Did you ever ask a straight guy if he wanted head?

[gingerdaddyG]

I nearly asked a straight mate once when we were on holiday together in Italy. A lot of red wine had been consumed before going skinny dipping and we got close - he looked slightly terrified and I chickened out - which of course I regret. He had a nice curved cock and I still find him attractive. He’s married with 2 kids now. 

[rock-cock-jock]

Yes, quite a few times and quite a few successes. First off, before even considering popping the question, you need to do your research and understand his mindset. If you stalk his feed and find a comment or post suggesting he hates gays, that's a pretty clear signal dont go any further. Look for stuff that's overtly sexual and oriented toward casual sex, drugs, tats, maybe escapism or maybe a more deviant or more blue collar general feel imo.   

The approach obviously depends on the guy and how close friends you guys are. If just acquaintances, better to text and frame it properly. Something like, "Hey man. Sorry if this comes across as weird but I think you're fucking hot man! Listen, I know the deal but if you ever need a way to just get off on the dl, just hmu alright and we'll figure something out"

That's it. That's all you need. You may get ghosted or avoided but it's basically a dice roll at that point. I prefer text because a lot of guys have a knee jerk reflex to just instantly say no before the question is even fully asked. Also, send the text late at night when he's alone.

An in-person question takes more effort and depends on your dynamic. I suggest getting him drunk, keeping it casual and dont be weird.

[NLbear]

[ronnie4u]

Oh Hell Yes !   Party's - Public Rest rooms - and at their houses - I am Bi - go both ways - love to party - smoking weed - drinking - poppers !  I was born uncut - hung - parents very liberal thinking - sexy active in private or public !  Sometimes love peeing - allowing others looking at my dick - shaking the drops off !  I see a few of them staring ! Start chatting - maybe smoke some weed or poppers - touching - asking them if they allow me seeing their dicks - soon after pegging - they show me their dicks - touching - stroking - sucking them off - I do my specialty with them - they usually come back for more again ! Craving Dicks and cum loads - Please !  Show me !

[bisexualguy1978]

I only did that two times.

The first time was with a long time friend who (to me) was a closeted bi/gay guy. He wasn’t very careful with what was on his pc screen and usually when I visited it was clear to see that he was watching both hetero and gay porn. One day I dropped by and I probably disturbed a jerk session, as his hard dick was still visible through his pants when he opened the door, besides having a slightly red face.

We started talking, and I asked him jokingly if he was watching porn again (he never made it a secret he enjoys watching porn). He said yes, so I asked what he was watching. I already fantasized a few times to suck his dick for a few times (from swimming together I knew he has a relatively large dick [~10 inch/25 cm]).

He told me he was just watching some porn, and drinking some whiskey, but he answered so awkwardly I figured it probably wasn’t vanilla hetero porn. I decided to go for it and walked to his pc and turned his screen on before he could respond, and a nice gay porn movie was paused, where you could see a group of bears fucking a guy bare in a swing.

I told him he shouldn’t worry and shouldn’t be shy about it with me. We had a talk about porn for a while, and I mentioned to him that I am a firm believer that you should try everything a few times just to discover new things you might like. I referred to the gay movie on his PC and asked if he ever did anything with guys or was fantasizing. He told me that he never did anything with guys, but he did fantasize about it sometimes (he knew I was bi at the time already for a while). His face turned red and his dick was showing in his pants again while talking about gay porn.

I asked him if he ever fantasized about shooting his cum in a guy's face, ass or whatever, and he told me that was one of his biggest fantasies. I decided to take a risk and asked him if he would mind if I would suck his dick, to see if he might like it. I promised him he could shoot his cum in my mouth. He treated it as a joke but found it I was serious when I walked over to him, dropped to my knees and started to fondle his dick through his pants.

He almost immediately gives in and let me pull his dick out of his pants. I started to lick his dick and balls for a while before starting to suck. I never sucked a dick that big at that time, and I loved the opportunity to enjoy such a big dick. He came within a few minutes when I started sucking him, and the amount of cum he produced was also quite a lot. I played with his cum in my mouth, and swallowed a big part of it, in such a way he could see that. The only thing he could say was ‘oh fuck I want this more. I then used the remaining cum in my mouth to make his dick wet with his cum, and just keep playing with it. Long story short. He came again a second time about 15 minutes later.

Later on, we became regular fuckbuddies, and he is open bi now. He turned out to be mostly bottom, and very slutty as well. We haven’t fucked for quite some time, as he is in a relationship now, and he’s trying to stay monogamous. I keep telling him to persuade his wife to start swinging together, so he can enjoy some dick again. But so far not successful 😊 although every time I say that to him he gets a very naughty smile. Who knows.

 

The second time I tried sucking off a straight guy it didn’t work out very well. It was with a guy who I knew superficially (old classmate), and I thought I figured him out as well.

