Did you fuck the 1st time you visited a bathhouse/sex club?

[bbpigbtm]

I going this weekend,thinking i should’ve, i just need it

[gangbangsuperstar]

yes. the first bunch of times I went, I was taken there so the guy could whore me out and watch me take load after load in my teenage fuckhole from a bunch of men. thats when I really learned what a whore I am and that I was really born to take loads

[NWUSHorny]

18 minutes ago, bbpigbtm said:

I going this weekend,thinking i should’ve, i just need it

1st time? I hope you have a great experience with lots of fucking!

[Pigforcum]

I didn't on the first time but did not long after my first visit. I wasn't on PrEP yet and took it bare

[Fuzzypup]

I've gone a couple times to baths in Philly and Pittsburgh, and haven't had much luck at all. Try and go peak hours, on fridays and Saturdays. Present myself as a bottom only, and it seems like there is only a sea of bottoms as well to greet me. Did get to watch one guy get fucked once in an hour in the sling, and some fun in the club Pitt basement, but I've only had someone eat my ass while I blew a guy. 

 

Going back to Pitt during a con here 4th of July weekend, so I'm hoping to finally get more action. Poppers, maybe even a room. If I can't get anything this time, I'll probably be done with the baths. First time I'll admit I was nervous but open, now I'm usually just bored. 

[bbpigbtm]

I really think 🤔 i’m ment too be a cum dump, but then i want go home to my great husband, but playing with 🔥 

[HardOneLA]

21 hours ago, AlwaysOpen said:

I went to college in NYC in the mid 70's, from rural upstate- so to say there was a culture shock would be an understatement. And not the gay aspect- I had been taking dick for about 4 years at that point- but the endless buffet of places to get sex was a big change.Times Square was still a porn haven, bookstores and glory holes  and actual gay movie theaters ( Adonis was always my favorite tho)  And one day in the college library, I was reading the Village Voice weekly, and read about some performer who had performed at the Continental Baths, a gay place up on the edge of Harlem. I likely was hard as a rock reading about the place, but still,  I had those lingering adolescent fears- would I know what to do there, would I stand out like a sore thumb, would anyone even be interested. 

Finally one Friday night I had built up enough courage and made my way to the Continental. I definitely felt out of place as the train went further towards Harlem and once on the street, I really felt like I " wasn't in Kansas anymore Toto". A bit of a walk, and I arrived at the Continental. Some guy at the window questioned me and asked if I knew this was a bathhouse, a GAY bathhouse. I told him I had read about it in the Voice, and wanted to check it out. After he semi explained the cost and the deal, I had my room key and a towel and directions to the room. It was pretty dark in the hallway to my room, just a bit off the showers and the wet area, and a lot of guys hanging around and dealing. I went in the room and closed the door, stripped and put the towel on  and stepped out. The pool area was also where a stage was if memory serves me- and I was a little surprised to see M/F couples sitting at tables there. I went back to the room,passing the gauntlet of guys pushing weed ( I think that was all they were offering, but again, naive rural boy me) . I sat in there for 5 minutes, then dressed and headed upstairs to leave. The guy at the counter looked up as I approached, chuckled, and said "yeah, I didn't think you would last very long. This isn't your type of club, where you need to be is at the Club Baths down on Houston St"-  and then he handed me back my ID and money, and gave me directions as to which subway lines I needed to get there. I actually did go directly there, and while I do not remember the various encounters of that 1st night; it was my launching ground for many,many nights there and at tubs in cities around the world since.

Damn bud, we were probably feet apart in the 70's in NYC!  Loved Adonis!  Especially up in the balcony area and bathroom.  The David and Kings were good too - dark tunnels that went under the avenue, oink.  Also TomKat way downtown.  Fuck bud, did the Continental (though never realized Barry and Bette were playing there), East Side Sauna or Club, others lower downtown that I can't recall and of course the docks/piers.  It was so great back then, surprised I made it out alive.  Glad you did too!!

[hntnhole]

21 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

I was in Chicago frequently in the early 90's but sadly never went to the baths. I did have a lot of gay sex in parks and tearooms

I used to ride my bike over to Foster beach for a quickie at night.  MUCH easier to get away quick when the cops would come racing in.  I hear that Hollywood beach is much more active now though, since they cut down all the bushes at Foster beach. Lawrence beach used to be where all the "car-cruisers" parked.  Not sure if that's still the case though. 

A bit of ephemera:  Steamworks was originally the Unicorn.  Finally remembered 🙄

Edited June 1, 2022 by hntnhole

[NWUSHorny]

1 hour ago, Fuzzypup said:

I've gone a couple times to baths in Philly and Pittsburgh, and haven't had much luck at all. Try and go peak hours, on fridays and Saturdays. Present myself as a bottom only, and it seems like there is only a sea of bottoms as well to greet me. Did get to watch one guy get fucked once in an hour in the sling, and some fun in the club Pitt basement, but I've only had someone eat my ass while I blew a guy. 

