Do older cumdumps get less?

[kinkysuBB]

20 minutes ago, Spunkinmyarse said:

Didn’t you feel the same about turning 30?  And how do you feel about that now?

I took this to ridiculous extremes and pretended to be in my mid 20s for the first couple of years of my thirties. It was partly to see what I could get away with: I’m constantly being told I don’t look my age, which is nice and all but can actually get annoying too.

Anyway, it got ridiculous. I may have been able to pull it off in terms of physical appearance, but I didn’t talk like a 24 year old, remembered things a 24 year old shouldn’t, didn’t know things a 24 year old should (the minutiae of Snapchat etc.), and I didn’t fuck like a 24 year old.

Yes, I had guys wondering how the hell a 24 year old learned to do what I could do sexually and finding it weird. Add to that guys not bothering to find out what I could do sexually, and turning me down purely on the basis of my supposed age being too young.

In the end I said “WTF am I doing?” and came clean. Regular fuck buddies thought I was a bit weird but it explained a lot. And then we got on with the fucking while I stopped trying to remember whether or not I was supposed to have an opinion on Oasis v Blur. Lesson learned. Age is a number.

Edited January 10, 2021 by subBottomKink

[Fitfj]

I think if you look after yourself age is just a number... I don’t ask how old someone is - I don’t care 

[Dexus]

12 hours ago, Spunkinmyarse said:

@Dexus, I know that nothing I say will convince you that turning 40 is no big deal- but is really isn’t!  However, like all of us, you will only understand that with hindsight- such is life!  Didn’t you feel the same about turning 30?  And how do you feel about that now?

I think many of us feel a sense of resentment towards the pandemic, that it is robbing us of opportunities to fuck at a key time in our lives- we’ve already lost a year, and may well lose the best part of another.  But the truth is, there is no ideal time to lose those years: it’s just as frustrating for the eighteen year old who is losing his teenage years as it is for us older cumdumps, who have a nagging sense that time is running out...

But I guess that, on an individual level, if we get through this and all we’ve lost is some great opportunities to fuck, then we should count ourselves lucky.

Very true @Spunkinmyarse. Turning 30 was not a huge deal for me, but definitely the idea of turning 37 back then would have had me concerned. And here I am in even better shape and taking more cocks than ever 😄  Ain't hindsight great.

[NoFucksGiven]

18 hours ago, Dexus said:

I recently turned 37 and I like to keep myself in reasonable shape including plenty of squats, lunges and deadlifts to keep my ass perky. At the risk of sounding full of myself, I generally have no trouble getting a load when I need one. And now with Prep, collecting loads has become a favourite past-time - especially in group settings like naked parties, sex clubs etc. I not too fussed - if you have a hard cock and you need a hole, look no further!

However, that dreaded gay number '40' is fast approaching for me and, as much as I hate to admit it, I feel it will be harder to pull the tops once the age on my online profiles start with the number '4' rather than a '2' or '3'. That is why I am particularly frustrated with the pandemic situation we are all in. I have only 3 years left before 40 and I really want to make the most of it by travelling the world, collecting loads and exploring my sexuality while I am still relatively young. The 'scene' in Australia is quite small and I can't wait to be over in Europe and North America again where all the great gay bars, clubs, events and parties are held! Fingers-crossed for these vaccines!

I understand my sex life will not come to a grinding halt at age 40. I am not ageist and will happily fuck (as a top) guys that are older than me and are in good shape. I really do think that staying in good physical shape is the key to being an older cumdump. I'm also extremely thankful that I am a versatile fucker. While I have reservations about being a bottom after 40 and 50, I know that I shouldn't have any issues as a top. There are so many younger guys out there that just want to be fucked by older men.

Once I am significantly older, I know I will mourn the days that I could walk into a sex club on any given day/night and be guaranteed a solid ass pounding. Hopefully by that stage I will have had enough sexual experiences to have satisfied me 🙂

Interesting post. I have to admit that my 40s did mark a bit of a downturn in sexual experience, but my 50s have proved the opposite. I do work hard to keep fit - in fact, I’m in better shape physically now that at any time in my life. Maybe that helps, I don’t know. 

[NoFucksGiven]

12 hours ago, subBottomKink said:

I took this to ridiculous extremes and pretended to be in my mid 20s for the first couple of years of my thirties. It was partly to see what I could get away with: I’m constantly being told I don’t look my age, which is nice and all but can actually get annoying too.

Anyway, it got ridiculous. I may have been able to pull it off in terms of physical appearance, but I didn’t talk like a 24 year old, remembered things a 24 year old shouldn’t, didn’t know things a 24 year old should (the minutiae of Snapchat etc.), and I didn’t fuck like a 24 year old.

Yes, I had guys wondering how the hell a 24 year old learned to do what I could do sexually and finding it weird. Add to that guys not bothering to find out what I could do sexually, and turning me down purely on the basis of my supposed age being too young.

In the end I said “WTF am I doing?” and came clean. Regular fuck buddies thought I was a bit weird but it explained a lot. And then we got on with the fucking while I stopped trying to remember whether or not I was supposed to have an opinion on Oasis v Blur. Lesson learned. Age is a number.