He was visiting me and we were both drunk at some point, and I was super horny. He was also horny as we were talking about our experiences with women, and his dick was visibly hard in his pants.

I asked him if he ever had experiences with guys, and he didn’t respond negative or positive, just that he never tried. I gathered some courage and asked him if he ever wanted to try, and started visibly touching my dick through my pants. He said he did fantasize about it, but doesn’t feel a need to do something with it. He told me “fuck I’m horny talking about this stuff”, and I picked that up as the part about fantasizing about having sex with men, but in hindsight, he meant the talk about our previous experiences with women during our school time. I decided to be the naughty one and told him I was super horny as well and asked him if he was okay with jerking in front of each other. It took me quite some effort to ask this as I was pretty insecure about asking him.

To my surprise he said “fuck it, let’s do it” and we started jerking ourselves and kept talking about the sexual experiences we had back at school. This is where I screwed up. He fantasized a lot about jerking with a guy, and also about sex with men but to a much lesser degree. I took this situation as a signal to go for the next step end stand up and slide from the end of the couch I was sitting on, to his side. He was a little dazed from jerking and didn’t register what was happening. I sat close to him and lowered my head to suck him. I had his dick in my mouth for about 10 seconds when he suddenly started cursing and pushed me away. He angrily said he wanted to jerk together not fucking suck each other as gay men did. I honestly told him I misread the situation and apologized, but he wasn’t having it. I quickly put my pants back on and try to defuse the situation, but pulled up his pants, and basically half ran out of the door cursing at the same time.

I tried calling him a few times, and after a few hours he finally his wife answered. He apparently told his girlfriend (which I didn't even know he had….) and through her, he made clear I should stay away from him. I apologized to her and also told her I didn’t even know he had a girlfriend.

I never spoke to the guy again. At parties with mutual friends, he fully ignores me, and that’s too bad ☹.

[Primalsole]

I been approached by so called “str8” guys all the time for sex!   That’s why I assume men are bisexual by nature and some end up preferring gay or str8 as a primary but can go either way when needed!

[inmyass262]

When I was in the military and overseas I gave quite a lot of brojobs after word got out I would suck guys off. I don’t know exact numbers but it was more than a few. most the guys were straight and looking at straight porn or nudes of their gf or wife. The few gay guys I ran across we made out and fucked.

[fskn]

59 minutes ago, bisexualguy1978 said:

pulled up his pants, and basically half ran out of the door cursing at the same time.

I tried calling him a few times, and after a few hours he finally his wife answered. He apparently told his girlfriend (which I didn't even know he had….) and through her, he made clear I should stay away from him. I apologized to her and also told her I didn’t even know he had a girlfriend.

I never spoke to the guy again. At parties with mutual friends, he fully ignores me, and that’s too bad ☹.

The lengths to which some people will go to repress their desires are really surprising! Your former friend is likely to die having only received blowjobs on his birthday, from reticent and unenthusiastic women.

[Guest]

On 6/24/2021 at 6:09 AM, MrsTatt00 said:

One good way to get a straight guy to let you suck his dick is by planting the idea earlier. Let it simmer. The seed of the idea/desire a simple statement on your part, "God I love to suck dick"...it's pretty easy to direct the conversation toward sex with any guy. A comment out of the blue....Watch for reactions and react accordingly, if he has to reposition his dick because it's getting uncomfortable is a pretty good sign to keep pushing lol... Actually no, not pushing, pulling... If he gives you an opening, wedge in slowly, "I just love to give pleasure"... 

That's a really good approach 

[hntnhole]

1 hour ago, fskn said:

die having only received blowjobs on his birthday, from reticent and unenthusiastic women.

What I can't quite understand is, why on earth bother with so-called "straight" guys, when there are so many gay guys that aren't all fucked up about what they need?  To me, it's chasing drama, problems, upheaval, distractions from doing what we need to do.  That, and placing ourselves in the way of angry women - which sordid notion is the very definition of asking for trouble.

This thread specifies "straight" guys.  Not "bi" guys, not "gay-curious" guys, only "straight" guys.  Who cares what they do or don't do?  

[fskn]

48 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

What I can't quite understand is, why on earth bother with so-called "straight" guys, when there are so many gay guys that aren't all fucked up about what they need?  To me, it's chasing drama, problems, upheaval, distractions from doing what we need to do.  That, and placing ourselves in the way of angry women - which sordid notion is the very definition of asking for trouble.

This thread specifies "straight" guys.  Not "bi" guys, not "gay-curious" guys, only "straight" guys.  Who cares what they do or don't do?

I agree, the hangups of men who identify (or who are identified) as straight but whose sexual behavior (or desire) is broader can be tiresome. I block the blank, one-word, and DL profiles on Grindr like Whack-a-Mole.

