell the Top to tell me when he is about to cum. Sometimes I feel it when he shoots but sometimes I don’t. 
I was at a sex party last year and I was fucking a guy and some hot cub was fucking me at the same time. I had no idea that he had cum inside me until we took a break and he said “thank you “. I put my finger to my ass and felt his semen. I said “thank YOU”. 

Edited August 11, 2020 by barefootboy

[tj87]

Depends on the top and the cock. You can usually tell they're getting into a rhythm and powering to the finish line. I love a verbal top who tells me he's about to cum that usually puts me over the edge...

Once, with a particularly thick top with a big load, I felt my ass getting flooded.

[ItsCasey]

Hi, tbh I don't pay close enough attention to if he is getting close to cumming.  I like to concentrate on the amazing intense feeling of his cock pounding through my O-Ring 😛

I expect that whoever is fucking me is going to cum inside me and flood my guts.

[downtownswallow]

Men know men better than women do.  When I'm being topped, I can recognize the signs of a man ready to dump his load...some I don't...most I do...and I appreciate that because I  LOVE preparing myself to receive his load. 

[BootmanLA]

This vaguely reminds me of that quote falsely attributed to Abraham Lincoln: "You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but not all of the people all of the time."

I'm sure that some people can detect when some men are about to cum. I'm sure that some people can detect when MOST people are about to cum. But I doubt there is anyone who can always tell when any man is about to cum.

[Harryass]

I can usually feel a change in the guys pase

too faster or deaper

[Read1]

For me, it could be one or more of the following: faster (and/or rougher) pace of fucking, deeper or shorter breathing, totally driving his cock into me, telling me directly that he’ll be a-cumming, and his cock unleashing his loads into my ass, and grabbing the back of my neck, or even kissing my body or wrapping his arms around my body tight. It just depends on the younger top/vers guy who’s fucking me. I luv it more when I’m in a darkroom to receive such hot fucking.