anon Thrill of Anonymous

[anonfemsubby]

I've been having anonymous sex for about 10 years now. Messaging guys on grindr, leaving the door open, blindfolded, no names or faces. It started off with condoms but as the years went by it became more more about the raw sex, and now if its not raw, its not worth it. 

But now I'm starting to realize, I don't want sex any other way. I don't want to get to know the guy. I don't want friends with benefits. I don't want to meet someone at a bar and then go back to his or my place. I'd much rather be bent over a glory hole taking cock from strangers in a sleazy arcade than getting to know someone and becoming fuck buddies with a friend. I much rather be on all fours in a sleazy motel with the door open letting anyone walk in and breed me than meeting and chatting with someone in a bar.

I'm curious if I'm the only one here, who only wants to have anonymous sex. Sure, I have fuck buddies. I have guys on my phone I've never seen their faces or know their names, and we just anon fuck and thats it. We have no connection or relationship and I don't even consider them friends. Just a pole and a hole for when I visit their city. They fuck me then they leave then I'll message them again when I visit their city again. Thats it. I don't want to have sex with anyone any other way.

 

My other question is... how can I enhance the thrill even more? I'm not looking for hard drugs. But its gotten to the point where ill message *every* blank profile because the less I know about them the more I lust over them. Poppers and lube. Never buy condoms. Having the door unlocked all the time on latch (I had a random guy walk in and fuck me before which was great). Watching sleazy porn in between each fuck while chatting with guys. I've been fucking when drunk more often and ill message the guy "ive been drinking and im drunk if youre fine taking advantage of me" which they love. Knowing they are fucking me while i am laying there half-conscious is such a thrill, just being used and taken advantage of. I'm curious if there are any other ways to enhance the lust of anonymous sex for an even more diserable moment with a stranger. 

[BadInBrooklyn]

Hi, looks like you posted this in the wrong place, but if there's anonymous sex around, I'll find it!  Walking into a cheap hotel room and seeing a guy I haven't even sent a picture to ass up and waiting is one of the hottest things in the world.

I'm really into anon scene,  For me I think it's partially because when I feel like topping it's just so easy to get laid that way.  Also I'm only interested in topping guys who are really into it, and if a guy is door unlocked, blindfolded...it's a pretty safe bet he enjoys some cock in his ass.  And when I'm in the mood to bottom, well I kind of lose my mind.  I just want a hard cock in my ass NOW and honestly don't care to whom it's attached.

Also really into "public" cumdumps.  I'm talking about guys who are on Twitter, etc showing pictures of their asses and posting where and when it's gonna be available.  It actually turns me on knowing so many guys before and after me have enjoyed that hole.  

Don't think I can help with your second question.  I will say that keep in mind that the anon scene is not without it's dangers.  We all think with our dicks sometimes, but you need to keep your wits about you.  Fortunately, the worst thing that's ever happened to me, is one time in a fit of extreme horniness, I fucked a guy who smelled so bad it took 3 showers to get the stink of him off me!

[bethlehembottom]

if you want to enhance it stop taking the PreP and take all loads like i do if you love getting bred by strangers as much as i do you wouldent be worryed about getting knocked up

[anonfemsubby]

15 hours ago, BadInBrooklyn said:

Hi, looks like you posted this in the wrong place, but if there's anonymous sex around, I'll find it!  Walking into a cheap hotel room and seeing a guy I haven't even sent a picture to ass up and waiting is one of the hottest things in the world.

I'm really into anon scene,  For me I think it's partially because when I feel like topping it's just so easy to get laid that way.  Also I'm only interested in topping guys who are really into it, and if a guy is door unlocked, blindfolded...it's a pretty safe bet he enjoys some cock in his ass.  And when I'm in the mood to bottom, well I kind of lose my mind.  I just want a hard cock in my ass NOW and honestly don't care to whom it's attached.

Also really into "public" cumdumps.  I'm talking about guys who are on Twitter, etc showing pictures of their asses and posting where and when it's gonna be available.  It actually turns me on knowing so many guys before and after me have enjoyed that hole.  

Don't think I can help with your second question.  I will say that keep in mind that the anon scene is not without it's dangers.  We all think with our dicks sometimes, but you need to keep your wits about you.  Fortunately, the worst thing that's ever happened to me, is one time in a fit of extreme horniness, I fucked a guy who smelled so bad it took 3 showers to get the stink of him off me!

Oh I thought I posted in the right chat my apologies,

 

I agree about the dangers though! I love the idea of just having my door on the latch for anyone to walk in a fuck but the reality is that there are guys who may want to hurt me or steal from me (I try to hide the valuables). I've had guys who were too aggressive, not really listening to "no" or "stop". My worst case has been when guys don't listen to the post and take like an hour to fuck, or want my blindfold off, and then when I get upset they freak out. Just keep it simple guys 😅

[Cream4u]

As a only Top fucker.... I just and only love to fuck Anonymous. I don'want to see, know, talk to the person. I don't want to kiss or cuddle and sleep over. The thrill for me is just not to know who the person is who sucked my smelly cock in the darkroom ... or the musky ass that backed up bareback onto my cock and fucked the cum out of it. No chit chat.. just fucking and shooting my load is what I want.