I work in TV and asked an actor mate how long he’d been 45. “Three years,” he replied. “And I’m hoping to get another five years out of it.”

[MuscledHorse]

On 1/6/2021 at 6:34 AM, Spunkinmyarse said:

In clubs and real-life situations, I’ve found that so far, at least, age has made little difference.  I keep myself in as good a shape as possible, and I’ve been pleasantly surprised how many young guys are actually attracted to older guys and seek them out.  Strangely enough, though, I‘ve also noticed that although I get plenty of attention from 20-somethings, I have less success with guys in their 30s and 40s.  I guess for them, I’m just not hitting the right ‘Daddy’ buttons.  Or perhaps for some of them, I’m just too close in age for comfort: they see what they are about to become in just a few years time, and run for the hills!

One thing is for sure, though: camera phones and web-cams are no friends to the over 40’s.  They seem to pick up and emphasize every wrinkle, every age spot, every flaw- as well as adding at least one extra chin to the subject’s face.  It’s bad enough trying to take and select a good profile pic, but this latest craze for verifying your pics with a quick video call is a nightmare: after being instantly blocked on more than one occasion, I refuse to engage with it now. 

Like you i am a gym rat and apparently hit a lot of the dad/coach buttons of the younger guys. I get tons of use in a normal year. I always keep my fat penis on display--even obvious bulging in pants, gym shorts and swim trunks--and guys notice, especially in the locker room/shower/sauna areas of gyms. I have a solid rep as a hardcore male slut. When you see me in the sex clubs or resorts i m naked and being subjected to constant use by guys of all ages. If anything, as I've gotten older I've gotten even more partners between those my age and the younger crowd, which we add a new batch to every year. Fortunately, the camera has been kind to me in porn filming though I can't speak for web cams since I don't really use them.

[Guest]

I find older top men more horny and I seem to be getting more fisting and fucking now than I did 20 years ago. The connection seems more intense with more mature top men. 

[Scottop]

I'm 54 and mainly bottom these days and do get takers. Guys tend to come quickly in my arse so they seem to like it. and I am appreciated as an experienced cock sucker. I know how to give my partners pleasure.

[Brianbttm]

43 here and in decent shape, but working out to get in better shape. Since I decided mainly to get fucked anon ass up face down with blindfold on 2-3 yrs ago I get alot of younger guys hitting me up.  They're horny and just want to get off without a lot of hassle.  Have an 18, 19, 21, 27, 35 and 41 yr old guys that fuck and breed me regular. I have only seen a dick or body pic of them. And a couple of them prefer that I have 2-3 loads before they come fuck me. Then there are the other guys that hit me up for a quick anon fuck and never see them again. 

Getting fucked anon and just seeing a dick pic expands the range of guys willing to fuck and breed you...if you can let go like that. Plus not seeing a guy behind you makes it all about the feel of getting fucked and more intense.

[NutBucketDC]

Hit my 40s and the 20 somethings stated swarming. I’ve got a great hole and anon mount/nut with not a lot of boring back & forth is what we both want. A 4 minute fuck is fine with me - and I’m pretty flexible about who i let mount anyway, so...i seem to get what I need the way I like it just fine. 

[pdxsub]

I'm older (50+) and still have some guys around my age, and younger that like the fact that I'm experienced. Being a submissive also helps.

[BreedingTop71]

On 1/5/2021 at 4:09 PM, Hotrawbutt4u said:

I have noticed that guys seem to go for the younger guys. I am retired with more availability and a tight bottom but I seem to not be able to get near as much as 10 years ago. In fact guys don't  seem to want to try. 

I am not sure if it is because of age or just less guys barebacking in general. 

What do you think.

I would pound you silly. I am into guys who know their place, who understand it is all about making sure the top gets satisfied and are happy to receive me and my sperm. If you are into it, and like getting slapped, spanked or punched while getting used, I have no problem with your age at all. 
 

by the way, your pic looks insanely hot. I bet you have a sweet tight hole. Would not mind unloading in it at all

[Kimberley]

That's the whole reason i have sex with many older men straight from the start. they prefer to fuck young whores above older. so yeah i would say older cumdumps get less

[Guest MusclepigcunT]

Not really.  I find that a lot of men, especially younger ones want that “muscle daddy” experience.  It helps that I workout and have a muscle ass.  Plus, men with big cocks prefer FF bottoms like me because we can handle their cocks with ease. Total bottoms like me also have some desirability with Alphas that want a service bottom.  I don’t need or want reciprocation.  I’m a fag that was born to serve men and lot of men just get their cock sucked, fuck and drain their nuts in my cunt with no strings.  

I think it depends on how you market yourself.  I spend a lot of time at the gym doing squats specifically to have a muscle ass to make it more appealing. I probably wouldn’t workout if it didn’t lead to more sex.

Yes, that is my muscle cunt.

Edited March 6, 2021 by MusclepigcunT
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[Cockdumb&Cute]

I'm a cumdump, and i am 32 years old(33 March 8th) and i have identified as a cumdump for JUST under half of that time & every year i get better and better at finding loads and cocks and men to put me to proper use.