As for women who refuse to give proper blowjobs (and then get angry when their men go elsewhere), I should have been careful not to place implicit blame on them. They are bound by a set of social norms. It's impossible to be the virgin bride, and later, the doting mother, while simultaneously being the skilled, eager, sperm-guzzling slut.

A possible motive, beyond the fetish value, for gay men to seek out sex with men who identify as straight, would be altruism. For all the problems it can cause, that 5-minute blowjob at the back of the parking lot can make the world of difference to a straight man whose wife hasn't so much as looked at his cock in a month.

Edited March 3, 2022 by fskn
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[hntnhole]

5 hours ago, fskn said:

would be altruism.

Well !!!  That never even occurred to me.  I agree with your implicit suggestion that many women exert undue "power" over their husbands, which may result in hubby getting some on the side. 

There are, however, far more than enough "ladies of the evening" to assuage those presumably "straight" men.  I think it's far more likely that the straight guy will go find some outside pussy (I mean, real female, as opposed to the "pussy" we read about here in BZ) than cruise around in some parking lot or gay cruising area.  The guy could be arrested, with all that entails to his life, the guy could pick up a bug and really fuck up his life, he could be seen or recognized, setting tongues wagging, all kinds of things that could be avoided by fucking a different woman than his wife. 

I'm not so sure it's impossible for a woman to play both roles.  Agreed, she's in a less powerful position, but it's as likely as not that she can be a pig in the bedroom, behind closed doors.  I don't think it's so impossible.  Pure, innocent little wife at church on Sunday, and a whore at home.  Women are far better at this kind of duality than men, probably because of the cultural pressures exerted on them.

As to social norms, women are just as likely as men to step "outside" when they're frustrated.  Particularly when a little power-play they execute doesn't work.  They may not do it as quickly as their husbands, but they're just as likely.  if a gay guy sucks off a straight guy, there's almost no chance for anything other than a biological act taking place for either of them.  And, I have no problem with that.  But adding altruism to the pot would be like a bit too much pepper in the stew.

Thanks for the idea though - it bears a bit of thought.  

[Qilly55]

On 8/15/2021 at 6:49 PM, igaca said:

I am so close to asking a straight friend if he wants me to suck him NSA. We saw each other today for the first time in a few months and he talked about how “desperate” he was to have his cock sucked and that he’d let “practically anyone” do it. The topic of conversation was definitely more sexual than usual and I could tell he was steering the conversation in that direction but I was too afraid to make a move. He is 100% straight so I’m just not sure how to approach it without ruining our friendship. While driving today I came so close to just reaching over and grabbing his crotch as he was talking about how he used to get random boners while we were at school (both in college now, hence we don’t see each other so often now). After today I’m 99% sure he’s down, but I just can’t build up the courage to make a move. I’ve fantasized so much about sucking his cock and letting him use my throat. 

You should have went for it. His statement I would practically let anyone do it was your cue!

[swvsucker]

I have quite a few times. Been told to fuck off a few times. Sucked a lot of straight cock because of it too.

The single greatest time I did and it worked out was when a repairman came to our house we were renting to fix and appliance. When he arrived I had been jerking off to cocksucker porn and I never finished, so I was horny as fuck. He was there maybe an hour and as he was done he asked to take a piss before he left. I guided him to the bathroom and all I could think of was how bad I wanted to suck his cock. When he came out I just went for it and asked if he wanted a blowjob before he left. There was a long pause, then he looked at his watch and said he had 30 minutes to kill before his next job and a blowjob sounded like a good way to do it. I was elated and even moreso when he unleashed one of the thickest 7 inch cocks I have ever seen. Needless to say, when he left we were both very satisfied.

[fskn]

Wonderful to read these accounts from brave people who have approached straight men and, now and then, succeeded in sucking their cocks!

Today I remembered an incident from my undergraduate years. Eventually I developed a tenuous friendship with a straight boy I'd been in love with since I'd first seen his picture in the "face book" (an actual paper booklet sent to us before orientation, containing our classmates' yearbook photos, names and home cities). Before graduating, I asked if he'd like a blowjob. It didn't go well. We never spoke again.

Our university had a lopsided male-female ratio, and given its technical emphasis, the few women present were masculine, assertive, decidedly not sexual. Think female JROTC drill captains, or even female spiders who eat their male counterparts after mating! Straight guys not in fraternities spilled a lot of semen in their tighty-whities rather than in the warm, wet holes where it belonged. My classmate, for his part, was always worrying that his girlfriend might have gotten pregnant from his visits home, or that she was cheating on him between his visits. I could have made him forget all these frustrations, five minutes at a time, whenever he needed.

Today, he is married (to a rather masculine woman), lives in the suburbs, and has a child. He is still intelligent, but he has gone from being dashingly handsome as a young man to quite unattractive in middle age. Oh well, I can't spend too much time worrying about the plight of straight men!

(The description of my female classmates is not intended to be misogynistic. In a male-dominated environment, assertiveness must have been a survival skill for women.)