Can you tell when a guy is about to cum?

[viking8x6]

On 8/2/2020 at 5:55 AM, 1000GUYS said:

but what keeps me going back to him is his connection to me ... idk if its because hes 55 yo and experienced or because you can tell when a man is about to cum... ive read here that some guys swells his penis when his about to cum, but idk if its accurate, but i just love it

You certainly can't always tell, but having about that much experience myself, I can say that it does help. But what really helps is what you said at the beginning of your post: "his connection to me". It is vastly easier to tell if a man is about to cum if one is really paying attention to him (and not to one's own ass, or one's own dick, or the neighbor's dog...). Experience also teaches that really paying attention to one's partner is a recipe for absolutely dynamite sex! I highly recommend it as a skill to pursue.

[NLbear]

With regulars yes because I recognise the pattern. With strangers no. I remember years ago in a bathhouse when a guy shoved his dick in until he bottomed out and then pull out again. I was waiting for him to shove it back in but he left. When I touched my hole it was all slick with cum. He didn't even make a sound when he was cumming.

[Spunkinmyarse]

I’ve got better at this as I’ve become more experienced.  It’s easier in a one-to-one session in someone’s home: 1) there’s the expectation that he WILL cum, 2) there are fewer distractions, and you can focus on those tell-tale signs.

In a sex club or a busy cruising area, it’s much harder.  For a start there’s no guarantee that he’s going to cum at all.  And then often there’s loud music playing, which makes it impossible to hear those audible cues like his breathing. Even when there is no music, it’s easy to mistake some other nearby top’s grunts or heavy breathing for those of your own partner. And of course if you’re lucky, you might have another dick in your mouth at the same time, which makes it very difficult to know what’s going on at all.

But there are always those guys that fool you, those that seem to get right to the edge before retreating once more.  If that happens more than a couple of times with the same guy, then he’s on very short notice. It annoys the hell out of me! I’ve got myself all worked up convinced I’m getting his load, only to have to start the build up from scratch all over again.  Do that to me more than a couple of times, and it’s “Sorry mate, I need a break” territory.

[HereInLondon]

On 8/11/2020 at 5:39 PM, alwaysready said:

in porn, depending on the cam shot, look for upper leg muscles tightening, same with stomach muscles. I like to watch guy's facial expressions as they come. some are so interesting. others show no sign of an approaching orgasm. some guys report that when fucked a guy's cock swells a bit.

There's a guy I've been playing with for a number of years (a very sexy builder) and I still sometimes miss the cues for when he's going to cum, mainly because he doesn't make a sound.

It's a bdsm meet, with him restrained to the bed, getting his big cock edged and having his nipples worked over.
For judging when he might be getting close, I have to watch his face - when the orgasm is starting to build, he holds his breath and clenches his (manly stubbled) jaw - and watch the rest of his body - for him tensing his (impressive, furry) stomach muscles and straightening and tensing his (muscular) thighs.
But with him not making any sound, it's difficult to know just how close he is - sometimes I want to get him close but not let him cum and there's been a couple of ruined orgasms when I haven't managed to stop in time.
His cock does definitely swell as well, but that's difficult to reliably read too, as his cock is usually already at a hefty swell thanks to being bound and tied with a shoelace.

[bbm4matl]

I had a long term FB who is horse hung. I could usually tell he was going to cum when he wanted me on my back and he pinned my knees back all the way.  His pace would pick up until he grunted and a could usually feel his hot load emptying into me. As he recovered with his still stiff cock in me, I felt his heart beat through his cock until he pulled out. 

[blackrobe]

3 hours ago, HereInLondon said:

There's a guy I've been playing with for a number of years (a very sexy builder) and I still sometimes miss the cues for when he's going to cum, mainly because he doesn't make a sound.

It's a bdsm meet, with him restrained to the bed, getting his big cock edged and having his nipples worked over.
For judging when he might be getting close, I have to watch his face - when the orgasm is starting to build, he holds his breath and clenches his (manly stubbled) jaw - and watch the rest of his body - for him tensing his (impressive, furry) stomach muscles and straightening and tensing his (muscular) thighs.
But with him not making any sound, it's difficult to know just how close he is - sometimes I want to get him close but not let him cum and there's been a couple of ruined orgasms when I haven't managed to stop in time.
His cock does definitely swell as well, but that's difficult to reliably read too, as his cock is usually already at a hefty swell thanks to being bound and tied with a shoelace.

I like how your mind works.

[blackrobe]

2 hours ago, bbm4matl said:

I had a long term FB who is horse hung. I could usually tell he was going to cum when he wanted me on my back and he pinned my knees back all the way.  His pace would pick up until he grunted and a could usually feel his hot load emptying into me. As he recovered with his still stiff cock in me, I felt his heart beat through his cock until he pulled out. 

That's the breeding I live for.

[bbm4matl]

3 hours ago, blackrobe said:

That's the breeding I live for.

Yeah, he served up the most consistently good cock I’ve ever had. 

[BottomsUp]

Usually I can tell based off their pace and breathing. Or if they flat out start saying things like “I’m close” or “you want my load?” But usually I can tell from how he’s fucking me. Although, some guys can hide it well and I’ve been stealthed a few times before they let me feel it. I prefer the verbal fucking and making me beg for the load.

[DirtyLoadBear]

I can usually tell if it’s Just a casual low key fuck. Occasionally I need to ask if they did cum because it was so boring I missed it. I’m into vocal fucking so usually not an issue when we’re engaged in a hot vocal session. 

[JamesL100]

If you're fucking a btm then his hole tightens and then his load shoots on his stomach if he's on his back with legs up

[alessandro]

Lol of course, they always tell you or make you beg for it when they're about to unload   🥴    🍑💦🍆

[blkboibtm]

Most guys yea, speed usually always changes (speed up or go real slow if trying to last longer), most guys will tighten their grip on whatever their holding (legs, hips, hair throat),  breathing, some get more verbal too.  I've been told by dudes the few times I have cum while being fucked,  that my hole gets nice tight

[Dontno]

My grip of their arse gets much tighter 😂

[SFSloppyAznBottom]

Yes, during oral, I observed that their balls would moved a little before they ejaculate.