[Trek53]

I love it as well when I travel I look for a cheap motel with a door outside then post the room number on multiple sites 

[anonfemsubby]

4 hours ago, Cream4u said:

As a only Top fucker.... I just and only love to fuck Anonymous. I don'want to see, know, talk to the person. I don't want to kiss or cuddle and sleep over. The thrill for me is just not to know who the person is who sucked my smelly cock in the darkroom ... or the musky ass that backed up bareback onto my cock and fucked the cum out of it. No chit chat.. just fucking and shooting my load is what I want.

I'll definitely reach out if I ever make it to Holland 🐷🐷

[Cream4u]

Hmmm your pussy looks very fuckabel....

[Guest]

For a couple of years I advertsed myself for anon after dark and lights out hookups at my place, at first Craigslist then also Locanto, and the usual gay apps. Letting guys in the door while fully naked with my poppers and my fuck hole lubed ready for their cock. The thrill of variety in men and sex - and frequently bareback - was intoxicating and I really got off on guys knowing I was such a slut, even pre-fucked and filled. But I also got to a point where I trired of the nightly preparation and waiting for messages till really late, often there were none, and then I might get three guys in a night but that was rare. One guy in me and I just wanted more but was often disappointed. There seemed no way to spice things up and I was not living with anyone where we could have advertised as a couple (been there, done that too). I don't live near to a gay sauna but I just find that so much easier now. While I still enjoy anon sex on occasion i've never gotten into hard drugs and am maybe relieved that everything didn't lead to that. It's a hard question to answer as to how to take it to the next step, whatever that is but I do understand the desire for anon sex.

[tallslenderguy]

i've been having sex with men for 40 years (thousands of encounters)  and i'd estimate 95% has been anonymous.  

Is it "the thrill of anonymous"? i honestly don't know, but i suspect not. Connecting with a Mans sexual want/need feeds my sexual want/need. For me, sex is ideally a symbiotic connection. The more elements to that connection, the better.  i think a lot of us practicing 'anonymous' sex have just gotten so good at it that we've refined and streamlined the process lol, but i think we still may be extracting things from the experience that can also be had in an ongoing relationship of some sort.

i don't purposely limit sex to anonymous, but lacking a standard relationship where i can get sex anytime, anonymous has become the default. i think there are plusses and minuses to both.  i don't think there is such a thing as a relationship where one person can meet all of another persons needs, sexual or otherwise, so a lot of guys in ltr go to an open relationship where they get some important desires/needs met with one person, and supplement that relationship with guys on the side and it works for them.

i don't think there is a one type relationship that fits all needs, that the social standard has foisted on people, i think we are all individuals and all relationship is better custom made than us trying to fit reality into a standard mold. 

Personally? i a combination of both works for me.  i have one FB who i write about often in the "last load" thread.  Lately, He breeds me a couple of times a week, and we've been fucking for about three years now. There are periods where He'll go a couple of weeks without any contact (He always initiates), and i will wonder if He has grown bored or tired of sex with me... but then, back He comes for more. 

i think what often happens with an ongoing relationship is having sex without mutual desire. With anonymous sex, mutual desire is pretty much guaranteed, otherwise it doesn't happen (how often do we discuss 'flakes' here?). Even at a sex club or ABS,  Men pick and choose based on Their desire.. i think bottoms  often take Whoever wants them, not because we do not have particular likes or taste, but because, for many, the desire/need to be fucked and bred supersedes any others ("refined"). 

i also see yin/Yang as a real force, especially for those who are wired on the extreme ends of the spectrum (i.e., Total Top on one end, total bottom on the other). i think there is a difference between being in control or controlled and independence/dependence.

In my experience,  the Top position is usually the One in charge, in control, and the bottom position is usually the submissive and controlled position. It's an opposites attracting and connecting dynamic.  i think what is often (dis)missed is that both are dependent on the other's desire/need to achieve and maintain that full on expression of lust/need that attracts us to each other.  

 

[Bibttm]

Like many 99% of the cock I take is anon , with hotel or sauna/ club . My fave place is vault in London and more often than not I’ll be bent over the barrel letting anyone that wants a go slide in. Just love the feeling of all different types sizes and ages 

[manfun4567]

"...much rather be on all fours in a sleazy motel with the door open letting anyone walk in and breed me than meeting and chatting with someone in a bar" - Exactly! The thrill of being bred by multiple anonymous strangers is what keeps me doing it. To the point where just putting on the blindfold is a thrill. I do also enjoy breeding blindfolded bottoms, knowing that they're doing exactly what I've done, and if they're versatile maybe they've even bred me before - who knows. As for enhancing the thrill, there's a bit of a thrill by putting your face out there, knowing that your breeders know what you look like while you have no idea who they are. 

[Guest]

On 3/31/2023 at 10:09 PM, bethlehembottom said:

if you want to enhance it stop taking the PreP and take all loads like i do if you love getting bred by strangers as much as i do you wouldent be worryed about getting knocked up

Please don’t listen to this idiot. Your health is important so keep yourself and others safe 

[hntnhole]

3 hours ago, NudistBBBLK said:

Please don’t listen to this idiot. Your health is important so keep yourself and others safe

Agreed, 100%.  Even if some characteristic in a bottom precludes the (presumed) instinct for self-preservation, merely the prospect of living healthier longer, and thus enabling the thrill of taking loads off thousands more Cocks, thus extending the exercise of the depths of their lusts, could be enough to take the appropriate steps. 

We need all - every single one of us - to be as sexually active as possible, for as long as possible. 

[tighthole64]

Interesting as to whose responded here.  I always like to look at profiles of those who have responded, and in case of this thread, most have been 50 plus.