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I'm going to push back on the idea that everyone has "standards" or the presumption that they get lowered. Instead, I think people can grow, learn, and change their behavior for lots of other reasons. I mean, even the idea that you "lower your standards" is really judgy and unpleasant to think about. Even that concept *way oversimplifies* how sexual attraction works, at least the way I experience it. I'm always looking to find chemistry and connection in the sex I have, whatever that might look like in the moment. That doesn't happen along age, racial, body type, etc. lines because I've had chemistry with so many different types of men. When I say a blanket "no" to someone fucking me, its usually because they want to use a condom, I've seen them being unkind or an asshole to someone (I don't reward that with hole), or they trigger my self-preservation/safety spidey-senses, etc. My turning point came from realizing that awesome sex is purely a numbers game. The more guys you fuck, the more likely you'll find good, satisfying sex. It's just probability. I also realized that the more filtering criteria you have, the less candidates are available to provide that satisfying sex. There is this weird thing we've been trained to believe that we can magically decide who will float our boat just from some arbitrary criteria. Then once you've fucked some guys who are absolutely fantastic at sex that you and other guys have routinely overlooked, you start to realize how little the things we thought were important have to do with being sexually fulfilled and satisfied. When I let go of the ideas I had about what I *thought* would make me feel good, and instead just tried lots of kinds of men to see what actually *did* make me feel good, then things got interesting. I don't think that was dropping my standards so much as letting go some impractical BS and taking a practical and pragmatic approach.

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I'm not saying nothing existed, and perhaps my words were too absolute. I was simply saying that even when those places existing, they were frequently subjected to police raids, evictions without cause, etc. (Stonewall?). It was a comparative statement to today, where gay people can more freely congregate without fear of such things occuring.

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What does this mean? Do you think there were no bars or clubs or house parties or social or political organisations in 1981? Or even 1971, when the virus likely started spreading among homosexuals in Western countries?

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For the first time in my life, I hired an escort who gave me my last loads. I was in Vegas and having no luck with the hookup apps - just a lot of game players and unserious assholes online - so I turned to an escort service. My date's picture pretty much jumped off the screen, as he was posing in a sexy jockstrap, so I messaged him to get things going. He met me downstairs in the casino, and he was a handsome hunky black guy, about 30, with a beautiful smile and a mellow disposition. We hit it off quickly and got on the elevator to go up to my room. On that elevator a couple of strangers were talking about all the "prostitutes" in Vegas. As the door opened on my floor, we got off the elevator and immediately busted out laughing at those guys, who had no idea that I was paying this hot black jock type to fuck me. Clothes came off quickly and I briefly sucked his cock to get him hard. Man did he get hard. I looked him over and said "Your ad was definitely accurate and I like what I see." He had a beautiful cut cock, about 9 x 6, full bush and a light dusting of chest hair that he had recently trimmed. When his cock was good and swollen, he said, "Ready to take some dick?" I sure was. First he had me lie on my stomach and worked his way into my hole. "Now you tell me exactly how you want it. I can do slow and sensual or fast and furious." "Let's start with fast and furious," I said, and he pounded me good. I hope we were loud enough that others on my hotel floor were getting a good mental picture of what we were up to. After a few minutes of hard pounding, I said "I want to see you as you're fucking me." So he rolled me over and hoisted my legs in the air and entered me again. I handed him my phone and asked him to take some video of his gorgeous, veiny black cock piston fucking my hole, and he happily obliged. We fucked missionary for 15-20 minutes until we were sweaty messes, and he stiffened and roared as he shot a huge creamy load in my hungry ass. We toweled off and chatted for a brief time about our favorite porn stars, several of whom he actually knew because they either lived in Vegas or Palm Springs, where he also has a lot of clients. Pretty soon he was inside me again. Lots of stamina in this one and he once again had a loud, sustained orgasm as he looked directly into my eyes. My mother always said "You get what you pay for," and man, did I ever. When it was time for him to be on his way, I paid his fee and gave him a generous tip. We hadn't kissed until that point, but he pinned me to the door and gave me a passionate, memorable, long-lasting snog I'll remember for a long time. "I like you," he said. "I hope you'll look me up again next time you're in town." After the door closed behind him, I got naked again and felt around in my butthole for some of his cum to taste. Delicious. If I had only made more money at the casino 😞 I would have texted him to come over and smash me some more.

Well, I guess it can;t be a CNC scene then lol! 🙂 Just kidding! I'll hit you up a bit later 🙂

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My favorite fuckjoint - and it was simply crazy over there last night. Even though it's unusually been cold here (40's nights), it was packed.

So for 2026 I think 6 total I was a bit wasted most of the night.

New Year resolution. More cock in my hole. More cumloads too. To that end I'm off to Gran Canaria this month with a few days in Berlin later on in the year. Any other suggestions gratefully received.

I don't feel badly at all about 2025, sexually speaking. So, if 2026 turns out to be similar, and I see no reason it shouldn't be, that'll be fine with me.

@hntnhole I'm gonna keep thinking about this too and I welcome the additional dialog. This stoked in me some relatively recent research I did refreshing my knowledge of the molecular biology that made up the strains of DNA (I am a molecular biologist and physicist via education) which led me back to a refreshed court on the history of HIV/AIDS in the USA - so some of this was fresh on my mind. I, too, enjoy the dialog and I especially enjoy hearing from others who lived and walked the path that I can only study. So let me give this some time to settle and me to think about it. I might shoot you a DM if that's okay. I'm a little tired from last evening and staying up past my bedtime! 🙂 I also want to ponder this reflectively about my own journey, status, use of meds, etc. right now - I, too enjoy BZ for this reason - the connection on topics that otherwise wouldn't come up in day-to-day conversations. More to come, I hope you're having a great day! J