Compared to when you were new to casual sex, have your standards changed in assessing how attractive a guy is?

[DannyZ]

I find attitude and willingness much sexier than looks.  Give me a sub bottom who's into it over a sexy dude who is just going through the motions. 

[NWUSHorny]

I've had a few changes over the 30+ years I've been having casual sex. When I 1st started out, I was fairly picky about age and appearance. My biggest change is when I started getting fucking, I would fuck anyone I found attractive, but would only let guys fuck me if they had a bigger cock than I did. It took me almost a year to realize how much I liked to get fucked and that was it was too big of a limitation. The other big change happened in my mind to late 30's when I moved from somewhere where casual sex was readily available to somewhere where it was not. As a result of that move, my criteria to fuck is pretty much anyone who is willing able and sober enough to know they are having sex. Even if I'm traveling somewhere where finding willing partners is easy, I will still fuck with just about anyone not strung out on who know what.

[LittleCumSewer]

I guess I maybe preferred hotter guys at first even though I have always been willing to suck ANYONES cock or bend over to let ANYONE fuck me bareback and unload they balls into me. I switched pretty quickly to not caring at all about what the guys fucking me look like, or their age, or race, or body type. between all the guys who fuck me under washroom stalls,  anonymously from behind, blindfolded in slings, through glory holes, and in the dark I rarely even see the guys who are blowing loads into my fuckhole and down my throat. when I started sneaking into porntheatres to strip naked and get down on my knees in private booths, waiting for random, anonymous strangers to stick their cocks through the hole and suck them off until they came in m y mouth and swallowed it, then waited for the next man, and the next, for hours, letting those same strangers fuck me up the ass bareback and blow their loads in me without ever being in the same room, I realized it really doesn’t matter what the man attached to the cock looks like. it’s all about the cock, the balls and the cum. thats all that matters for a cum whore like me. taking cock after cock and load after load in both holes for hours, nearly every single day from horny men and boys just looking to get off. straight guys coming in to get easy cocksuckers to blow them no strings attached, using trashy whores in a dirty porn theatre. I didnt even usually lock the door so guys would open the door and see some pretty Twink, naked, sucking cock through one hole, getting fucked through the other, with cum on my face and dripping from. my pussy, not even caring that a stranger is watching me.what the guys look like doesn’t matter at all. I even love it when guys see me getting trashed by unattractive guys and dirty daddies. lets face it, a cocksucker can’t even see what a man looks like from our knees.

[Davidc]

In my peak (20s and 30s) my mantra was always “Don’t go ugly early” , now days I’m just great full for fucks with a wide range of guys.

I now realise I could have had more sex when younger had I not been such a brat.

[tallslenderguy]

Great discussion!

Have my "standards changed?"  Yes, though my tastes have remained pretty much the same.  For me, the biggest qualifier is a Mans need/desire to breed. If that presents, He can have me via my hole and it awakens my own need/desire....usually. Romance is a lot more complicated, but casual sex? His need/desire to penetrate and seed are pretty much the only qualifiers. 

[Njn0mc]

1 hour ago, tallslenderguy said:

Great discussion!

Have my "standards changed?"  Yes, though my tastes have remained pretty much the same.  For me, the biggest qualifier is a Mans need/desire to breed. If that presents, He can have me via my hole and it awakens my own need/desire....usually. Romance is a lot more complicated, but casual sex? His need/desire to penetrate and seed are pretty much the only qualifiers. 

Yup.. that sums it up!

Not looking for romance I have been with very hot guys and few of them sucked at sex. I could had more fun with a dildo. I have been with really ugly guys where when we met I almost turned around and left but stayed because i was needed to get fuck. They turned out to be some of the best tops, very kinky and open to anything. 

One I see again every once in a while the face is not the best but has a great cock and one hell of a kinky very dominant top love playing with him and once in a while with his friend. 

He has all kinds of toys, tables benches. I dont look at the face but I will submit to he's kink!

[DarkroomTaker]

Nope, i started taking cock from an early age. Local toilets was best placed. I took anyones dick, still do, I just bend and take. Cock is cock.

[bocini]

What a great question . Massively. Now it's just about the cock. The only requirement I have now is. That the cock is hard. I struggle with half hard cocks. 

But hard cocks I am all yours when where you want. 

[coastalbender]

Yes, aa cock had to be hard. Now, I will joyfully suck the softest dick as long as he wants me to.

[NYBBGUY58]

On 2/28/2022 at 1:13 AM, rock-cock-jock said:

Are you still attracted to the same type of guy or has your type changed? If not a particular physical feature, is there anything else that you tend to go for? Has your minimum threshold for agreeing to fuck a guy changed? What do you think is the main force behind your current standards?

Due to aging and other physical issues, I'm pretty much limited to bottoming. Within that, my tastes are pretty broad, but I realized there's one thing that's incredibly sexy: show up when we've planned a date and I'VE SPENT AN EFFING 45 MINUTES PREPPING! Getting stood up is a real turn-off.

Oh, how things change once you're over 50.

[DarkroomTaker]

13 hours ago, bocini said:

What a great question . Massively. Now it's just about the cock. The only requirement I have now is. That the cock is hard. I struggle with half hard cocks. 

But hard cocks I am all yours when where you want. 

OMG.. Thats penile discrimination..

[phukhole]

Absolutely. I find many more men attractive than when I was younger and I find many many more men sexually compatible.  Some of the best sex I've ever had was with not traditionally handsome men.  Some of the worst sex I've ever had was with "hot" men.

[rock-cock-jock]

12 hours ago, NYBBGUY58 said:

Due to aging and other physical issues, I'm pretty much limited to bottoming. Within that, my tastes are pretty broad, but I realized there's one thing that's incredibly sexy: show up when we've planned a date and I'VE SPENT AN EFFING 45 MINUTES PREPPING! Getting stood up is a real turn-off.

Oh, how things change once you're over 50.

Totally agree. Flaking, or likelihood to flake, is a significant factor for me when considering a hookup. The distribution tends toward younger guys, clean cut twinky types and the more vanilla profiles (also for rejection). So....kinda as a result, I've found myself more comfortable going for older guys, more on the rougher hairier look, any kinda tribe except twink and esp if their profiles show that they are pigs, love bareback and dtf!

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[rock-cock-jock]

14 hours ago, bocini said:

What a great question . Massively. Now it's just about the cock. The only requirement I have now is. That the cock is hard. I struggle with half hard cocks. 

But hard cocks I am all yours when where you want. 

same dude. It's just being pragmatic. Sex is just way easier, hotter and feels better with a hard cock. The thing is that ED is just rampant and alot of men are too shy to get ED pills on their own. It's gotten to the point where I just prefer to give a wilting hookup a superman and bear the cost if they can wait around just so I can enable his cock to breed me. It's just biology, just how it is

[BellyAndBriefs]

I definitely have always been attracted to guys who are older or bigger / fatter than me or all of those in one. I am especially turned on by daddies who like to call me boy or make me feel small and submissive, but I will also go for a cub younger than me who likes to be used and fucked roughly.

That being said, when I'm in the headspace of hooking up relatively anonymously, I'm not so much focused on my types so much as the excitement of getting relatively anonymous cum. So I would likely agree to play or submit to a guy who was just really willing / into me. And even though it's never happened, a guy with a biohazard / scorpion tattoo would probably get to the front of the line.