 

Going back to Pitt during a con here 4th of July weekend, so I'm hoping to finally get more action. Poppers, maybe even a room. If I can't get anything this time, I'll probably be done with the baths. First time I'll admit I was nervous but open, now I'm usually just bored. 

I haven't been in over 10 years, but I had a lot of fun at Club Pittsburgh. It seems like it tended to be mostly room fucking but I did get into some decent 4-5 guy dog piles in private rooms. I generally prefer to play in public play spaces, but a great group fuck is great no matter where it happens.

[NWUSHorny]

45 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

I used to ride my bike over to Foster beach for a quickie at night.  MUCH easier to get away quick when the cops would come racing in.  I hear that Hollywood beach is much more active now though, since they cut down all the bushes at Foster beach. Lawrence beach used to be where all the "car-cruisers" parked.  Not sure if that's still the case though. 

A bit of ephemera:  Steamworks was originally the Unicorn.  Finally remembered 🙄

I was still a tentative twink kind of slut back then, I wasn't really initiating things back then. I waited for guys to come on to me, but being an early/mid 20s, 6'2", 220# but wore 30" Levi's, blonde, blue eyed stereotype I didn't do much waiting, and turned down very few opportunities. I think I must have sniffed out every tearoom on the Magnificent Mile, more than a few seedy ABS, and park or beach near the loop that had action. I'm pretty sure looking at the map that I've hooked up at Foster Beach. After I left the state of Illinois I progressed pretty quickly to going to gay bars, then bathhouses and sex clubs and initiating things instead of waiting for them to come to me.

I haven't had much opportunity in Chicago in the last 25+ years, I can easily count the times I've been there without family on one hand. That may change if I move back to the Midwest next year.

[AlwaysOpen]

22 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

@AlwaysOpen sounds like you too were already a pig on your 1st visit! I envy guys who came of age and had so much fun before the AIDS crisis.

@reliableslut

Oh hell- I was well on the way to piglife by the time I had gotten enough balls to hit a bath house. Back at that time, I kept a count of how many guys I had experienced, and by the time I was finishing my 1st year of college there were at least 300  different guys I could count as sex players. The tubs just blew the numbers  way up ( and being  20 and insatiable certainly helped) And might have also explained my overall GPA average lol.  And  while I slowed down during the 80's it was more because I had settled down with a partner and we were striving to be monogamous at first. 

At some point I stopped tracking my " fresh catch count",  I do know it was over 5,000 10 years ago , today, who knows. Work and life and pandemics all have cut into the action, not to mention the drag on play that is the internet. So many of the guys now just scroll and jack- when I was getting action as a younger man, it was a direct and immediate scene in a park or bookstore or porn theater. Even if the other person was only  somewhat interested, it usually was  more of, well hell, I am here and he is available and I need to fuck and get back to work, so lets do it. 

[funpozbottom]

I've only been to one bathhouse, and going there was always hit or miss. As I recall, my first visit was definitely a miss. There were a bunch of bored looking guys wandering around in towels, the porn playing was ancient, and the air was visibly hazy with smoke. I stuck around maybe an hour before my inability to breath made me leave.  I gave it a second shot, and that time it was smoke free and I had a chance to play around a little. If the second time was as bad as the first, I wouldn't have gone back again. 

[NWUSHorny]

2 minutes ago, funpozbottom said:

I've only been to one bathhouse, and going there was always hit or miss. As I recall, my first visit was definitely a miss. There were a bunch of bored looking guys wandering around in towels, the porn playing was ancient, and the air was visibly hazy with smoke. I stuck around maybe an hour before my inability to breath made me leave.  I gave it a second shot, and that time it was smoke free and I had a chance to play around a little. If the second time was as bad as the first, I wouldn't have gone back again. 

Glad you went back. As a non-smoker, I completely hear you on what a huge improvement smoking bans are. The last bathhouse/sex club I've been to that allowed smoking was in Las Vegas, that was right before COVID so there may still be a few places.

[Sfmike64]

My first time was at a bathhouse who's name I can't remember in Minneapolis in 1981. I had just turned 17 and the larger bathhouse (Club I think) wouldn't let me in because I was underage (and looked it). I  remember it was kind of small and what I now realize was sleazy. I was still so naive despite sucking lots of cocks in adult bookstores since I was 16. 

Anyway, I fucked a couple of guys that night, since I was mostly topping at that point.

[TwinkChaserSlut]

9 hours ago, gangbangsuperstar said:

yes. the first bunch of times I went, I was taken there so the guy could whore me out and watch me take load after load in my teenage fuckhole from a bunch of men. thats when I really learned what a whore I am and that I was really born to take loads

Sounds hot! What year & what bathhouse? How old are you now? How many loads do you typically take in a week/month?