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[boosboos]

hello am interested in cumdump anon ,I need guidance am in my late 30 ,don't really know were to start , regarding making sure ppl are negative, find good location ,red flags what to look for 

Edited November 27, 2022 by boosboos
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[BadInBrooklyn]

Hi, being an anon cumdump (or even just having sex with strangers) is always going to come with a certain amount of risk.  Best to assume guys are going to lie about status and get yourself on PREP.

Your biggest problem is going to be flakes/guys not showing up so you need to cast a wide net and don't be picky.  Half the fun of anon scene is not caring who that hard cock in your hole is attached to.

Be very up front and clear about what you expect and if a guy starts asking unnecessary questions or asking for a million pics they probably aren't serious and it's time to move on to the next guy.

[LetsPOZBreed]

On 11/27/2022 at 8:55 AM, boosboos said:

hello am interested in cumdump anon ,I need guidance am in my late 30 ,don't really know were to start , regarding making sure ppl are negative, find good location ,red flags what to look for 

All due respect, if you're wanting to "make sure ppl are negative" you're prob not in this for the right reasons.  At a minimum, take @BadInBrooklyn's advice and get on PrEP; otherwise, just let this be a fantasy you wank to.  

[ErosWired]

To be frank, the ‘How Do I Get Started Cumdumping’ question gets asked so frequently that most of us are tired of answering it. You’ll get more complete and useful information if you read back through the previous pages of topics on the forum, where you will find abundant advice on the subject.

[hungry_hole]

On 11/27/2022 at 10:35 AM, BadInBrooklyn said:

Your biggest problem is going to be flakes/guys not showing up

A guy who doesn't show up maybe ended up shooting his load while watching a video and completely forgot about the anon encounter. That happens a lot when the meetings are scheduled too much in advance, which is probably the case with the "Parties" in barebackrt. A horny guy likes the idea to stop by a hotel room but his mood has changed by the time comes. All this to say not to schedule too much in advance.

 

On 11/27/2022 at 3:55 AM, boosboos said:

regarding making sure ppl are negative,

I agree with letsPOZbreed because about this, you have to forget. Better open a profile in eHarmony.

You say:

On 11/27/2022 at 3:55 AM, boosboos said:

am in my late 30

This information is relevant and also how your body looks in terms of shape. No horny guy who is in the mood for fucking an anon hole, and hopefully breed it, is going to say no when the bottom is a young sexy dude. This happens at the saunas all the time, where the young holes get all the attention.

Try to relax and feel proud of wanting to be a cumdump.

[FunCheerSlut]

All of the above is sage advice, and to Eros' point - it has been provided more than once in multiple threads.

Here is where most "beginners" get stuck and need advice. If you really want to be a cumdump you cannot be choosy. A picky or choosy cumdump is an oxy-moron at best.

Just stick your ass out there and let whomever wants to have a go!!

NO QUESTIONS ASKED = Cumpdump

[drscorpio]

The recommendation to get on PrEP cannot be repeated enough times if you are concerned about contracting HIV. 

Honestly, if you haven't reached the point where you will take all loads without much concern, you probably aren't ready to take all cummers.

We romanticize being a cumdump, but it often isn't glamorous. It's dirty and sweaty and sticky and nasty, and that is what is hot about it. 

 

[tallslenderguy]

On 11/27/2022 at 12:55 AM, boosboos said:

hello am interested in cumdump anon ,I need guidance am in my late 30 ,don't really know were to start , regarding making sure ppl are negative, find good location ,red flags what to look for 

i don't know if you so much "need guidance" on how to do this as possibly whether or not you really want to.  LAMO at hungry_hole's suggestion of an eHarmony account.

Following the implied idea of a "cumdump" is a cum dumpster. A dumpster or trash can is not choosy or selective,  Oh sure, there are those recycling bins that try to get users to only deposit select refuse, but those aren't really dumpsters, eh?  

i think being a cum dumpster is more a state of mind than a methodology. Honestly, i think the term "dump" doesn't really fit because i think a Mans seed is precious stuff, and my read of most bottoms is they feel similarly. i've picked more than a few used condoms off the floor at seedy fuck joints and emptied their contents into my hole.  i cringe at porn or the idea of a Man spilling His seed on the outside of a warm bottom. What a fucking waste (literally lol).  

That said, there's lots on this site about being an 'ethical slut.'  To me, that involves getting on PreP if you're neg, or staying undetectable and on meds if you are poz. And, otherwise, getting checked routinely for STD's . To me, it is neither negative or irresponsible to have sex, that's a cultural construct used to control.  The notion of "making sure ppl are negative" is part of that construct.  The only person you can make sure is negative is you.  If society fostered that attitude instead of trying to control everyone else, STD's would not be stigmatized and would likely be less.  We can catch a disease going to the grocery store or using a public drinking fountain, but there is no stigma attached to shopping or getting a drink of water. Sex? Not so much. 

[CumdumpAmsterdam]

Do you understand the men's reactions to your question? It's not something you decide to do one day. It's not a hobby that you only do on a Saturday night. A real cumdump has known that all his life, deep down. Of course you need time to accept that you are, in fact, a cumdump. It is very good of you to take the first steps, but now you must also take the next steps. Read up on the topic. Read all questions and all answers on this website. Study the topic. Learn all about the subject, even if you're not horny.

It is indeed romanticized. It's not an easy task. It is hours of standing in the cold, waiting for men. It's simply being available 24/7. It's being called awake by an unknown man who wants to use you. It's always having dirty knees in your jeans. It's sucking off ugly, fat man, just because you need his seed. Get addicted to porn. Get addicted to cock and the taste of sperm. You need to look and feel like a cumdump to be a cumdump.

It's got to be a calling or you won't last as a cumdump.

[Japbtm]

Location location location. Also a day when there’s a full moon. Helps.